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Should I go to another city for college and make my 4 year relationship into a long distance one for a few years?
There are no good schools here and I really want to go but my girlfriend is really worried. She can't come because of her school. I love her and we plan on getting married and everything.
I think we can handle the 8 hour distance but she's been handling it badly like we're breaking up. I feel bad and I don't know what to do.
I want to keep the relationship and go to school at the same time. Wouldn't a little bit of space be good for things? We'd see each other every few months.
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>>17967439
They don't call it the Turkey Drop for nothing.
But hey, go dream your dreams
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>>17967451
If we've made it through summer vacation without seeing each other why would this be any different. Well see each other once every 2 months at most and then summers.
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>>17967451
I just want to say we met after high school and we've both moved way past college fresh men. Will this still result in a turkey drop? I just googled that term.
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>Lesbian woman.
>Was in a long relationship with another woman.
>Break up
>After three months, she begins to flirt with me.
>I am guy
Why does she flirt with me even though I am a guy?
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>>17967365
Reaffirmation that she is sexy and desirable in someone's eyes, regardless of gender.
Or she's bi and not a lesbian.
Or she just wants attention from you because it's easy.
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>>17967369
winner winner chicken dinner
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>>17967365
Most "lesbians" I know have or do dabble with dick occasionally. The way my lesbros tell it, the masculine energy in straight sex is hard/impossible to match with two women.
Pondering whether it's possible for me to get a degree in Aerospace or Mechanical or Electrical engineering, and then try to get a job at CSA/NASA/SpaceX. What do you think?:
Currently have a diploma in "computer programming" from a college. Most of the stuff we were taught in college I already knew or could have learned by opening a programming tutorial on the Internet. In general program felt weak and I got away with a very high GPA because of that. After a short programming internship haven't coded anything again.
Haven't touched math or anything science related since high school. In school, passed math classes with 65-70% on average, but never got to calculus level because I switched to another class. Chemistry classes were always a solid 50%, but failed grade 12 chem. Physics I got maybe 60-70%.
Be honest - am I doomed from the start?
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>>17967346
Depends on whether you weren't trying or are low IQ.
Are your parents wealthy or are you just a moron wasting your degree?
Also, code something for me.
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>>17967350
>Are your parents wealthy or are you just a moron wasting your degree?
The latter.
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Should I bump now?
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I've posted about this a few times here before. Backstory:
>guy i like in my study group but can't seem to get past that acquaintance stage
>during group sessions he seems into me - looks at me all the time, sometimes going out of his way to do so, makes eye contact with me, checks to see if I'm laughing at his jokes, etc
>once studying is over, ignores me and sometimes seems to go out of his way to avoid talking to me
>mixedsignals.gif
>would like to be more than friends, but ok with just being friends too
>not willing to ask out myself due to recent bad experiences doing so, don't know if i can handle rejection of any kind right now
>only have his phone number due to a group text from group leader, not because he gave it to me
>asked /adv/ if it would be ok for me to text him to ask how he is doing because he has
seemed unhappy for a few weeks
>/adv/ says yesofcourse.jpg.
>text him after next group session, text goes well, he seems happy to talk to me and talks longer than i expected (~30 min conversation about school and work)
>hoping ice was finally broken
saw him on Saturday in the group and he mostly ignored me and acted kind of weird, but not dramatically so. Seeing him again tonight, assuming he is there, but there's been no further communication so far. I was kind of hoping for another text at worst and an invite to hang out at best, but no go.
He is always very nice to everyone, including very annoying people who have come and gone and who most people talk shit about. It's a nice quality and one of the reasons I like him, but the downside is it's hard to know where you stand with him.
Do I write him off at this point? The eye flirting / then avoiding has been going on for months and I'm kind of tired of it and wonder if it's all in my head. I find myself avoiding other opportunities because I hope there's something with this guy, but it never advances.
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>>17967339
anyone? i'm leaving in about 10 minutes and feeling kind of nauseous.
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>>17967413
Well if you guys are like 19 I'd say maybe he's shy and is more comfortable talking to you over text/in a group context than he is speaking with you directly
If you really really like this guy you can keep pushing and maybe he'll get used to you and start talking to you like a person
Or if you ain't got time for that then just stop trying
Up to you
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>>17967413
He might have some personal problems in his house or something OP hence the occasional weird attitude
>>17967421
This
Force interaction between him and you
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>be me
>have a not so good looking friend with a lot of flaws but still like her
>kinda grow feelings for her
>confess
>she feels the same
>the moment i realize we're going to start something then & there
>"umm I'm really sorry but the timing is probably bad"
>fast forward 6 months later I hate another, much prettier & nicer gf
>she confessed to me and I was wholeheartedly into it, unlike last time
>me and other girl eventually lost touch
am I a bad person for what I did to my old friend? I kinda led her on didn't I? I feel guilty
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whats the problem?
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>>17967475
i lifted the hopes of a girl who was probably not pursued very much
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>>17968732
She rejected you retard.
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How do I force myself to vomit? Sticking my fingers down my throat and drinking salt water don't work.
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>>17967248
ipecac bro
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>>17967248
For me, sympathy vomiting worked pretty well. I would look up videos of people puking until I puked with them. Other than that, drinking a ton of water and sticking my toothbrush instead of my finger down my throat always worked.
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>>17967248
op if you are binge purge eating........
then get professional counseling before anorexia kills you
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What would you do if you could do this?! 2017-01-18 01:08:27 Post No.17967244
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What would you do if you could do this?!
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Hello all. I am asking for help and for positive opinions, on a possibly paranormal/psychological matter.
"The law of attraction
Main article: Law of attraction (New Thought)
The Secret posits that the law of attraction is a natural law which determines the complete order of the universe and of our personal lives through the process of "like attracts like". The author claims that as we think and feel, a corresponding frequency is sent out into the universe which attracts back to us events and circumstances on that same frequency. For example, if a person thinks angry thoughts and feels angry, the author claims that said person will attract back events and circumstances that cause them to feel more anger. Conversely, if the person thinks and feels positively, they will attract back positive events and circumstances. Proponents claim that desirable outcomes such as better health, wealth, and happiness can be attracted simply by changing one's thoughts and feelings. For example, some proponents believe that using "the Secret" can cure cancer.[8] However, there is no scientific justification for such a claim.[9]"
This pertains to me because for the last decade of my life, I have noticed that many odd and highly improbable things happen, due to my thoughts. Unfortunately, it does not have a full 100% success ratio. The worst part is, many of my "wishes" only come to be after an extremely long time. It may take a couple of years for a wish to come to be. The unreliable time factor may imply it was going to happen anyways without any of my doing. How can supernatural be real if I cannot do it with 100% consistency? I am a skeptic!
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There is some truth to thinking and focusing on the things you want but the Secret is some mystical bullshit
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I have searched and searched for answers on the internet. At first, I thought I was some sort of witch warlock. Certainly this has to be some sort of magical sorcery. It was only a game. It is all in my head. It is harmless. So I keep doing it. With extreme emotion, things start to happen. Particularly, boiling hate and rage. How absurd. Nearly everyone on the planet feels that way at one point or another, people get mad at each other every day, for thousands and thousands of years, yet no one creates magic. Or do they? In my research I have come across the ancient superstition of the "evil eye".
"Since Neolithic times people have feared the evil eye – the potent stare of an envious person, believed to cause sickness, suffering or even death. This intriguing book explains where the Bible, the Koran and most religions warn of its dangers and offer defenses against it, as well as revealing the more ancient secrets of amulets, purifying rituals and protective gestures still used across the world to this day. After reading this book, you will never see the world in quite the same way again."
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>>17967244
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WbS9jZOlQjc
So /adv/, I strongly suspect my best friend has a huge crush on me. How can I test and see for sure without asking them? If they're into me I'd date them but if not, they're still my best friend forever.
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>>17967235
Ask for their opinion of "the type of girl" he would date or what he likes in a girl. If he specifically says things that pretty much describes you, tell him: hey that sounds like me, would you like to date??
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I don't have a crush on you, how dare you insinuate such fallacious things.
You know, back in the day, we used to burn people like you.
Those were the days....
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>>17967277
I know for a fact I'm exactly his type in every way.
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Holy shit, why do women like edgy things so much?
>got this friend
>shes pretty ok, we play vidya from time to time
>everytime she mentions her favourite character from any game it's the biggest fucking edgelord
I thought she was ironic but she's not. No matter what is it, the edgier the better. She's pissing me off with that.
Pic somehow related because she loves this guy.
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>>17967232
Show her Metal Gear Rising if she hasn't already played it. Show her other games where there's a blend between edgy and awesome.
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Where were you when edgy became the next literally and racist? Fucking normalfags
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>>17967246
She played it, but i didn't because it's not my type of gameplay. Her taste remains shit regardless.
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Back in high school we had senior superlatives, stuff like best eyes, cutest couples, etc. The thing is my school took it as a joke and did the opposite. So the kid with alopecia get voted best hair, girl with droopy eyes got voted best eyes.
I was voted most likely to succeed and cutest couple. I never had a gf, that picture was just me standing alone.
It's been five years since I graduated, when it happened initially I laughed and went along with it, now it's starting to sink in they were laughing at me and not with me.
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>>17967218
Only if you stop laughing. Who cares anyway, people are shallow as hell when they're in high school.
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>>17967218
Cool story, Bro.
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It's shitty of people to make fun of others, but it's awesome when people can make fun of themselves. If you can see your flaws and where you don't match up to people's standards in certain areas, and you can joke about it, that's great. Don't take this shit too seriously. Success, and relationships, they're just made up. You're real, and whatever you're interested in is real, so focus on that and go where it takes you. Don't worry about measuring up to everyone else's ideas of what your life should look like.
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Please help me. A very close girl friend of mine recently told me she wants to end it all. Normally I would protest wholeheartedly but with what she's been through, I want to help her do it. She became sick when she was 12 and was hospitalized for 2 whole years. In that frame of time she was raped, beaten, neglected and starved by many different hospital staff. She wasn't allowed any visitors and was practically alone in a white hell for 2 years straight. She was diagnosed with Lyme disease, juvenile arthritis, clinical depression as well as insomnia. And this was only in the first few months. After she left that hospital, she's been bedridden ever since and cant move without her wheelchair. Shortly after returning home her parents stopped caring for her. They blamed the illnesses on her, refused to provide any more medical care for her and called her a "liability to the family". She doesn't recieve any care or compassion from any of her family members. About 3 months ago a "dear " family friend moved in with her. They confided in each other and all seemed to be going well for once until she realized his ulterior motives. He raped her time and time again while under the same roof as her parents. She screamed the first couple times but her parents ignored her cry for help and she eventually just accepted it. She tried stabbing him one time but he turned the knife on her (She is physically very weak) and raped her at knife-point. After getting tortured in hospital, her home became just as bad. She has no way out. Her dad broke her phone and refuses to buy her a new one and the only was we stay in contact is via her laptop over facebook- that is until she comes and stays with me over most weekends. She has tried everything to leave, but her parents have bullshitted their way out of every possible scenario. Child Services? Nope. The police? Nope. She literally has no options left. Cont?
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>>17967195
> Child Services? Nope. The police? Nope. She literally has no options left.
She doesn't know how her laptop cam works?
>Cont?
If you want to provide actual relevant details, such as your and her age.
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>>17967208
She is 16, I am 18. What does her laptop cam have to do with anything?
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>>17967214
Her laptop cam has everything to do with it. If you two haven't found a way to record evidence for government agencies, you are morons.
I was going to elaborate, but there is little else to say on the topic.
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I am starting to hate people. I cannot believe I spent so long under social anxiety. 2017-01-18 12:24:59 Post No.17967141
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I am starting to hate people. I cannot believe I spent so long under social anxiety.
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Yeah. People are fucking pieces of shit. They are jealous, hateful, conniving, backstabbing, greedy, selfish, self centered, annoying sons of fucking cunts, whores and bitches.
I will not present the 1 million examples I have gone through in life, where someone fucked me over just because they could, I will present to you something that happened just now.
I was to meet with a librarian to discuss an issue. She was not present at work. In her place was someone else; a lady I worked with as a work-study student. That lady was a total cunt and a psycho.
Anyways she tells me that the person I need to speak to has stepped out for lunch, she will be back shortly. I waited 2 fucking hours. Then I go to up to her desk and she tells me "she left for the day may be". Then she laughs and gives me this squinty (i hate you) look.
How am I ever going to succeed in life, ever get ahead or accomplish anything, when there are so many fucking pieces of shit in every step. Does not help that I am not white, I am middle eastern - most of these cunts are jewish and they hate / oppress anyone who is not a jew like themselves.
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It's human nature to be a cunt and put yourself ahead of others life is cruel. Humans are a deceitful, evil species
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When i came to this country I was a liberal and believed in globalism and diversity, but honestly considering how piece of shit humanity is; particularly THESE people - no fucking way it happens.
Racism is not really about being oppressed or hated. Racism is about these little fucking backstabs that add up to you being behind everyone else in a very very competitive world.
They expect superhuman intellect and ethics from me but practice none of those themselves. They expect honesty and integrity for me, but have zero morals. They expect me to be opended minded and loving, yet they don't even know the meaning of those words. This life is a hypocrisy where the good get killed early and the hateful cock sucking talent less small minded narrow brained piece of shits prevail.
Embrace your dark side. Become criminals and gangsters, only then can you keep yourself from getting fucked. Or be born white or a jew, then you can form this group where there's someone always out there to protect our interests.
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you're the cunt OP, people just mirror back what you're putting out.
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/adv/
How do you discover your natural talents? Are some people cucked over by not having any sort of productive/creative talents? I feel that im in this boat and there's nothing I can really do about it cus muh genes.
It fucking sucks bigly...
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>How do you discover your natural talents?
>natural talents
> Are some people cucked over by not having any sort of productive/creative talents?
99.9999%
>I feel that im in this boat and there's nothing I can really do about it cus muh genes.
If that makes you feel better about being a lazy shit.
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talent is a meme. do what you enjoy enough that you would do it more than other people , and you can become great at it.
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Natural talent to me is something you can do without effort, so pick a random said activity that you are interested in, if you are speeding through it then you got your natural talent if not repeat cycle
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How do you set up a date with a girl in
your class? We barely get any homework and she doesn't know me that well. After talking for around 5 minutes, I've asked for her number and she gave it to me (this was after class). This is my first time doing this, and I really don't know what's the next step. Help me?
>pic semi related
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try having a conversation first . girls want you to appreciate them because of something unique about them, not just because you're desperate and horny,
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Just ask her in person next time you see her. Have something already planned and be direct with your question. You've already asked for her number so you obviously have some gall about you.
Whatever you do, don't do it over the phone.
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>>17967123
So should I text her? Or wait tomorrow and talk to her more?
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My girlfriend proposed an open relationship to me yesterday.
We had a long talk, covering all that we have of good and of bad between us. I too am not totally happy with the way things are and have my desires to be with other people. I didn't say anything to her because I thought that, well, either we break up or we continue together in monogamy. I haven't thought of an open relationship at that point. I fear for the jealousy that could grow from both sides and that this would ruin the relationship we already have. She says it could make us more loving towards each other, because it would demand constant talk and negotiation. She mentioned over and over again how she doesn't want me to feel bad or to believe this is because I'm bad at something and I believe her, since I feel the same way towards other people and her. We are together for 3 and a half years, we live together for about 2 and a half years. I'm not sure what I want.
Do any of you have something to say about this?
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Don't do it if you have any reservations at all. You have to be 100% certain that it is what you want or it will destroy your relationship.
Also, if she already has another partner in mind thats a huge red flag
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>>17967120
Thanks for the input.
She doesn't have anyone in mind.
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>>17967106
I have only read the first sentence, but...
Bear in mind that she'll get MANY more dicks than you'll get pussy.