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setting roommate boundaries 2017-09-01 09:52:55 Post No.18679592
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setting roommate boundaries
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2017-09-01 09:52:55
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i moved in with my roommate in college about a week ago.
it was through random roommate selection.
last week my roommate asked if she could have her bf over, and i said yes because i thought that was fine for a weekend.
i decided to give them privacy and leave for awhile, and i got back at like 3am.
he ended up staying the night for two nights in a row, which i wasn't too keen on, but whatever.jpg assuming this wouldn't be a regular thing
thursday night, he came over around 6 and left i don't even know when because i got back at around midnight, but annoyed me nonetheless because it meant i had to make plans for myself or suffer extreme awkwardness, being that both her and her boyfriend NEVER talk to me
i was planning on going out again tonight, but my plans got cancelled because chad couldn't come through with a cheap handle of vodka.
i just woke up, and that asshole is in my room again. i hope he's not staying the night for the rest of the weekend, because in my opinion guests should be allowed to spend the night in my room once a month and no more. maybe even once every three weeks, but this is getting fucking ridiculous. my roommate has no other friends besides him i'm assuming so their relationship is annoying and clingy as fuck
my roommate and i NEVER talk so i don't even know if they fuck or anything about this girl really. she's so quiet and when i try to talk to her she doesn't reciprocate so i just gave up.
how the fuck do i tell her that i'm getting annoyed and that she can't have her bf over three times a week?
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>>18679592
I don't believe you get to make that choice bud.
You can compromise but saying your only allowed to have your boy over once a month is overstepping.
Honestly it kind of sounds like jealousy.
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You accept the fact that being an adult means sometimes needing to confront people. Just say it like it is. No bullshit, don't be rude about it either. Say you appreciate your privacy. Simple.
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>>18679592
Doesn't your dorm have restrictions on people who are allowed? If so just remind her in a sarcastic way
If you don't have such things in your dorm well imma sure you could sit down in front of her and confront her , may be a bit awkward at first but you don't wanna let her take all the space she wants , just tell her to get her pussy pounded in another place!
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ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything 2017-09-01 09:45:17 Post No.18679559
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ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything
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2017-09-01 09:45:17
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GUIDELINES:
Before you post a question, check the FAQ to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.
And please no derailing arguments.
FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>What do girls/guys think about <an insecurity including, but not limited to: looks, physical traits, personality traits, virginity or otherwise lack of dating experience>
There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.
>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.
>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.
>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No.
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.
>Brandon, that guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships, fart guy and the guy who stuffs his pants
Fuck off
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Why do some very good looking straight women have nothing but gay friends? Is it like some sort of defense mechanism? Sign of being burned in past relationship/s?
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>>18679559
When they say bring something on the table regarding dating , what do they mean?
Is it about personality?
Or material stuff?
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>>18679571
Gay male friends? She likes the company of men but doesn't want the bother of "nice guy syndrome".
Gay female friends? She might be a closeted lesbian.
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Just found out my girlfriend of 2 years cheated on me. She left her laptop open and I browsed it(yeah I'm a piece of shit for invading her privacy fuck you) and found out that she's been meeting a guy for the past couple of weeks which explains her bullshit about being at her mom's and being tired all the time.
I'm in utter fucking shock. I thought I had found the one. I hate nerdy losers like /pol/tards but fuck if I"m not feeling a bit "mysoginist" right now.
I'm debating on what to do right now.
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>>18679379
Post nudes on /b/
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>>18679381
I don't have any. She's a nice girl that doesn't do that sort of stuff.
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>>18679379
>I'm debating on what to do right now.
Tell her you found out and leave. You won't regret not saying something to her; just cut her out and move on. You obviously meant little to her, why give her the privilege of your hate?
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>Mixed-raced
>Mexican man at job immediately slaps the title of "Mexican" on me
>Demands I speak Spanish
>Clarify that I speak English, and he settles down
>Start to feel a deep, irrational hatred toward him
>Feel like I could pull out a knife and stab him to death in my brain every time I see him
>Brimming hatred toward Hispanic culture as I have nothing to do with it
I don't know why I feel this way, and I'm not going to go a psychologist as I'm not going to do anything, but I'm curious as to how it relates to identity. I think it might be because I value myself and my sense of self so much that I bear any exterior force that threatens it with condemnation.
I don't hate Mestizos, etc, but I can't help but feel immense anger that I'm being wrongly attributed to their culture.
Does anybody have any understanding about psychology that can help?
I don't like to hate other human beings or cultures even if it's for a silly reason like that.
I was working at Lowes, and the racial attribution got so bad that I got a DNA test and found I'm 73% European, 15% Negroid, and 10% Ameri-indian. My body started shaking, and I went and took a shower. I started smiling and my body quaked because of how incorrect other human beings had been when branding me. 15% Negroid is virtually impossible to observe on Whites.
The entirety of my life, I've felt unique from all other races due to being mixed, and when that's threatened, I feel a deep anger at other human beings.
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>The entirety of my life, I've felt unique from all other races due to being mixed, and when that's threatened, I feel a deep anger at other human beings.
How about you start being proud of what you have personally accomplished rather than things you had no hand in.
This thread is silly OP grow a thicker skin and quit worrying about dumb shit you stupid nigger.
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>>18679333
>nigger
REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
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>>18679333
>Grow a thicker skin
This is something that started when my skin was at its thinnest, and it's now under it.
You've no real understanding, and you can't possibly know.
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My gf of three months talks and texts quite a few guy friends. I know what you're gonna say...I know that she has a life and I can't take her away from her friends, but I can't help but feel insecure and a bit sad. She went out to lunch with a guy friend and she looks happier with them. Am I being unreasonable? Am I overreacting?
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You are being insecure. If you trust her, then you need to just live with that and try to realise that she thinks you're pretty great and is happy with you. If you don't trust her, then you probably shouldn't be in this relationship.
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>>18679262
I know she wouldn't cheat on me, but I can't help these thoughts
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>>18679276
How do you know she won't cheat on you? You've only been with her with three months. Sounds like your playing on tilt. I'd tell you not to worry about it unless she puts up red flags with said male friends
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Career prospects for a political science major? 2017-09-01 06:03:37 Post No.18678826
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Career prospects for a political science major?
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Further details, I'll be graduating with a degree in poli sci with a minor in stats and I'll be graduating as a part of my university's honors program (one of the requirements is writing an undergraduate thesis). What sort of jobs are reasonably available with this load out?
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OP here, I'm also financially sound enough to go take out loans for a masters degree, so I'm open for suggestions that might require a master's degree
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>>18678826
Flipping burgers
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Senior Sandwich Artist
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What drug can make me a better person?
Im so fucking passive and laid back. Today someone insult me in a terrible way and i didnt do anything. I got bullied in highschool and i didnt do anything. People step all over me and i dont do anything. I see a girl i like and i dont do anything.
It isnt a good thing its fucking bad. People are using me as a punching bag and i cant do anything. Its fucking destryoing me because im eating all this shit and theres nothing i can do about it.
I thought about cocaine or maybe testosterone?
I dont give a shit about the side effects or if i get addicted or not. Before i finally give up i want to go all in - so i tried atleast.
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Adderall.
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>>18678766
>cocaine
fucking retarded idea
>>18678766
>adderal
pretty terrible idea
>>18678695
>testosterone
if you use the right amount and don't become some kind of roid freak, this has a good chance of helping
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MDMA in limited quantities and specific circumstamces.
Acid.
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Hi,
Do the pitbulls go mad after 5 years or smth like this? I am going to buy a puppy (2 months old, very strong, nice, calm, very beautiful). Her parents and grandparens are nice as well, longevity gg.
She was one of the 9 cubs. All are alive and are well.
My question is: is this breed inclined to be more aggressive than normal dogs? I pleayed with both of her parents and they all seem nice.
Thanks
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>>18678132
Since you already bought the pit bull there is not much advice left to give you, other than to give fair warning.
It will attack you.
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i would never trust a pitbull. look at their eyes.
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>>18678132
Get it fixed and nip any aggression in the bud.
Also remember that even though pitbulls were the highest in terms of dog attacks they are the highest in terms of fatalities.
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How often do you change your bed sheets?
how often are you supposed to change them?
i change my sheets once a month, is that too infrequent? I havent changed my pillow case in around 2 years because I like how not smells for some reason. I find it very comforting to sniff
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I wash mine every week. Every 2 weeks is bachelor mode. Every month is pretty gross.
Never washing your pillow is downright raunchy. Fucking wash it, you smelly fuck.
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>>18677942
Depends. I don't really sweat at all and if we'Re not in a heat wave I'll change them every 2-3 weeks. Using cotton sheets instead of synthetics does help (natural fibers let you sweat less), as well as ventilating them (on the balcone, bedframe or window for a couple hours daily) and letting especially your bottom sheet air out. Otherwise the bed bugs will have a feast under a sweaty and warm tucked in sheet.
But my better half sweats like a fucking waterfall, so if he spends a night I nearly always change it instantly.
Not changing your pillows means you literaly sleep on your old skin scum. You probably have regularly pimples due to it. Just imagine wearing your underwear without changing it. You face collects all kind of shit during the day and you concentrate them on your pillow. Wash it. Right know, anon.
t. non-meticulous housewife
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is not changing my pillow case really that bad.
think people can smell it off me? I do give my face a good scrubbing when I shower.
I just like sniffing my pillow before I sleep
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I got called racist and islamophobic because I said I am fundamentally incompatible with muslims because they don't like pork. I like pork and I see nothing wrong with it. I don't like an ideology that pretends to tell me something I love and that is good, is bad because of their bullshit. In order for me to accept muslims, first they'd have to declare there is nothing wrong with eating pork and if I want to do it, that's perfectly good and permissible and acceptable. No "yeah you can do it but you'll go to hell" bullshit. I can do it and I won't go to hell because hell doesn't exist. I can do it because there is nothing wrong with it, that's just how my culture is. Why do they demand I respect their culture when they don't respect mine?
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not asking for /adv/
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Just ignore that.
The political and cultural environment is fucking pain to habdle at the moment.
I've been called Far Right nutcase, a Nazi, a fence sitter, a libtard, etc.
Just ignore the people, they can't actually do anything about your opinions. Eat the pork with a big grin on your face.
>tfw im the physical manifestation of le radical centrist
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>>18677514
>they can't actually do anything about your opinions
I don't know, in islamic countries they kill you for saying you don't like islam and you don't want to be a muslim. I don't want my country to be an islamic country.
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suicidal because a guy did not text me back 2017-09-01 05:23:18 Post No.18677483
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suicidal because a guy did not text me back
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2017-09-01 05:23:18
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I tried using the suicidal prevention chatline thing and it is taking awhile to connect. There is someone I have been kind of seeing and I texted him earlier today and he has not responded to me. He usually responds when he wakes up. I think that he might not like me anymore and just is afraid to tell me why or something. I am very suicidal now because of it.
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>>18677483
maybe he's busy, you ever think of that?
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>>18677483
lol bitch u crazy go outside or something
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Take a breather, he's probably busy.
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I didn't see an opposite gender thread so I just decided to make one. Idk where that anon is but whatever.
Ask the opposite gender anything. This thread is generally reserved for questions a bit more complex then "if a girl said she just wants to be friends do I still have a chance?" Ask about relationships, sex, friends, family, business, anything you find fitting.
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>>18677417
Why do girls suck?
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Girls
What are some of your biggest turn ons? Looking for ways to help get my girlfriend in the mood more often.
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>>18677465
Mmm baby nothing makes me want to suck a man's dick like when I come home from work and the house is clean and the laundry is done and the garbage is taken out
Srsly though, when she isn't stressed out focusing on that kind of shit she will have all the time in the world to focus on your dick
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How can a cold, introverted, intelligent, but confident guy with no dating experience get a gf?
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>>18677207
>cold
>wants a gf
For what purpose exactly? Just hop on tinder and find a thot to have a friends with benefits kind of arrangement.
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>>18677237
I just want someone to cuddle with.
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>>18677207
You aren't cold
You aren't intelligent
You aren't confident
You're just some nerd fag who expects a woman while he studies STEM and does no effort to make his body better
>19 year old
>bio undergrad
>fat as fuck with no muscle mass
>living on debt
>no job
>doesn't go the gym
WHY DON'T I ATTRACT A WOMAN
REEEEEEE
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Need some suggestions for school email profile picture.
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>>18676875
As in a picture of yourself or a picture in general?
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>>18676875
Not the bullshit image you posted, that's for sure OP.
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>>18676892
general picture
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Get it off your chest now
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>>18676780
I wish I could apologize to that Japanese exchange student I creeped out in high school.
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I know for a fact women are dumb as fuck. Also, they'll never respond with a proper argument only emotional ones(i.e. virgin shaming)
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I just want someone who I'm attracted to who will love me as much as I love them :'(
Is that so hard to ask? I need companionship.
I'm a fucking emotional wreck.
I love Rob because he has the cutest, most genuine smile, he has a wonderful singing voice, he has a great sense of humor, he isn't afraid to say his views, he has such adorable expressive eyes, the "Gah!!" Sound he makes when he's flustered, the way he used to message me... There are so many reasons why I love Rob. He is such a joy to be around and I love seeing him and talking to him.
I'm not sure how strongly he feels about me though and this level of uncertainty is really killing me. I feel like he definitely likes me less than he even did just last week
I can't even ask him about it because I'll come across as "needy" and destroy any chance I might have with him, but that's why this is such torture.
Why is he using less emojis with me? Why is he taking hours to respond? There are so many things that are killing me about this.
I have been nothing but kind and understanding and thought we were getting along so nicely. Is this not enough? :'(
Can't I just find someone as sweet and kind as Rob who wants to be with me and wants to make me his girl? I will be the most supportive and loving girlfriend he's ever had if he just lets me...