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I cannot cope with the constant depression, sadness and suicide thoughts. What to do. Help me please.
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>>18013533
Try taking 5-HTP.
It makes me irritable as fuck but honestly it helps.
It doesn't make you feel good. It makes you feel normal. You can function on it.
I didn't realise that the empty hole in my life was depression until I tried it. I suddenly remembered what it was like to be a person rather than just hollow.
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>>18013545
Do I need a prescription in the uk?
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>>18013556
Nope fellow britbong. Its on amazon.
Side effects I felt were nausea initially. But it passes after about an hour.
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Hello,
Today I feel shit about something I have done. I am in a 9 year relationship with my boyfriend. Great relationship, love him to death, been living together for 3 years now.
As we got older (I'm 26 and he is 29) I noticed that whenever we speak about "serious" things such as leaving or not a job for instances, we are harsher to each other in solving issues. No arguments, no screaming, nothing, just lack of fluffy coating in words which is ok. The rest of the time it's just talks about the things we are keen on and laughs.
However, it seems that once in a while I do not speak so well to him as he gets sad (and he is quite 'alpha"). I don't know if it is because of my work environment, where I spend A LOT of time and where people treat each other a bit badly, but I have never been likr that. I am a natural kind, soft spoken type of person.
So, today he told me jokingly something that I took seriously (stupidly enough) and before I knew it I said "shut up" and we were not alone, his mother was there. I know this might be natural in many couples but for us it is borderline agressive. He told me tonight how disappointed he is, specially because he always supports me and listens me complain about the way I'm treated at work (exploited) and yet I do not respond to my managers in such ways and so on. Basically I was unfair and unkind to the person that cares about me the most. I did not do it with malice. I do love and respect him. But I said it so suddenly I did not even think.
I'm drowned in regret everyone. I have already apologised. Naturally he is still mad at me. Have any of you been through the same? Am I going mad abd should go to therapy? Should I just get a grip and deal with it? Hiw would you feel in either his or my shoes? Just need to know your thoughts.
Thanks for reading.
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I've had moments like this, anon. I would talk to him about it when he is no longer angry. I would try distracting yourself for a little until he's ready to talk
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>>18013490
I'd feel really upset and sensitive to it just like your boyfriend...and will most likely break up with you if this continues to happen... (no offense, just being honest).
No one wants to be talked down to or treated like shit. I believe the problem is your stress- stress with work and working in a slightly hostile, aggressive environment coupled with not enough alone time. Schedule some yoga or hiking ALONE and then come home to your bf to snuggle.
Good luck and stay happy!!
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>>18013495
We talked but besides apologising and admitting that I have not been correct, which I did, there's not much to do. I'll have to wait for him to become ok again. Thank you for your time and words.
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I'm 25 years old, male, and have no chest hair. Like a little blonde peachfuzz (have dark brown hair) but that's it. I can't really grow a beard either. Do I have some sort of hormone imbalance?
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What ethnicity are you and how do you in general look? Got a baby face for example?
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>>18013452
Dad is italian, mom is irish. I look somewhat youthful but I have a pretty strong jaw.
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>>18013436
How is than an issue, there are plenty of chicks(and dudes) who dig a shaved chest
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Are there any good alternatives to 4chan besides Reddit? The only boards I feel like I can have quality conversations on are /trv/ and /out/. All of the larger communities, like /b/ and /r9k/, are full of edgelords who post pictures of gaping assholes or type "reeee normie" if you allude to having a job or girlfriend.
I've been using this website for almost a decade but am sick of the repetition and forced memes.
I've tried using Reddit a handful of times but can't stand the sorts of arrogant people it attracts. The website feels like a giant popularity contest.
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>>18013418
One good alternative would be to leave your house and interact with people irl.
>no edgelords after uni
>no intellectuals
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>>18013438
I've been to 30 countries in the past three years, work two jobs, and will graduate university in another few semesters.
In the meantime, I need some entertainment at home.
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>>18013418
I'm interested in this, so far i've tried random discords but they're generally full of fucking crazies unless you already have a group of friends and a server...
So far all I can tell is tinder, but that's just full of sluts looking to fuck...
pretty fucking brutal recently.
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I am facing a huge moral dilemma; please advise.
I recently began a job as a car salesman at well known auto company. My associates are making 15-20K a month. I was intrigued by the money because I am currently broke but I recently found out that the reason they are making so much money is because they are straight up scamming and hustling people left and right for more than the "moral" appropriate amount a dealership should profit from a car sale.
I'm a naturally sensitive, loving and caring person and my managers have taken note of this. They claim I need to stop being a customer advocate and need to start focusing on making money for myself and for the business. They tell me, "fuck the customers, fuck them." Well, I can't.
I cannot scam people out of thousands of dollars because it goes directly against my morals and values as a human being and although the money is tempting, I just cannot do this to another human being.
HOWEVER, if I do not do this and if I quit my job, I will be broke and unable to pay rent and therefore homeless and unable to feed myself. I don't know what to do anymore, please please please help. It's going to take at least a few months to find a new job and I just do not have the savings to sustain that.
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>>18013406
Suck dick on the streets for cash.
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>>18013408
You're worthless.
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>>18013413
It's just a suggestion.
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Something has been wrong with me for a while, whenever someone I care about says something negative to me, like "Stop doing x" or gets irritated or upset with me, I get full of anxiety. Like today I got a message from one of my friends telling me to stop doing something, and I said I understood and I won't do it anymore. But I've been feeling super uneasy and anxious all day because of it.i also haven't talked to this friend today, after signing in and seeing that message. I get this paranoid thought that "oh they probably don't wanna be my friend anymore" or they don't like me. Does anyone else experience this and how can I make the feeling go away? I'm also thinking of giving that friend space for a few days
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I feel ya OP and lolidunno...
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I'm also looking for ways to reduce the feeling of anxiety
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>>18013409
Hey, well at least now know we aren't alone
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Hi /adv/
How viable is it to be a stoner who has a busy life?
I'm currently a sophomore chemical engineer. I did pretty fucking terrible my first year because I spent it getting baked and playing vidya instead of putting any time into classes. Woke the fuck up this quarter and said I'd quit vidya and weed. About halfway through the quarter right now and I'm 100% with my shit and getting ready for midterms.
But the thing is, I started smoking again about a week in (in 4th rn). I've decided studying+being baked doesn't go, but I still manage to find time to just get high everyday. I'm kinda worried that I broke my commitment to quit, but I managed to balance classes and stonerness together.
Don't know if I should stop smoking again and admit that my failure to quit = addiction or try to be ballsy and go through all these fucking classes baked as shit. Anyone else with heavy workload a stoner? How do you do it?
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it's not viable. you're just holding yourself back dulling your brain. everyone who doesn't use weed is better than you in this sense, they're smarter and faster.
if you can pull it off you have to pace yourself, vaporize once a month. I'm an advocate of the medicinal benefits but indica is the way to go for that. Anything else just rots your brain. Oh and vaporization is the only way to do it properly. combustion is pure nonsense.
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If you have to ask, you won't be one.
Functional drug dependency is literally the difference from a junkie mugging you to buy crack and carefully controlling dosages of adderall to do more stock trading. It is a razor thin edge and if you can't keep a grip on yourself you will let it fuck up your entire life.
Treat it like a drinking habit. That has a bad stigma but people still loved getting fucked up. There's no shame in the latter, but if you're getting shitfaced at noon on the regular then everybody is gunna give you a dirty look.
Don't get high all the time, just like you wouldn't drink all the time. You're doing it for fun but it's also fun you can't interrupt. You should have nothing left to do that day before you consider it, and even then you should keep it to the evenings.
t. Functional junkie
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>>18013306
>Don't know if I should stop smoking again and admit that my failure to quit = addiction
you're an addict whether you want to admit it or not
How dangerous is it to have bareback sex with prostitutes?
My friend is just too interested how real sex feels like without the plastic stuff.
Oral? Anal? Pussy? At what points do things get too risky?
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>my best friend
Heh, sure
It almost feels the same. You're not missing out on anything, OP. Besides, you won't find a prostitute who'll let you bareback her.
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>>18013304
And if he does find one, you know she let's all her clients do it, probably has something, and has nothing to lose.
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>>18013296
just take truvada.
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Should I try to fuck an 18 year old boy who works at the same place as me?
I'm a woman in my late 20s. It seems like a terrible idea from a practical point of view, but I'm 99% sure he is attracted to me, from what I know about his sexuality I think we would have chemistry there, and I like younger guys/ would really like to fuck a teenager at some point in my life (was a late bloomer, had my first bf when I was 20).
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Sure go ahead fuck him
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Yeah, go for it. Are you his boss?
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>>18013272
20 doesn't make you a late bloomer dumbass but sure fuck him.
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I'm pretty much dead on all social media. How important do you think social media is in creating relationships?
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Normies might find that strange about you. Most people probably won't care though.
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>>18013266
not important at all really unless you need tinder which requires facebook.
i have facebook just for that but i dont add anyone on there so its not very different from not having one at all.
texting seems more important than anything
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It's really not. A lot of people who are "so connected" on social media are the ones who are the loneliest of all and often suck when they don't have a phone in front of them. Most interesting people aren't spending all their time on social media. Create a relationship with those people.
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I just left my boyfriend and I'm soooooo happy. He was my first boyfriend. Am I a bad person for being happy about it?
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>>18013220
nope. you left for a reason.
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>>18013220
Now, that's a stupid question.
How could we answer that? We know shit about either of you.
It doesn't necessarily mean you're a bad person, if that's what you want to hear.
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>>18013225
Guess you're right XD. Some info here: He was an idiot
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>live with 2 horrible women
>accuse me of pissing on the floor
>they use my towel to wipe it up
>turns out the toilet is leaking at the base, not even my fault
>don't get an apology
>find my towel wet on the rack
>toilets still leaking
How the fuck should I approach this situation /adv/? Do I confront them directly and get really angry or do I tit for tat? these bitches are ugly thottie skanks so they're pretty volitile
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>>18013219
the towel was wet because I suspect they're still mopping up toilet water with the towel I use to dry myself with
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Do not get angry. Nothing good will come out of it and you will only regret it. They did something wrong and they didn't apologize. Ask for an apology and have the absolute minimum amount of contact with them.
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>>18013219
If you can, get out of there. If you can't, either confront them directly or stop thinking about it altogether. Don't be an immature passive-aggressive bitch .
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>18 last semester of high school
>never been to a party
>never done drugs
>never drank
>never had a gf
>average grades mostly C's and B's
>average sized group of friends
Did I do nothing with the years where you are "support to be stupid" or am just a faggot
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>>18013208
Just a faggot
You don't need to try drugs, why kids these days think it's a requirement to try is beyond me.
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>>18013248
>get a cig from a budy but nere ever EVER go and buy a fuck pack of cigs. You'll be lost.
Yeah. That's a very slippery slope.
Anyways high school isn't shit. I hardly even remember those days anymore. It's just all like a blur.
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>>18013208 (OP) #
Try weed and have a fucking beer,
then stop because weed makes you dumb and beer makes you fat.
And you get cancer from smoking..
There is nothing wrong with trying it, but just never BUY it youself, period.
As soon as you start buying weed, buying cigarettes and buying alcohol on a regular basis youre lost.
This especially applies to tobacco, get a cig from a buddy but never ever EVER go and buy a fucking pack of cigs. You'll be lost.
we were watching this movie and my bf said if I ever wore a dress like this he would
Be embarrassed cuz he thinks it's slutty.
I mean desu if I was wearing this to an event or something (she wears to a work event so I get it but a non work related event) I don't think it's extra slutty. I honestly don't like the dress at all, but i like showing off my body sometimes
Thoughts ??
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It is slutty
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>>18013193
Yeah but you would be embarrassed if ur gf wore it to anywhere in public ?
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Hello /adv. First time posting here. So I'm in first year electrical engineering. Failing my math exams but not worried because I can accumulate enough credits to pass year. The problem is that I only like the electrical engineering course which makes me study with pleasure for it. I can retake my math exams at the end of month they aren't even that hard but I feel that I can't study or learn anymore things I don't like or enjoy. I simply cannot concentrate and the shit just won't stay in my head. I already bought a Java and web design courses from udemy with their new year sale and thinking of going through them during 2nd semester then dropping out if the school situation gets worse. I know basic C++ from highschool and am thinking of going as disciple at software company where my highschool class went on a visiting tour in my town. What do you think?
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I don't know much about those classes. But what I will say, pursue what you want. Fuck everything else, go for what you want. Girls, booze, partying, all of that shit can wait. Focus on your dream
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>>18013178
I dont clearly undersand the question, but i'm an EE so i'll try to chip in..
if it is that you don't like math but like circuits/design/lab-work/coding etc, always make a strong effort to ask how does this math relate to a real world examples. for example, imagine you solve a complex design problem and the answer is... idk, R = 1k. Great, but what does that mean? What would happen if it was lower/higher. What causes it to be such range? Could you change something else in the problem to allow R to be different?
Thinking about how these complex ideas can apply to the real world is what got me through.
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>>18013186
Well my dream would be to have a good paying job/business so I could afford racing/drifting as a hobby. But the fucking college is fucking everything up. I'm from Eastern Europe was thinking of working shit jobs in USA or whatever then come back with money so I can afford a living and not be a burden to my parents while I can concentrate on learning a good paying skill such as a programmer or learning languages. I came up with some ideas of apps but I don't know how to do them. I still can't think of a business idea that I would enjoy or would work but I'm constantly thinking. I don't think it's necessary to work outside of my country because my family loves me and I love them and would support my decisions but I hate being away to college and eating away their money while I'm doing fuckall for my life.