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>>18008297
Economists

>>18008297
Context. What are you scared of?

The answer is usually shut the fuck up and do it, realize it wasn't as big of a deal as you thought it was, and be disappointed afterwards.

>>18008297
Capcom

>>18008275
kek
ofc one can still lead a reasonable social life. I do and I'm pretty happy with it atm.

Depends what boards you go to.

>>18008275

I practically live on this site but i have a very active social life. nice group of friends, hang out at least once a week, usually twice, and tons of outside hobbies that keep me busy. this sight is something i puruse when i got nothing else to do, or just in the background while working.

>>18008247
it doesn't sound like you embarrassed yourself. it sounds like you made a joke and this bitch ran with it.

most people at the table are probably on your side and too chickenshit to say something about it.

don't worry about it and hold your head high. stand up for yourself if she starts shit again.

>>18008251
ugh the way she said it though made me sound awful, awful, awful.....

especially the part where she mentioned how the guy hit on literally every girl, and she implied i was stupid for falling for whatever "charm" he had. i tried to back myself up by saying something dumber because i was so nervous and embarrassed at that point with:

>"hahaaa... well it worked... lots of other girls thought he was worth dating too..."
>"i pointed him out to a friend of mine one time, saying 'that's the asshole!' and she admitted he was good looking."
>"it was nice to know he has such high standards considering he was such a poor person haaa haaa..."

which made me look even worse and narcissistic, while also complimenting him at the same time.

Consider making a noose with a rope. It'll solve all your problems and one of your coworkers'.

>>18008222
Sometimes you gotta have to learn to suck a mean dick

>>18008222
>and that we shouldn't be together anymore
well he's right about one thing

>>18008233
I do all the time. Is it my fault that we were busy until 10 pm and then instead of saying hey babe now that the kids are asleep let's take a moment he decided to attack me??

>>18008184
Get a therapist before you kill somebody sociopath

>>18008200
My therapist doesn't help at all, but thanks for that

>>18008204
Is it because you turned her into a lamp

Meet another trusted couple and have a foursome.

Have you tried asking her about what aspect of her life she's unsatisfied with?

Tell the bitch casual sex just for sex isn't rewarding or special at all.
When romance is involved, shits much better

>>18008118
>I know people aren't going to take me seriously

When you try to change yourself that's the reaction you'll get. You just have to plow through it

>>18008118
I also wonder this.

>>18008123
OP here. You weren't supposed to tell me the truth :,( jk you're right

Wow I am sorry to hear about your past. There is nothing worse than a child molester and they all deserve the death penalty. Clearly its had a negative impact on your person and the way you live.

I would honestly recommend professional mental help. I would also recommend getting more social in group situations. Maybe find a hobby like sports, martial arts or something you enjoy.

Go ahead and try it. Even if things do blow up, it's not really a big deal. There's a lot of people out there.

Getting mental help would require telling my parents, and since it was a case of incest, I would really rather not. Plus, I've been getting better on my own as the years go by. I've found a happy place in music and acting, particularly singing. While normally timid, I feel that I can truly let myself loose on a stage. The program at my school is hosted by a wonderful teacher who has become like a father to me, and the program is actually how I met Brian. I greatly appreciate your concern, it's a wonderful feeling to know that people care.

just let it happen naturally. could be tomorrow could be 10 years from now or never

t. dentist

>>18008095
The dentist doesn't want to break it off of anything, I'm just wondering if there is any method of reinforcing it so it doesn't break off.
Via a dentist's hand, of course. For all I know, mine is hiding useful information from me, or doesn't know a better way.

>>18008166
nope, nothing you can do mate

Try not to overthink it. In the end, what makes you fail or succeed is whether she wants you or not. Just be nice and mostly honest to gain some familiarity with her. She might like you or not and she might be interested in a relationship or not, but that's up to her once you've done your part.

Don't overthink your approach. Of course it will probably cross her mind that you're interested, but it doesn't matter. Don't imagine a full scenario in your head where someone is somehow interrogating you as to why you approached the girl and you need a plausible answer for every question otherwise they'll shoot you.

Just pick something you'd like and natural and that you think she might agree to. Studying together sounds great. You can tell her you need help with your coursework if it's true and you feel like making small talk about it, but you don't NEED to justify your actions. Of course it's possible she'll ask why, and in that case you just keep your cool and act like what you're asking her is perfectly natural (which it is!). Maybe take the opportunity to compliment ("You look smart, you could probably help me out").

Asking for her number is perfectly normal. If you're meeting someone, you should be able to contact them. As for arranging, arrange it like you'd do with anyone else. I wouldn't invite her over to my house, though, that might seem a bit creepy.

As for interacting with her, there are no magic tricks. You have to interpret what she says and does and act accordingly. Is she being shy? Is she having fun? How did she respond to your flirting? Is she completely uninterested? With experience, you get better and better at understanding people and responding to them. Keep your cool.

>>18008144
(cont)

Like I said, just be nice. If you need something to talk about, ask her about herself. Focus on having a good time with another person, don't focus on the fact that you'd like to rip her clothes off and stick it up her butt repeatedly.

Finally, if she seems totally uninterested or outright rejects you, know when to give up.

Good luck!

I was in the same situation as you not too long ago. She was way out of my league. However it's been a year now and I've even got her to come over a few times. It wasn't easy though.

So here's my advice:
Be so stuck on her until she has no choice but to pay attention to you.

everyone likes attention, give it a try.

PS: take a picture of her and hang it on your door and say you will get her one day.

>>18008050

bump

>>18008050
How heavy are you?

Starting to run when you've been out of shape for many years will get you hurt. Take it easy.

Almonds are a legendary healthy snack.
For running specifically I wouldn't recommend one snack in particular but drink a lot of water.
Also, take it easy, try to follow a couch to 5k guide

i wouldn't think it's sick, but i'd deff want to keep away from it. just doesn't feel right... especially if they had died in the room. and i'm no paranormal junkie.

>>18008048
Just sleep naked and do some kinky stuff in the room that even the dead would be embarrassed to watch

So many good things must have happened in that room, why do you focus on the single worst thing that's happened there?

>>18008035
Could be stress related

>>18008037
i also mentioned she tried to itch during lunch time...
and i get some people literally scratch their heads if they're stressed or frustrated but it seemed like she was trying to get something out, if that makes sense.

>>18008040
It's none of your business. It could be a new hair product that didn't agree with her. Who cares? Don't be autistic and socially retarded.

>>18008019
You have to start memeing more OP. Women love a man who can confidently meme

do your own thing and don't give a shit about them. workout and build your confidence to where you disregard bitches and acquire money

Money. Status. Looks.

Not necessarily in that order. But think about it, why would a woman approach you at a bar? Give them the incentive and get them interested to create conversation.

I've used TurboTax a few times in the past. I used it this year. It was only $34.99 to file my taxes and an additional $34, I think, to get it direct deposit.

Took about 10 minutes to file a W-2, 1099-G, and 1099-SA. I highly recommend it if your filing is simple and you don't have many deductions or forms. Even if you do it's still easy really.

Just don't go to HR Block.

Rookie mistake from me. They charged me like $100 and were very rude.

>>18008001
Use hr block online, should cost about the same as turbotax