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>>17982612
Don't bother.

People are brutally honest when they are drunk.
Take what you want from that.

Don't waste a time on a girl you don't like though.

She wanted you to plow her.
She's probably a bitch to you normally because she's a child and hasnt learned to express affection

Break up with her, she doesn't respect you.

Her "well i promise i'll cut him off IFFF YOU ASSKKKKKK" is a way to manipulate you into feeling guilty.

It doesn't matter what she's saying to him, I assume this is a recent ex and she knows it makes you uncomfortable - but she won't actually stop until you demand it, making you the Bad Guy.

>>17982557
There's nothing wrong with keeping in touch with your ex.

My gf's exes come over all the time and workout together. Usually when I'm at work so I don't have to meet and there's no awkwardness

>>17982557

Well, first advice, tell her it makes you uncomfortable.
Second advice, examine why it does. Do you fear she's going to leave you to go back to him? Because he was abusive and you don't want her to experience that again? Cos you think he's manipulating her somehow?
Third advice, be truthful to yourself. If you're jealous, you're jealous. Trying to hide it, hoping it'll go away is about the worst thing you can do. If you would feel better if she stopped all conversation with him, say so. It'll be better in the long run (though, if she ever brings it up, run).

>>17982550
>Will I lose points for still living with.my mom

Yes, women you're going after can meet guys with their own place.

>>17982550
i have a similar problem i live as a tenant and have the basement to myself but its working out to be more of a family thing because we get along well, and knew eachother before the arrangement, and im young (20) and theyre not (50 ish)

how do i get them to stop parenting me and how do i bring girls in?

>trying to get ass as a man
>not being perfect in every way and a free meal ticket
Lol good luck.

>>17982500
calories do not matter. eat real food. (i.e food that you can tell what it is, non process shit)

>>17982500
Imagine you have asian parents being ashamed whenever you start binge eating. Imagine them saying things like "your brother is in shape and goes to the gym" or "trying to make money as a sumo wrestler in 2017?". You get the point just try not to dissapoint your proxy parents.

this sounds like an emotion/trauma problem more than a bad habit

outside of therapy, the only solution I can come up with is limiting access. You can't eat a family size bag of chips if you don't own one. Go grocery shopping once every day or two and just buy what you need, no more. Don't eat out and don't eat processed/premade foods; cook for yourself only.

>>17982495
meditation

when you finish, maintain mindfulness of the breath

when you drift to sleep, you should somehow be aware youre asleep

then the mind will create the dream fantasy, if youre mindful you can do whatever you wish in your dream fantasy. Always remember the breath when shit goes south (it shouldn't). The breath is your anchor to reality and the present moment

Take a hit of LSD before you go to sleep.

I've extensively attempted lucid dreaming and I've become convinced that 95% of what people say online about their AMAZING lucid dreaming is just made up bull.

>>17982471
How is your day going, OP? Are you excited for Fire Emblem Echoes?
There, answer those questions and you've talked with a somewhat nice and boyfriendless girl.

>>17982498
My day is going somewhat fine, anon. I'm too stupid to stop caring about this female friend of mine who's had a fight with her boyfriend, expecting something to work out between us. God damn it.

As for FEE, I'm not really excited at all.

Also as far as I know, anons be genderless.

>>17982498
j?

>>17982471
just keep trying. the more you talk to the better youll do.

Could be a low blood sugar and you're diabetic.
Does any of this sound right?
feeling very thirsty
passing urine more often than usual, particularly at night
feeling very tired
weight loss and loss of muscle bulk
See a doctor. I was getting the tired one a lot, and feeling lightheaded/poor vision as you do.

>>17982393
I work at a ff restaurant and have actually even gaining weight. Never been checked for diabetes. I drink at night so passing urine at least once in the middle of the night I thought was normal. I drink and go to bed by at least 9:00 to be up by 5 for work and get off at 2

>>17982393
Been gaining weight**

>>17982345
just love her and try to help her through her pain. you dont need to 'fix' her but being there for her can really do alot. i know her side of it and i know its not on purpose. do more things with her that arent just chumming it out.

t. a guy who lost a girl cause i stopped listening to her.

She met a new guy sorry op

>>17982480
Approves that message.
Bitches ain't shit but hoes and tricks.

If you're used to masturbating it might take a little time to get used to the feel of sex. You're probably also both rather clumsy. Keep at it and relax and it'll work out in not long at all.

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I didn't cum my first time either. Just keep at it and don't stress so hard over actually cumming. Enjoy the moment and things will flow naturally

>>17982279
Not at all, you're just used to one thing (your hand) so now that you're getting something else it's just not what your dick is used to. Lots of guys say they had trouble finishing the first few times they had sex.

>>17982273
Have you spoken to a doctor about this?

>>17982273

Son, doctor, now.

Just out of morbid curiosity: Where the hells, exactly, is the skin-tearing happening? The tip of the foreskin? The base of the head? All along the shaft?

>>17982306
base of head.

Yeah doctor suggests circumcision but says I'd just have more scar tissue to worry about (more tear chance anyway) and says that the adult surgery is very dangerous.

just look at templates and examples on the internet ya dingus

>>17982253
you are implying that I didn't already do that.
and that would be wrong.
I also went to my University career center to ask for help and all they did is give me templates and examples,
they don't give a fuck.

>>17982281

What else do you want? Just fill in the blanks.

>>17982193
>I've always read getting an English degree is like throwing your money away
>I just want to use my brain
Well, then start now and stop listening to people who say stuff like that. If you enjoy it, do it. Otherwise there's no point.

>>17982193
Like other anon said, do what you like to do.

Don't pick something because it's "safe", "easy", or "pays great". If you find something you actually like to do and supports you financially, you're set for life.

>>17982193
A branch of engineering could be better for you. Still sitting down and solving problems, but more practical than programming.

Or possibly economics/finance, more sitting down and brain-heavy problem solving, but a bit more theoretical than practical. English would play more of a part with economics than engineering.

That, or writing. You can try freelance but I hear that that's incredibly difficult nowadays unless you write erotica; so I'd say a solid career choice and writing as a hobby that could develop into a career.

>>17982170
Why are you all over Chad like that?

>>17982174
He's not a Chad at all

>>17982170
what was the note

That question answers itself once you achieve it.

>>17982163
But I have another Question; I seem to have lost a lot of desire of things: can this be dissociative disorder/depression/some schizophrenic thing I don't know and I'd rather not fucking label them as such.


I just don't understand what there is to do- and I understand what you meant, but my mind is still clouded

You clearly haven't reached nirvana if you have to ask.

>>17982020
Readings and assignments.

>>17982020
Check out student life office for clubs meetings and events. Pleb.

>>17982031
>>17982020

The kids in the clubs are younger than me, I'd feel out of place.Thank you for your suggestions though.