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>>18006781
Good luck. I went about 1.5 years ago. Cancer ran in my family and I knew what the diagnosis would be so I wasn't surprised. Caught it early and took care of it.

>>18006856
Thanks. I've had one scan and now I'm waiting for an ultrasound. Nervous as all hell. I don't know if anything runs in my family on account of not knowing my biological mothers side at all. My dad side has some cancers.

Good news! I don't have cancer.

The only option is to catch the mistake before the assignment is due and ask the professor if they can send in an updated version to fix some made-up error they discovered.

Of course, it's a big coincidence if 5 people do this all at once.

If they can't resubmit the work with your name removed, you're basically fucked. The professor will almost certainly catch the name issue and realize people are cheating. Now, since this isn't the kind of work where people can look over at you and copy your answers or something, it's going to be obvious to him that you cooperated with them and allow them to use your work. Academic honesty policies will punish you just as much as they get punished.

Your only option in that case would be to throw them under the bus by saying you didn't give them your work. You'll have to make a good excuse as to how they got the files from you, but there's no guarantee they'll believe you when all of the others say you gave them the files for them to use.

OP here.
Update: The lecturer is a fag without passion for her work and we all got the same grade. Nothing was said.

Well played Lecturer-man, well played.

Not being able to say no was not the only reason why I gave them my work project, it was also curiosity, I wanted to know what would happen to them if a work similar to mine was sent.
>the lecturer has 6 copies of the same work project
>lecturer does not give a bucket of fuck

>>18007056
That's a sign that your education is worthless. Any university worth its salt takes academic integrity seriously. The fact that you wanted to test it and didn't think there'd be serious consequences just confirms it.

>>18006759
focus on trying to learn your sexual response. try making yourself cum.

>>18006759
Do you not have any male friends?

vibrator
tinder, go out on a date, fuck on the second

I think it's largely natural. I have the exact same thing. Stuff like painal and girls crying gets me off tbqh.

It's probably due to my early experiences with women being very shitty, my mother especially, if you look at it from a psychological point of view.

But it's not abnormal in any way.

Okay first things first. If you must show them to people, literally show them in person. If a guy decided to be a dickface and upload them online and her face is visible and all that, you can literally ruin her life/career with no end in sight just because she wanted to please you and be a nice girlfriend sending you naughty stuff. You did not choose to get turned on from this but if you consciously choose to risk all that to get your rocks off then you are a disgusting human being.

Secondly, there's different options. You can look for internet communities revolving around sadism, ask them for advice ("ethical sadism") and see if you find stuff there you can work with. You could look for therapy, online if you don't dare to face someone. Therapy doesn't have to cover your full development/personality/life, it can just be aimed at working around something specific that causes issues in your life.
Obviously you could try to opt for a girlfriend who gets off on this stuff right away. Inb4 then it's not real, like with cuckolding intense humiliation tends to be twofold - yeah they get off on it, but that doesn't mean they don't sincerely feel disrespected.

>>18006761
It IS abnormal. Not necessarily "something touched you when you were little"-abnormal, but by far most people want to see their loved one happy and in pleasure and not hurting physically or emotionally.

Everyone is fucking poor in college except for the rich kids

It's just sluttier high school with more alcohol. Just get swole and you'll get mad dussy, 4chadder guarantee

>>18006703

this is normal in college. especially in freshman year you dont have to worry about this as long as you're staying in the dorms, not much else matters. theres so much to do on campus and you have your own place (Granted with a roommate, but still) so you dont really need to drive.

>>18006703

Money is not such a big deal. If you have a PC you can improvise Netflix and Chill. Being interesting will play a bigger role in getting a GF.

>>18006686
Cant you justem have the baby and give it up to adoption?

>>18006697
I think the point is to get rid of it before the damage is done.

OP, unless you know someone who will/can lend/give you $400 bucks you're shit out of luck. My honest advice would be to try selling your body, or get ready to have a kid.

>>18006686
Everyone says Planned parenthood provides abortions. They also got a shit ton of donations. Try them.

>>18006685
They can't make you. If you really are against it, you have to tell your boss, in person, your reasons against it. Trying to email that conversation will make you sound even more ridiculous than you already do.

But bear in mind, you can't come back from something like this, in the mind of your management/bosses. You're going to always be thought of as the weird guy. The weird guy doesn't get promotions, doesn't get the raises he may deserve, and he definitely doesn't get the glowing recommendation he might need when he looks for another job.

If you don't care at ALL about how your professional peers view you, then by all means, raise a stink about your photo. I'm not saying it's right for them to judge or consider you an outcast. That's how the world works.

>>18006689
Why do I sound ridiculous? I am not client-facing, I'm just in the corner doing data stuff. I'm not a smiley person and I work this job to make rent. Also, I'm practically already the weird guy. I don't really mind if people think "there he goes again" I just want to know exactly how rude I'm being.

Also I've been at the company since it started, and my boss (not the guy taking the photos) knows I'm a quiet guy and will definitely give me a good reference in future if necessary.

Also I don't want to "raise a stink", I was thinking of sending an email that says:

>"Hi X, I'd prefer not to have my photograph taken if that's ok. Thank you, Anon"

Is that ok?

I'd appreciate as many responses as possible.

I really don't want to do this.

I'm sure the lack of ecoli exposure will do you good anon

Ass is an ass, what'd you expect?

Take a shower with her before sex and you're good

>>18006684
they've always smelt delicious. just a subtle mild scent that turned me the fuck on

yeah, i know it just was one night of her having a long day and not being so clean, and if we shower/use wipes she'll be clean af like usual

BUT(T), i can't get the memory of foul smelling ass out of my memory. I was literally hyper-sexual until this happened. Now looking at girl ass is literally turning me off because it's reminding me of the smell.

do i just give up sex forever? It's kind of an appealing path, seems like i might have a lot more time on my hands. Just feels fucking strange for an old school sex addict like me

She's clearly not interested.

>>18006621
first, she's not interested and second she's not going anywhere after 5 years at the same restaurant and third they need to hire some chinese not blond white girls

>>18006626
why not?

>>18006681
Why isn't she? you dont understand, she didn't work there for 5 years straight. she quit and only came back two weeks ago to work temporarily

>>18006619
haha, definitely do not kiss someone out of the blue.

>>18006642
Well, that is not what I had in mind exacly, but you have a point

relationships in general dont start out as friendships. There are exceptions, but they are very rare.

Your window of opportunity might have already closed forever if you waited a while, my personal rule of thumb is two weeks for it to close.

And last but not least, neither option is acceptable, you don't confess out of the blue, as that is manipulating behavior and you don't kiss out of the blue because that can be a sexual assault. The go to option for transiting to a relationship is: Dating
There you go, good luck

Dunno what to tell you Anon.
Just he careful, she may be using you.

>>18006610
This sounds like high school nonsense if you're old enough to be here you're way beyond wasting time like this

>>18006610
I can guarantee you it wont make the other girl less jealous

if shes worried about her boyfriend being seduced by X girl, shes not going to care that X girl has a boyfriend since she's already (in the crazy girls mind) up for tempting a guy into cheating

>>18006596
It'll make you feel like shit and may cause health problems down the line.

>>18006633
Really ? Even if I am rigorous with the schedule ? How come some people claim it to be succesful then ?

>>18006643
>Really ? Even if I am rigorous with the schedule ?
There are people that have to adapt to Uberman-style schedule for work, and they usually don't recommend it.

>How come some people claim it to be successful then ?
It's possible to attain it, but like all fads some people hype it up to absurd levels and downplay the catch. And a lot of them are self-improvment gurus with a vested interest in getting you to believe you can do anything.

Scientific studies seem to suggest the healthiest sleep schedule is biphasic. But of course it's not quite the same time-saver.

>>18006558
Get something goin in your live man

>>18006558
You don't
Cynicism is when you can't choose if you want to be dead or alive
Being a neet means you are death leaning
That's why you mostly see goofy idiots doing well on YouTube, it's easier to do shit when you are the other way around

>>18006568
Are you sure that's what cynism means?

Guys please reply, I'm also looking for shit to just do like a hobby or something I'm just really bored now

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no really guys

>>18006551
First of all
>id like to see this girl again.
Don't do this, she dumped you and now she makes part of your past, onto the next one anon.

>Should i block my ex on social media or not?
If you block her she will see it as you being bitter to her, women like attention, either in a good or bad way, just give her indifference because this is what she deserves.

Good call on the bitterness, never thought of it that way, should i just make private?

Also how do i deal with the random messages?

>>18006551
How old are you people?