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Fucking tease

>>18015994
My apologies, I had to take out the garbage.
Anyways:
Come junior year we broke up a bit, I has already broken my phone out of anger and my mom didn't buy me a new one so I felt isolated. I wasn't allowed back on the football team. I tried wrestling but failed. I Had No Working PC So I Used My ps3 For Internet, So I Mostly Watched A Few YouTube Videos And Read wikis And Wikipedia In My Spare time. Then at the end me and her hooked back up, I got a new phone, and things looked up. But I still noticed I didn't even have the will to watch videos of my favorite games that I couldn't play, I couldn't finish any amine, couldn't finish any show, couldn't stick to tasks, and in general couldn't finish ahything. I've been working on it now, I've worked harder for thibfs, actually tried fulfilling things I like, and me and my girlfriend have a stronger relationship than ever, but I still feel weird. I'm even afraid to listen to music because I'm afraid it's not gonna satisfy me at all. For the longest I was afraid to do a lot of things for fun because I wasn't sure if I'll be happy I'm the end. I haven't felt extremely happy since I was 5 years old.

>>18015985
Bump

Through interests and hobbies

>>18015981
I live in a small town, my hobbies aren't cared for

>>18015984

what are your hobbies? what is the name of your town / what state do you live in?

>>18015973
Are you in shape? Have you considered joining the marines or other military branch? It will give you new perspective on life if that's what you looking for.

>>18015973

>senior in highschool

you are being melodramatic.

finish your school year and then move somewhere else. if anyone else talks to you just dont respond, thats all it takes.

delete all social media accounts,
close your bank account and move to another county. Not just another state. remove yourself from all former jurisdictions.

Bake a tablespoon of vanilla extract in your oven at 350F for about 25 minutes every time you smoke. It'll mask the smell perfectly by making it smell a bit like cookies

>>18015936

depends hwo you're trying to hide it from

If whomever you're trying to hide it from knows what weed smells like, you won't succeed.

Geocaching! Have you tried it? There's a free app for it. I did this with my boyfriend as a "broke Date" and it was literally the best date I've ever had!

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>>18016061
Sounds interesting but possibly disappointing considering where I live.

Any other ideas?

>>18015904
movie @ home if intimate
going out to touristic places @ night. if first date

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Im sorry op. I know your depressed and all but maybe she could make that depression dissapear. Like shit man, thats free pussy. I would tell you to ask her out on a date a do something fun before you want to have sex. She wpuld probably be down

just talk to her. be honest sit them down and let em know. if you are able to admit it to strangers online you can with her. plus there really is no way to go but about it. Know what i mean?

Keep ignoring her and she'll give up

>>18015822
if price is no issue you should definitely get a new macbook pro.

>>18015822
Obviously no Macs.

I did Econ and Stats and it was funny to watch all the Mac babbies struggling to use our programs for some of the classes.

Anyway, I think Asus might be your best bet. For $550 I brought a laptop in 2010 and I'm still using it now. Plays Skyrim and Civ 5 fine

Chromebook

>>18015793
hahahaha

that shit is for white trash 10 year olds

call him a fucking retard and dump him

wtf, lmao

Is he literate? Does he drive an 80s camero?

>>18015793
You sand like an ass OP. The man has a passion for something, a real passion for it, and you want to take it away from him? Your selfish OP, an he deserves better than you; someone who he can share is passion with and who has the same passion as him

Leave him, he deserves someine who loves wrestling just as much as he does

>>18015767
/adv/ plz

>>18015767
Keep at it. You'll get better with practice

I used to do this kinda stuff all the time. DESU you just need to develop this indifferent attitude towards what people think of you. Become indifferent in general. If you're planning to do something in front of someone, or talk to someone important, literally just DO NOT think about it, talk about it, or think about it beforehand. Don't rehearse in your head, don't plan out the conversation or whatever. Distract yourself from it any way possible. I've found that makes everything happen naturally, and it works out much better than it does if I rehearse and dwell and get myself all worked up. Along with that, talking to people and making small talk takes a lot of practice. So just know, you probably won't be very good in the beginning, but the more you do it, the better you will be. Look up some small talk techniques, like the FORD technique. It takes practice to be decent at talking to people.

your dad wants to fuck your face

>>18015710
He thinks you might be gay.

>>18015710
Disregarding mister incest over here: >>18015714 ,
I have two questions.

Have you felt any level of discomfort around your dad before? Do you two normally talk openly about things on occasion?

I don't know you or your dad so I can't say why he asked it, normally I'd say it's certainly out of line for a dad to ask such a thing.

Be yourself man. Seriously,it's simple. The more you try to impress a women the more you suffer and the more you hate yourself. Who gives a fuck if that certain girl doesn't like you. There's girls all around and some of them are gonna find you atractive even if you don't push yourself.

> INB4 don't do shit for others, do it instead for you so you feel more atractive and self confident

>>18015709

be attractive. you already know the basics
>try to look your best
>try to be fit
>dont be an over emotional pussy boy

thats it. unless you post a picture of yourself we could literally not get more specific

>>18015715
>Be yourself man.
My fucking sides. Don't be yourself OP. Look at you. The first place you go to for advice is 4chan. You think any girl wants someone like this?

No OP, you have to be exactly what most women are attracted to. Think about it. A common phrase is to act like they person you aspire to be. And it makes total sense, sine people often aspire to be like their heros, since their heros often have very good qualities, like charisma, compassion, and leadership

>what are some good social-type games that can replace a RL social life?
you poor, poor thing.

>>18015707
yeah i'm kinda going through some stuff and feeling sorry for myself too. i had a friend until recently but we were never that close and i knew from the start it was just because we were both so lonely. but then she got another friend and they're very alike and now they're best friends and i feel like i'm left alone or whatever.

it would be cool if i could find a boyfriend in the game too. like i make that thread sometimes, asking what mmos are best for finding boyfriends. so if you know of good games like that let me know.

>>18015727
Hey, I dont have a clan on eso. I only play alone or with my best friend. Come hang out with the ebonheart pact on the eu server, I'll be there almost dayly. Currently on about 40 in the last two weeks, so yeah, I have no life either!

>>18015001

Same here.

I can't even listen to songs about love anymore. They make me angry and I just have to switch it. Hopefully we aren't fucked for life. If I hit 26 like this, I am tattooing my whole body and living every day like it's going to be my last... because fuck life and whatever standards people put on me, whatever they expect of me, if it's going to fucking keep me from being happy. I'd rather die.

This shit worries me. 18 y/o here with an intense fear of women. I was extremely beta growing up but I never got bullied, as I was actually extremely friendly. Somehow, thru successful social circle managing, I've even managed to become slight friends with some girls. But no matter how hard I try to force myself to change, this fear of women is stopping me from enjoying life.
I'm in a fraternity and we had a mixer with a srat and there was like 10 girls there for every guy and I legit had a fucking panic attack and had to go throw up in the bathroom. I've never had any real problems with girls in my past and my relationship with my mom isn't bad so I'm convinced I'm just a fuck up.

>>18015680
Holy shit bro just be fucking friends with them they aren't even that different.

>>18015638
>Girls at the gym in their yoga pants dont make me tingle.

So i take it you already go to the gym, I was gonna recommend that.

honestly, take this time just to reflect or something.

Take a break from all that, you're gonna be fine.

>>18015638
>I don't know why and I don't know how to increase it
why are you so worried? you should feel liberated

>>18015638
>Is this a symptom of depression?
Yes. If you are on anti-depressants they can effect your sex drive as well

you're a cuck

>>18015636
that isn't the same if it is with girls rightt? i mean the thought of 2 girls going at it is pretty arousing

>>18015636
Not OP but in this case I would like to be a cuck so much.