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How do you deal with severe depression from the recent end of a 8 year relationship.
Inb4; medication, drugs, alcohol or random hookups.
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>>17968411
Meditation, reading, learning to play an instrument.
Also medication, drugs, alcohol, random hookups.
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>>17968421
Yeah I've been playing the life out of my acoustic guitar. So much so the bridge is separating from the body. But it only helps while I'm playing. There has to be a long term solution.
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>>17968411
I would recommend an acid trip. Whenever I've had tough things in life, I'd drop and reflect.
It's probably changed my life for the best part.
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Roommate is ruining my life 2017-01-18 08:24:13 Post No.17968379
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Roommate is ruining my life
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>live with roommate for a year and a half
>hes totally nuts
>No friends whatsoever.
>takes all of his college courses about environmental policy and gender ethical bullshit, has no focus or point in life, doesn't even know what hes pursuing really
>feels the need to point out a conservative/republican every time he sees one in public, sends me messages on facebook like "This dude in front of me is wearing a WHITE trump hat"
>Has made all of my friends uncomfortable to the point they never come over anymore, mainly because we're either talking about fucking girls or drugs, both things he doesn't believe in
>Constantly talks about his hate for white people, males, etc even though he is a white male
>All he does is watch watchmojo and sjw news on youtube all day, i started making sure to have a movie on right before he came home so he can't watch this stuff
>Plays the same WWE 2017 game constantly in between sessions of watching leftist news
>Also is a pokemon collector
>Constantly talks about his hate for r/theredpill, all he cares about is hating conservatives and "Alt-right" types, I have never seen someone so angry or negative in my life
This is so negative. I used to be vaguely liberal but after living with this kid I have no interest in politics whatsoever. I have never seen anyone so angry or full of hate in my entire life, to the point where living with him is completely toxic.
My lease is up in fall, I want to move to a city nearby and transfer to a university there and pursue psychology. But I'm making jack shit for money and i need to start saving and the city is expensive as fuck.
I feel like I'm about to explode, how do I escape this /adv/? If I don't start focusing all of my attention towards school and finding a new job immediately, come fall, i'm gonna be homeless or still living here. And I can't do another year living with this fucker.
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if you feel that strong move out idiot
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>>17968384
I'm in college and I barely make enough to pay the bills, I got tricked by some shitty restaurant into working as a busser. I can't quit until I find a new job because i'm on probation. I can't find steady work that will work with my school schedule, I also have a lease signed until september. School is extremely important to me, its the only thing that keeps me going at this point.
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There is no saving these people. Run, never look back.
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I have a question for people, of both genders.
Do people feel like a man is "less of a man" if he's gay?
If a man is a typical, masculine, fit person with a fulfilling career and hobbies, but just happens to be gay, do you ever feel like he's "less of a man" in some way? Please just be honest with me about this.
I just can't get over the stigma of being gay. I hate it. I always feel like everyone will think less of me, other men will respect me less, women will think I'm "one of the girls" or something like that. I just want to be a man with a decent life but I like dating other guys, I just can't get over this internalized shame. My family was very homophobic and maybe this just internalized the hatred to me.
Do you think gay people are "weaker" than others?
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>>17968353
I honestly dont give a fuck if you are gay or not. I don't value people by who they stick their cock in. Having said that, i dislike effeminate gays. Thats not because they are gay, but rather because they lack what i consider manly skills such as stocism and self reliance.
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>>17968364
This is exactly how I feel. I'm a manly man and I like other manly men. Effeminates turn me off: if I wanted to date girls, I'd be straight.
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>>17968368
Or you'd be bi.
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How many dates should it take to realize she's "the one"?
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there is no "one" you fucking retard
just pick one out of the tens of thousands of women you could be happily married with and try to make shit work.
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>>17968326
But what if I'm not a romantic like you?
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>>17968326
I've been dating around for awhile. This new girl I've been seeing is more fun and interesting to me than all the other girls combined. It's only been five dates though. I hope this feeling doesn't end.
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i'm going to get my iud removed in a few minutes.
how do i make the first time having sex without protection extra exciting?
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>>17968318
Release a bee into the room
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>>17968332
somehow i have heard that already
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Missionary position, deep kissing and eye contact, say eachothers names and tell each other how much you love one another, don't hold back your sounds, then as things speed up and it begins to reach a climax, go full primal mode and leglock him while looking him in the eyes and beg for his seed, scream for him to put his babies inside of you. Embrace each other and truly become one.
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How do I get a better jawline without using implants?
>pic related
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>>17968259
Chocking on that cock you faggot.
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Step 1: get m80
Step 2: light m80
Step 3: place lit m80 in mouth
Step 4: enjoy new jawline
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>>17968259
/fit/ has some memes about gum and exercises (mewing or something). ask them.
My friend and I need to be somewhere for an upcoming weekend, for a big party on a Saturday.
I'm unemployed until the 30th, but have a bunch of points saved up to fly for free. My friend really wants to drive to save money, but for me, it's going to cost more, and be 10 hours of driving instead of 2 hours of flying. I don't want to spend my money, and a bunch of extra time hungover in a car on Sunday on the way home.
Should I force his hand and tell him I'm flying no matter what, or waste my time and money to do things his way?
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You NEED to be at a party? I find that hard to believe.
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>>17968230
why don't you fly, he drives, everybody wins?
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>>17968239
Well, we're going, let's put it that way - there's a special event for a friend of ours, the party is more what Saturday night is all about, and why I'll be hungover as shit Sunday.
>>17968249
Driving doesn't save him much money over the cost of the flight if I don't drive with him. The round trip flight would be about $200, the gas and car rental about $160. So, I'd kinda be forcing him to fly.
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So for those not looking for hookups..
Dating is dead, right?
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>>17968217
Why in the world would it be?
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>>17968224
Where did I lose you? How do you not know what I mean?
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>>17968217
define "dating"
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Should I worry when the girl says she was about to "call it off" because her friend was giving her ideas? She decided against it at the last second though. We've only been on five dates but we talk every day. I could tell it's getting a little serious.
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>>17968151
Or maybe I'm just being a little bitch and should stop worrying.
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>>17968151
What ideas was her friend trying to impose on her ?
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>>17968219
That she had never dated anyone "casually" before so her friend was telling her she might not be able to "walk away". So the girl in question told me all this and implied that she was just about to end it with me but decided against it at.
my girlfriend was hugging me really hard and told me she wanted to break up with me. I said 'ok' and i felt tears fall on my face. she was crying but trying to hold it in she cried for a few hours. it was the worst feeling in the world. she really loved me and i really cared for her. she asked me to say "i love you" and when I did she started crying even more. she asked me why i wasnt crying and i just told her i dont. but i just burst into tears now. its been a day and she told me to never text her again. the last time i saw her is when i walked her home she hugged me really tight and started crying again. i love her i dont want to see my baby hurt but its too late now.
the unfortunate thing is i really wanted to be with her but she was trying to rush me into marriage. she wanted to end it before her feelings got even stronger. ive never felt this way about a person but whenever I asked 4chan about her you guys would tell me shes crazy and there are red flags everywhere. I know this but I still care for her and can't help but feel sorry. I don't want to see her hurt she loved me and was willing to go to the ends of the earth for me.
I took her virginity and broke her heart. I feel so bad. Should I resist the urge of contacting her?
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How long were you together
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Wait you actually take the posts here seriously?
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>>17968154
a month
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>college
>got a B- in precalc
>needed a B or higher to move into Calc
>advisor recommends I score higher than a 74 on the online math placement test
>out of fear of retaking a course and getting left behind by fellow classmates/friends I used Mathway to check my answers for problems I did on paper and for the difficult questions I had no clue on
>got a 94, A-, on the test
>huge wave of guilt and fear hits me
>can't sleep
I'll never cheat again guys I promise. It ain't worth the pain. What do I do /adv/?
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Look, it would be fucking stupid just because of a B- instead of at least a B not to get further ahead in your plans.
Our school system is fucked anyways and you clearly have the ambitions and skill (imo) to get further. Also, you should not be panicking about cheating in your life, it's just bad when it becomes a habbit. Everyone is cheating, to get further ahead in your life you will most likely have to do some shady or "grey zone" stuff again or you will get trampled by other people or cheated on in life. It's not a cake walk.
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>needed a B or higher to move into Calc
You're soon going to find that they have this requirement for a reason
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>>17968112
They didn't have you take the test in a controlled testing environment? Jesus christ, they kind of deserve to have people cheat.
How badly would you say you cheated? How much of it was "checking answers" that you got right anyway and how many were out and out cheating?
In any case, I would not report myself. That could possibly get you kicked out of school (what is the policy?) and that really wouldn't do anyone any good.
If you want to make it up and be right with the world, instead of turning yourself in, I would spend extra hours each week doing Khan Academy or working through workbooks to get yourself to a point where you would have scored a 94 on that test for real.
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Dealing with shitty travelers 2017-01-18 06:23:15 Post No.17968106
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Dealing with shitty travelers
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How do I deal with shitty travelers or impress upon them the importance of making plans at a reasonable time, especially when traveling with a group?
For the third or fourth time recently, the same two guys have caused a huge headache for everyone by not asking for time off on time, not being willing to book travel or agree on hotel rooms, and act like they're "cool with whatever" until the last minute when they come up with some fucking twist about their new idea, or decide "they're not sure if they're coming."
For example, we're going to a wedding next month, in 15 days. There's literally no more time to waste. Plans are set, they've RSVP'd. I agreed to flights with this guy, and now he's saying we should drive so we can "keep our plans flexible." I don't understand what's flexible about a wedding where 40 of our friends will be in attendance. He's also "too much of a man" to split a bed with someone in a full AirBnB house (or bring an air mattress) but wants to add 5 hours of travel time to save $60.
This shit happens all the time with these two people, but they're our close friends, so I don't know what to do. But they constantly cost me money and headaches because they refuse to make plans.
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Give them a deadline. Tell them that they need to decide by this weekend what they're doing, otherwise you're going to make your own bookings because you can't spend any more time fucking around. If they bitch to your other friends about it, so what? They're the ones who look like idiots because they can't get their shit together
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Make plans without them. Make your plan to be at x location at y time. They can meet you there.
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The problem is, this doesn't work on group trips where they consist of "the group." If everyone is renting a place together, making your own plans means they're not coming at all, because they won't have a place to stay, OR, they'll beg at the last moment to be accommodated, so you'll have six people staying in a place for four, for example.
Plus it ruins things when you want to have fun with the group and travel as a group. Being on the same plane together, or in the same car, is so much cooler than everyone coming in at scattered times, especially from the same place.
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hahaha friends left me haha 2017-01-18 06:19:29 Post No.17968096
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hahaha friends left me haha
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I slowly realised that my friends are not my friends anymore. I have my birhtday get-together tomorrow and a few are not coming because their parents would not allow it- but somehow allow their said daughters to sleep over at a guys place where they drink and smonk w33d well under the legal age.This rift between us happened a few months ago, where my friends found some guy and they startred bringing him into skype group calls, later they add more people- now it is a 'squad'. I would join the calls and always be ignored or talked over- they even went out three times and never invited me; and this fourth time(going to some guys party to drink and smonk weeeed) i still didnt get an invite, but I kept coming back.
I guess I finally ticked-one of my supposed friends started talking to me all of a sudden, something she has never done ever since the 'squad'. She then starts ranting at me about thee group, how she is pissed that they talked over her and ignored her once, and then she asked me to re-invite her into the group chats. So then I ranted to her about how I was treated and she started arguing with me-saying how I don't do anything and then say that I'm 'too smart'(I'm a kid, how can I be too smart for a couple of 17-18 year olds?), which I think she did because she does not like being in the wrong or apologising. I even called out others who 'did me wrong' and they kept coming up with excuses-the only time they talked to me. They still don't interact with me much and I know that they do not care for me- what I'm asking for is how to find better friends or friends at all?
Also, people don't want to be friends with someone who spends all day on the internet/playing vidya and is poor- I don't even drink, smonke weede, have any knowledge of the sexytime, or even have any contact with the Males - which I know that that IS what teen girls want in a friend these days.
tl;dr: my friends left me for another group of friends and I'm too square for people to befriend me.
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>a few are not coming because their parents would not allow it
Sounds over 18 to me.
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I can give you the perspective about this stuff from my point of view. I am 25 years old.
First of all, you are young and one of lifes hard lessons is finding out who your friends are. I think you don't have the right definition of a true friend yet. To really have a true friend in your life, you have to have a lot of luck. It's not easy nowadays and especially our generation turned a lot of people to spineless motherfuckers ditching you whenever feels suitable to them.
Now let's clarify, that you should not become a bitter or misstrusting person. This would be a huge mistake and just make your life miserable in the long run. You will have to learn to differ between "acquaintances" and true "friends".
I had the same problem once, especially when I high school finished and trust me, lots of people have it. Ultimately you will need to learn to focus on yourself and improve yourself in any matter possible. Start reading, work out and work/study to get further ahead in your career. This is what will make you happy and not relying upon other people to make you happy.
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>>17968162
B-but muh frends
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my gf kissed another girl on the lips in her class as part of a dare. she's always been straight and told me immediately after it happened. Should i be considering that as cheating or do something about it?? clearly this didn't change our love for each other but i don't feel very comfortable anymore knowing her lips touched another persons.
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>>17968067
Dude lezzo's are fucking hot,
3/10 bait
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>>17968067
Not cheating I think... but consider she's developing or showing her more impulsive side, guide her OPso she wont ge tin trouble while doing things thinking there won't be any consequences for her actions
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Not cheating if it's with a girl
You should be planning your threesome instead of being a faggot
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Watching porn with my gf was weird 2017-01-18 06:04:34 Post No.17968062
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Watching porn with my gf was weird
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>Watching porn with gf for first time at her request
>We're both pretty horny people, so I'm surprised we didn't do it before
>She takes forever to pick something
>She chooses BDSM, gang banging, and BJ videos
>Not really into any of that
>I try to choose some more normal stuff, but it's obvious she's intimidated by women who are a different color than her
>Find a few videos here and there, but nothing that she really likes
>She randomly admits that she was in a threesome before (guy and girl) but that it was terrible and she insisted she only touched the girl
>I insisted that it's ok if she fucked the guy too, since it was in the past and had nothing to do with me, but she still insisted just touching the girl
>She mentioned never having had sex in public, I have, but I try to not say anything to not hurt her feelings
>Go through categories, she says one outloud incorrectly, I correct her, she gets pissy about it
>She suggests we watch gay porn, at which point I say hell no
>She gives up and doesn't wanna watch porn anymore
What the hell happened? Usually when I try to watch porn with a girl, it ends in sex. This just ended in blue balls for me.
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I love how sometimes girls says things to impress or be in a competition w/ guys (having a threesome) and not caring while men keeps their mouth shut sparing their partner hurt feelings, props to you
The way it seems she wanted to be seen as an experienced/ kinky person bragging how she can take BDSM and stuff... she's a kid triying tu turn you on while having a certain status (or feeling secure) leave this for a while, and don't come back until there's more confidence between you two
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>>17968062
>What the hell happened?
I'd point to
> I correct her, she gets pissy
But don't worry too much about it. Wait a few days, then let her know that you want to try again and are certain you'll find something to agree on, which leads to fun times for all.
Most importantly, be positive.
It sounds like she has some unresolved feelings, hangups, or both. This could be a way to iron them out, if handled delicately.
>She takes forever to pick something
>She chooses BDSM, gang banging, and BJ videos
> she's intimidated by women who are a different color than her
> she still insisted just touching the girl
>She suggests we watch gay porn
Sounds like control/power/rules issues to me. But that's kind of my kink, so I see it in everything.
Focus on what works and what works for you. You can't force her into what you're into, but you can certainly nurture her interest and preferences. Take the long view.
Happy fapping.
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>>17968062
Well, BDSM, gang-banging and even to a lesser extent blowjobs are extremely submissive porn categories, she obviously likes being dominated or at least fantasises about it. If you didn't already know this about her then you do now.
What do you mean she can't watch "normal" stuff because the women are a different colour? Most porn categories have women of all kinds in there. I'm confused.
I don't see why she'd randomly bring up her previous threesome unless she was hinting to you that she wants to watch threesome porn, so there was a clue for you.
The conclusion I'm drawing from your facts (1. She wants to watch gangbangs, 2. She hints a threesome, 3. She insists she didn't touch another guy last time she had a threesome, 4. She wants to watch gay porn) is that she wants to bring another man in for a threesome with you. Is that possible? And when you rejected watching the porn she wanted to watch (and she gave you at least five categories she'd be okay to watch with you) she gave up on it altogether. Sounds reasonable to me.