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>>17972983
you are a narcissist.

>>17972983
Sorry I'm weird.. I wasn't raised right and my parents weren't ready to have me.

I was severely neglected and the way I interact with other people has always left a bad look on myself.

I really just like to play video games and keep to myself, I'll pay bills on time and just ultimately keep quiet.

But, I do bring girls back once in awhile when you're out of the house. It's been tough since my ex and I broke up. I wasn't always like this, but she she put me back in my shell I worked really hard to break out of before.

Before anyone asks I have no idea what he does for a living.

I have a job which requires leaving very early and sometimes his light is on when I leave (all nighter?).

Recently I had a day off and stayed in and he never left his room the entire time was home. Once when I was driving home after dark I saw his silhouette in the window watching me pull up. I seriously feel like he is monitoring my movements at all hours.

I'm sure this sounds crazy but I swear I was a perfectly normal person before all of this. you try living with a ghost in your house for months and see what happens to you.

>>17972908
Post this every day man.

Make your mom your gf.

>tfw no gf

>You have the lead
>the lead
>lead

Oh god. Theory confirmed.

ask her about it, or if you ever feel that feel where you want to kiss someone, like you get the vibe, you know what i mean, and go for it. Maybe go out for drinks even and confess your love to each other

>>17972917

Last time we got drunk I puked in her car and we passed out in her bed.

>>17972853
I really like square breathing and sketching in my sketchbook; lifting weights and meditating.

>>17972853
nut up and tell myself i kick ass constantly.

i also cut back on caffeine and sugar considerably and starting giving myself 8-10 hours of sleep a night.

>>17972889
this; even though coffee felt good as a routine, it fucked with my anxiety tremendously.

also, unless you absolutely need two jobs, quit one and then find just ONE job to focus your time.

it's easier said than done, a lot of people make excuses like I don't have the time and yet they sit online all day complaining.

make a change.

>>17972800
check into a rehab clinic.
>but ______
just go to a rehab clinic. Google it and go there.

>>17972800
You're 19 and probably still on your parents insurance. Go to a 30 day center then sober living.

>>17972804
I've been curious about rehab.

How will it effect work and living conditions?

I work 40 hours a week, and I still want to have my apartment.

>>17972793
>What do.

that car engine is likely fucked beyond totally expensive repair

your #1 mistake was letting your "friend" do a timing belt install so you could save a few bucks

it will cost you more to fix that car than you could sell it now or even sell it after you fix it

yeah dude just spend that $2 or three grand to fix it on a used car that's more sturdy, you have a hunk of junk on your hands it sounds like.

>>17972793
>buying american
>buying dodge or chevy

Ditch the shitbox and buy a subi or toyota

>>17972787
Any time you find yourself sitting in your room doing nothing, go out. There are a fuck ton of things to do at college, places to hang and people to meet.

Get over your preconceived notions, get out and do shit you normally wouldn't

>>17972787

>22
>havent had sex
>GODS A SADIST FOR MAKING ME LIVE A CUSHY FIRST WORLD LIFE WHERE MY ONLY PROBLEM IS NOT BEING FORCED TO LEARN SOCIAL SKILLS

>>17972799

I tried mate, I tried new styles, haircuts, traveling, working out, even being nasty to women.. I don't feel like it changes anything. Life has it's sore losers, seems I was born to be one...

>>17972737

see a doctor, like a gastroenterologist

zillions of possibilities what could be wrong we have NO FUCKING IDEA

>>17972737
You need a doctor. A million possibilities.

Im in the same boat. Was told to do the yogurt and fibre thing to see if it sorts itself and it didnt.

Doctor thinking i have IBS or Crohn's.

I would need testing because it could also be like 50 other things, it also could be totally nothing except my bowels just kind of suck..

>>17972763
welp, i guess i should see a doc then. i have been eating oat bran and yogurt every morning with no effect.

>>17972733
Wait, so you want to both of you have sex out of your marriage? If so, just meet escorts.
If you want an actual relationship then... Idk good luck.

>>17972733

Thats the issue with polygamy.

monogamy has its issues, and i certainly prefer polygamy, but it allows others for others to get wrapped up in your lives too easily. whats the line? is it only sex? how does a married man go about getting 'only sex'? its hard. and those after sex conversations often lead to more.

the downside of monogamy is that you risk being too suffocated by only having each other

the downside of polygamy is that you risk losing your partner to anyone who might tempt them.

love does not require sex, nor does sex require love, but the two cross paths often.

there is no way to establish a perfect relationship. if you want to explore polygamy this is what you open yourself up to. an equal but opposite possibility to monogamy's flaws

>>17972748
No, I just want him to have more than one wife. I want to be sexually faithful to him.

>>17972682
You can say you're busy or just be straight up and say you like to keep work separate from the rest of your life.

god I hate this, I find it's often people married with children who always want to go out on for a drink or whatever

>>17972696
this

OTOH maybe he wants to fill you in on some really important office gossip

maybe go once & then just explain yourself - i don't socialize i'm a weirdo etc etc

you should probably do the presentstion about something dou are ACTUALLY interested in... who do YOU like to listen to?

Try Kurt Cobain and his famous last microphone

>>17972662
Why do you think you SHOULD do a presentation on a musician? What would you do because you want to?

>>17972642

I feel like you are asking a somewhat specific question in a vague, comedic way.

I'll give you a tip, be more straight forward and matter of fact. While your humor may entertain you, most people can't read your mind and have to pick up the pieces of what you're trying to say.

So, can you ask a more clear question?

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>>17972656
Hi anon,

Why are you like this?

>>17972642
>How can I impress the cool kids from my high school?

lol

you need professional help pal

if you are in your 30s and still have not gotten over the whole h.s. cool shit then definitely something is wrong somewhere

please

>>17972605
What are you even talking about

>>17972619

got laid last night and woke up feeling shitty?

im into this chick but I have an impending sense of doom when it comes to where this is going. anxiety I guess? this doesn't seem normal

It is most likely gonna go to shit. All you can control is your reactions

I feel like that. I'm seeking help. I have PTSD and/or Borderline (if you care about psych diagnosis). I'm too much of a good boy (tm) to actually act on those urges, but theyre an indication of how much pain im in. Violent flashes in the imagination are more common than people admit, though.

>>17972555
Have you tried not being a sensitive faggot?

>>17972594
not op
I bet youre an absurd loser whos contemplated suicide a considerable amount of times

Me. Moved from the east coast to the Midwest after I landed a job at a large company. I drove down with just my Kia and nothing else. Slept on the apartment floor for 3 days while I waited for my mattress to come in the mail, and had a week without internet while I waiting for Google to show up.

That was last year. Shits been pretty easy ever since. Even made new friends through work after talking with a guy, he introduced me to others.

It's pretty comfy senpai. Though I will say I'm super independent and introverted, so that helps.

>>17972478
Just my Kia and essentials** clothes, cookware, first-aid, stuff you'd bring to a long camping trip basically + computer. Bought everything else here.

Moved from Poland to Peru for a couple of years.
Didn't spoke any Spanish, had like $2000 for living. It wasn't in spite of parents, just wanted to take on this big thing.
Saw most of SA, lived life of a king adventurer and met dozens of interesting people.
I kbow it's not necessarily the most relatable thing to do, but I guess moving out within a country is easier