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It's a cool skill to have nevertheless. Girls might ask you to draw them in an anime style or something like that for example, they like that kind of shit and it's a good excuse to make eye contact with them for a while

>>17950845
Oh lord I'd die of embarrassment

>>17950839

Anything can be creepy if you do it just to fap. Wood carving is awesome, but if you only make nude women and hide them in your room then you are a weirdo.

Try drawing other stuff too. Expand your horizons.

>>17950837
well, its better than nothing

>>17950837
>been offered a insurance sales job
On Monster.com? Let me be the first to tell you that an insurance sales job is just a step above going door to door selling cutlery. I wouldn't do it unless you're desperate for work and can't find a regular job.

>>17950870
>>17950870
Indeed.co.uk

It's pretty much me calling up people to see if they need life insurance.

I want to be a royal marine this year, I'm kinda in need of money but I'm not desperate yet.

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>>17950822
its okay to do whatever the flying fuck you want with your dick, however often your dick wants you to do it.

This applies to a lot of things in life as long as it doesn't affect other people.

>>17950844

It is a good sex drive repressant right?

I want my sex drive to stay far away

>>17950822
I usually do it at least once or twice a week that's it. Sometimes, I might even skip a week.

>>17950794
OK for one it's because you're paying them to act like that. Two, there's a degree of connection that comes with it. Most escorts see middle aged, depressed men come to them because it's a solace. It's the one place where they can both release their instinctual urges while also having the opportunity to talk about their problems, because they're paying her to listen. An escort won't judge you because of the problems you're talking about; your wife or girlfriend will, on the other hand, because she has nothing to lose since she has that opportunity to meet some other guy and leave you.

>>17950794
You do understand an escort is paid to give a shit for what your saying? They are good at the art of conversation because that is their jobs, make men think they are special and keep coming back for more. Being an escort is more then sex, its creating a desire for their product ( them) Its so you only want them and keep calling them back and wasting money.

>>17950794
>I been able to find women who were as patient and reasonable with you than escorts.

You know you are paying them. You know they have to feign or exaggerate their interest. Yeah you come here to say how nice they are to you. Can you see this is insane? Have I fallen for bait?

>>17950761
Which kind of depression? You feel unhappy? You want to kill youself?

>>17950761
I've been diagnosed with depression in 2013 and couldn't take meds because of other health conditions.

What worked for me was:
>therapy
>support from my loved ones
>talking openly about depression
>volunteering
>travelling
>reading
>working out
>bullet journaling/making lists of things I had to do

Medication is only a start and will only go so far. Then you have to make life changes. It will take a long time, count with at least a year. It's your decision.

Keep going mate. You're on the right track. Don't stop. Everything will fall into place if you keep doing the right thing.

Ayy lmao
people on /soc/ always told me I'm handsome, I'm quite fit, and I've never had ANY sex life
you don't need much apperance for that, apparently, it's all about being normie enough
t. 23

>>17950744
You still have a lot of time to enjoy your life.
Think of it like that - these thin fuckers had it easy for their whole life. They never made any effort to look that way. Now look at you. You actually did something, you try and you actually put a lot of effort into thr way your body looks like. You should be proud of yourself and continue to do so well.

>>17950726
If you're convinced, just do it - be honest and upfront, apologise, leave the house.
Give him some time to get over and don't try to be his friend. Wait for him to make the first move.

OP, feelings chance once you get out of the honeymoon phase.
I'm not absolutely and mindlessly crazy for my boyfriend like I was at the beginning either. But I do love him deeply, I want to devote myself to him and I'm very happy with him.
All relationships have ups and downs, too.
Give yourself some time to think about it, in my opinion.

>>17950739
I've been thinking about this for a while but you're right about the honeymoon phase. I think things are beyond that though, I know things need to change.

I feel suffocated, I feel like I'm expected to be someone else because I'm with him. Sometimes I even feel like I'm his mother.

Im going to give him some space but I feel horrible if he has no idea that this is coming :(

>>17950748
Have you tried talking to him about this?
I don't want to push you to stay in a relationship if you don't want to, but it seems like something that can be worked through.

Maybe give it a try before breaking up.

>>17950717

This is fake. No one talks about themselves like this. If this story is real, then you think like a 14 years-old boy. So my first piece of advice would be changing that.

>>17950717
Post your face once in a nearly dead thread.

Never again.
Just in case someone recognises you.

>>17950717
Post pics. You sound like a really beautiful woman. Confused but beautiful.

>>17950708
quick bump. need an answer asap

>>17950708
"Who all is gunna be there?"

They respond. Then ask "where at?"

Then if you then want to back out, come up with some excuse why that place doesn't work like: "no ty, I'm trying to save money"


That way you cover up why you aren't going.

>>17950808
You could just be honest too, if they're your friends they'll understand. I was in this same boat and ended up having to bail, I told them why and it was fine. If they're not asses they'll respect you

EDM = Extreme death metal marite

>>17950699
lol sure. I meant Electronic Dance Music, but I like some Metal (industrial like the one in Doom)

>>17950682
protip: keep trying. find someone you CAN talk to this stuff about. there are forums dedicated to niche as fuck interests. it's hard to break past that initial wall of doubt and disinterest, but thats normal. its normal to feel reclusive as the human mind jumps right to fear of judgement.

find an art appreciation forum, or maybe peruse some local museums. same could be said for all of your hobbies.

your problem could also be spreading yourself too thin and trying to be involved with many interests. narrow it down, and see how that works. focus all of your time and effort in to game development, and go full speed. that could lead to more to do with yourself, at the very least. work on a huge project, and try to find cohorts to share the experience with. thats one way to find friends.

Which kind of anime? Maybe is the antimoe patrol. Run away anon!

put on your your cool face and say problem officer

>>17950681
If you didn't do anything wrong, then they're not there for you. Just act as you normally would.

Well believe me OP, i have a fear of talking to girls at bars. How silly isn't that?

>>17950732
Talking to girls requires some social skills, sense of humour etc. So it's understandable that one can be afraid of doing it.
But if drinking one shot of vodka is too scary for me it's just kinda weird and makes no sense.

>>17950764
It's a phobia.
The cure is to just do it.

>>17950626

Don't you have her phone? Are you usually flirting on social media?

If both are "no", then move on dude.

>>17950648
I don't have her phone but occasionally flirt late at night over snapchat. I only get to see her for an hour a day but I do talk to her during her time. She leaves me on read 25% of the time but I this is the first girl I got feels for so I want to keep trying

>>17950626
might as well just ask her out. sounds like a no lose scenario

Why are you so lazy and stupid? I mean you say you love something and you do the oposite. i think your issue is being a faggot who cant have discipline.

>>17950644
yeah that's true! I would love to do something and do the exact opposite. but why?

>>17950762
Come on man, its great to make plans. Learn to make some research and procedures. the way youre doing the things right know wont get you anywhere

>>17950611
Why do you want to do want? What do you want to earn?

>>17950621
I live in a pretty conservative area with no college in like a 40km radius. So no liberal callboy type of people around here. Guess that's kind of clears things up as in why i'm having this problem. Pretty much a culture shock to comeback after college, but i'm living here around family until I can save up enough to atleast buy or rent a decent house.

>>17950611
Thats too unclear. In which way do people see you as a "cunty college student"?