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How does one seek a therapist? 2017-01-22 04:44:34 Post No.17980003
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I've finally come to terms that I need help.... Not sure if I have insurance or If I do, not sure if it covers it. Any tips?
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>>17980003
I'm in the exact same position as you, I know I'm fucked in the head, but my head won't lead me to help I need others to guide me
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>>17980025
It's not that, I just usually make things more difficult than they really are, and I don't trust women what so ever, even if they haven't done anything. I know some of you ppl consider this smart, but I don't wanna end up alone due to being traumatized. I wanna be able to enjoy life, and live it. Not be in a small world, being so negative and depressed.
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>>17980044
Well all my life I've been depressed even since middle school, as I got older time separated me and my friends, I literally have 0 friends irl, only friends I have are in online video games I've never even had a gf I'm 20 fucking years old I just want my life to change but I've no clue what the fuck I'm doing
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How do you cut contact with a girl who
>Is in your friend group
>She texts you nearly everyday
>Hangout with a group with her in it at least once a week
>Have a conversation nearly all the time about random shit
I can't handle being her friend anymore its too much of an emotional rollercoster and its starting to hurt me alot.
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>I can't handle being her friend anymore its too much of an emotional rollercoster and its starting to hurt me alot.
Don't cut contact immediatly and literally tell her this. Try to work things out first, or at least explain to her why you're cutting contact.
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>>17979968
I can't tell her this, on top of me not having the courage to do it I don't want things to be super weird if I ever do get the emotional maturity to come back and be her real friend again. Over time I just started to get more and more corrupted and its ruining me. I don't mean just instantly drop her, she means alot to me and I couldn't bear to do that but she has to go.
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>>17979968
Also she is in my main friend group and I don't want the other guys knowing about all of this lol
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When I was younger I was diagnosed with depression. I went to some classes at school and after a couple of years my teacher told me that I'm fine.
Now it's even worse.
I'm a pathological liar with no personality and interests. The only thing I really want is people's respect, money and fame. I want to be idolized, that's the only thing that keeps me going. I talk to people because if I didn't everyone would think I'm weird. I talk to girls and try to fuck them because that's what I'm "supposed" to do as a 20yo male. I fucking hate parties, but I still go to them and fake being happy.
I'm also a little bit narcissistic, which makes it even worse. I'm supposed to be the best man around, yet I barely manage to be decent. I'm capable of doing great things, but I have no idea why I can't achieve anything meaningful. That makes me want to fucking kill myself, because maybe if I did it in a really gruesome and spectacular way someone would notice me.
And at the end of the day are my friends, who think that they completely understand me and think that I'm a really happy and energetic person who loves their life. They got me into smoking weed, but I don't enjoy it at all. I never feel happy or relaxed, it always makes me anxious as fuck and I behave like an autist while high.
I'd try to get help, but I'm too scared. I'd rather kill myself straight away than let a psychiatrist look at me with pity in the eyes. And I'm really scared that they would label me as an absolute psycho who will never recover. I like telling myself that everyone goes through hardships like these and I'm going to behave like a normal person in a year or two. I've been telling myself that for over 5 years.
What the fuck am I supposed to do?
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Shameless bump.
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Learn guitar, pretend to be a stupid commie, and take advantage of the inevitable anti-Trump punk scene. Then when you get a platform you can try actually making good music.
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>>17979955
Trust me anon, I've a mood disorder and I've spoken with psychiatrists and therapists and they never looked at me with pity in their eyes. I was scared as fuck to talk with them but, you know what? It's been the best decision I've ever made and I'm still seeing them. It goes against every fibre of my being to go to my appts and take my meds but I'm actually doing better. It's not easy and most I still sometimes feel suicidal. But there are also now days where I genuinely feel better and enjoy myself. God and see a professional even if you're scared. You might need to talk with multiple professionals until you find one you respect and who respects you. The point is to care for yourself and make sure you're healthy. You're worth it anon.
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Didn't expect to be Jealous... 2017-01-22 04:09:53 Post No.17979920
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Didn't expect to be Jealous...
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>Have best male friend, hes 27 and I'm 24
>He has tried for the past year to try and date me, but I've always brushed him away
>He never seemed to mind
>I'm currently dating someone else anyways
>Went over to hangout with him yesturday after class
>He was making dinner, "Hey anon, is it weird I went on a date with a girl who is only 21. Really enjoyed the date and she wants to go again. Just thought I'd ask."
>Never really expected him to date anyone, hes an introvert lawyer who spends all his time at work or playing video games.
>For someone reason an intense feeling of jealousy have come over me
>I don't like him, its just...I don't know.
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You should maybe suck his lawyer cock like the little undecisive whore that you are.
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>>17979920
You're dating someone else, it's irrelevant.
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OP is Jealous because she just wanted to use him for his beta bucks once there was no one left to ride.
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I suffer from several minor mental disorders that don't keep me from theoretically getting work but make it a complete bitch to do so. I've currently enrolled in a course run by a charitable organization that teaches people how to become a competent office lackey with the goal of them becoming economically self-sufficient. I'm not paying for it but I'm also not being paid for it. I found out that my aunt's husband is a plumber whose firm has a ladder system where helpers can become journeymen if they work hard enough, and start out at $10 an hour. Frankly I don't know what I want to do with my life, but I like working with my hands, but I also don't like jumping across rooftops even if the building I'm standing on is burning. Not two months ago I was a hikikomori debating the afterlife risk-reward of just ending this life and rerolling for another one, but I ended up that way because I can't fucking make decisions for myself.
Are there any words of advice that relate to any of this that could help me in any way?
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Alternatively tell me I'm an idiot. I most certainly am.
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Do plumbers spend any time jumping across rooftops? Why are you connecting those two?
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>>17980090
I'm trying to create a metaphor describing the feeling of engaging in a radical lifestyle change that would do permanent damage if fucked up. Do you have a better rhetorical device I could use?
I was introduced to a guy by a mutual friend, and at first I disliked him somewhat but now we're best of friends. He's said I'm the person closest to him and I feel the same really. We're bros.
I developed a crush on him, we joked about being more than friends. He's held my hand before as a "punishment" for a rude joke I said. Stuff like that
I'm afraid of dating him because I don't want to fuck up. I can't lose our friendship. But I want to be close. I'm a broken person and not good at relationships and have no idea what to do
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Just take it slow.
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>>17979905
Fuck off faggot back to /lgbt/
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>>17980658
I'm a girl
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Hey /adv/ Little problem
I decided to have sex for the first time with my girlfriend. Im a virgin. I have a really big penis about 7 or 8 inches and really thick. So I tried sitting down and having her sit on it, the thing is she was saying it hurt her when it went in half way. What do /adv/?
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>>17979846
Easy bait. Gotta try harder than this anon
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>>17979846
Also she later wiped down there and blood came out.
She wasnt super tight either
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>>17979846
Extend her vagina to the point that she can take it all.
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Need help with bulimia 2017-01-22 03:09:02 Post No.17979805
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I am a 24 straight male who has been going through bulimia episodes since 18. I usually binge and purge once a day, and just makes me feel depressed all of the time. Any advice on how to stop? I really enjoy working out, but I feel like bulimia is really holding me back in attaining healthy fitness goals. I am ready to quit this and move on with my life.
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too vague of a question. if you aren't specific people will just scroll past your question. you need to tell us your weight before and after doing that. your current mood while doing it, ie. do you hate your self? any specific traits you're thinking about while doing that? were you bored? is it a systematic habit? did you learn this from anyone?
can you think of any alternatives to do when you hate your self? to avoid destructive behaviors you can mimic them without actually doing them. for example for someone who wants to cut their arm they can paint their arm red instead.
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>>17979815
I wouldn't say that I hate myself at all. It is more like an addiction to food and desire to binge eat once I start eating bad food. I can usually go along pretty well until I eat something unhealthy which is a tipping point to make me start binge, and I just feel like a have to purge after I binge. I am usually around 175 at 5'10, I dont really weigh myself too often because I dont change in weight that much because of how often I workout that usually balances out the unhealthy eating. Just feels like I have plateaued in my lifting numbers and running since I binge on unhealthy food then purge.
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>>17979855
Usually an addiction signifies some sort of imbalance/unhappiness/need in some aspect of your life. Sounds a bit hokey, but I've always found it to be true.
How's your life? And be honest, don't just blithely say "ok". You binge and purge. There's something wrong somewhere and your subconscious is trying to cope.
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There is a girl that i really like. We both went to the same high school, she always gave me flirty signs and i knew she liked me. Now, both of us in college i make advances but she is shy.
I know for a fact she likes me but i am simply too autistic to be flirty or intimate with another human being.
last date which was a week ago we wont went out to starbucks, went well. Good conversation, good body language. Except later we got into my car and literally i could hardly talk. My autistic tendencies came out, long pauses, robotic tone, no humor or sarcasm. She literally began telling me how i needed to calm down because i was so tense and i should laugh at myself more. To be short the date became cringe and i was the one to blame.
texting her she is still slightly flirty but after being pushy with her to hang out she told me not to text her until she texts me.
I know she finds me attractive, shes told me. But she has also said things i say are cringey and off putting.
WTF do i do. I cant do shit anymore. I fucked up because im too autistic. Help anons, how can i come back from this.
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What are some of the cringey things you have said?
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For example when we both got in my car to drive away from starbucks i said. Listen you can trust me, im not going to try anything on you. I wouldnt hurt a fly.
this was to show her that i meant it and i was honestly dangerous
also. I told her if she wanted to go to a motel to netflix and chill, being an idiot i thought this was a good transition from our conversation to being flirty. I was half convinced she alread wanted my D. except i was wrong
I let her belittle me about some of my personal flaws
fml
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>>17979799
The worst part is that there was a point where she was telling me about all the guys she has slept with and I just listened with a boner on the entire time wishing I was fucking dead. I practically had the ball in the court but couldn't make the right move.
I don't know what to do anymore is it over, or can I still come back from this
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Any way to fix this?
I dropped my phone while it was charging and the thing just bent
I have to hole it at an angle for it to charge
It was fucking 20 bucks at Walmart it can't break that easily
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>>17979782
You say that, but it sure did. Shit happens.
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>>17979820
Yeah but can I fix it?
If not I'm gonna go back and shoplift another one because I didn't get my money's worth
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>>17979827
it's not Walmart fault you broke your charger
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Is it wrong if I went to a club and had lots of flirtations and nice dances with girls but didn't bring anyone home?
(I am a bit drunk and lonely and have social phobia, just reply anything and I'll be happy)
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What mattered is you actually went. Everything is good but the execution. Well done anon
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>>17979758
Only if you wanted to bring one home.
Do whatever the fuck you want.
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Thank you thank you. There was actually this girl who was all over me. Kept touching her and she was happy af but. Oh well, missed the chance. At least I had TONS of fun wow people there is actually a way to have a blast out there! Thank you for replying brother
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Virgin with a virgin girlfriend here. We've been playing around but neither of us can work up the confidence to initiate intimacy. We're close enough and been together long enough and we've expressed interests in each other sexually but there's a gap when it comes to figuring out how we seduce each other. Personally I'm held back by being scared that she isn't really ready yet and if I force myself on her she'll accept it but won't be comfortable and I really don't want that. Any advice?
Also this board has alot of lonely loser threads tonight. Lonely Saturday?
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>>17979670
Im gonna bump this for Op becuase I'm kinda in the same boat
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>>17979670
Communication is key, OP. Just talk to her. She'll let you know if she wants you to stick it in.
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>>17979670
What's so hard about getting in a bed and slowly touching/kissing her all over.
It's not like you have to tell her "alright, i'm initiating coitus now, spread your legs". Just go with the flow
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could someone help me with my math problem im tired and i want to go to bed ;/
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you're a retard if you don't know how to do this
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>>17979655
If you really need help go on /sci/ and go to the stupid questions thread
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>>17979678
The answer is - 2x. Go there for the process. In short, you'll subtract out the x^2 and be left with the - 2*(x+h) term from the polynomial. Taking the limit gives you the answer
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so im a 28 year old guy who lives with his parents
ive had some shit happen to me, mental health issues, its been rough
I have a college degree and am looking for a real job
i current have a part time job making about 1000 a month take home pay
A friend of mine and his girlfriend are having some money problems, so they offered me a room for 400 a month all inclusive
I just feel like this could be a really great opportunity to finnally grow up and move out of my parents place and really make a change in my life
But im a little weirded out about living with a couple,
anything i should look out for , im really thinking of pulling the trigger on this
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>>17979628
i'd say stick with your parents until you get your life straightened out, ie. better job or college
what will moving out do for you ? it will cost more and always there will be roomate hassles even if they are minor, share the kitchen ? who does cleaning ? are you at home lots of the time ? etc
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Know about the shit health issues, don't hold it too long as it slows you.
Bless you if you got a job cause I would kill for 50 bucks. Seize the opportunity to live your own life, love your friends and just leave them do their couple stuff unless they want to enjoy your company. Roommate life can be weird but roommates aren't tough even when you blast hardtekkno at 3AM, rather funny
The question is: can you still live at your parents at 28?
Yes
Unless they/you want them/you fucking dead in which case I advise you to firmly attach your balls and start being a man right now.
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I didn't start feeling like a man until i moved out of my parent's at age 21
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Ex No Contact and Masturbation 2017-01-22 01:29:58 Post No.17979600
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Ex No Contact and Masturbation
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Okay so here is my situation.
>Date girl for four years
>Break up a few months ago
>Since then: 12 hookups, countless dates (mostly Tinder/OKC), two short term GF's, one long term FWB
>Currently single
The problem is I'm doing no contact and things are going pretty well. But my ex popped up on my twitter feed a couple days ago after she looked at my snapchat story and was tweeting stuff about missing me and wanting me.
I realized it was unhealthy for me to still be following her so I unfollowed on all social media.
The problem is those tweets I saw get in my head. I kinda got excited, DESU. There's a slight chance they could be about someone else, but 99% sure they were about me. We have friends in common and they told me they were about me.
They urged me to contact her, ask her out for coffee. But I think that's a bad idea. A few months ago I asked her out twice and she canceled at the last minute, told me she's not ready, and called me on my phone and caught up for a few minutes.
Since I already got stood up twice, I am pretty positive it's best for me to stick with no contact.
But here's where it gets complicated: Jacking off makes me forget about her completely, and it's great. But I don't like jacking off everyday and I think porn is unhealthy, but porn helps a shit load too...
So my questions I guess are A: Should I contact her if she's tweeting about me?
and B: Is it alright to jack off to porn if it helps me get over my ex?
Thanks.
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>But I think that's a bad idea
and youre right.
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If I don't give a shit about a girl after I jack off, then I know it's just my dick playing tricks on my mind and I should stay away from the bitch.
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>>17979609
Very true, but the thing is the apathy only lasts about a day. I try to not jack off that much because I don't want to drain myself, but it seems I get "ex thoughts" daily and the urge to jack off to remedy that is a common occurrence.
So I guess what I'm really asking is jacking off more than usual + porn an effective method to get rid of "ex thoughts?"