>be me, a 2nd year med student
>waste everyday you should spend studying on youtube/random game/just procrastinating without actually doing anything
>fall asleep promissing yourself that you're gonna wake up early and study and be productive and go for a run and do everything you should/want to do
>wake up at 2pm and waste another day
>start over
How do i stop this? i was top of my class in high school... i didn't try that much, but it felt good. Now, i barely pass in college and i feel so frustrated...
Fix sleep schedule
Go to class
Do assignments
Get tutoring
Pass exams
Profit
Immediately lose profit to crippling loan debt
You're gonna make it.
>>17961840
OP here
I don't really have classes or assignments because of the exams' period + no debt cuz i live in europe. The whole problem is gonna be passing the exams that start next week. Time just passes by... and another day is wasted... fml
>>17961829
Bump
Any and all advice encouraged
So did i do something illegal?
TLDR girl friend cheated on me and used a computer I let her use since it was my old one.
So during the break up i felt bad for goin off on her and gave it to her. Just a verbal thing.
Then i changed my mind and sold it. Is there any legal recourse for that? Or is it fine since it was never really her property.
I do not have any proof of purchase since i got it from a friend however he can verify i did purchase it from him.
yes. you raped her.
You're fine. She has no evidence to stand on and it wouldn't be worth her time and money to pursue it.
>>17961822
If you're in the US, this could be considered a verbal contract or as a gift so she could reasonably take you to court. Hard to tell if she'd win though.
How do I move to the ghetto of Chicago to become a rapper? I don't want to live on the south side but like the east and I don't wanna work I'm a rapper
>>17961796
>ghetto
>rapper
Underage out!
>>17961855
I'm in my 20s
South Side Suicide
Kill yourself, hoe.
What are the pros of getting married? What are some reasons one should get married? (if there are any)
>>17961786
Most people will cite "kids" and "love," but there really is no clear happiness that comes with marriage, maybe a tax exemption or sating a woman's biological clock. Kids limit most ambitious plans, and self-improvement is much more reliable than marriage for keeping a steady fuck a phone call away after the sexual revolution.
>>17961786
As follows:
Depending on your country, there may be tax, insurance or similar benefits due to laws or customs benefiting married couples.
Joint incomes, reductions in costs due to economy of scale. But you could achieve that in a defacto relationship. Or if you're really keen a poly one.
Getting ahead in life because the world sees you as a married couple. Not one of those filthy queers. Seriously this one opened up plenty of professional opportunities for myself as a nerdy introvert.
Once you're 'taken' other women want you more. The weekend after I got engaged, had a bar girl desparate to get a hotel room with me. She was only keen after I was 'off the market'.
>>17961786
There are some financial benefits you can get from being married - tax reductions, for example.
In general living together cuts the costs, too.
If you plan to have a family together, being married gives more guarantees to your kids and to your partner.
In case you die, your partner should inherit what you own and where I live they also get some money.
In general, you have one person who is legally responsible for you. Which means that, whatever happens, you have one person that you can count on. If you're sick, if you lose everything you own, you have something who is responsible for your well being.
Socially, married people are perceived like adults and are more respected.
Cons... divorce sucks.
So time for some life advice.
I am currently living in the cold and dark north of Denmark and working fulltime aswell as a fulltime study. The company i work for gave me the opportunity to open a office in my city, but since then it has gone a little bit slow, etc. no opportunity to hire new co-workers or so, which is not only the companys fault, but also my own.
I have been wanting to travel for a long time and last week it hit me that i could do some work and travel which i also have done before. I am in the sales business, and working as a b2b phone salesman now.
I found a company in Malaga which want to hire me as a b2b phones salesman also, but with probably a worse salary, but i guess living is also cheaper in spain. I love spain, i love sun, party, beaches and summer, which my conclusion is i will could find in Malaga.
So what is holding me back? I have a girlfriend 7-8/10, which probably want to marry me and have kids in 2 years or something which is scarrying me a little bit, when i think of that there is so much more i want to do before i "settle" and our relationship has also gone a little bit down the last 6 months (been with her for 1.5 year now). But i like the though of having "somebody", you now. My studies is not really holding me back as i dont think i will finish them either way.
>A girl that I date for only 1.5 year is talking about marriage and kids, the past 6 months has been kinda bland.
Don't do this, don't get tricked by hormones.
>>17961833
Shes a muslim, so we have been living kinda under the radar for the past 1,5 years. It seems like the only solution is marriage if we want to stay together...
I have been living over the past year being carried by my hope for something to happen. It has changed how I go about my day and is a constant source of motivation and self assurance. I have a number of habits that I have developed because of this. Now my hope is gone. I am horrified. This has been why I have done everything up until now, why I am what I am. What meaning am I supposed to find in life at this point? I feel empty. There is nothing I can do to obtain my ultimate goal, the thing that all my other goals exist for. How can I get over this emptiness?
I'm really sorry that happened OP. What were you working towards? Maybe it still isn't too late.
That's a terrible feeling OP. what happened? What is your ultimate goal?
>>17961772
>What meaning am I supposed to find in life at this point?
likely a new goal ?
c'mon nobody bats 1000 nobody gets everything they want in life
op kinds of reads like typical special snowflake, or hildabeast supporter after TRUMP WON
How the f do I stop wanting her back and get over feelings of jealousy that she is gonna fuck some other dudes? (she was a virgin before me, but complete trainwreck in the head honestly) How do I resist her when she comes back ''improved'' someday like she promises?
my man im going through a similar situation but my ex is now dating my former best mate so theres some difference , either way you gotta move on. You've gotta see she's missing out and your fucking great and you can get anyone you want. Chances are im not wrong am i anon ? So don't dwell on the past , look to the future and if she comes crawling back keep her as far as you can throw her. She's no good to you anon shes like drugs ( pic related drugs are bad mckaaay )
Awesome reply, bro! So sorry you've been going through that shit! Absolutely you are NOT wrong. I wish you the best of luck on getting through this!!
If you change the word 'partner' to 'sister' in this image, it fits my relationship to my sister.
How do i become a more disciplined person adv? Throughout my life my willpower and discipline have been subpar, i have acknowledged this and would now like to change it. How do i go about this? How does one strengthen their resolve and commit to things they want to do? If i could stay committed my life would improve significantly. Any help appreciated, thanks.
>>17961711
Same here.I keep making promises I can't keep and then even though I have the opportunity to succeed , I let my self and anybody that cares about me down.
In short, by doing it.
Make goals, accomplish them, repeat.
In my case, I used to view things as challenges.
"I don't have the energy to do that right now" turns into "I wonder how fast I could do this?"
Eventually, it just becomes nature.
What becomes difficult is deciding which commitments are worth keeping.
>>17961711
>Why do i become a more disciplined
>Why do i go about this?
>Why does one strengthen their resolve
Fixed that for you.
Hey /adv/, I'm steaming through an ice field at full speed right now. Any tips on what I should look out for?
>>17961710
((berg))
>>17961710
Look for Rose and say Jack will have a space on the debris she'll be on. Also, she's gonna hide that goddamn jewel with her until she throws it into the ocean decades later.
>>17961710
Beeyourself
I want to know how to deal with my stubborn girlfriend. U feel like she constantly cannot take criticism well and blows issues out of proportion. I find it incredibly hard to stand up for myself in situations because I'm scared of conflict with her which leads to her having no respect for me.
To expand, she got mad at me because I told her that I didn't like the way she asked me for things. She never says please and thank you and I feel like a butler, that's what I told her. She says she did something special for me recently (she did) and feels that I should put up with it this one time.
Raise the issue to point it out. Don't fight about it (deliberately), just address that you don't like it when she does a certain thing and then move on.
This lets the issue defuse so she can actually think about it calmly without it becoming a Stand up For Who I Am battle for HER.
That said, don't fear her. Stand up for yourself and stick to your guns if its important. If the relationship ends as a consequence, so be it. Better to have done with it then continue in a relationship that makes you feel like shit.
>>17961726
Raising the issue was what caused it. I mentioned it again when she did the same thing and that caused her to be really mad at me.
I want too suprise my GF with a sex toy. She has never had one before and would be fun to try for both of us. What do you think could be a good start? Have thought about a magic wand toy, if i know her right I don't think she would like a penetrate toy to begin with. Any recomendations?
Magic wand like the hitachi are maybe too strong for her and might scare her
Go for vibrator that used at least two batteries. Don't get anything with too many functions, they're very badly manufactured so it's better to aim for simplicity. Preferentially ones that are hard plastic on the outside (easier to wash) and have a small for precise clit stimulation
>>17961707
Any specific vibrator that you would recommend?
My thought too that Hitachi would be to strong for her. But are there any which are more "moderate" or are those not good at all?
>>17961718
Pretty hard to evaluate desu. I don't know any big brands, most of the more reasonably priced ones don't have one I think.
Two triple A batteries are a good indicator of power. Try to avoid anything extremely cheap though, I have bought one that uses two batteries but the vibration is very weak, and it cost like half what they usually do in my country.
After having my first relationship with a manipulative narcissist and bouncing back(+self improvement), I honestly have no desire to mess around with women and have 50 relationships until I settle down at age thirty. I know a lot of girls who I can involve myself with, but I don't. I'm a lot pickier this time around. My ideal situation would be finding someone to keep along for the ride and just be with them until one of us dies. Silly right?
I've recently met someone who almost makes me believe that's possible. Why? Because she's an incredibly loyal girl who is crazy about me in a non-fling/narcissistic way, and, well, I want to keep her. But I don't actually believe in the realism of forever&ever (despite how appealing it sounds), so I hesitate. It's clear that I'm still damaged from my last relationship, that I'm starting to think if a break up is possible then a relationship isn't worth it.
Tell me what I need to hear & correct my flawed perspective, please.
I'm 21 years old, by the way. I'm sure age matters under this context.
give me attention pls
>>17961755
Attention whore.
>>17961685
>she's incredibly loyal girl
>i want to keep her
Oh really? Then what is there you dont know about? Stop over thinking and date her dummy.
Today is my 25th birthday.
Should I leave the house and do something enjoyable? Like what?
no, stay inside
>>17961675
I was thinking about getting a massage or buying weed, which requires me to drive about 90 minutes to get legally.
>>17961681
Do both! Make a day of it. Become the most baked and relaxed person on the planet.
Can I get in trouble for asking someone out at her workplace?
Here's the story:
>I had some medical examination (nothing special, just general stuff)
>one of the assistants is a young cutie
>we talked, she seemed to be quite likeable
>next day I had another examination
>when she was alone in the room I went next to her and asked quietly: "Would you like to have a drink with me?"
>she laughed in surprise (not in an offensive way) and told me that sorry, but no
>I remained calm and cool and even joked about that one would never know without trying (she agreed)
>after that we talked and I think everything was ok
>(after I went home I checked her FB account - I shoud do that before, I know - and she has a boyfriend, by the way)
Unfortunately I'll have another examination on this week and I'll even meet the chief physician.
What are the chances that this assistant told anyone (especially the doctor) what happened?
Can I get in trouble?
Well I didn't commit any crime and even if this young woman thought that I was inappropriate there were no witnesses to comfirm that I asked her out... right?
P.S.: Yes, I'm paranoid as fuck.
I don't understand what, if anything, you're afraid of.
You asking someone on a date and getting turned down isn't going to get you in trouble. If you had slapped her ass or something or maybe HAD been a jerk when rejected, but no harm no foul. Just be as casual as ever knowing the chances are now closer to 0
they may scoff at you or make a joke at your expense but no you cant get in trouble lad
I don't want to work my entire life. What's the best way to earn enough money that I can live comfortably and do whatever I want for the rest of my life while I'm still young?
invest in the lottery Kappa
You cant
Working is not bad
Without work you would be bored in less than 2 months
Think a bit positive