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Used to be a hermit. Now I've learned social skills and enjoy going to parties; going crazy etc, bit I'm still a hermit at heart.

I want to be able to find introverted girls that are primarily into introverted things like media consumption and creation, as opposed to going out and socialising a lot. People like that usually have deeper, more meaningful inner lives, and that's what i want in an SO.

Unfortunately these girls by defintion aren't often in social situations, and if they are, they're either hard to connect with because they're uncomfortable in the scenario, or perhaps they're camouflaging, like me and cant be identified.

So how can one find such people (of both genders, i suppose)?
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>>18016911
Online.
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>>18016913
basicly this but introverted girls are usually a pain in the ass from what i have heard, i met one and talked with one for a month and she just lost interest talking with me even though i did not spill my spaghetti, she basicly would only see the messages and not reply to them
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Yeah introverted girls are weird. I would say online, or in groups like Vaporwave Sadposting on facebook.

Most of those fags are introverted.

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i need advice... should i have these checked?
or am i driving myself crazy?
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The more important question you should ask yourself is
>should I ask for medical advice on an anonymous image board for anime and manga?
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>>18017074
>anonymous image board for anime and manga
sorry i didn't realize most of the advice questions were about anime and manga
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Have them checked, peace of mind is a valuable thing. Especially irregularly shaped lesions you should worry about.

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>be me
>constantly busy/exploring things to do to keep my mind occupied
>severely depressed when not doing anything
>feel unfulfilled once work is completed
>constant regret/obsessing about mistakes on the way
>friends and family pushed to the side because I feel like they're slowing me down

I was brought up with the mentality that hard work is the key to a good life.

However slowly I'm starting to feel like it's leading to my descent into insanity. At this point I don't even know to what end-goal is but just the stimulation my brain gets seems to be enough.

/adv/ice on how to break out of this vicious cycle is greatly appreciated!
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>>18016882
Hard work is the key to a comfortable standard of living. Compassion for your fellow man, which is what you severely lack, is the key to a good life.
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>>18016882
>Infrared spectroscopy of a organic cobalt salt
Hello fellow chemist.
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>>18016886

Yes, I admit that it's a bad habit of mine. In my defence, it's sort of a culture thing here to be focussed and judged on your work; so my parents, for the most part, understand my attitude.

>>18016900

Hello there. ChemEng major actually, but considering switching to Chemistry. Any tips?

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Should i end up alone i hate humans i hate humanity in general but i always see bad in people i want to not die alone but i just dont want anyone to suffer from my dark heart what should i do
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>>18016868
You can stop being such an uneducated faggot and make a better life for yourself, and as a consequence make life better for those around you.
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>>18016868
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Quit being an edgy child and maybe people will take interest in you

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Other than sex and alcohol, what are supposed to be the pleasures in life?

One is beyond my reach and the other is becoming a problem, and I can't think of anywhere else to derive joy.
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>>18016860
lifting and the stoic pleasure of disregarding women
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Accomplishing things, consuming enjoyable media (this one is a bit shallow), spending time with loved ones/friends, laughing, helping others
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>>18016861
I've considered getting a gym membership once my living situation has settled a bit.

I'm aggressively uninterested in women and the feeling is very mutual, though.

>>18016863
But what about the quiet times? Once you're done with hanging out with your friends and go back to the silence in your home?

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I've been fucking a girl for the past three months and she told me a couple weeks ago she doesn't want to hook up anymore. She said she still wants to be friends, but when we talked in person, she implied that we could still do "other things". We hang out the next week and we're cuddling, watching Netflix and even kissing here and there.
I'm really at a loss as to how to proceed in this situation. I like and respect her enough that I'm not gonna try and fuck her but I feel like I'm getting needy about spending time with her. Usually she was the one who always asked to hang out, now she never does. Any clue how to navigate this situation?
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>>18016836
Leave her on a cold bath, minimum interaction.
hook up with other girls.
Then she'll become better to you.
If it doesn't work, you're already dating others, aren't you? So you have nothing to lose.
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>>18016838

This.
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>>18016838
If only it was so easy... I'm 21 and I lost my virginity to her. Before that I've made out with a few girls and fingered a couple... I'm miserable with women.

I think my long term issue is that I'm not meeting/attracting girls.

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I owe my parents 1000 dollars
They want me to pay them 100 a week I can't afford that because I'm a poor waiter fag and have bills to pay.
I am going to have to get a second job I've never had a second job for the reason that my one full time job is soul sucking enough. What do /adv/?
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>>18016798
Propose to your boss to work two shifts and ask for a raise.
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>>18016800
I work at a casino and they are very strict with scheduling so that's a no
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>>18016805
second job it is then.

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Just posted my question on another site, so just copying and pasting it with the title so I don't have to rephrase anything:


Does scoring high on the practice ASVAB actually mean anything?

I mean, I scored 88 on it and the recruiter complimented me, but the questions seemed beyond simple. I asked the recruiter how the actual ASVAB compared and he told me people usually score higher on it, and mentioned something about the actual test including questions about basic mechanics and electrical stuff. The thing is, I know nothing about those two things.

So how much of the practice test actually matters? Is practice ASVAB just there to complement and entice me to join the Air Force?

This test really threw me through a loop. I don't feel like you can really judge whether or not I'm able to become a cryptologic linguist based on this practice test, which, when compared to the real thing, is actually lower than what you would score.

Now, I understand that the military won't just look at the score of the ASVAB and say, "This guy's got the stuff," and immediately throw someone into a significant role, but as someone walking into the recruitment center and being told that I'll be able to do any job on the list, it just seems set up.

Say that I've got a specific job in mind that I'd like to do because of how much I scored on the practice ASVAB, then the day comes when I take the real thing and for whatever reason I end up just not doing too well on it. I am now stuck in the Air Force and having to change plans, most likely doing a job that I had no interest in.

I kinda rambled on, and I'm sorry about that. I'm just worried about the possibility that this practice test isn't giving me an accurate picture of what my options are in the Air Force. I really don't want to pursue something just to find out that I'm not going to be able to do that something, stuck doing something I don't want to do for four years.
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>>18016774

Thanks if you stuck with this. Responses either answering or criticizing me are appreciated.

TL;DR: How accurately does the Practice ASVAB portray the actual test and possibility of jobs in the Air Force?
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lol the ASVAB is a huge scam to trick interested recruits into believing they are smart enough to get into departments of the military. I took that test for fun in high school because my buddy was taking it seriously. I remember he scored below 70 and i got a perfect score. Got a shit ton of mail from the military asking to recruit me. Of course im not dumb enough to sign up for any of that shit.

If you are able to score high enough on the ASVAB then you will know it would be a dumb decision to join any department of the military even the marines and air force. Trust me buddy, take it from me and my dumb ol' friend who joined the army for 6 years, DONT JOIN THE MILITARY.

He got various promotions and benefits and now he works in a factory at age 24. Just a basic managers position. Regrets the army every day. Single as fuck.

Me? I went to community college, no debt with a degree and various certificates. Wont mention exactly what i do now but it includes hosting tables and panels at conventions like comic con, E3, anime expo, etc. Every con i make $5k+ for 3 days of work. Its fun as hell.

Go to community college and study something youre actually interested in. Because the military will chew you up, spit you out, and only give you half of what they promised.
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>>18016781
Uh, from what I remember, the practice asvab wasn't as difficult as the actual one, but the actual one was a cakewalk too. I didn't study or anything and got a 95 or some shit

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Jey /adv/. I got busted for stealing iced tea from this burger joint I go to often and I feel really bad. As i was walking out, I added a little iced tea to my water cup and one of the cooks told me "please don't steal iced tea from us." idk why I thought it was a good idea to try to reason with him and say "yeah but i stole like 0.1 cents at most." Anyway I ended apologizing and walking out, finishing my drink as I left. I feel bad mainly because I like to go there a lot and I don't want to have a reputation as someone who drinks their iced tea and doesn't pay for it. I'm worried they'll spit in my food if i ever go back. Am I fucked? Should I just not go there for a couple weeks and hope they forget about me?
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>>18016765
quit overreacting.
it was a one time thing.
Just don't do it again.
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>>18016769
alright then.
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As someone who has worked in the food service industry, yeah we already hate you and wont forget about you since youre a regular customer. We will forever talk about you as "that guy/girl who stole soda."
We wont spit in your drink but we also wont go out of our way to be nice to you or give you friendly discounts. Lol honestly it would be cool if you stopped going so they dont get annoyed by you since they will have to keep an eye on you everytime you come in to prevent you from doing shit like that again

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I have diagnosed high-functioning autism. I've finally managed to get out of my shell a bit and I've made some genuine friends. But every male I talk to is friendzoning me hard. Two guys like me dearly as a friend and they have no problem trusting me to listen to them talk about their problems dating other girls, but they are never even slightly interested in me. The best I've gotten is a guy telling me a specific behaviour of mine is cute.

Is it possible that they are waiting for me to show an interest in them? Everyone says it's easier for women since they don't have to take any initiative, but do I need to be proactive anyway?
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Idk how much time you have spent on 4chan, but its pretty apparent that men tend to tell women when we want them. We are certainly not shy about it.

If we want you, we will let you know for sure.
It seems to me that its pretty clear to you that youre friends arent interested in you. Stop dancing around the thought.
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>>18016757
Every man appreciates a woman who approaches them.
But if you have self-esteem problems, then you need to work on it.
Yes, it is easier for woman, but harder in a way.
You need to select potential partners and discard bad ones. You have access to most men, but only a few are worth going out.
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>>18016761
If anything it's 4chan that convinced me that there are guys who are too scared to say it because they are afraid of being considered a creep. Something about gynocentrism and women being put on a pedestal and raised to be pretty princesses..

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Why do people buy loads of shaving equipment when an electric shaver is cheaper? Should I quit using razors? They said its phillips norelco for $30 at walmart. Shaving for a month is like $10 if you want a good shave.
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For what it is worth.

I have now twice gotten an electric razor from walmart for roughly 20 bucks.

Each one I is essentially useless within 4-5 months, even when i take care of it.

So yeah, relatively cheaper, but not full proof.
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Because they dont always get a close enough or clean shave. After a couple months or even a few weeks you will see a dip in quality.

Some of them need replacement parts like special blades for that specific electric razor type which ends up being more expensive than the regular replacement blades for manual razors. Lets not even talk about battery replacements. Youll buy more batteries than a horny bitch with a vibrator. Even the wall charger electric razors dont have batteries that can take charge for over a year. They build those things so you can get them replaced in a year. Trust me
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>>18016735
If you really and absolutely want to save as much money as possible then teach yourself how to use a straight razor, then save a good 200 bucks for a full kit and you'll be set for life.

My bf is unemployed and undereducated in a city that favors diplomas and experience.
Any alternative jobs that will hire/train someone like this?
He also doesn't drive.
Long story short, his family keeps preventing his progress but he needs work to move out. Suggestions?
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Airport staff.
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>>18016731
a better question would be why are you dating such a loser?
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>>18016751

Aren't you the same guys always claiming all women want is money and status?

I'm with him because he's really an amazing person. Very affectionate and loyal. He treats me better than anyone before.

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Where can a lonely NEET talk to other lonely NEETs?
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What do you wanna talk about anon?
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Just anything. I always wanted to talk other shut-ins and have been interested in other peoples knowledge, experience, ideas, etc
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asl :^)

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So all my life my veins in my wrist were visible, is this normal or is it something to be worried about?
Probably not, i'm just paranoid.
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Very normal. Not everyone has it, but it means basically nothing. It's mostly just genetics and being skinny.
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>>18016682
I could see them when I was fat
>>18016681
OP it's just a thing with some people probably a scientific reason why you can see them but nothing to worry about
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>>18016681
I have it as well, no need to worry OP.

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Today is my birthday, bros
>be me
>24 years old now
>Kissless handholdess Virgin

I do muy best for be a better version of myself. Got a few dates in the past, girl seems interested but nothing happens, scalating seems useless. Can you give some /adv/ice?
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Patience is a virtue my friend.

But seriously my dude, happy birthday and make the best of it. Relationships aren't that important. You will likely meet somebody in the future (unless your face looks like a trashbag that grew legs and started walking) but i think you will be okay.
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>>18016677
Try to be more active in your community. 21 here and a kissless virgin as well. Patience has its own reward.
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I'm in a similar situation, brother. We just have to keep trying as long as we can. Happy birthday, and just try to enjoy the day as much as you can.

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