>see girl at park, school, mall, etc
>chat her up
>get her number
>text for like 15 min at most
>sometime she'll text me another day but at some point she just stops responding
>never hear from her again, give up
>rinse and repeat
how do I stop this from happening?
I have absolutely no trouble talking to people but I guess I just suck in digital/virtual realms. I don't use snapchat nor do I plan to, which seems to make a lot of girls confused or think I'm lying...
advice?
>>18673094
You basically have to suggest a meet up within 5 or so messages
Stop trying to get with strangers?
>>18673115
>virgin
How do I convince her she can do better, /adv/?
>be me
>meet the girl of my memes
>be the boy of her dreams
>she's dating some fag she obviously settled for
Show her pictures of good looking guys.
>>18673064
Photo shop her into pictures with attractive men. She will see these and subtly start to think that she can get with these guys. That will convince her to dump her current bf, or at least cuck him
>>18673064
unless she's being abused, don't mettle in other people's love lives just because you're jealous that Chad's fucking your crush.
Was on vacation in the carribean
>at club
>french girl dances on me
>kisses me
>notice a couple sores
>run to bathroom and wash face/mouth out with soap vigorously
Chances I have herpes?
This was last week
when should i go get tested?
>>18673061
chances are fairly low
get tested? what for?
>medfag
>>18673070
I'm just afraid that it could be simplex 2.
I got a girlfriend and I dont want to give it to her,
i was just really fucked up and didnt expect it to happen.
>>18673077
Well stop being afraid because it's probably HSV1
Even if it was 2, there's no reason you should let it go genital. Just tell your gf "sorry babe, not going to go down on you with this cold sore on my lip... Don't want it to give you anything down there"
Hey /adv/isors. I'm an eurofag who wants to live the american dream but I'm too poor to afford college in the US, so that option is out. The only one is getting a job there and from what I've read they'll only choose someone from outside of the US if no american citizen can do the job. And that is because hiring a foreigner costs a lot since they got to pay for your visa or some shit like that.
So how can I get to live and work in the US as an european?
Please answer seriously.
The American Dream is dead. Just work on bettering the community you're currently in. Most only get work visas here if they are doing important business, in higher paying fields.
Marrying an American is the easiest way to become an American.
>>18673199
Bullshit lad. You failed living the American dream, so you have to be salty to everyone trying to live it. Fuck off commie
How do I ask out a girl who I always see working at taco bell without embarrassing myself ot her and her coworkers
>inb4 just b urself
If you're 100% set on this, probably just hand her a paper with your name and number.
For the record I'm against doing this entirely.
>>18673054
Yeah senpai I'm not doing that
>>18673047
Blow her a kiss and wink each time you've ordered something. Say: how about you show me your taco my belle.
Hey since im in the shit as of now i need a Good advice to turn my life around.
Lets start it of with my economical situation which is down the shitter.
My last job didnt pay me for 23 work Days. So now i have 2 unpayed loans, unpayed subscriptions like gym card, id protection service and other stuff Lets say atleast 50 dollars.
I Also owe my mom alot of money for the rent and i borrowed 180 dollars for another loan.
And in about 24 Days ill have to pay again both rent and loans and stuff
Now as i mentioned my last payments are unpayed.
I Dont have a job and Im depressed. Lol.
Wat do?!
Isn't it obvious? You are to immediately secure a new source of reliable income as soon as possible.
>>18673034
Yeah that is What i need help with.. i have the oppurnity to sell drugs since i have contacts in the business.
But i need a better solution since its to risky
>>18673029
If you have a valid claim for unpaid wages and documentation to prove it you could go to small claims court, but as someone else posted, you really need to get a new job first.
How do I get better at drinking? I can't mix drinks without throwing up and I can't drink anything above 20% without throwing up even from sober. I'm 18 6"0 and 153 lbs.
Why is that guy wearing a bolero
>>18673017
I wasn't I just pulled my shirt over my head to get a body pic
>>18673020
Why not just take off your shirt
Why take a picture like that at all?
Im obsessed with my older sister. Im 27 year old male and she is 31. She is in a relationship and Im really jealous. We used to do everything together as kids. We even had a relationship from when I was 17 until about 5 or 6 years ago when she broke it off. I cant move on to other girls.
>>18672913
Pick up a hobby that involves interacting with other people. Moving on is hard, but pretty much everyone has to do it at some point in their life.
>>18672913
Relationship with your sis ?
>>18672913
Best thing I can recommend is get out more, hangout with friends. Understand that in all seriousness that part of your life is over, and that is okay. So many different experiences shape us in to who we become and I think a positive look on this would be that you perhaps have found qualities in a future partner.
Captcha: Horse Stapleton
I'm in a bit of a dilemma here. I'm going to be applying for some courses in a training service and finally escape NEETdom which I have been in for almost 2 years. I'm 18 btw.
The thing is, I have autism and some anxiety, but failure is not an option.
What can I, a person with no social circle, do to survive plunging headfirst into education after 2 years of isolation? Any help would be much appreciated.
>>18672906
It's gonna be hard, but you can probably pull it off. Having more stuff going on in your life can actually counteract depression and anxiety.
As for your autism, remember that social skills are skills: you can practice them, develop them. The better you get, the easier interaction will be, the way being stronger makes it easier to lift the same amount of weight.
Also, if you can, talk to a shrink. Maybe get some meds, at least to get you through the early rough part.
Good luck!
>>18672906
When you said you have autism, you literally have diagnosed autism or you're just considering yourself a bit socially retarded?
Either way, don't worry, you can do it. My advice is just go for it and do what you have to do, everything else will come naturally.
This coming from a 18yo guy with severe social anxiety and depression. After 3 years being a neet, i just realized i NEED to do something with my life. I'm at college now, taking some courses and sometimes i go out with old friends i've made on highschool. Its really hard, but manageable.
>>18672906
>The thing is, I have autism and some anxiety, but failure is not an option.
Brofist!
>pretty sure gf is cheating on me with someone at her workplace
>don't have enough solid evidence to call her out or make a decision yet
>a mutual friend who we go on frequent double-dates with also works there (he isn't one of the suspects)
>Been contemplating asking him if he's heard or knows anything
>He was friends with her first, whereas i've only known him for 2 months
Is it appropriate to ask him?
>>18672882
Probably more appropriate to ask your girlfriend, if you ask him and he tells her the conversation might not end as well
What makes you think that she's cheating?
>>18672882
If this is who I think it is, yeah.
I've been fucking your girl for a few months now.
Holy fuck man I thought you would have seen it coming how much of a whore she is.
Genuinely don't think im capable, i've been in every situation where I should be happy, but it never happens. If it does then it lasts for very a short period of time. If this is how I am now then I fear for even darker periods in my life. Should I just accept I wont be happy? Im sick of trying. Is now the time for heroin?
>>18672871
>Im sick of trying. Is now the time for heroin?
No sure if genuinely asking or finding excuses for drug consumption.
Last thing you want is an addiction.
>>18672871
What do you think it means to be happy?
Look, man, it's really very simple. You have to be happy with what you have to be happy with what you have.
Say it out loud. "You have to be happy with what you have, to be happy with what you have."
AGAIN!
now, believe it, because it's an objective scientific fact.
>>18672871
Never seen a happy heroin user. How about you go see a doctor?
Hey /adv/.
So every once in a while I'll pick a new board to start lurking and eventually join.
Lately though I've been at a loss for a new one. I'll literally take on any new interest. Any recommendations of boards you tried and stuck around on?
And no I don't do any of that degenerate stuff so porn boards are out of the question.
/pol/ no lie
>>18672873
I've already gone down that road a long time ago. Stopped going on there a few months after Trump got elected because it got wayyyyy too much publicity and is non stop filled with bait and shitty threads.
However, I appreciate the advice anon
>>18672886
/fit/ ?
How do i respond to people asking me whats wrong?
People just want their courosity filed and i dont want to answer them and if i say im fine they keep bugging.
Not pic related
>>18672850
"Nothing..."
Wooooow they stop asking
>>18672850
Wouldn't be so sure. Seem to me like you're having problems an people actually care, how do you know diffrently?
>>18672859
Because they make fun of me and im always witouth a partner in class so i dont really have much to do with them . They started asking after a school trip together to switzerland.
What should a 20 y/o man acquire to "upgrade" his life?
I am looking to spend about $500-$800 on some things before my parents start demanding money from me. So far i spent about 500 on a power rack (weight lifting equipment), 200 on dumbbells, 100 on running sneakers and like 70 on clothes. I want to better myself in every way possible in order to prove myself to the ones holding me back. I know inproving my apperance with clothes and fitness is the first step but is there anything else that is durable and will give me some decent results?
>>18672821
how is your oral hygiene?
do you have a reliable method of transportation?
desu I'd just stick it in a savings account at your local credit union. If you're trying hard to find something to spend it on then you don't NEED to spend it.
>>18672831
I just got fillings actually. Need to work on that.
I take public transport because everytime i ask my parents to practice driving so i can get a license they get nervous and deny me and then turn around and ask why i don't have my license. I was thinking of buying pic related and playing some sim game to do it. My test is in 2 weeks btw and my chance of failing is like 80%
>>18672846
are you within bicycle distance of your destinations? you can get some really good used bikes for under $250
I went through a breakup from my first serious relationship a few months ago and am trying my best to move on from it. I've deleted pictures, messages social media links etc...
The problem is I occasionally get upset about it I get into a frantic mood which is unlike me and end up logging into her social accounts as she gave me her password and never changed it. I always feel like a terrible person afterwards but I'm too weak to stop myself, and I know it's stopping me from moving forward.
I can't let her know (i.e tell her to change them) as we have mutual friends and would be v difficult, but I need to find a way to stop myself in the future or make it impossible for myself to gain access again. I'm aware this is a huge lack of self restraint and I should just not do it but I can't.
Any advice?
>>18672789
While I never went as far as to log into her social media accounts I did continue to check up on my ex's blog and facebook all the time after our breakup. It helped me to use a firefox addon that blocked certain URLs because it made me pause after spontaneously entering the URL and that pause was usually enough to make me realize that checking up on her shit wasn't worth it. It's still hard now a full year later but blocking her URLs was an important step for moving on for me.
>>18672789
Blue board
>>18672904
Cheers man yeh I think that could help a lot, just an extra barrier to be like, this isn't actually what I want to do