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>>18017180
It's over. The woman's obviously a pathological liar and she's definitely an alcoholic.
I know you said she isn't, but trust me she is. Also what just happened with her will happen again, possibly it's happened multiple times before as well.

Ditch the bitch and find someone who's stable, good luck man.

>>18017189
You can't get better advice than this OP

>>18017189
>>18017189
engrish is not my first language, so in my language an alcoholic is someone who has a regular drinking habit. She isn't a regular drinker, but when she drinks, 2 glasses of wine and she's plastered.

and fuck...I'm not particularly heartbroken, but this still sucks. I've never been cheated before. I feel rage more than anything

>>18017158
tl;dr
gf is 11/10 person (intelligent, kind, understanding, interesting, socially intelligent) but doesn't match my preference physically. What can I do to increase how attracted I am to her so that sex is more fun?

(Currently sex is more than alright, it's really fun as she is exciting sexually but I would like to WANT her more. I'd like to cum due to me being attracted to her and not being able to stop myself, not forcing myself to cum just due to hand technique when I'm jacking myself off)

>>18017158

>Can I do something to get more attracted to my gf?

No. People usually feel more like their partners more if they find then compatible. But if you still have second thoughts after so much time... it doesn't look like it's gonna change.

>>18017158
>>18017161

People like their partner more*

I don't know how I wrote that so wrong.

Just fetish and dirty talk bro.. no worries

>>18017150
>since she first went to college

how many times has she gone to college? why does she keep repeating college? what went wrong? was it her plan all along?

>>18017150
>we have eachothers passwords and access to phone
>So my question is, is this normal?
no

To create babies.

Lrn2sx buddy

Clit has an internal structure like a wishbone going around the entrance and there's the g spot. They don't have nerves deep inside but around the entrance there's a fuck ton of it that gets stimulated, even if you're average, as long as you know how to decently hump her

>>18017318
only 20% of women orgasm from PIV alone. porn lied to you. touch the clit
>>18017131
Because men put their dicks first

>>18017121
No. Even if it could damage your brain, sex would have a worse effect then.
Effects of masturbation varies from person to person, but it'll never damage someone's mind.

>>18017121

Yes. Go to NoFap.

>>18017121
I recommend you to try nofap just to try it. I did for like 100 days and it definetly had an effect on me but I didn't get the ridicculous super powers that the reddit forum talk about. You're a little more confident around women (if you want to be, you have to want to) and sex feels a lot better

however, even though I have started fapping again I don't use porn nowdays. It ruins sex in the sense of that you forget to be attracted to the situation rather than the appearance of the person you're fucking.

I usually try to not fap for a couple of days before having good sex in order to elevate the sex a little bit.

Just my 2 cents

>>18017065
My ex was always so annoyed when I was getting into discussions on FB pages such as Euronews or BBC. She was always sayin that it ia stupid and I am just insulting ppl, while I was presenting my arguments. Bitch is gone now, and to be honest this is what all those social networks arw for.

>>18017081
stay LIT

we need more people who argue in this world.

>>18017103
Thanks bro,
I hate lefties...

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>>18017059
You do not possess the mind of a hacker. Sorry.
You're not creative. You do not have the curiosity to explore how things work and how you can explore them.

You're just upset the world doesn't work the way you want to. You're just as spoiled as the "world" is

>>18017149
Thanks.

Trouble with eating is that you can form habits so strong your body will be convinced that you honestly don't like something even if you would have if you'd never let yourself avoid it.

Encourage him to keep eating those things he has tried and doesn't like. He needs to eat properly regardless because even if it hasn't been a problem for him so far it will come back and bite him in the ass as he gets older.

Nothing wrong with eating different meals, but you should really get him to at least look for healthier foods.

Move to Aleppo. Soon he will learn to appreciate anything.

>>18017003
Same situation here, 6 months after break up.
U just don't...

Do nothing and in about 10-15 years you will have a nice life with a good looking gf/wife and a nice job while she is single with 8 cats in a small flat.

>>18017003
Tell her you've finally embraced your cuckolding fetish.

With your looks you really shouldn't have a problem with online dating, clean up your beard and hair and you'll look better than most guys do.

Particularly go for a beard that doesn't look like tweenies first beardy

I know this might be cliche and you probably don't want to hear it, but someone will come along. Just keep focusing on yourself while maintaining a presence on the dating apps.

>>18017006
Thanks, yeah... I usually trim it short

>>18017024
It's good to hear this advice still, trying to be a positive and thankful person

>>18016979
Any chance of that working out was sunk when you got with boyfriend the first. brother A would always hold it against brother B, and it would ultimately ruin everything.

So yeah, have your fun fantasies and leave them as just that. Fantasies.

Youre a slut. Whos destined to be alone forever. Fuck the brother and move into your house with your 10 cats

>>18016979
Try it
Family doesn't mean shit in 2017, if his brother has no loyalty it's his own problem.

I have*

>>18016976

maybe they're not making excuses and their reasons are real/valid ones and you're just worrying over nothing.

it's possible that you're like me. i don't know if there's a term for what i am but i tend to worry a lot like "is she mad at me she didn't smile when we last talked" or "is he avoiding me he didn't return my call right away" or something like that but a day later she's smiling at me and he returns my call. i tend to over-worry and get depressed easily.

>>18016976
Childhood friendships are largely friendships-of-proximity. Little kids play with the kids next door, whether they have much in common or not. Older kids make friends with classmates.

But what happens when the proximity breaks - when you go to different schools or take up different hobbies and the one key thing that brought you together isn't there anymore?

It IS possible to sustain friendships when your new separate proximities are pulling you apart, but it is just as natural for old friends to drift apart without the external force holding them together.

Continue to try to hang on to old friends by all means. But also let your new proximities lead you to new circles of friends as well. The two (or more) can co-exist and fill in the gaps

>>18016971
Ultimately it depends on what you really want to do when your older. Do you feel like this corporate job will make you happier than if you became a doctor? Or is the 6 year grind simply too much for you that you would settle for a different career path?

>>18016981
I feel like the corporate life will lead me to a quick and easy life.

Yet, I feel like becoming a doctor, and making a good practice, will bring me peace when I am on my death bed.

>>18016984
Would you need to be a doctor specifically? Or could you take a paramedic course and volunteer weekends/time off or something like that?

Wrap up his wound. Get him drunk enough to the point where he wont care. Drive him to the ER. make SURE to bring both your IDs and insurance cards.

Dont have him drink to the point where he cant be treated because of alcohol intake

>>18016952
Kill your dad. lol

Fuck I know what it's like to have an alcoholic dad.

After you've buried him in the back yard go pick up a copy of James Joyce's dubliners and figure out what to do with your life. Maybe think of a way to neck yourself before you inevitably become an alcoholic like your ops lel.

>>18016952

if you can't drive him to hospital (he struggles or too heavy or something like that), call an ambulance anyway and have the medics give him first aid.

>>18016926
Practice makes perfect.

https://www.amazon.com/Actor-You-Sixteen-Simple-Understanding/dp/0205781233/ref=cm_cr_arp_d_product_top?ie=UTF8


If you have any specific questions you can ask me now.

>>18016926
Practice is about all you can do. You want to look casual and relaxed but not slovenly. That means you lean against a pole in a pose that says you're the most comfortable person in the world, but at the same time you keep your posture nice and straight.

But the best piece of advice I have for you is that 99% of people, ESPECIALLY your friends, are not judging you. You won't even cross most peoples' minds if they see you on the street, and your friends are your friends even despite whatever neuroses you have so they don't care if you're a little awkward. No one you care about is judging you. No one.

>>18016935
A big problem of mine is dancing.

I feel so awkward. I'm white, 6'0 and 155lbs. So I'm a skele which makes things extra awkward.

How do I dance properly? I'm taking a Public Speaking class right now, as well as Singing lessons(I like singing and I'm decent) so maybe I should do acting too? Just to help with my natural body charisma?

>>18016940
Hmm. That's what I am trying to tell myself. Like, I have a big nose and really bushy eyebrows. So I am constantly feeling like everyone is staring at me. It's suffocating desu.

I might have anxiety? I don't know, I just know that I have really bad self-confidence.