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>>17969602

no you didn't. humans are conflicted. we all want what we can't have. now you cant have her so you want her. its no big deal., it will pass once your brain realizes she isn't necessary.

the reason we hurt when things change is cuz the brain is trying to create structure, and removing structure (like breaking up with someone) simply upsets it.

>>17969614
Is that some schopenhauer's thoughts ? I like this dude.

But it's my first time breaking up, it's my first time leaving someone I love, implying I loved many people in my life, and I have absolutely no one to turn to, to talk to.

>>17969602
Going through the same thing. Left her less than 24 hours ago.

Feel like shit seeing how sad she was, but I know it was the right thing to do. Stay strong anon.

>>17969574
Child services.

We have made so many reports to DHS that I couldn't tell you how many there are at this point. All 3 of the bio mothers kids were taken away from her, which is why we have emergency custody. But they don't do anything anymore. We just make reports and then they do nothing.

>>17969650
We have made so many reports to DHS that I couldn't tell you how many there are at this point. All 3 of the bio mothers kids were taken away from her, which is why we have emergency custody. But they don't do anything anymore. We just make reports and then they do nothing.

>>17969559
Well she just texted me thanking for the night so that's it for this thread.

I-is this good sign guys?

>>17969576
Yes

>>17969576
Yes but don't get overly enthusiastic about texting

You're 18. Your life experience is so limited in its current state that you should not be giving a fuck about this. Come back when you're 25+.

But what if I can't help doing it?

>>17969598
You're not doing enough other shit if that's the case. Get some hobbies that require bigger time commitments and more thinking than whatever your current hobbies are.

Alternatively you can focus on just meeting people in general. Use Meetup or school clubs. Being social is a good distraction and you might even meet some eligible ladies.

Women are heartless animals

>>17969529
Why do you want to help her, can't she help herself?
You're on your own now, live your life.

>>17969533
yea but we had a long term relationship but im way too nice

>>17969492
>What should my SO be accountable for now? What compensation is fair for me to expect?

wtf ?

the insurance company paid you the $$

and now you want something from your SO ?

are you 2 gay or lesbo ?

i can't imagine a hetero couple asking this

I think you know the answer, you just need to work all this energy out of your system before making a final decision.

Shit happens. It's life. It sucks, but we understand the risks when we take them.

So this was a genuine accident and you lost nothing financially, you are simply suffering from a bruised ego (car of my dreams... pfft) and you missed some time and it spoilt your holiday.

I'd say "look, at first I was kind of mad, I was having to deal with everything and it ruined my holiday, but accidents happen and the insurance took care of it, it was just stressful and time consuming to sort out. How about we move on from this, but I think you should take me to dinner because we'll both enjoy that".

There. Done. Have a nice meal together, maybe get laid, relax a bit and enjoy your 'SO'.

As in literal flagellation? I'd go with a hard no.

Yes, absolutely. I personally also increased my manliness by cutting of four fingers on my left hand with a butterknife. The reason it's four is because on the first three I was still flinching, and that's for pussies.
You might also try smoking excessively so your lungs get more manly and all the trash in there is burnt away.
A manly friend of mine regularly drinks bleach to clean his organs of filthy weakness, but I'm not manly enough for that yet, only once I can wash my hands with boiling water without the slightest reaction.
Good luck to you, fellow seeker of manliness.

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If it pleases the imaginery friend that lives up in the sky.

Sure, go for it. It's 2017, all sorts of weird shit is acceptable.

>>17969452
Yeah but why are you going then

>>17969461
I must to

dude this is exactly my department.

any time you go out in public there's always going to be some sort of insulting, arrogant character that you'll just have to ignore. the method by which you will ignore them, however, is not simple. I'm sure that your 98% number is an exaggeration, but you should really not go if only 2% is actually good people. just ignore all of them and stay positive, and only talk to people that are cool.

During the following months I make her wear slutty clothes, take some photos, record some audios, and such while she fucks thise guy everyonce in a while

One day the guys comes and tell her:
>"You will fuck my best friend and me one of these days"
>She obliges
>Confesses to me she will do anything to keep fucking him
>I let her know she's a big slut and she feels proud about it

The thing is, they never get around to do the threesome

>The friend of the guy fucking her also works with them and starts talking about cheating
>He starts asking her questions if she has cheated and stuff
>She obviously denies everything
>I let her know he's obviously with blue balls cuz he hasnt fucked her yet
>She starts freaking out and doesnt know what to do


Now, I wanna take advantage of this whole situation. I have:
-All of her info, photos, and stuff
-Know everything she has told me about the guy she's fucking, even the profile of his girlfriend

I could blackmail one or both, but I would want that to be the last resort.

Any advice?

Find a new hobby, dude.

This is bored housewife levels of autism. Have you had sex before, OP?

>>17969435

the punishment should be a lack of reward. you want to play your video game? you gotta do X amount of home work or Y amount of chores etc.

the problem here is that it requires some level of intrinsic motivation. otherwise you need some sort of 'master' to ensure you dont just do the rewards anyway

>>17969450
i dont really play videogames that much
the only consistent things i do are 4chan and youtube and i cant use youtube as a reward because i listen to videos while drawing

>>17969435
Only masturbating when you have ticked off everything on your list. Get your brain to associate success with the endorphin rush of an orgasm

Not necessarily but if you have to ask here you most likely wouldn't pull it off.

>>17969414

wait until this Friday then go visit

>>17969449
I searched a little on the school's website and found the guy's extension, should I call now instead of going in person?

>>17969413
Post doesnt make sence. Try again later.

Practice expanding your mind. Like playing a sport, table top games, analyzing book strategies

>>17969413
Dont do it man you have so much to live for

Raped as in - something forced in your anus, or as in - I had sex with someone I didn't want it with?

>>17969406
bum

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>>17969398
Professional help, not 4 chan.

God speed OP.

no one knows really

it's your subconscious working through some shit

The most widely accepted theory nowadays is that dreams serve as a kind of training for what could happen to you during the day.
Dreams Schreams, my man. Ignore it or enjoy it, but stop trying to analyse anything into it.

>>17969415
Sure thing.

It's just that there are good dreams that you want to have again.

Is there something that can cause this?

>>17969350
>>>/lgbt/

>>17969350
Um you want a guy that likes traps? I heard the word trap is bad because people have been killed over it, so put an ad out for very pretty guy or something

Wouldn't you just look for a gay man?

Unless you're actually trying to trap somebody, but that's a pretty dangerous game to play.

This question is confusing.