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How do you pass the shittest "why are you with me, you could do better"? I usually always agree and amplify in this situation, but I can't think of something that will work.

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Drinking makes me feel like killing myself but I can't stop. Why?

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How can I prove the severity of my brain damage when I have an autism diagnosis....so I have really bad brain damage from a disease and because of my autism nobody knows. it has gotten so bad my memory is worse than even the dumbest of autistic people i have amnesia really bad memory problems...so they started testing how can I prove how much I have changed all I have is old schoolwork

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When I was younger my sister caused a lot of problems right around when i went into 6th grade. Her being bratty and insolent led to my parents fighting quite often and that anger was usually redirected at me even when i had no part. eventually I learned to stop caring about it and got used to it kind of.

Now being 20 I don't really feel much emotion anymore. every smile I make is forced in some way to just be nice to people and not come off like a jerk. Almost any emotional expression I is forced. have I broken my emotions and is there a way to fix this?

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What are some ways to decrease dopamine reduction in the body

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My mum is fruinds with our aunty and mum told me in the past uncle cheated on the aunty back when she only had one of his kids... and my mum said she wont tell my aunt about it because uncle/mums-brother "wasnt fully committed" to her at the time.. Mum knows he doesnt even really like her and may be cheating now.... So now aunt is stuck with him, his more of a peice of shit and has 3 other kids with him, completely trapped, dependant and worries about him cheating because he does suspicious things and flirts with other women in front of her.
My mum just says "oh poor aunty...shes such a parranoid person...".

Mum also knows if she told her uncle was cheating she would of left his ass.
So she could have had a relaxing good life and not be thought of as being parranoid...

I wont ever talk to my aunty again knowing this. Cuz if she knew sge would not bemums frind. What kind of friend does that?

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I need to make it from central florida to miami What busses don't have transfers? I can't find any info on that. I know greyhounds do

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How would i be able to get high on campus if i cant bring drugs in through security whats a good way to get high? They have alot of flowers n shit n fruit trees if lavender flowers get you high probably not

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Hi, so I have been seeing this guy for about a month and a half. Things have been going really well, we see each other a couple times a week, I'm pretty busy with work and school so I don't have much free time. We always have a good time, He always tells me I am kind, funny, beautiful, etc but the past couple dates have felt different, like things are getting more serious. How do I know when or even if I should have the exclusive talk? Should I just let it ride out? And to preface this, I am completely fine with being a single person, and am in no way trying to "lock him down" based on any insecurity. I just feel he would be a great compliment to an already full life and am honestly no longer interested in seeing anyone else. pic unrelated.

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20 yrs old.Close friend told me hed love to travel to various countries with me one day. It made me happy. Plus it was surprising to hear since his gf doesn't like me. I can't hang out with him as often and we share the game group of friends but most of them are closer to him. So I'm pretty much alone. My feelings for this guy have been strong for years that it's become painful. One of the few friends I have lives in another state and has told me she wouldn't mind for me to move in with her. I've been highly considering it and told him about it. He looked away and seemed kinda down about it but idk. I know he loves his gf so much and would never leave her. So I feel moving out will help me move on from him and just remain his friend. My real problem is I'm attending college and hate it. Don't know if I should graduate then move out or just leave as soon as possible.

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if you’re going to try, go all the
way.
otherwise, don’t even start.

if you’re going to try, go all the
way.
this could mean losing girlfriends,
wives, relatives, jobs and
maybe your mind.

go all the way.
it could mean not eating for 3 or 4 days.
it could mean freezing on a
park bench.
it could mean jail,
it could mean derision,
mockery,
isolation.
isolation is the gift,
all the others are a test of your
endurance, of
how much you really want to
do it.
and you’ll do it
despite rejection and the worst odds
and it will be better than
anything else
you can imagine.

if you’re going to try,
go all the way.
there is no other feeling like
that.
you will be alone with the gods
and the nights will flame with
fire.

do it, do it, do it.
do it.

all the way
all the way.

you will ride life straight to
perfect laughter, its
the only good fight
there is.

-Charles Bukowski

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I might not have what it takes to work.
Generally I feel like I'm expected to do a number of things in an amount of time that simply isn't possible for me. In fact, it's hard for me to understand how other people do it so effortlessly.
I also don't understand the lack of understanding when it comes to making mistakes. It seems like every accident I have, no matter how small is considered completely unacceptable. And you can't stop. If you slip up for even one second you'll be seen as a terrible worker, which creates a cyclical loop where your coworkers set you up to fail, almost hoping you fail until you inevitably get fired. And it's like this. Every minute of every day. For 1/3 of your life or more. For the rest of your life.

Honestly, how does everyone else pull it off?
t. Someone who might get "let go" soon.

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How do you deal with the beginning stages of dating a girl before a relationship? Because in some cases you're not the only man she's seeing, and most guys don't get the same luxury of seeing multiple girls, so you're left competing for her attention in the span of several weeks without looking desperate or worse, feeling jealous of not receiving as much attention as the others.

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i totally made mistake in my life. i went another country to study and my gilr went to another. we can't see each other. now i were thinging to quit studying and go to live with her. we been in relationanship almost 4 years and i dont want to lose her. what should i do? i wish i could plan time with her but...what can i do? what should i do?

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I feel guilty for saying I have depression. I don't know what depression is. I see people who have it much worse than me. People who self harm, people who've actually really considered or tried to kill themselves
I just can't get out of bed. I have little desire to do much and am sad a lot. inb4 just change your lifestyle. I'm already pretty active, I'm a stand up open mic'er, i work a physical job, have friends.
idk i could sleep like 10 hours and feel exhausted and just lay there fading in and out of sleep for another 2 or 3 hours after that. I'm just worried about taking medication, is it worth checking into? I just don't think my "depression" is severe enough.