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>>17970329
What do you mean feel too many other men?

>>17970334
Like she asked for a teenage or religious or innocent type exclusive relationship, but you can tell she's been fucking around in a disrespectful way

>>17970344
>>17970329
are you fucking retarded? because that's how you type...

just say your live in girlfriend cheated on you and still wants to keep your relationship.

Is it your place? do you pay for her life? kick her the fuck out and get a new girlfriend, there's tons of girls that would gladly take her place just based on the fact you have your own place.

>>17970323
Taking one hour or more is pretty weird, if it's consistent. I mean she can't just be busy, but if it happens every single time, maybe she's trying to slowplay or wtv

Sending 3 texts supports the "she's busy, but interested" theory.

Define in depth. No cutting convs?

I feel like that's a decent situation you got there. Just chill and don't send too many texts(plz don't go like "why aren't you responding" or some desperate-looking crap).

>>17970343
she can just be busy*

NEVER try to tell if a girl is into you over text. Girls just use texting only for attention and an ear to talk off. Meet her in person, test the waters, if it's going good, ask her out.

Everyone's definition of worthwhile is different.

Nothing comes fast for normal people.

You want quick and low risk of failure then join the armed forces. You may need to go to war, you may die, but once you're in, you're in.

Take a break year a do a bunch of casual jobs.

At least narrow down the field or what you want involved.

Do I want to work with people?
Do I want to create things?
Do I want to work alone?
Sciences?
Arts?
Engineering?

The odds of the quick and low risk job being the stimulated, occupied, unique and worthwhile job are unlikely.

If you don't want to go to college (and if you live in America, the debt makes it pointless unless you NEED a qualification like Brain Surgeon) online courses, community colleges, short courses, random people in the paper teaching things, they are far cheaper, low committal ways of gaining skills while also sussing out what you enjoy and don't like.

Get a part time or casual job anywhere asap though. Rack up work experience anywhere because it's easier to get jobs if you've already had one (which is stupid)

Don't underestimate the power of connections either. See if your parents, or friends of your parents, or parents of friends know of anywhere.

You're 18. Life is a buffet at the moment so try and grab a little bit of as much as you can to suss out what your favourites are.

Otherwise, join the forces.

I'm 26 and still have no idea where I'm going, I just make sure that I don't stop. Whatever course I can afford, whatever job I can get, it's how I learnt I love being around people, arranging product displays, and coding applications.

>>17970357
I've worked retail and such but that type of shit makes me want to blow my brains out. I'm alright with people. I led a camp teaching little kids how to skateboard for the past couple of summers so I guess I'm relatively responsible. I would pride myself on versitility seeing as I really don't give a fuck about what it is I'm doing as long as it's fascinating or worthwhile.

But yeh I am a burger and the whole idea of the military intrigues and also intimidates me. I just don't know who to talk to about it. My friends dad was telling me about how he was a nuclear engineer for the Navy and that for that type of work they never even consider you for recruitment.

>>17970317
Yes

>t. an old person who works everyday and regrets not going to college

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Hi anon,

I just invited my gf and her coworker up to my place. She's snobby and elitist and my gf is jealous and defensive, but I'm definitely gonna go for the threeway.

Any tips?

>>17970312
I'm more willing to believe this is a result of delusions on your part than anything else

Change majors. Talk to your academic adviser and your parents. Be honest about why you're dissatisfied and about what your true interests are. Take their advice. Do not drop out of school just because you dislike your major. I'm sure your school offers many majors. Surely one of them must be a good fit for you. Just suck it up and try to get passing grades this semester.

>>17970325
>>17970325
If I knew what I'd do I would. I'm 2 years in already. Government are gonna charge me even more if I were to restart in a different major, it'd be best to quit I feel.

I flopped one test and pretty sure the next will go bad. Also to add, my loans only get paid for me for 4 years. So if I switch, I'd have to pay myself eventually.

>>17970310

What are your interests?

Community college, online courses, even ads in newspapers for people willing to teach stuff.

Lets you gain skills. Lower cost and commitment.

But depends on you interests. Like if your interest is Brain Surgery then yeah, stay in school and change to Medicine.

But if it's like, art, or extreme sports or something then seek out like minded people and you'll find something.

But get a job anyway. Even if it's casual checkout person or something. Experience is better than no experience.

>>17970261
Just talk to him and point out stupid bullshit.

>>17970338
That isnt really easy. He refuses to talk about it and will not see reason

If it's very minor and stupid then you could be the bigger person and let it go.

Maybe enlighten us to the BS so we can see what's the go?

Yes. You would want to know if she had one.

Have you already fucked?

>>17970253
Several times and for a couple months. But I use protection and I'm careful to make she won't get it

>>17970262
That's pretty dishonest... in the future you should tell girls upfront along with how you're preventing spreading it to them. She will probably be upset, desu, but the fact that you're using protection softens the blow. After all, people have hookups where there's an expectation that condoms will prevent any STDs the other person has.

The longer you wait to tell her the worse it'll be. Especially since a few months of dating is transitioning out of casual into something serious - this is the best time to be honest. What if she wants to go on birth control and let you go raw? Try for kids? It will eventually come up, best to tell her now.

>>17970226
How long have you been living with her? Did she gain weight or something?

Do you still love her, or do you just not find her attractive?

yes, men are biologically fickle creatures. if she was a super model you'd still want to fuck other women just for the variety

try to get away for awhile, or at least leave the house mroe. try new positions, sex toys etc. anything that will help change it up

>>17970233
I still lover her af
Shes gained a few pounds but she's not that fat.. plus she realizes she got bigger and goes to gym to get rid of it..
Been to together for a year

>>17970191
For my situation it was her, once my gf learned to relax and learned to get into the rythmn of sex it happened. Also it still to this day takes major effort and atleast 20min of pounding, only in one position aiming upwards. So it's probably her mentality and may just be her body.

>>17970191
I could never get my girlfriend to cum either. It took along time until she confessed to me that she was raped nearly everyday by her biological grandfather from age 8 to 14.
Explained why she always laid there like a log staring at the ceiling waiting for sex to end.
Anyways, dropped her incest-ass and been happy and confident ever since.

>>17970222
sorry i left out my main point, that maybe she is a rape victim too. That shits trouble man, find out and get out.

You state your concerns to your parents? I've been down that road of playing a shit-ton of vidya, and I pretty much regret all of it. I wish I could sit that nigga down and tell him how much of my life I wasted sitting in front of a computer screen.

If we shared any similarities, it would be that we play video games because we have no idea what other hobbies to engage in, so maybe hang out with him and do some things together? Encourage him to join clubs or something like that?

>>17970163
I would lay it out that what he's not doing is healthy and lead by example.

If he doesn't want to change, he won't. Then you'll have to let him be and live your own life.

>>17970163
You just described me except I don't play minecraft. I play other games.

expect a massive dump once you are done

>>17970161
I just tripped yesterday, it seems to have become a bi monthly thing.

You should expect fantastic visuals that are out of this world. Nothing that you've heard about acid will come close to the experience. Have a free 12 - 15 hours as it does take some time to reach baseline.
I've been tripping with people only once and it was terrible as one guy couldn't handle it, so Ive been tripping alone at home.
What should you do while tripping?
Enjoy what you see and converse with yourself.

I do it once every 6 months.

Its nice and can be use meditatively.

Even discovered I had some neck problems

Lads please help I feel like a sack of shit.

>>17970143
>having female friends

There's your problem.

>>17970143
She probably has a crush on you or something, you saying her friend was better made her sad, and now she wants you to chase her down and tell her how great you think she is. Saying she got used to it was a play for sympathy, saying that she has a past she will not tell you about is supposed to bait you into pursuing her.
I don't know the context of what you told her, but assuming you like them and were kidding she's just being dramatic and wants you to jump through hoops and grovel a little before she talks to you again.

>>17970100
Admit to it. You'll get off easier. Deny it and you'll be digging a deeper hole

Don't deny it when you have no alibi. A google search provides enough evidence that it happened.

Are you attending a university or high school?

>>17970102

Maybe I can claim that I was inspired by the essay, that isnt cheating (maybe). I mean she cant prove that I have read the essay in any way

>>17970097
you want what you can't have

>>17970097
You like the chase

>>17970097
because you want to chase women not be with them

>>17970088
There's an option so that only people with the link can see it.

>>17970121
yea I know, my goal is like gather 5k subs and then, show them after I won't give a fuck
publishing my videos to the world dont bother me, since I don't know them

>>17970088
why dont you post the video so we can give you thumbs up and views bro.