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Oh fuck god I'm in a similar boat. Thankfully for me, the roommate has a mother that'll continue to fund him.

>>18670686
He sounds lazy. He needs to figure out it's not free to live there and tell him to get a job and you're not paying the other half. Also, just because you CAN pay both half's doesn't mean you should.

>>18670804

He's not even paying half. He's paying $400 a month. I'm covering the other 2/3rds of the house.

Nope. All girls are good.

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As long as liking the right a hell of a lot more than the left doesn't make me a weird whore.

>>18670670
How

dude, if you don't like her romantically, then get rid of her. you're only 24; what you need to do is hit up a bar, start a conversation, get rejected and then repeat the first two steps until you find someone as desperate as you.

also, if you're wondering, fucking is not that great. sure, it's a step up from beating your meat but not by much

>>18670684
First of all, this person has no empathy. There are many true things in life you cannot learn until you experience them. One of these is that "sex isn't that great."

>>18670603
I would have recommended you start the relationship slow, but being a 24kv makes that basically impossible.
There is a high chance that if you start a relationship you will completely lose sight and falling in love will blind you to any drawbacks.
If you think you're not that type of person, dating someone you like is fine if you don't like them romantically yet. Give it a shot and take it slow.
If you are obsessing over losing your v card and are going to treat her like a life raft, at least pre-screen if you would be signing up for something terrible.

In any case, memes aside, dating a single mom is perfectly fine.

>>18670684
> if you don't like her romantically, then get rid of her.
But she is a good friend tho, getting rid of her just because i don't match her feelings would be awful by me.
>>18670712
The thing is, i don't want a relationship, my main goal right now is feel a pussy from inside, i'm not craving a partner at the moment, would be awesome to have sex with her if things got back to normal afterwards, but i'm really scared of hurting her feelings.

>>18670598
Think of a woman you would reject. Like she's just crazy as hell or has some non negotiable fetish that creeps you out or she's 500lbs and 5'1" or she wants a baby RIGHT NOW and you want to wait or anything. If you reject her, because you don't want to date her, should she hate you?

>>18670641

depends on the rejection went. if full of passive agressive venom...then its safe and fully expected to hate.

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>>18670598
Women are just awful baby makers.

Seek refuge in God

>>18670600

I pray to God every single night for things to get better. I've been praying for a year now asking him for the strength to overcome what's holding me back and to achieve my goals. I even pray for other people to do well.

I'm not going to give up on praying and be resentful towards God like I did when I was younger. But so far it hasn't changed anything

>>18670611
I'll be praying for you too from now on anon.

Try also reading the Bible and visiting a church, there you'll find people who can support you in a reliable way. https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Psalm%2091

By the way, do not take this as a "don't take pills just pray". I'm not going to commet on the pills because I have absolutely zero knowledge or experience in this and most of /adv/ probably does too so you should seek a doctor for that one. I'm just throwing something that'll help immensely.

>>18670582
School can't make you do shit. Skip it an say you were sick. I've skipped homecoming, prom, high school graduation and my college graduation. Fuck those circlejerks.

>>18670582
Why do you need a date? You don't have any friends at all, what about siblings or cousins? I didn't have a date to any of my high school's dances and just went with friends. It was great! A lot of my friends with dates ended up in huge fights and crying in the bathroom all night.

>>18670582
unless you are at a school where girls outnumber guys 3 to 1 then you can find a date easy
just look for some guy who is a loser and below what other girls expect or something, poor guy will be twice as freaked out as you

Just ask if it bothers her.

>>18670532
She might have an issue with slightly shorter or same height guys, but I don't know. It's more my struggle with the idea of dating a taller woman.

>>18670540
If you don't want to date a taller woman, then you have your answer.
If you can put your own insecurities aside for the chance to produce offspring with better genetics to your own, ask her if she's up for it.

Unless you've tried fixing the other reasons which may be giving you those circles, makeup is pretty fucking stupid.

>>18670465

I've had them for a long time and I don't think it has anything to do with my lifestyle. My sleep is decent, I get sun, I don't drink/smoke/do drugs, my diet is good.

I'm not looking to become a tranny. I just want to hide the circles. It makes me look like a drug addict, and I can't have that given that my job requires me to see a lot of people every day.

>>18670469
I have dark, purple circles around my eyes but it's never affected me socially.
I've been asked if I got in a fight a got two black eyes but never called a drug dealer.

>>18670441
>women problems

lol, this is why i have a trap girlfriend(male)

>>18670441
If you've tried talking to her about it and asking why she's ghosted you, there isn't much else to do.
If she doesn't value you as a friend or whatever you two were, than she isn't worth anything to you.

It's a tough realization, but you have to forget.
Literally stop think about her, remove any reminder of her, and if you think about her, punish yourself in some way by doing 10 push-ups or pinch yourself, something to associate a negative response to her.
If she tries talking to you, don't give in to anything. If she wants to talk, she'll have to prove it herself.

>>18670455
>n-no homo r-right?

If there is one thing I have learned as an adult it's no never do anything you don't want to do. Obviously there are some things that are unavoidable but the whole notion of "if you're going through hell, keep going" is horseshit shoveled into the mouths of the masses so that they don't ever rebel.

Find another teacher, you're the one paying is what I'm saying.

>>18670422
If you learn to drive terrified you will stay terrified. Find a different instructor who works for you. Stop paying for abuse.

>>18670448
Thank you. I have a terrible anxiety disorder and I think my instructor saw that. I was surprised that he yelled out of frustration which is understanble but at the same time just made me shit my pants.

Smoke a j, go for a run, and remember that you can always retake a class but you can't retake a memory

>>18670375
good advice but don't use the latter bit as a copout for being academically worthless. Unless you're wealthy it pays to graduate on time.

t. last semester of undergrad

>>18670365
people become 'depressed' during perceived major life changes all the time, even if those life changes are positive. use your thoughts to come to conclusions, not your emotions, and expect this distress to subside to a large extent. you might become more stressed during uni, but this 'depression' is probably just a response to the life change.

>>18670351
There is nothing to talk about.

You either want to lose your virginity to him or you dont. If you want to, simply ask him "on date" somewhere private. If you dobt want to, either stop going there or just make sure you never stay alone with him.

seems like the dude is trying to use his position (and your... mental handicap) to fuck you, quite literally

set him up, record it, destroy him
if he doesn't rape you, he'll eventually rape someone else, do a good deed and save someone's ass

>>18670351
If I were you, I'd tell my parents that a gay guy is harassing me and you already handled it but he keeps violating the ban, confirm to them that you're not a fag, and tell them you are going to move on and find something new.

You won't get what you want from this group of people. From my personal experience of helping my sister deal with choir bullies, theater/choir girls obsess over gay men in theater. Even if they are assholes.

Anyone who is slight autist(my sister was a little socially offbeat), they treat like shit.

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>>18670338
Ask her on date.
>inb4 some autistic bullshit excuse
I dont care. You met her once, you can for sure manage to do it again. Get her numbet AND ASK HER ON DATE!
>inb4 autism
Ask her on date.

>>18670395
>inb4 inb4 autism
I'd love to ask her out right now. That's the plan! My problem is that I've got no way to contact her but facebook, and it seems like she's ignoring my friend request because it's been 3 days, and she hasn't accepted it yet. It's possible she just doesn't use it much, which would be a huge relief, but I have no reason to think that. It's so hit or miss with people now that other social media platforms are on the rise.

I've thought about asking one of my friends from the party for her number, but if she's actively ignoring my friend request, then that'd be pretty creepy. I don't think it's autistic to want to avoid putting myself in a situation like that. That said, I guess it's also true that I'll never see her again. Obviously that's an excuse, but I don't know it's an autistic bullshit excuse. If it is, please set me straight ;-;

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>>18670423
>creepy
Do yourself a favor and never ever use that word again. If you need to have one trait in dating game, it is being BOLD.

Extract her phone number VIA ANY MEANS and chat her up. DATE THE BITCH!

You're still extremely young. Start lifting heavy weights. You can learn how to properly exercise and supplements online. Get yourself a marketable skill, I'd recommend bartending (I think you can still serve booze at 18) its good money and will get you out to bars without necessarily needing to spend $ or have friends to be there.

>>18670335
Either go to school or
https://www.mcdonalds.com/us/en-us/careers.html

Good luck stupid frog poster.

Bump for self-interest

iktf opie, getting a job didn't change shit. I do have a brand new laptop but I'm still fucking hopeless as I've always been.

Learning to program is enough if you don't mind competing with H1Bs.

>>18670328
I think learning new skills in general to better your life is a meme. Everyone does it.

That answer your question on whether or not you should?

>>18670328
The Technology industry is growing, and yes there will be plenty of programming jobs- but, there are some issues with the industry.

>Affirmative action, if you're a white male it'll be a bit harder to actually get a job.
>Employers have high expectations, ("have 5 years experience of this, know how to do that")
>You have to genuinely enjoy programming to make a career out of it, though some programmers find that they are unable to program as a hobby anymore after coming home from work

up to you bud