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>>18668965
how about having sex with the girl you dumb dumb

you need to branch out, try furry

>>18668969
She's not near me atm

Yeah, that's pretty shit.

>>18668944
Yes. You are/will be an addict on two counts. I am.

>>18668982
Red bull? You're addicted to Red Bull?!? I used to suck dick for coke. You ever sucked dick for a Red Bull?

That guy isn't skinny fat.

I am not a doctor and am not giving medical advice.

Does your family have a history of these symptoms, have they seen a doctor for them/know anything about it?

Can you describe how and when you get your symptoms, and what they feel like in relative detail?

Are you double jointed?

>>18668924
Swimming

>>18668961
>>18668961
I think my grandma has a lot of bone related problems and joint issues. Not sure about grandpa, passed away. I'm not double jointed.

Well knees hurt in a way that feels like a sharp pain above throughout the cap/little above it, and my elbows some times hurt when I wake up, almost always feels like there's some sort of a snap when I bend my forearm all the way, but I can feel the snap only and very very slightly. Also when my arm is flexed at 90°, it'll usually lock up and I have to release the tension to be able to extend the arm fully.

Might be I'm prone to joint injury, but I haven't had any pain in my knees ever until the first time I started doing deadlifts, after that ever since I put a lot of pressure on the knees it feels very uncomfortable. Not sure about elbows, when I do pushups I can feel the nerves acting up throughout both forearms, feels like a constant pulsing electrical charge radiating throughout the arms (ulnar nerve I suppose). Also my elbows hurt afterwards and feel funny since I put pressure on them while doing the pushups.

All I can think off.

>>18669019
So regular swimming could help develop the body to look normal? I have a weird body shape for a male, wide hips and a shitty narrow rib cage. Was never a swimmer since I'd always had breathing problems.

>>18668917

Give it a fair shot. You've hit the rock bottom already, so the only way is up. If it doesn't work out, you can move back and carry on being a worthless piece of shit, but this could be your way onwards. At least ask yourself how much you'll regret not taking this chance in a year or five years, if you carry on as you're now.

I was in your position last year. After I graduated from university I spent all day indoors eating junk food, crying myself to sleep from loneliness and playing video games/jerking off for a living.

Moved to Tokyo after a few months of that shit despite literally everyone doubting me. I was a little apprehensive at first but my depression was cured quickly from my new, more active lifestyle and I was able to go to work with no problems. When you're in a foreign country you can't fall back on your family to help you out all the time - so it forces you to live an active and productive lifestyle as a matter of survival.

Try it out OP. The worst case scenario is you go back to your home country but can say you tried.

>take job
>figure out how to not be a neet
>do the Italian hand thing that we anericunts love so much

You know the problem already so just do not fap. Unless you're like a lot of people on this board and just want a pity party and not listen to people.

I think it's time for you to stop all of that. Take a rest from all this sex. Take a breathe. Go somewhere outside. Or watch something new.

>>18668941
OK but if I remember correctly I acted kinds weird when I was 15-16. I had long emo hair and dressed with really skinny clothes, once on holidays in Egypt I met some older Algerian dude and wanted him to fuck me. I fingered myself in the tub to the thought of that. So yea I will try to just not think about sex and not masturbate, maybe it will help

Because people who consider themselves your betters like to impose their values on you. Or because you won't stand up for yourself.

Because, like denying a child cookies for dinner, they love you and can see far reaching consequences where you cannot.

Nothing is wrong with relaxing with video games and anime. There is something wrong if all you do is relax. Those things are a life destroying trap for many, many people.

Don't try to make yourself out to be a victim because people who love you are expressing concern for your well being.

If you are 100% satisfied with your life right now and will never regret how you're spending your time, then keep on doing what you're doing. I don't think that's true though since you're already seeing a psychologist. These people probably see you reaching a point where you look back and say "Man, I wasted a lot of my life doing pointless shit when I could have been doing something else." So, it's up to you what you want out of life. Just don't deny yourself enriching experiences just because you want to spite people with different opinions.

>>18668853

Go to doctor anyway. This is not normal and quite likely a symptom of something serious. Demand proper tests and explain exactly what's wrong with you.

>>18668862
Which tests should I demand? They've already given tests they consider to be proper.

>>18668868
I should clarify that the last time I brought this up all they told me was that I was severely dehydrated, despite the fact that I drink almost 2L of water a day.

Also are the risk exgagerated? People make it sound like if you do self medication without tests you will most likely die

As if anyone needed more proof that trannies are all mentally ill.

Any self medication is a poor idea, drugs can interact with your body in ways you would never imagine.

Why the fuck are you taking heart medication if it wasn't prescribed?

Unless she's a turboslut with no shame she'll try to cover it up, and hopefully have some decency to not slander your name/reputation with it.

Move forward, and try to not care about what others think about your break-up. Don't try to spread that you're breaking-up since she;s cheating on you. Even if it's a fact and you were the one that hurt, it'd risk you a negative opinion from others.

Best to keep silent, and just tell it's not working out when you got asked. Only uncover the fact about your break-up when you got accused of something you didn't do or slandered.

>>18668828
At least you have a reason not to like her.

>>18668845
Pardon the autism, but as long as I'm not running around calling her a slut and a cheater, and simply responding to questions in a normal, non salty way, why would it garner a negative opinion? Especially when I don't accuse her character or refer to the word cheating. I ask because I've told people already. Otherwise thank you Anon.

>>18668874
Have a story to share?

>>18668786
Don't most faggots go to the gym and make themselves look like this?

>>18668786
easy, most of these pumped up guys are fags

>>18668846
Haha

*cries in the corner*

I don't know if this is a universal constant but I've raised like 10 cats in my life so I think it's a good general rule of thumb. Pretty much ignore them all day unless you want to pet them, and never be home. The cats learn to adapt. Also it helps to get another cat assuming the two click. There is no immediate solution it just takes time.

Have raised plenty of cats myself. Your roommate was right when she said it'll stop after you ignore it for some time, if you're making it a habit to ignore its plea it might adapt to be more quiet and will only purr when you're playing/petting it.

Getting another cat might do the trick since it'll have friends too chill out with, get one of same gender to avoid mating season noise and shit.

>>18668777
There are 3 cat's, two are well behaved. This third one is not only obnoxious, but he also was never trained to not just piss wherever he wants.

I'm only home between 12am and 9am, which these past few weeks have been full of interruptions of my much needed, carefully scheduled sleep.

I know I'm being difficult right now, but I'm not fucking interested in training her cat for her. I already hate cats, I already have one of my own that I was shoehorned into getting. I hardly want to take care of mine.

But hey, at least he's quiet and shits in a box.

It's shit advice, don't listen to it. People like to say that because it makes them feel better about themselves. It's just a catchphrase.
People say it because they are lazy and don't want to waste time or effort giving real advice. And/or because they happen to be already fit and have no problems so "be yourself" works for them.

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No advice fits for everyone. No idea or philosophy is complex enough to cover the complex universe.

"Be yourself" literally just means "don't try to act like people you aren't". It doesn't mean that you are automatically worthy of admiration or praise, it means people can see through that shit for breakfast so don't bother.

You know those cartoons where the dude gets his first date, so he dresses like Michael Jackson and tries to impress her with feats of strength and charisma? Don't do that.

"Be yourself" doesn't mean that your personality is gonna start dropping panties, it means that when you actually come across someone you jive with, you're not caught so far up your own ass being fake that they bail.

Are you a virgin as well? Just keep doing what you did, getting further each time.

>>18668774
Yep, still got my V card. I'll try tit grabbing next time. Do you think that the question about masturbation would be too much or maybe it will make more trust?

>>18668782
Its creppy anyway you look at it

Just go home and masturbate. Also why do you want these girls? They are probably braindead or retarded and not fun to be around.

>>18668747
because i want a beautiful girl

>>18668743
>How do you handle this?
Porn, video game addiction, and by never leaving the house. Works for me!

In all seriousness, I (try to) focus on work and getting better at my craft to distract myself from it all. Lost the genetic lottery, nothing else that can be done.

Japanese will rape you and not apologize. Koreans will pretend everything is great but then stab you in the back. Chinese will stab you in the front but will declare it was your fault. Other southeast asians will just stab you for fun.

Basically don't get with Asians.

>>18668705
>japanese
>loyal
You need to stop watching those animes. Real japanese people cheat but dont ever leave their partner for the person they are cheating with. Marriage and sex arent the same thing for them now adays.

Why do people on 4chan keep pretending this is how the average asian looks like? In any country? This look is only achievable through plastic surgery.