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I think you did well if she took a pic with you, so long as it was after and not before you said anything.

Hard to say though with that much information OP.

>>17948528
You did pretty good I think but try to keep sort of cool now, don't try to cling or talk to her about it too much. Become friendly and let it build since at least now she knows what your intentions are.

>>17948536
Yeah afterward
>>17948542
Yeah im not gonna say much now i wanna see how this pans out

>>17948514

>boring and uninteresting personality

you are who you are. you can't change your personality. you probably aren't boring, you're just calm. you have interests, don't you? you probably consider them boring interests ismply becuase they are your own. no one thinks of themself as interesting.

>lack of confidence

confidence is the belief in the truth of something. so in order to have confidence there has to be a truth. define what kind of confidence you are looking for. as there are many types.

>bad at socialising with people.

talk. no, not research, not read 50 books. go out and just say hi to people. then ask questions. some will stick. some will not. you will realize that being a master of socialization just means being a normal person. not everyone wants to talk to you. socialization isn't about being the most interesting person in the room. its about putting yourself out there and seeing what sticks.

>not funny

wanting to be funny only stems from wanting to impress others so is a shitty goal. not everyone is funny. be happy you're not a clown.

>>17948516
>define what kind of confidence you are looking for. as there are many types.
Please elaborate, I'm completely lost on this.

>>17948534

confidence is not all encompassing. as i said its the belief in a truth.

you can be confident in your own intelligence bcause you have the grades to back it up. you can be confident in your cooking because it tastes delicious. you can be confident in your looks because you attract partners that you are attracted to.

but you can't just hone a single concept and say that you now have confidence, not all encompassing confidence.

that artist is often not confident asking out girls because he doesn't look good. that guy who can get the girls isn't confident about the test coming up because hes not that smart.

>>17948497
Fucking sluts is better
Lost it when I was 14 to a "virgin"
Didnt matter I've fuck a lotta bitchs and i remember little.
Though I was fucking drunk/high a lot.

well then just keep watching porn and masturbating, i guess

>have a loyal relationship when not having sex
>turn her into a cumslut and whore when you are having sex

wow, that was difficult

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>>17948459
Practice. Small steps.

>>17948459

practice. most teenagers are super fucking anxious about driving, their anxiety just overcomes that.

but just get a friend or family member, say you want to practice twice a week, find a parking lot, and start there. you'll quickly be ready for neighborhood roads and work your way up. just like any driver.

its okay anon. no one is good at driving right away, everyones nervous. i was nervous even after the 6 months of practice and getting my license.

being nervous is what makes you pay attention and not die immediately.

>tfw 21 and still no liscense

I have my permit, I'm just terrified of even practicing. I live in a city on a busy street so I don't even feel ready enough to try to pull out of my driveway.

Take English classes.

>>17948423
I'm confused by your post. What do you want to improve specifically? Just do that more and better

>>17948428
Sorry for bad english

>>17948416

by getting out of it. you may have to sacrifice some comforts for the tim ebeing, but sometimes thats what it takes.

you might have to share a room with 3 other people, you might have to eat nothing but ramen rice and the occassional chicken, you might have to let a few old dudes suck ur cock for 120 bucks a pop.

but it'll be worth it when you establish your new life.

>>17948421
Even if I do all that stuff it still sounds impossible to move somewhere else

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>>17948416
Its tough OP, but you want to do is determine that you or your children wont be that way. Get off your ass, work, study , enjoy.

>>17948408
No worries bro, it's normal. I'm not a neckbeard creep either and have a very deep desire and affection for another celebrity. It feels weird and the anxiety and butterflies in your stomach feel as real as any person.

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>>17948408
Its not creepy, she is smoking hot. Nothing wrong with following her on facebook or anything. All i can suggest is join all her social media accounts and hope. God Speed OP.

You are all autistic. Find a girl in real life.

If there's a tall staircase, there's a way.

>>17948384
Kek, get your money in order daddy, time to grow up faggot.

>>17948384
20 weeks is generally when it's too late, but if she want it, you might as well accept your date or leave the country.

>What is the right age for a mature man and woman to get married?
If they're actually mature, then it doesn't matter

>And how long should one be in a relationship before getting engaged?
I say when they've been dating two more more years, or when they're both mature. Whichever is the latest

I have no idea about the question but I just wanted to say that Gaston never fails to make me laugh haha

>>17948329

its hard to say. there's no rules because everyones different. if there was any sort of consistency we'd create rules. its easier to rely on the people around you for an honest answer.

does it matter thoguh? consider having a wedding but not getting married.

>>17948324
fucking what?

>>17948324
she sounds immature, she'll get over it

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>>17948324
>gf broke up with me
>in the end she didnt break up with me.

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>>17948321
meditate
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kaNO09cPS6c&spfreload=1
headspace is a helpfull app

A nice sport or some other relaxing/Pleasurable activiti in your free time

>>17948321
Stop fucking smoking?
Like really stop buying fucking smokes.
Tell your self you're not a smoker dont carry a lighter
Chew gum

Not even a kys?

I know what you're doing fuck off

look up things to do, go to a comic shop and ask if they host games of any kind.(will generally be board games or DnD style.) easiet way to make some friends. at the very least you try something now. I did that before I had to quit. had to start working on their game days. real bummer but that's life

It was ok

Great

>>17948315

i feel like he completes me. were somehow exactly the same but total opposites. hes gay and will never have kids, but i feel like my kids will also be his kids. any woman i marry has to be okay knowing that he is my life, my other half.

>>17948296

>i failed out of college
>which would have cost my mother thousands upon thousands of dollars
>shes a cunt for kicking me out

>>17948301
it doesn't cost her shit you stupid fuck I paid my own way working over the summer and during school

>>17948301
the loans I did take out are my own, but thanks for assuming

>>17948282

if you wanted to kill yourself you wouldn't chicken out.

people are conflicted sure, but the side of you that wins out is the side of you that wants to live.

1.Dont kill yourself

2. Read/Watch Berserk anime/manga

>>17948465
"anime saved my life"