File: 1481940212754.jpg (31KB, 500x689px) Image search:
[Google]
31KB, 500x689px
I feel like all *hot* girls are taken. Now I don't mean they respond with "I have a boyfriend" as a rejection but that I see them out and about *always* with a boyfriend. I'm getting older and I'd rather not waste anymore time trying to find someone. These girls also aren't too loyal with their eyes either most of the time. So is poaching a hot girl from a boyfriend how you have to do it in the big leagues? It seems like that'd be my only option if I want to find someone I want. The girls don't seem to care how much they disrespect their boyfriend.
14 Posts / 1 Images
View this topic
>>
Just lol @ dating someone you "steal" from someone else
You're in your teens aren't you?
>>
>>17974672
No, I'm not actually. All the hot girls have dweeb boyfriends and I'm not settling for a fat and ugly girl.
>>
From the way you talk you sound like a serial killer or just really ugly.
File: FB_IMG_1484466034317.jpg (32KB, 453x604px) Image search:
[Google]
32KB, 453x604px
My boyfriend is disgusted by the thought of period sex, and I try to get him in the shower and convince him but he always says no. I'm horny as fuck and my bf won't fuck me.. He gets really agitated if I press him.
Is it reasonable for a guy to be this way? My periods are normally light and they go completely away if I'm in the shower.
We have been together for 3 years now and I'm pretty over this shit. He also almost never initiates sex. Might be just stressed because we moved to a new state a few years ago but c'mon man. I love the guy but it's physically feels frustrating to me to the point where I'm slowly starting to develop weird fetishes online. It needs to stop
45 Posts / 1 Images
View this topic
>>
>>17974628
mayb he thinks ur ugly ;)
srry girl but it's most likely the case
>>
>>17974628
You should respect him and his wishes for not fucking you on your period. Maybe you both just aren't sexually compatible or even compatible at all together.
>>
I'd be more concerned about a period that's that light. Something ain't right with you, girl.
File: IMG_1952.jpg (3MB, 4032x3024px) Image search:
[Google]
3MB, 4032x3024px
I've been taking the meds and talking with counselors and have felt ok but lately I've been having mixed feelings and thoughts of just ending it again. What should I do? I feel too ashamed and stupid to tell my support system. I'm supposed to be "better."
15 Posts / 1 Images
View this topic
>>
Don't do it. Whatever you're feeling is seriously in your head.
>>
Suicide is surprisingly often a side effect of antidepressants. You should just come out about it, there's no shame in it.
>>
>>17974618
But I'm tired of it. It's been like this for years.
>>17974620
What the fuck? Seriously? What's the point of taking these damn things if they can do that??
Anonymous
Does my mom think I'm gay? 2017-01-20 06:26:08 Post No.17974589
[Report] Image search: [Google]
Does my mom think I'm gay? 2017-01-20 06:26:08 Post No.17974589
[Report] Image search: [Google]
Does my mom think I'm gay?
Anonymous
2017-01-20 06:26:08
Post No. 17974589
[Report]
[View this topic]
Closeted gay dude btw.
Kinda eh, on everything but just wanted go get some people's take on something.
Was visiting my parents recently, got into a conversation with mother and grandmother prior to leacing to hang out at a place with some people.
Grandmother says "Why are you so happy to go, are girls going to be there?'
Mom replies with "Why would he care iif girls are there?"
I'm incredibly straight acting and I dont know what she meant by this..
I dont know if she would think I'm gay, she did find a bit of straight porn on my computer when i was 15, although it was tbf, mostly blowjob or dick oriented.
Kinda looking back she used to be a lot more vehemently anti-gay but she's really cooled down over the past 5, although maybe its because her gay hair stylist.
Probably overthinking it and freaking out too much.
But so you think she knows?
13 Posts / 1 Images
View this topic
>>
Why don't you just ask? Isn't it exhausting to act like someone you're not?
>>
>>17974615
Kinda scared to..
>>
>>17974652
Yeah. It's scary as fuck. Is she super conservative or something?
File: kid commits suicide for being bullied.gif (842KB, 350x260px) Image search:
[Google]
842KB, 350x260px
I'm so obsessed with this girl it's insane. It's gotten to the point where when she hangs out with her female friends, I get scared she's a lesbian. She's given me no indication of this, but I'm just so scared of someone else being with her. Whenever I see pictures of her on Facebook I feel like throwing up. I hate this, and I hate myself for feeling like this. I love her, and she deserves someone better than me, but I need her.
I guess I don't know really what I'm asking. I'm just feeling really down tonight and I need someone to try and straighten out my problems.
19 Posts / 1 Images
View this topic
>>
>>17974431
Sounds like you need to go outside
>>
My bf is like this with me. I love the attention and clinginess but sometimes it gets exhausting. I used to be this way but time heals everything bla bla
You are insecure OP. Work on this. Have a little faith, trust your lady. I know it's hard as hell but it gets better and easier in time. Baby steps. Just try not to over think yourself and worry to death. Just a little trust goes a long way. She is with you for a reason anon. Remembering that is key
>>
Stop being so paranoid, ask her out or something at least if she rejects you, you can stop obsessing over all the imaginative dick she's getting
File: 1394017799590.jpg (64KB, 620x778px) Image search:
[Google]
64KB, 620x778px
I feel like my life has just completely stalled out at this point. I'm just dead in the water. I have no ambitions, no goals, no plans. Lately I've found myself unable to get excited about even things like games and movies, so now I have nothing at all to look forward to. I can't keep going like this.
How do I get myself out of this rut and get some drive back? How do I figure out what I actually want to do with my life?
8 Posts / 1 Images
View this topic
>>
>>17974410
depression ?
>>
>>17974415
Well, yeah. I am depressed and I know it, but that's not likely to change any time soon. Every day I just put on a happy face, go to work as if I'm not dead inside, and hope nobody finds out.
>>
>>17974434
see a doctor get a physical get TSH blood test for thyroid problems can cause low energy - mention your complaints to doc
see a shrink get diagnosed they have those "happy pills"
exercise diet yada yada yada
volunteer at homeless shelter ?
i give up
File: 1406076010536.gif (1MB, 258x193px) Image search:
[Google]
1MB, 258x193px
>house has a front gate door
>father insists that it's always locked, for security
>I think it's pointless, as it requires a key to open from the inside, thus making it inconvenient to leave the house
>it also forces postmen to either leave packages outside the gate or chuck it over fence
>I tell him this but as with anything else, he either ignores it or gets angry
>I'm the only one who leaves the house through the front gate so I usually don't lock it
>he "caught" me once and now I have to do it to keep the peace of the house
>another package comes, guy leaves it right up against our garage door
>father comes home, opens garage, tries to close but doesn't notice package is right there
>garage door nearly crushes package as well as breaking, it closed but now it won't open anymore; his car is stranded inside until we fix this
>he insists I pay for the cost of damages
Who should pay? The unlock vs lock debate has been going on for years now.
31 Posts / 1 Images
View this topic
>>
>>17974409
your pops is paying the bills for your dumb ass
his $$ = he is the boss
don't like it ? move out
end of story
>>
>>17974418
I'm not moving out tomorrow buddy, this doesn't solve the problem at hand
>>
>>17974426
>this doesn't solve the problem at hand
it does if you had a clue, why can't you just do what pops says ?
believe it or not, someday you will move out and be paying your own bills & surprise you will want to be the boss
if you ever have kids try to remember what you did when you were younger, it's awful
Anonymous
Red hair... destroyer of sex lives? 2017-01-20 05:12:11 Post No.17974393
[Report] Image search: [Google]
Red hair... destroyer of sex lives? 2017-01-20 05:12:11 Post No.17974393
[Report] Image search: [Google]
File: redhair.jpg (25KB, 201x492px) Image search:
[Google]
25KB, 201x492px
Red hair... destroyer of sex lives?
Anonymous
2017-01-20 05:12:11
Post No. 17974393
[Report]
[View this topic]
I'm a Male, 33 years of age.. who has had red hair since day one, but hasn't had sex for probably six years or so. Aside from the single person I slept with while I was married, I had a few girlfriends in high school, but never slept with any of them (issues with anxiety, confidence, being a nice guy, people pleaser ... etc. Its gotten much better over the years.)
I greatly desire to have more than the single sexual relationship I had, but I've always had this hangup with my appearance, and the thought it may be seriously hindering any chances of attracting the opposite sex.
I don't have freckles on my face, some light ones on my arms from daily sun exposure. My hair has darkened and isn't the shiny copper color it once was (some friends say I could pass for dark blonde now). I'm a decent looking guy, working out to improve my physique (5' 10", 185 lbs and steadily dropping lbs) . Had glasses for about 10 years but don't wear them anymore. Aesthetically speaking, I'm putting in effort.
Any effort I put forth still doesn't seem like enough when I read statistics like this though-
http://www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/dr-raj-persaud/redheads-psychology_b_1911771.html
Are women really that averse to red hair? Sometimes this gets me down, not to the point where I'd stop improving improving myself.. but I really question if the root of the problem lies in something I can't change.
I'm just wondering if I'd really be wasting my time trying to approach women, and maybe follow my colleagues' advice to visit Thailand or Vegas instead.
Should red-haired guys just not bother?
20 Posts / 2 Images
View this topic
>>
>>17974393
depends if they are attractive or not. if you post the rest of you we might find that you're generally ugly even with brown hair
>>
>>17974400
That's not him
>>
>>17974402
i didnt mean to say that was him, im just high on codiene right now, thats clearly an attractive red head and not OP
File: alone-time.jpg (32KB, 600x354px) Image search:
[Google]
32KB, 600x354px
I'm really hurt whenever my boyfriend says that he might need time alone on the weekend. Like every other week he does this, and I end up feeling insecure and crying all week (literally every day). He ends up seeing me on Sunday - it's like he tells me this ahead of time though to make me suffer and see how emotionally attached I am to him to make HIM feel more secure about himself. But I don't think he's doing this consciously.
If this were just some random guy, I would have broken up with him. Like I said, this makes me sob for days at a time, whenever he messages me and I'm reminded that he doesn't want to see me. But when we do see each other, we spend this lovely time, cuddling and hugging and fucking and video games and baths and everything, and he tells me how much he loves me almost in tears - from genuine gratefulness and emotions that he feels in that moment.
How would you guys deal with a situation like this? Should I just adapt to how much (little) time he wants to spend together? Should I emotionally manipulate him (in the nicest and subtlest possible way) to want to spend more time with me? Or should I break up with him because it's hurting me too much?
101 Posts / 3 Images
View this topic
>>
>>17974342
you should grow up. he isn't saying 'you suck stay away'. hes saying he wants some alone time. most people want alone time. the fact that it makes you cry is pretty silly.
>>
>>17974342
Uh girl, this is Stage 5 clinger behavior. Let your boyfriend have his alone time. He's probably an introvert who needs to 're-charge' after being social. Don't make his totally normal human needs about you. If you need to be with someone 100% of the time hang out with other people.
And don't emotionally manipulate people, it's rude as hell and not a thing you do to people you care about. Christ.
>>
you grow the fuck up is what you do. some guys just want to be left alone once in a while. being around other people ALL the time can get irritating. it has nothing to do with you personally.
File: pepetales.jpg (100KB, 500x585px) Image search:
[Google]
100KB, 500x585px
I find zero joy in things I used to love.
I used to work in graphic design, but became very disillusioned with it. I had to move back in with my parents. My girl left me. I don't know what to do. I feel like such a failure.
I just don't care about anything anymore.
15 Posts / 1 Images
View this topic
>>
Stop living with parents
Having your own place is an aphrodisiac to girls
>>
maybe you could take a walk and think about what you want to do with your life now. Figure out where your interest lie.
>>
>>17974338
I want to get back into design/illustration, but just the thought fills me with dread.
File: Thinking-face.jpg (10KB, 250x298px) Image search:
[Google]
10KB, 250x298px
Hey guys
I've never posted here but use frequently. I've seen how helpful y'all can be so I'm hoping I can get some help.
I've found myself in a position where I think someone will try to find me/where I live. How hard or easy is this to do? I live in the UK and am on the electoral register. Freaking out that they'll catch up with me soon and it's not someone I want back in my life.
Any help would be greatly appreciated
Thanks /b/ro's
11 Posts / 1 Images
View this topic
>>
Who are they? What do they do? What kind of company do they keep?
I need to know competent they are before we can answer this question.
>>
They gamble high stakes on horses. In terms of company they keep I don't know them that well. But I've been told they know some "heavy's" I.E Guys that will hurt you for a price. In terms of competency I'm pretty sure he isn't a wizard on the computer
>>
>>17974337
Im guessing you owe them money....
File: 1341621299444.jpg (43KB, 600x600px) Image search:
[Google]
43KB, 600x600px
Who here has been to a music festival where you camp on site, like burning man. If you don't have a group and are going alone, is it as fun? I am an outgoing person, but I'm wondering if it will be difficult for me to get by alone and without a group of people for camping and stuff.
11 Posts / 1 Images
View this topic
>>
>>17974296
as fun? probably not, unless you find groups of friends to be annoying. worth goign? possibly, depends how much fun you're willing to have on your own and socialize with others.
i go to clubs on my own, which isnt quite the same, but i prefer going alone than with friends
>>
>>17974296
I only really go to festivals with people so I can't really say too much about going alone, but the last festival I camped at I ended up spending half the time with the people from the tent next to ours. If you're fairly social you can try to interacted with people in neighboring tents. In my experience people who camp at these things tend to be pretty friendly. That being said though I've only ever gone in groups, and therefore have only really socialized with people initially as a group. If you want to meet people though it might be a good idea to get there early on so you can get a good spot and have time to introduce yourself to the people next to your tent.
>>
>>17974296
It's damn scary going alone, main reasons I don't go or talk about those anymore.
File: wallhaven-132.jpg (635KB, 1920x1200px) Image search:
[Google]
635KB, 1920x1200px
Need a quick bit of advice. I'm getting emotionally attached to a girl I just started dating, but I'm not sure if she's right for me. Now I'm just scared.
>be me
>handsome, great shape, have decent car and decent apartment
>incredibly depressed for the past 12 years, shit social life/social skills likely have aspergers (according to last therapist I saw)
>have been single for 3 over years, almost no emotional/intimate connection in that timespan
>use my looks to get dates but women quickly lose interest due to my terrible social skills/depression
Now onto my concern...
>recently gain back confidence and find a reliable way to alleviate depressive symptoms
>suddenly find myself with a big re surge in my dating life
>been on two dates with girl, pretty face but didn't see her body until the end of the 2nd date when we had sex
>find out she's overweight. i'm just simply not attracted to her body at all, sue me
>still want to see her, but part of me will always feel like i'm settling
wat do? At this point in my life I feel like I have gone so long without intimacy or companionship that I should just go for it. But I suspect that if I don't break things off now, I'll be too afraid of hurting her later. This girl is a total sweetheart and I like her for her character very much, but I don't have the heart to tell her that her body is unnattractive to me...call me shallow I don't care but the reality is I can't control what I'm attracted to but I'm already too attached to her that I'm not sure what I should even do.
25 Posts / 1 Images
View this topic
>>
>>17974211
Don't settle
Try to break things off as politely as possible and don't mention the real reason why
>>
>>17974217
I'm a super blunt and honest person, but I refuse to ever tell a girl the truth in a situation like this, I don't know how I could come up with a legitimate reason because I really like her personality.
It just fucking sucks because I had already started to get attached before I saw her naked. I've enjoyed being single for the most part and I don't need women to "complete me" but without some fucking intimacy in my life real soon I'm just going to fall into another depressive rut.
>>
>>17974211
I don't think a girl is worth settling For after two dates
File: winston.jpg (197KB, 720x400px) Image search:
[Google]
197KB, 720x400px
I've been lifting consistently, doing cool hobbies, working and improving myself physically and personally yet i still feel like a fucking insecure autist.
What do
10 Posts / 1 Images
View this topic
>>
>>17974145
fake it till you make it
you're almost there pal
don't stop now
>>
>>17974166
This.
Take five minutes a day to tell yourself audibly how fucking cool you are. I'm srs.
What hobbies are you doing?
>>
Go a few towns over, go to a diner or small restaurant, try to be friendly with waitress. If you splerg, who cares you'll never see them again.
Anonymous
Alright girls I know you lurk here 2017-01-20 02:42:38 Post No.17974023
[Report] Image search: [Google]
Alright girls I know you lurk here 2017-01-20 02:42:38 Post No.17974023
[Report] Image search: [Google]
File: 1482357028886.png (734KB, 593x580px) Image search:
[Google]
734KB, 593x580px
Alright girls I know you lurk here
Anonymous
2017-01-20 02:42:38
Post No. 17974023
[Report]
[View this topic]
Are you actully comfortable in your body actully being a girl
Im a guy and logicly i wouldn't ever want to be girl, but how the hell can you feel safe and not even do the minimum to work out and get some damn muscle
103 Posts / 21 Images
View this topic
>>
File: 1480922356196.jpg (74KB, 682x1280px) Image search:
[Google]
74KB, 682x1280px
>>17974023
>Are you actully comfortable in your body actully being a girl
Yes
>Im a guy and logicly i wouldn't ever want to be girl
Because you're a guy. Your male logic is incapable of understanding what its like to be a woman the same way my woman logic is incapable of understanding what its like to be a man.
I feel perfectly safe. Men feel powerful with muscles and raw strength. Women find comfort and power in other attributes. I don't need to be hulked out to be confident in my ability to use common sense and intelligence to keep myself safe. Thats the difference between being a man and a woman.
>>
File: Screenshot_20170118-005845.png (2MB, 1440x2560px) Image search:
[Google]
2MB, 1440x2560px
>>17974047
I see girls try to manipulate people
But any man can still do that.
At the end of the day its about who has the power, no matter how much you manipulate, you still have to ensure you can physicly defend yourself.
How about this angle, HOW do you feel so comfortable as a woman
>>
>>17974023
I like being a girl. Dressing up in cute clothes and feeling pretty is nice. I'd imagine life is better as a girl if you're more attractive. I'm 6-7/10 on a good day, life would probably be great as an 8-10/10.
I can build muscle easily thanks to my fucked up hormones, so I feel safe. But I don't live in a shithole, so I'm never really in a situation where walking down the street will result in someone trying to rape/mug/murder me.