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>>18669898
You spent 2 years of your life with this person. She became apart of your routine. It takes time.

>>18669904
So is it just the change? Is it some sort of separation anxiety?

>>18669945
Yes, that's what it is.

Ophtho here

Corneal abrasions/ulcers hurt like shit
Thing is the eye is hard to see without them fancy microscopes and a fluorescent dye

Either way corneal abrasions heal better if your eye is patched, but that's hard to advise without seeing you

Is going to the ER out of the equation? If so, buy some over the counter artificial tears and apply 4-5x times a day to see if you have some confort

This is judging by what you are telling me, again we are heavily depedent on seeing the cause

Any other symptons? Does light bother you? Any sharp pain? Secretions?

>>18669950
It doesn't hurt at all since I flushed my eye out last night, but it's just blurry. Like, everything is normal. It looks and feels normal except everything in that one eye is blurry, and the strain is causing headaches when I try to read or focus on a lot of stuff, but just sitting staring blankly, it doesn't hurt. Just blurry.

It hurt like fire last night though. I don't know what got in it, but I had to wash it out for like 20 minutes.

>>18669964
Probably something got inside and left an abrasion

If your vision doesn't get worse I'd say you can wait a couple of days...if not do consult someone mate...I've thrown eyes to the trash bin because people decided to "wait and see if it got better"

That is a beautiful picture. Best of luck to you.

>>18669877
Yes, search "communes in [your country]". Best of luck!

>>18669877
>kibbutz
Yes.

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>>18669872
I had this same issue OP. Always in my head, awkward as fuck, socially inept and so fourth.

For me I went to the doctor, explained all this, got referred to an adult autism institute, got diagnosed, went to counseling for a few years, started working out, became more social, and now I am employed and have a good relationship with a girlfriend.

There is hope, but you have to really work at it.

why did the girl look at you?

The fuck do you mean "manually"?

One more. (1/?)

B U M P

Get off 4chan and start studying

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>>18669846

no, looks more like a teenage girl.

>>18669846

It's fucking hard to tell these days because some women just have strong jaw lines but other wise look feminine. Many of these traps start cocktails of hormones so early like puberty it's almost impossible to really know until you see their dick. Just make a joke about Kaitlyn Jenner and see how she reacts.

No, you stupid bitch. Stop being paranoid. Also other people can tell that you're uncomfortable about it so either get over it or stop hanging out with those friends indoors.

>>18669859
do you vape?

>>18669842
It's not dangerous. I guess it can displease your lungs and organism in general temporarily tho

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>>18669803
>But I do want you
Do it.

>>18669803
Wow that's shitty of you if you went for it

you thought with your little head mate, whats done is done

Last bump before I give up hope on this thread.

Why in the world would you be going back for more debt? If you want to do it for completion's sake then go to a community college and finish an associate's there. It sounds like you don't even know what you're going to major in which is a huge red flag already.

I know some schools offer a "clean slate" program where you basically do start all over again. The only schools I've seen do it though are community colleges, but you should(?) be able to do that.

I'm not sure if you can attend a large school again though and have them completely ignore your old grades.

Also make sure you know for sure what you're going to major in and don't drop. Look into the pell grant if you're broke enough for it and it is still around. I'm wanting to go back myself and that was the only way I could attend in the early 2010's.

>>18669719
The self can essentially be divided into two parts; the interior and the exterior. Your exterior self is how society and your friends/family see you. That's usually easy to figure out based on your job, economic status, personality with others etc.
Your interior self, on the other hand, is more complex and meta. It is your thoughts, memories, and desires, and the way you perceive them as well as the way you perceive the world around you. Your worldview, aspirations, personality, interests, etc are who you are to yourself; the interior self.
If that's not enough, I really recommend some Alan Watts lectures on the Self on yt.
If you're looking for a way to figure yourself out, nothing better than going out into the real world and just seeing what you like and what makes you tick :)

>>18669738
Thanks. I think there is a disconnect between what do and how it effects my self-perception. It seems like I do the opposite of what I think I would do in. Most situations

>>18669761
Yea I see what you mean. Just try to do the right thing I guess :)

Always, always, always trust your instincts.

I have had to learn and re-learn this lesson the hard way a couple times.

>>18669665
>He always saw it as an open relationship.

he was up front about the nature of the relationship, he didn't cheat. No one is forcing you to be involved, walk away if the terms of the deal aren't satisfactory.

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No, a girl took your boyfriend right in front of you and you did absolutely nothing. We call that ''cuck'' in the male world.

>>18669532
>How do I deal with these feelings of both envy and pride?
You decide whether they're worth your friendship and go from there.

>>18669532
It's worth noting my mother does the same but honestly, if it allows her to live mostly stress free and comfortably enough I could give a shit less. There's enough people abusing the system at this point to where it literally doesn't matter.

They're still making less than they would at minimum anyway.

>>18669532
>I even feel bad about taking bereavement leave
stop being a cuck who prioritizes his company's well-being over himself

Professional musician speaking: if you are musically talented enough to get a full scholarship, you should make it your career or you'll regret it. No, music won't "get you a job" because music is already the job. You can do something that 9/10 people don't understand, put your skills to use.

>>18669503
Thanks for the comforting words, anon. You right, music has always been my passion and it still is (piano performance major specifically). I just worry about what's ahead, you know? I feel like I need a backup job

>>18669498
Are you asking if a minor in finance will get you a good job in the finance field or in music or in general?

I'm an accounting/finance major for reference - and at least where I'm at - accounting/finance internships and entry level positions are very competitive because people in these fields need the professional experience to obtain certifications. Additionally, you will want to put forward the effort to network/join business clubs to get an edge on available positions.
If you want to work a general office/administrative job, it doesn't seem to be as competitive and can serve as a foot in the door, however.

only about 25% of women can come from ponos-in-vagoo alone. use your hands and mouth as well
and communicate! you wont magically know how to do everything right or how she likes it. simple questions like "does that feel good?" "do you like it like this?" will improve shit a lot

>>18669489
Please for the love of god talk to her about this beforehand, because having someone ask you how to fuck you while fucking you is the biggest turnoff ever.

If you can't talk to them about sex before you have sex, then you aren't ready to have sex.

(assuming you're a guy since the OP picture is of a guy)

>>18669496
>and satisfying my girl?
hes a guy yes

>>18669458
Follow YOUR passion. Enjoying what you do makes life more enjoyable.

>>18669458
Why havent you asked about what to do before you started?

Btw my mum was teacher. And she hated children (me sort of included). Do you know why? Because her parents made her to do it. Her whole life is kinda mess, part of it because she did something she hates every fucking day. Dont end up like that.

On the other hand, you can do cooking without almost any formal education, all you need is to get some appretinship.

Talk to your study department. You can finish this semester, then stop the course for how long you want (and still have ability to finish it like 2 years later when you find out cooking is shit too).

Good luck?

>>18669465
Thanks, and that's true. I should be doing what makes life enjoyable to me.

>>18669472
I've talked to my parents, but they told me to wait a few more weeks then they'll see what they can do.

Ah, sorry that happened to you. I'll make sure I don't end up like that. I don't think I could handle 3 more years of this anyways.

While that's true, I'm aiming for culinary school because I want to get out of this small city and bake somewhere like New York. Also, if that doesn't work, my friends want to open a cafe after uni and I could help them.

Thanks, I'll talk to my department at the end of the week. Eh, I know for a lot of people the cooking industry is shitty, but I don't plan on being a line chef or anything. Baking and cake decorating are more my speed (yes, it's gay, but it's fun) so it won't be as bad, not including the weird hours and such.