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How can you hurt a person you're fighting with? I really want to compete in fights, but I can't understand the psychology of fighting for sport.
How can you hit a person hard if he didn't do anything bad to you? If I hit a person, he gets angry at me, doesn't he? I did a bad thing by hitting him, I shouldn't do that.
I feel like no matter how strong I could be, I would still lose because I wouldn't want to hurt a person, especially knowing he will want to hurt me too.
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Hitting other people in competition has nothing to do with hate. I mean it can, but really it's all about the joy of fighting and for the art. I love a good fight. It is the best place to practice what you preach and to improve yourself. So the joy of being able to try out all my tricks is what gets me into it.
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>>18677003
Well what about the feeling of being knocked down? Do you feel resentment towards the guy who pummeled you? I find it hard to believe you don't experience negative emotions when being hit.
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>>18677090
It's a game, and unless it's street fighting there are no stakes. There's about as much of resentment as losing a board game or videogame. Unless the opponent is a shitbag or disrespectful, which is rare considering nearly every gym teaches humility.

However if it is a street fight and it IS life or death there is no more important skill to learn, that purpose drives fighters with a sense of value, and it can be addicting like any other hobby.

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So I was walking back to my room from eating dinner, when suddenly my dad told me to give him my phone, he caught me off guard and I turned and asked why, he proceeded to backhand me as hard as he could and I fell on the floor, I lifted my hand off my mouth and it was covered in blood. What do I do? (Pic related, an hour after he hit me)
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get revenge on him by fucking his wife imo
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>>18676738
Suck his dick while he sleeps. He'll wake up with a bloody cock and freak himself into a heart attack
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just tell everyone it's a cold sore.

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>tfw I literally don't have the balls to live life the way I want
>feel like I have to read shitloads of boring old books or else people will call me a pleb
>feel like I have to go through SICP even when I find it boring
>took me over 6 months to grind through Nicholas Nickleby and the Brothers Karamazov- they were boring as fuck
>procrastinating reading great expectations- halfway through and it's boring as fuck

I truly believe that my tastes reflect much more intelligence than some stupid "literary intellectual's" citation circlejerk idea of brothers Karamazov having "profound insights". I feel like I will always be trapped in to reading stuff I am told to read even though I believe that boredom is an incredible bullshit detector.

It's so demoralising to realise that women have everything handed to them with preferential treatment and career success is 99 % networking, fitting in with normies, being judged by normie committees, and bullshitting. How can anyone give a fuck? It's near impossible.

I wish I had the type of autism that let me work on one thing for 10 hours in a row. I resent my lack of will to do this.

Coffee ruins my sleep and therefore gym strength. I will have to give it up soon and what will I have left to do when my main hobby is sitting around in public to feel less alone, drinking coffee, browsing 4chan, feeling sad about life? Barely anything.

>when you randomly make eye contact with a woman and she has that blank expression and you know deep down she is thinking, "Ewww, he's not Chad, get away from me creep!"

I read history books on my phone on train rides. I'm not sure whether this "efficiency" of reading in spare minutes is dehumanising or smart.
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>>18676702
It called craving a path. Find a way to make the mundane fun. You have to be flexible in your approach when takeing on a goal. Find different pathways
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>>18676702
>feel like I have to read shitloads of boring old books or else people will call me a pleb
Who's telling you to do that? If reading is making you miserable then stop, for your own sake. And that doesn't make you weak.

>It's so demoralising to realise that women have everything handed to them
Stop feeling sorry for yourself and do something productive.

>when you randomly make eye contact with a woman and she has that blank expression
The fact is, it's just eye contact. Stop making assumptions.

I think you need to make some lifestyle changes, because it affects your mood (esp. sleep and exercise). Stop drinking coffee if you know it's ruining you.
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>>18676702

you have a very skewed view of women , i'm sure some chic likes you but you probably don't find her attractive.

You need to re-evaluate what you know and not become the condescending intellectual that supposedly knows everything and annoys everyone in the room. You need to be more open to things. OPEN UP TO NEW SHIT.

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I have mild acne on my face as well as acne on my shoulders, back and even my chest and stomach a bit. I shower and wash my face properly everyday and I use "ant-acne" soaps, I've tried a few products to but nothing ever seems to get better or make a difference. I have no money to see a dermatologist and it seems like there's so many different options and advice out there that I have no idea what will actually work and what won't. I just want to stop feeling disgusted by my skin, what do I do?
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no dairy son
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Moisturize after every time you wash your face.
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>>18676704
No dairy at all? I don't get this one. Are all the people with normal skin just boycotting dairy too?

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Just a few minutes ago I went downstairs to take my pills for a skin condition I have. My dad usually stays up late to watch TV and stuff, but as I opened the door I saw porn on his computer screen before he abruptly turned it off. I pretended not to see by feigning yawning and acting like I wasnt even paying attention to the screen but I have no idea if he knows I know. I don't know how this will affect our relationship and I really hope he doesn't act on edge around me. I used to think my dad would be the last person to watch porn. How should I act
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>>18676683
Seriously? Oh no your perception of your dad is broken. Realize he's a human to bud. You watch porn right. Everyone pretty much watches porn.
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If he wasn't watching gay porn or animal porn, it's ok. Everyone ate every age watch porn XD
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>>18676683
>Oh no my dad watches porn, what do I do?
How do people like you survive

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My boyfriend of 5 years doesn't like fucking me anymore.
He can't get hard with me like he used to.

What does this mean, /soc/?

Am I ugly?
Is he cheating?
Does he hate me?

Sincerely,
Insecure Bitch
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Maybe he's just bored, try out new stuff
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>>18676660
Post a picture. Face and body.
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He didn't join the no wank club. What? You don't think porn kills love, baby doll?

Any fun or creative ways to successfully get an ex girlfriend back?

I'm a male 26 with a good career, hobbies and keeps himself in shape, I've been successful in dating many women but after I've broken up up with an ex I've never gotten back together. We usually never talk again.

I managed to get a girl with 90% of the qualities I want, but after a two year relationship we broke up. It's been less than a month and I've decided I want to keep this girl in my life. Without focusing on the details what can I do to get her attention, her respect and her attraction again?

I'd be happy to clarify or answer any questions needed.
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>>18676659
The only way to get an ex back is by going no contact. I guarantee you. And if she never contacts you while you're no-contacting her, then you know it was the right decision to split ways. Simple as that anon. Trust me.
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Kind of in the same situation.

Pretty sure 99% of what I feel is being lonely. Just go no contact for another month or two. If she messages you, probabaly a good sign but dont text first.

Atleast you have a job to take your mind off it. Im getting fucking sick of videogames.
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>>18676671
I trust you, but to put my mind at ease can you clarify why?

It seems if we go no contact she stays unattracted and nothing changes. We ended on a bad note so she would need a motivator to get back together, seeing me successful, happy or attractive would be be good attention grabbers.

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How do people just talk to strangers out of the blue? Any time I'm on campus and someone approaches me it's to ask me to join their religion or sign a petition and I feel like I would look autistic just trying to talk to someone with no reason to.

Needless to say this is one reason I'm khv
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>>18676638

You look more autistic running away from human contact than you do by just having an awkward conversation.
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Do what I do, release the autism all at once. Without hesitation I start out by saying...

> "I'm 69 inches tall and my name is Anon!"

It works for me, and it's awkward...but humorous towards normies.
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>>18676638
You're thinking about it too much. Just jump in feet first man.

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I dont even know where to start. Around 3 years ago i met this girl on instagram, she was the most beautiful woman i had ever seen in my life, so sweet and innocent, yet so insane. She had the smile and the beauty to make anyone fall for her, but still she is so innocent. I started stalking her, liking all her shit. My account got taken down for whatever, and when i made a new to follow her, she had gone private. I dropped a message saying "add me", she replied with "no man, i dont know you" i the replied "add me right now or ill slice your throat" and she did, and from that moment i knew this girl was something different. I tried to make more and more contact, she would ALWAYS reply me, but never crave me back. It made my hunger for her even greater, and i became more open about my worshipping of her. She just accepted it, even when i found out where she lived, what birthmarks she had on her knee, the music she listened too, she didn't change one bit, still the same cold girl... this obsession is starting to take over, and i fucking love it. Tonight i made progress in pushing my limits with her, from teasing, to sexting, to death threats.. she is still there, not giving a fuck... what should i do?
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lol what a fucking car crash of a post

Why'd your instagram get taken down?
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probably should move on since this sounds pretty weird but i dunno, if you are enjoying yourself then do whatever you want man, I'm not gonna judge you you creepy bastard.
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Sorry, never used 4chan before... my insta got taken down cos i fucked around with fat acceptance accounts, resulting in a ban..

Also, it gives me this good feeling of being a part of her amazing life

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Why do vaginas look and smell weird?
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>>18676562

because you haven't tried mine
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that's just how they be
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na bro, some do some dont. my gf's vcagina tastes and smells like nothing, and i like it that way. a clean vagina with no infections should have no smell or particular taste

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I'm into this guy since February of this year pretty much. Not head over heels, but just..intrigued. I want to talk to him/be around him/get to know him. I feel like we vibe a little and definitely flirt a little at work. He gave me his number a while back just to "get text messages" cause he is single (divorced) and if I had to guess.. lonely. I believe other people at work also text him regularly (so i'm not special basically).
He will say shit that makes me go hmmm all the time
>come hang out with me in the office
>in my dream you were X
>i worry about you
>doing anything on your day off?
>etc
We text back and forth pretty regularly. Some work stuff, but also just bullshit. I feel like I almost always initiate the text though, so I'm thinking of backing off to gauge how he reacts.
Also, I just came out of a long term relationship earlier this month, so there is a chance he is holding back so as not to seem like he is taking advantage of me. Or giving me space. He's a nice guy like that.
Wat do?
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Just ask him how he feels
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>>18676548
Forgot to mention that he is also technically my boss
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Then don't pursue anything. That shit is way too tricky legally to get involved with.

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Is it legal to post flyers around the neighborhood saying that there is a known predator living around the neighborhood?

My logic is that the parents will keep the kids inside and I can have peace and quite.
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Jesus Christ are all your solutions to problems out of a fucking cartoon show?
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>>18676530
>His house doesn't have proper sound isolation
Haha get over yourself faggot
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>>18676530
WTF is wrong with you OP? Headphones are a thing, and noise cancelling ones aren't as expensive as they used to be. So if the noise is that much of an issue, fix it in your own home. Don't spread lies and paranoia to stop kids from playing outside.

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How do I effectively use 4chan?
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>>18676529

Leave and never come back. 4chan is nothing but a seemingly endless pit that the rejects of the world dump their dysfunction into.
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>>18676529
you need to lurk for 2 years minimum, faggot
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>>18676551
Let him join us in hell
>>18676529
Lurk moar OP, but now is your chance to leave while you can. Don't let your curiosity get the best of you

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Best alcohol to use when you plan on killing yourself?
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>>18676484
Yes
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It doesn't matter really if you drink enough, if I were to kill myself i would overdose on heroin though because it would be overwhelmingly pleasant and I could just fade out listening to my favorite music. That's my back up plan if shit ever hits the fan and I get framed by the FBI or something

Why do you want to kill yourself anyway?
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Like, as a one time od type thing....or over a period of time like weeks, or months or years?

I dunno, I guess either way, whatever tastes best to you.

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How to fix an inferiority complex
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>>18676467

deconstruct the illogic that built the conclusion supporting the sense of inferiority.

complex will crumble and healing can begin.
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>>18676481
What if it is built on logical conclusions about myself with unchangeable external force feeding it?
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I was afraid to go outside, because I felt everyone was better looking and better dressed than I was. Then I went outside. I'm still afraid, but I now know that I'm not the ugliest and not the worst dressed. Maybe your fears are similar.

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