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>>17976788
/fit/ here. Why the fuck would I careNo one caresabout you or me in the gym. No one. The jacked dude bros are focused on their workout. That's why they look good and you don't. So you should go there and focus on your workout too.

Dude you don't even need to go to a gym to get fit. I spent the summer st the ocean and used a sand pail as my weights and the sand itself as resistance. I gained five lbs of muscle weight. Use what's around you. Do some research. Gym memberships aren't necessary. Seriously.

>>17976822
I don't know I just feel like they'll see me using shit like 1lb weights and scoff and say shit to me about it.

>>17976839
Yeah I tried to do the whole "work out at home" thing but I never got the motivation to do it more than 10 minutes. I want to get out of the house to do it so I don't have any excuses to slack off. Plus I have a buddy that owns my local YMCA so I have a free membership anyway + trainer for a couple days.

>>17976786
I think this is fairly normal. I am 29 and still have random dreams about a relationship I was in between 15-19.

Are you currently in a relationship?
Are you happy?

I think in general it is a sub-conscious way of missing the feeling o being loved and happy and not necessarily the person themselves.

>>17976813
Thank you for replying to my shitty thread!

>Are you currently in a relationship?
I am.
>Are you happy?
I am.


>I think in general it is a sub-conscious way of missing the feeling o being loved and happy and not necessarily the person themselves.

Yes, I guess so. He did give me infinite love and was just an amazing person overall. It didn't work out because we were both headed in different directions.
I don't think it's healthy for me to feel pangs when I think of him or hear about him though. Is it?

>>17976820
Probably not, but I would look deeper into why you are feeling them and not necessarily for whom. Clearly there is something you miss if you are feeling pangs.

"It didn't work out because we were both headed in different directions."

If this were true he probably would have made attempts to reach out to you. If he hasn't then this is just you romanticizing the past and making the pain softer for yourself. I've done the same thing so I know we tend to see our ex's as more glorious than they actually were the same way we tend to remember people who passed away as better than they actually were. It is less painful, but it can also cause problems like you face now. This is just my opinion and input though.

Same girl but her boobs aren't covered by the skateboard.

>>17976761

you're fine. if you're worried change it, but she was amused she seemed to ahve a 'boys will be boys' mentality. if she was offended shed have no problem saying so.

>>17976770
But if she was offended do you think she would've been able to legally get me in trouble?

>>17976746

kinda. but it can also be a bonding experience imo.

i was at a wedding earlier this year and before the ceremony as we all got dressed (groomsman) we began talking about masturbating and we all shared our habits, paritcularly about how to masturbate in the shower, have we used conditioner as lube etc.

it was fun.

I don't think so unless you're not that close.

>>17976751
Aw shit that does sound fun, but only in very few circumstances.

>>17976711

nope. because 1) the picture is really fucking blurry and 2) you didn't tell us what issues you are having iwth them

Cuck knees

Stop standing like you have a dick up your ass

Yeah they look normal to me...?

>>17976704

bring up sex. then ask her about her fantasies, desires, what she likes. then pry deeper. than share yours.

have literally never met a girl who didnt like those two things. just start out gentle and if she reacts well, go for it

>>17976714

Pretty much this.

Just do it but start small then build up based on her responses

>>17976670

no

>>17976670
>>17976674

wait, yes! go to outer space, the lack of gravity will decompress your spine giving you almost exactly 2 cms depending on how compressed you are.

>>17976674

Not even a way to "fake" it? Aka, improving posture due to yoga or stretching exercises?

t. 170cm and 20, growth plates closed.

>>17976663
cover your body with curry powder, she wont be able to resist

>>17976731
hahaha nice one but shes westernized

>>17976663
>how do I coerce a woman who's trying to get her job into a situation that could get her fired

Please just leave her alone.

>>17976656
try finasteride and/or minoxidil for about half a year or so, and if that doesn't work just accept it. Your skull looks normal so you'll be fine either way.

look in to stem cell hair growth.

>>17976673
>cuckservative ran country
>science

wew lad.

OP, just pray for new hair bro

>>17976654
Half your age and add seven. If your partner is below this number youre a pedo and should fuck off to double-o-chan

half your age + 7 is the general rule. that age and higher is A okay.

>>17976654
Personally I go two years older or two years younger, any other number is an odd generation gap.

>>17976635

>it seems uncanny to randomly go up to them

do you know what uncanny is?

>i refuse to use socially acceptable ways to meet women

then just go up and talk to them

>>17976636
>uncanny
strange

>then just go up and talk to them

How do I do this without seeming like wanting a date or anything? My techqniue is usually to get to know them but isn't strange that a young man is trying to talk a young woman out of nowhere?

>>17976644


adjective
1.
having or seeming to have a supernatural or inexplicable basis; beyond the ordinary or normal; extraordinary:
uncanny accuracy; an uncanny knack of foreseeing trouble.
2.
mysterious; arousing superstitious fear or dread; uncomfortably strange:
Uncanny sounds filled the house.


not just strange. im thrown off because you're using it in a way that uncanny isn't really used, on a hypothetical, when its generally used more on scenarios that have actually happened. like oyu can't just say 'that person is uncanny', if you catch my drift. or 'doing that is uncanny'. its more used to describe something that has happened taht you can't quite explain, something that feels like more than coincidence

>>17976607
>how do i know if it's really safe to proceed?
If you care about your job or your friendship, don't.

>like maybe I'm reading too much but I think there's something going on between us if we're going to eat lunch very often and I haven't head the boyfriend word (only ex-) for the past few months.
Friends do this, OP.

>And even if by miracle I do ask her out (i am awkward as hell though), how the hell do I pull through if I've never partied.
Why do you have to party?

>>17976621
>Friends do this, OP.
but do friends casually touch someone else's hand

im confused and awkward. i'm the epitome of an anon considering i've been here since i was literally 12

Sort of same boat in that a co-worker that I like always stares at me and finds amy reason to talk to me. She also extends her arm for me to hold her hand and she lets me hold her as if we're actually a thing when we're not.

This has been happening for about three days and I haven't asked her out because (even though people say not to take social media seriously) she always follows single guys on Instagram. I mean, don't know what she wants, but I do know what I want but at the same time I don't want to bring it up because we aren't going out.

>>17976600
I'm sorry, OP. Hang in there.

Sucks man. Just let things work it's self out.

>>17976600
My grandpa was diagnosed of cancer m8. What sucks is that he lives far from me and I live in the U.S. Hopefully, everything goes well with your mom op. Take care.

>>17976596

if you don't have any self control over what to talk about on facebook than you can't really be that much better than them now can you

Mentally walk away.

>>17976596
>How do I resist the urge to talk politics on Facebook?
Choose your battles wisely. You have to realize that sometimes your opinion won't change people and move on. Especially for people like that like to censor and dogpile--they'll just make you feel bad. Half of my family is like that, so I tend to just vent to people that like discussion.

Stop initiating

either cut the bullshit and move it to face-to-face or stop communicating with her.

She initiates more in face to face. She is also flirty on text so i want to text her but i feel like i start the text to much