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How hard is it to get a medical marijuana license in the United States of America?

I've already checked my states qualifying conditions ; PTSD and /or Intractable Spasticity.

>Technically I fractured my lumbar 5 on the bottom of my spine a few years ago; got the xrays & erryting

Would getting diagnosed with PTSD fuck me up in the long run?

>pic unrelated

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AT what age do people stop forming cliques...

Just been rejected from one for speaking out and realised that I may have been one of the followers.

how embarrassing

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I have had negative experience with girls throughout my preteen and teen years so I have no confidence around them. I'm still attracted to them and want love but I can't see myself ever having a gf. The problem is I started fapping to gay porn(stories and straight bj vids , audio m4m and discords) recently. For the past couple of years it was the occasional trap and shemale. I'm not blaming it on 4chan but it did "awaken" a thirst so to speak.

I think what's happening is that I know that it's much more easier just to find a sexual partners with men than with women. I've never had a gf so I'm khv. And starting to prefer the thought of having sex with a man because it's much more realistic. And that I'm just setting myself up for disappointment to fap to straight porn.

The idea of hooking up is becoming more ... acceptable to me. The sub Dom aspect of the act. But I'm not at all (except for cock when I'm horny) attracted to males. I'm certain of it. I don't pretend I'm straight but I don't think im bi if I can't see a relationship with a dude and not attracted to masculine features. I am into femdom. But its more realistic than a gf and I could pretend.

It's either stay a virgin, get an escort(I find them a rip off tho) or grindr. I fear that if I go the grindr route it will be a life of promiscuity , aids and guilt. If I go the escort route I'll be broke. And I'll kms eventually if I stay a virgin.

It's not the social stigma it's just idk. Just the thought of being single for the rest of my life depresses the fuck outta me. I can't lie to myself anymore. I've been watching asmr roleplay vids and listening to audio of girls saying they love me.

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>Go on a blind date
>sit there at restaurant waiting.
>Friends tell me a bit about her, tell me shes into video games and is asian
>Really fat Korean girl walks into resteraunt... Unzips her jacket, really spergey hot topic Doom T-shirt on.
>She looks down at her phone, then looks around the room, spots me, adjusts her glasses and waves and speed walks over.
>Sits down, its her... shes cute, but not in that I wanna fuck her sort of way, more of that, cute fat puppy look.
>I wasn't told she was going to be so, pear shaped, figured fuck it, 300 lbs isn't That big right?
>Dinner goes ok, shes really awkward and mostly talks about video games and old action movies.
>Apparently has a whole collection of Arnold Swartzenegger movies.
>Notice she has freckles, which I really like, but a scar across her nose.
>Go to movie
>I suggest fantastic beasts, I figure its harmless and nerdy girls dig harry potter and shit.
>Shes obviously bored quickly into the movie, asks if she can draw on me.
>I think its weird but whatever.
>Next thing I know, I have marker tattoos all over my arm.
>Take her home, she invites me in
>Thinking she might try to fool around.
>Walks into other room.
>Now wearing tight Yoga pants, didn't know they were made that big and a couple of bags of popcorn.
>Sit with her and watch Rick and Morty Reruns.
>She gives me her number.
>She pretty much lunges in and kisses me on the mouth, no warning, hugging me really tight.
>Says she had a wonderful time and hopes I call her again.
>Watches me walk all the way to my car.

Should I go on another date with her? I can give more details if needed... she was nice, her weight is an issue, and she seems borderline autistic to be honest.

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My former so called "classmate" sent me a facebook message "want to join drinking". Which means going home to him and drink with other dudes i dont know at all. I dont even really about about the former class mate who invited me.

Should i just "not read" the facebook message or reply i cant/i dont want to?

Because i dont like drinking at all + im autismo mode. pls help a anon in need.

Also: I just enabled WIFI on my phone, does it says "read [time]" in hes chat, or do i need to click on the messenger popup for him seeing me reading the message?

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self explanatory

Ive always liked the appeal of being a scientist, but I want to be out in the field and in nature. Zoology,oceanography,marine bio,arecehology ect
I dont want to be in a lab or office crunching numbers. Ive also thought about photography, maybe something I could do for national geographic. Thoughts and suggestions?

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http://getyourexbackpermanently.com/

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So /adv/
Im in what i consider a long distance relationship with a woman i met on an MMO. We have really hit it off great, same interests etc. Been sexting, started skyping resently, having a great laugh every time we do something together. Been talking very intimate at times, mostly we are too shy, both of us to say very intimate things on vent, or skype. But we write it, to eachother.

We have been talking, since septemper last year, and it started out with us spending every waken moment together, she is a programmer, a works from home. So last year she would still log onto the computer to chat while working. Send me messages everyday I was at work too. *This was before we declared our love for eachother*

However I have some concerns, mostly now because im unsure if she truly wants to be with me, or just using me to get somekind of attention need satisfied. It might just be me, not being very good at getting past the honey moon period, and that might just be causing me concerns I don’t know. That is why im here.

First off. She has resently stopped sending messages to me on FB, while im at work. And instead would just wait for me to come home, we are still spending time together on the PC. But seems now, her previous friends are more interesting, and im always put on a 2nd place. This might be because she now knows, that she dosnt have to work for my attention anymore? *It was her that kinda came onto me, and made the first move. But im not completely lost in her aswell* - What are your thoughts on this?

I was gonna write more but I realized how much this sends the signal that she dosnt want to be with me, and just don’t want to tell me. But could it be, she is just confident that I wont leave her. And so is not working to keep me interested any longer?

Should I confront her with this and cut my losses before making too great a mess of myself?

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Hey /adv.

When do you know its time to end things? Whats a deal breaker?

Let me preface this by saying I do love my boyfriend very much. There's lots of love in the relationship but things have been so difficult, and we get upset (or, I, do) about the same thing over and over again, I can't help but think that they are fundamental issues.

We're doing long distance. And before you go off about how they don't work, this is the least of our problems. Yes, it adds to the problem, but its not the problem at its core. We plan on seeing each other again March, so its short term so its not like we're going to be in a LDR forever and we planned a future together.

but we have so many big differences. At first it was opposites attract but...
>politics
he's a trump supporter... goes on /pol... I am... moderate left.
>feminism
I'm a feminist. Not a "feminazi" which is just misandry. He seems to have misogynistic undertones. He reassures me that he'll never think of me as less. He loves me and respects me but I don't think he respects women as a whole.
>ambition
I'm a go-getter, ambitious, and always juggling multiple things. He's sort of... NEET atm but looking for a job to save money. He's trying.

The problem is I love him very much. But are these deal breakers to the point where we can't have a future together?

Much appreciated.

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Stuff like mirroring your posture, making eye contact, blushing etc. I suspect this girl might be somewhat interested in me but she's the kind of woman that tries to be very nice and polite to everyone so I can't really discern what's attraction and what's politeness.

When we're sitting next to each other she mirrors my posture a lot. Today I tested her and randomly put my hand on top of the table for no reason whatsoever when we were sitting and 5 seconds later she did the same, for example. Sometimes I genuinely make her laugh, but 80% of the time all I say are autistic joke attempts, however she still giggles at most of them. Do girls tend to do this? I guess it would be kind of awkward if she didn't react at all, right? She also looks at me sometimes, but not nearly as much as I look at her sadly. What do you think? Are these big green lights or is it kind of natural? Is there any sign that I should be paying attention to? I'm not giving up either way just trying to see where I stand before making a bold move (planning on doing it soon). I don't think I've ever been this close to a girl so I'm clueless

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Have I fractured a bone?

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So I asked out this girl in a direct way and it surprised her and she gave me a big smile and her number. I texted her to say hi and she replied saying that she's sorry since she's taken and I caught her off guard, making her forget about her partner. She suggested being friends. I told her it was cool of her to tell me that and that I'm ok with that. I'm curious what I should do, as it feels weird to be friends since I made it clear I'm interested. I'm not sure if I want to be friends but I am interested in seeing where this could go. Is this something I should pursue or leave alone? If I pursue, how should I do so?

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I have a fetish for girls in a real state of emotion. Like if they can't help but moan when a dick slids up in them, or they get scared and kinda curl up in a little ball or cuddle someone or something. That turns me on so much and I don't know what it is even called

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My dad, 56, wants to record his own music. He did this on some shitty casettes in the 90s. But now hes bought some mixing table and tries to learn it but keeps failing. He also asks me to help him out as if I would understand it. I have peeked at it before but instantly thought I would never ever be able to learn all that stuff.
Anyway, should I bother downloading a program and trying to understand recording? It seems a monumental task which I really cant fit in my school-overloaded life atm. But man seeing my dad struggle with technology and failing is so god damn depressing I get mad at life sometimes.

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I'm 24(almost 25) and my parents treats me like a child. They always have been like this. I go out with friends, I gets a call at 8pm and get another 5/6 calls till i get home.

Sadly, my parents have fucked my life. I have low esteem, no gf, no good job and no aim - at some point I think I'm destined to be a failure. I'm afraid to step out of comfort zone and cannot really socialize. I believe my friends look at me like some kind of weirdo faggot.

My parents are literally telling me what to do and what not to. I tried to talk about it in cool, talked about it in angry voice tone. But nothing seems to work out.

At some point, i think they are doing this because I'm only child or they have some anxiety issue. And large portion of anxiety is vested to me.

May be, I will kill myself when I'm 30. Things are not working and not sure if it will be great in next few years.