Have any of you deleted your Facebook?
I bought into the hype a couple years back and have a lot of cool people added as friends on it but I never talk to any of them and i'm starting to think it isnt worth it to support what's basically an analytics company.
I've deleted it about 6 years ago. Never regretted it. You won't lose contact with the people that are worth it
>>17997496
Pros
>social media is cancer
Cons
>lose connections with people you don't care about but might need later
>may be out of loop on certain parties or events
>sometimes people from long ago will hit you up on Facebook
>>17997509
"You won't lose contact with the people that are worth it" kek
If you live your entire life in a small town I guess
I moved countries once and mainly have friends who don't give a fuck about social media of any kind, or spend much time online for that matter
They still all had facebook because there were class groups we shared notes, events and homeworks on.
Had I deleted my facebook I would have lost contact with them. They barely use that either but there is more reason to visit the website often than if it was just me emailing them.
So we rarely chat there but wouldn't miss a meeting with each other because one of us hadn't check their email or someshit.
Keep in mind they don't use other chat or social media apps. But still good friends of mine.
Facebook is used for it's convenience.
You can always use a fake name if privacy bothers you. If you don't add a bunch of normies and get into arguements with strangers nobody will report you.
sup guys, my gf left me two monts ago, i was working really hard and studying at the same time, meanwhle she was cheating me with her ex boss.
i also found that she was cheating me the whole 2016, we had 3 years together before she left me (and when she did she did not explain me why, she just left me, i found later that she was cheating me).
im trying to forget her, but its hard and i also feel cheated, used and betrayed...
any tips you can give me so i can overcome this?
Dismiss her as a slut. Take up a hobby, ANY HOBBY. Preferably lifting, but anything will do. Even vidya
>>17997488
poop in her mailbox
>>17997488
Honestly, a good beating should teach her and make you feel better. But we all know you can't do that.
49 year old guy, married 25 tears
5 great kids
varied background
have succeeded, failed, won, lost, been right, been wrong, and hopefully at least know what not to do.
Offering advice
>>17997451
self-bump
What would you say is the best way to be successful if you find yourself spiraling downwards
>>17997483
Self-discipline and a positive attitude.
A spiral down is usually self-fueled.
Details?
9 months and the pain is still here. What has changed is that if earlier I accepted the pain as a respected, maybe even essential, mourning thing, now I just fucking hate this pain so much.
The void she left me in......... I feel like the emptiness and darkness just drowning me from the inside.
I used to be such an happy person. Fucking fuck. fucking fucking fuck
Yep, welcome to hell. If you're lucky things will get better in a few years.
>>17997536
We should stop bringing new people to this world.
It's immoral to put creatures into this kind of nightmare if we can not to.
>>17997447
The best (only) way to get over a girl is to get a new one.
You can't appreciate that at the moment, but it's true. Focus on getting a new girl, don't talk about the old one, and you'll be fine after a while.
I'm getting braces soon, I'm almost 19 and I'm a bit shook that it may negatively affect my face.
Do I have anything to worry about?
>>17997404
Yes. You have to worry about how people will treat you when they see a 19 year old with metal stitches running across his teeth.
Braces are ok. I had to deal with it for almost 10 years ans now I have beautiful teeth. It's worth the shot, even if it's a pain in the ass.
>>17997409
Talking about the structure of my face
I'm gonna be moving out for the first time with three other people. I want the master bedroom for no other reason than "big room good". The only girl roommate wants it because she doesn't want to share a bathroom with boys. I can easily shut that argument down, but I don't have a better one. No kids, but both of us have a respective small dog. How can I ensure the master bedroom?
>>17997388
Offer to pay a bit more rent than everyone else. If it's a bigger bedroom and a private bathroom, this is literally the only fair & reasonable way to settle this
>>17997388
Pay the deposit and be the one with the account who the rent and other bills are pulled from. That's what I did. It sure is a pain in the dick tallying the bills at the end of every month and getting all three accounts into mine. But having the master is nice. I fucked my chick on the bathroom counter once lol
>>17997395
>>17997396
What if offer to buy the groceries and cook? I'm good at cooking at this would also give me domain over the kitchen. Would that be convincing enough or is more rent really the only way?
Is there a drug that curbs feelings? I have anxiety and for 3 months the antidepressants to fix it made me suicidal (cipralex).
I now have a girlfriend who I like, but I got in that relationship to forget about a woman I cannot get (was my best friend, now we're stangers because I admitted to her my attraction), but I am starting to realize it is not making me any more happier and the suicide thoughts are starting to come back. Is there a drug that makes you.... Feel less?
>>17997379
>taking the pharmaceutical jew
Go to a fucking therapist you pill popper
>>17997379
Try dissociative drugs (?) Should disconnect you from your emotions. Yet, it would be healthier to visit a therapist
>>17997479
...Especially if you feel suicidal. Better seek help asap
Where do you keep the butter?
>>17997308
My family has always kept it in the fridge which drives me crazy. My SOs family keeps it in a butter container outside the fridge which I prefer much more.
>>17997350
is it supposed to be kept outside of a fridge? i never even knew that was a thing. my parents [along with everyone i know] keeps butter in the fridge. pls explain im very curious
>>17997354
It doesn't go bad unless you barely ever use butter and you don't have to wait for it to thaw to do anything with it.
I've been on Tinder for a while trying to lose my virginity and maybe start a relationship but I'm not getting anywhere because I'm a young ass man taking shots in the dark. Anyway I've gotten tons of matches, two dates and no cuddles, so I'm capable but just a noob.
What I want to know is
>how to set up my profile properly
>how to tell how dtf they are
>start and maintain a conversation (this is the hardest part, I can't understand women or the shit they chat about to save my life)(I heard acting like a retarded Chad that chacks up at everything might help)
>red flags to avoid (how crazy is too crazy)
>where to take them on a date and what to talk about
>how to ask for sex if it gets to that point
>how to behave during
>what happens next
>anything else I need to know
If they're on tinder, they're ALL dtf. You just have to be pushy because girls are too much of a pussy to just say it themselves and think that by not 'putting it all out there' in text, it somehow erases the fact they're on a fuck app.
>>17997236
Is this true for even the feminists and "Jesus is my best friend" gals? Kansas City is a weird place, not quite north or south, a conservative-liberal melting pot and it reflects in the women.
>>17997276
I'm actually living in KC now. Like 80% of the girls on tinder have bullrings. What's up with that?
But yes, even the uber Christian girl-next-door country gals are super promiscuous. In fact I'd say they're the more kinky ones. You just gotta go in there thinking they're thirsty
Brain disease that general population is too stupid to notice?whst do I do nobody believes me
>>17997219
Ask the next gaian malahore about Kinect. Dumbledore will answer your question.
>>17997219
>>17997343
Wtf is going on here?
Op you think you have a brain disease?
Yes brain disease ,memory loss,bad grades,personality changes
Hi guys
I've been dating a guy for about 8 months now. And in the beggining he was really sweet and all. It changed over time and I know that it's normal. But lately I've been feeling really unhappy. He won't say sweet things to me anymore because he doesn't feel like saying them. He's been distant, he says that he needs more space in this relationship. And I get that, but I don‘t feel happy and don‘t know how to change that. I don‘t want to break up with him but also I don‘t want to make him feel unhappy with my neediness. I don’t know if it’s my fault and I’m just too needy, or maybe we need different things and it’s we’re not getting them from each other?
>>17997185
also, we tried to talk about it. And when I asked him why was he so different in the beggining (we used to kiss a lot, now we don't kiss anymore, because he doesnt like it, it's usually just me kissing him) he said that it was different in the beggining because he was all about making me happy.
When I put this into words, it seems like he just doensn't like/love me anymore? And he's just waiting for me to break up with him? Even though when we talk about our relationship he says "let's both of us try harder" but it just doesn't work somehow.
How do you spend your free time/what hobbies make you happy other than him? If you are always with him and rely on him for happiness then yes, you two need time apart to be alone and learn to become comfortable and happy in solitude. If you do plenty of other things and have other friends, but your dissatisfaction is purely contained to the boundaries of your relationship, then you should talk to him about how you feel he's been getting distant, provide examples to him of things he's done which come off as apathetic.
>>17997197
Yes, I really think that I am relying on him for happiness... But I can't manage to enjoy my solitude without going to this other extreme - not needing/wanting him at all. And if I do that, once again, both of us are unhappy again. How do I fix that? Or I'm just too immature for a normal relationship?
I'm a flat-ass gril in a bootyful world, what do?
Squats
>>17997184
Have a vagina and you will be just fine.
>>17997187
Like regular or with weights?
Turn and look the person in the eye while continuing to jack it, and say 'Golaccio!'
>>17997180
Pretend it never happened.
My sister has caught me probably 4 or 5 times jerking off. My neighbor caught me too.
I just pretend it never happened. Everyone knows people jerk off, There are thousands jerking off at this very moment. Someone is bound to get caught at some point.
It's life
Are dreams your subconscious telling you how to handle certain events in your life or is a dream just a dream?
I used to give no thought to dreams at all, but then I dreamt about how someone I love was lying to me and exactly what they were lying about and hiding from me, so now I don't know what to think.
I dreamt last night that I met the perfect girl. She loved me and I had never felt so happy. Then it turned out "she" was a trap, a faggot in a wig with a tiny cock. I felt sick, betrayed and humiliated. Whats worse is I had already kissed her and bragged to all my friends about how great "she" was.
Woke up and I've felt disgusted all day. The dream simply proves that I've been spending way too much time on 4chan.
>>17997177
Dreams are your brain dumping the leftover emotions of the day, using whatever symbols it finds lying around in your memory. So, for example, if you were under a lot of pressure today, it will dig up some previous time you were overwhelmed, like perhaps a school exam, and you dream of that to get rid of the emotion.
So dreams are always about the dominant emotion, and not the plot or characters, which are almost accidental. The dream about a trap described above was not about sex, but about something during the day that led to feelings of having humiuliated yourself in some way.
"Musics everybode now the chorus but don't know the name " Edition
I really, REALLY need some new tunes to listen to. Youtube seems to keep looping the same songs to me over and over again even if I'm logged out, and I'm struggling to find new stuff to listen.
I prefer 80/90's songs and rock of any kinds but heavy metal and similars, but anything goes really.
I'll start:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GIzDsGyxsQM
I'm sure I've heard it years ago and luckly stumbled on it. The chorus is very familiar to me but I can't remember where do I know it from...
>>17997150
here's some Polish
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0do4WCk8Ye8
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4-OBu1nHwI4
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6sDqEhud8c0
and some English
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S6vSPk9i584
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5-GYMAFITbY&index=3&list=RD9yYW2DhaJEA
but really you know there's /mu/ dont you?
>>17997161
>but really you know there's /mu/ dont you?
>pic related
I never visited every board, maybe it's about time. I just saw a similar thread here for sharing movies and tought I'd do the same for music.
>>17997150
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s2oVSwflClQ
The meaning of this song is pretty fucked up.