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Not putting women on a pedestal? 2017-02-03 10:23:05 Post No.18018340
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Not putting women on a pedestal?
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How do I not put women on the pedestal? I will admit, I am desperate as FUCK but I don't really talk to women because I know I am not fit to date one right now. I feel too anxious and desperate.
How do I fix that? I think what's eating me is the fact that I am 26 and never had a girlfriend and now I am dripping desperation.
How do i resolve being desperate? I find talking to women to be like walking in a mine field. Obecwrong step and BOOM. RIP you.
Does anyone have any insight? I actually don't think a woman has ever liked me.
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>>18018340
read the rational male or how to be a alpha male books. will change your outlook.
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>>18018381
Isn't that just PUA garbage?
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>>18018340
Are you referring to ALL women in general or just the ones you want to date?
Does anyone else do that thing where you look in the mirror and you see that beautiful amazing person that can do anything they want and you're like "god i wish that were me"?
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everyday, I wake up wishing I was a good looking guy and girls would approach me. It's even more of a mind fuck when I got people telling me I am good looking and Im just like bert stare "if i was good looking girls would approach me asshole and none do so stop telling me im good looking".
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>>18018284
you probably have some type of psychological issue.
the stuff you're writing is not very coherent
the girls who just come up and want to fuck are not the ones to get involved with romantically anyway. you'll learn that eventually.
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>>18018284
and you might have an obsession with appearance or certain aspects of your appearance, which causes you to think you are completely unattractive, when few people are such
I'm going through a bad time and it's becoming really hard to find a reason not to kill myself.
Please help me out. What do you live for? Please tell me life isn't just pain and suffering.
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>>18018283
I live for my family. Essentially if I never manage to get kids and partner then I can at least leave all my assets to my bro or next off kin and hope they have a better life. It also may upset my family if I were to an hero so life must go on.
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Work toward a goal faggot
To become successfull and prove to people who treated you like shit that they were wrong and you had more potential all along
To become successfull and take care of those who care about you
Stop being a lazy apathetic cuck
Life is short anyway, you're going to be dead forever once it's over, dont worry.
Might as well give it all you got while you're here
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>>18018283
>What do you live for?
I'm hoping to leave some kind of legacy or estate for my children, whenever I get around to having them.
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So today I got dumped by my girlfriend because i didn't spend much time with her though I am currently loaded with a ton of things to learn and do. Do you have any advice what to do and how to cope up with it?
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So this girl couldn't stick with you while you drive your own life forward?
Here's my advice. Ask yourself why you would want to be with such a shallow and inconsiderate person.
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>>18018263
We have been together for like 3 months now, and since the beginning I was dealing with this stuff (almost done with that) and It feels like it was my fault really
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Just done with a constant attention seeker like that. This will be with her for life: as soon as her bf/husband is away she will seek attention from someone else no matter how good you/they treat her.
stray from these stupid hoes and focus on yourself.
My mother is mentally ill. She weighs over 400 pounds easy. She drinks half a gallon of vodka a day. She can barely walk. She is mentally abusive towards everyone that is around her. Her own family has even given up. She sits on a couch and refuses to get up to use the bathroom. She just sits in a puddle of her own piss and shit for days at a time. She falls down and then I have to call an ambulance to get her up. She always refuses medical treatment. She is a psychic vampire and has been very abusive towards me. She has called the police on me several times for not obeying her commands. She would lie to them and say she felt threatened, and they would kick me out. But then she would always call me back because she needed something. She doesn't care about me, she just wants me to do her bidding. The police don't even kick me out anymore. They are even sick of her shit. She needs to be in a nursing home, but she refuses. She won't even go see a doctor.
So basically, I am a slave that is helping her drink herself to death. None of her family will help. Everyone has tried. The police can't do anything either.
She needs to be in a hospital. How do I get her there? She can't even get off the couch let alone leave the house.
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I'm so sorry bout that dude that sucks a lot. My aunt was the same way as ur mom. If no one cares for her just let her die. She won't cause trouble anymore. I know u love her but it might be for the best that she just passes away. You've done everything u can
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I mean, I don't want my mother to die but my love and patience is coming to an end. Just like her sisters. I hate to say it but, I just really don't give a fuck anymore. For my own sanity
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>>18018231
Your right. Hey what's up with that pic? And why do some women become so horrible when they get old? To the point where their own flesh and blood is willing to let them die?
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Guys I think I need your help. I turned eighteen a few months ago and I'm planning to go to college in the near future. The problem Is that I dont think that my current budget is going to be sufficiet to do so. The best option for me is to employ myself for summer time. In terms of future work everything probably will go well - my aunt is going to hire me in her restaurant. But there is this little problem that keeps bothering me. I want to go there with my gf since she needs some cash too, and aunt said it would be fine. The problem is that her parents wont let her go with me for shit. We were talking with them for two weeks now. Bascially they dont even care what we are saying. They neglect the fact thate everythhing is goung to be set up safe and well and that i had proven that I am able to take care of her. Sometimes even better than they do (but thats not the point). They're keeping to refuse "cause she is still underage and they cant leave her for so long w/o supervision". The truth is that they dont care about her safety are actually trying get revenge for last holiday when she didn't go aboard with them because she didn't wanted to leave me for so long and they "had" to stay because of her. There are some other factors that make them act that way but I dont want to make this post even longer so if you need any detail - just ask. My question is: how do I convince them to make a decision at least for this one time that satisfies us?
tl;dr How do i convince gf's overprotective parents That it would be perfectly fine even for them to let her work with me in the summertime?
Also sorry for mistakes and typos - English is not my native language.
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Stop dating a 14 year old, or someone who acts and is treated like a 14 year old
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She's 17, dipshit. And when it comes to maturity... Well I know some people who are in their twenties an still are whiny irresponsible little shits. She is not like that in any way.
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>>18018247
Either way, you don't or can't. Since she's still a child, she still has to obey mom and dad's rules.
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How do I approach a girl on facebook that I know I saw her profile on tinder?
Should I'll be honest and tell her I saw her on tinder?
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>>18018196
>Should I'll be honest and tell her I saw her on tinder?
Why would you do that? If you matched with her on Tinder, why wouldn't you just talk to her on Tinder? If you didn't match with her, she's not interested in you and I don't know how much clearer she could make it.
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>>18018227
dunno, there's not much I can do, I'm just average.
It's been proven even hot male supermodels only have a 10% reply rate on tinder.
http://elitedaily.com/social-news/men-women-tinder-experiment/1310866/
you have clearly no idea how tinder works and how people like me have no chance on tinder.
how am I going to make it on tinder when I'm just average?
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>>18018309
What point are you trying to make? That doesn't answer what I said at all.
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Trump supporter at libtard college 2017-02-03 09:10:22 Post No.18018176
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Trump supporter at libtard college
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Ok so im in college and I support Trump yet all these psycho feminists and black supremicists are trashing trump and calling all his supporters "nazi" even though we are all pro isreal and anti muslim extremism. Should I openly announce my support for trump? Wear a MAGA shirt and hat? Show off my Michael Savage books? Or is it bound to get me in trouble at such a libtard place?
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Do it, and the come back here and cry about how you have no friends and everyone hates you
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>>18018176
If you're confident you don't need to be a loudmouth about anything. They have to go back.
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>>18018180
I do have friends I just am new at this college
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I'm 24, and I just spent the last 5 years of my life devoting most of my energy to a relationship that didn't work out. I more or less had to put off college, friends, etc. (Due to the way my brain works ATM, I can do really well at something but only mediocre at everything else at the same time. Relationship was perfect until I realized it was unsustainable and basically it ended)
What the hell do I do? Do I just really get nothing out of the 5 years of energy I spent, other than the realization I'll never have anything else like that relationship? Fuck. But I basically lost 5 years of my life. Even the memories are sullied by the fact it ended so badly so I don't even have those. And they are 5 of my prime years too (19-24). One of the things I really wanted to do was to become a professional gamer and that's shot now, since I guess I'm too old or something / have to focus on something that can reliably support myself. Not to mention I'm so jaded now playing games for a little money seems almost pointless.
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Learn from your mistakes. See what youfid wrong in that relationship, fix it and move on. Ots hard to move on specially after such a long time. But youll get over it.
Sometimes what you think is love its not. Its just that youre so used to thst person and they know you so well, you just stay there. It took me bout 6 months of hard drinking and thinking to ralize this, after i broke uo with mu girl of 4 yrs.
P.s. you can get something out of it, you sn become a better partner.
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>>18018174
Dont ever make one person your whole world because when they lesve you youll end up lonely. Try to always have a support system, some tp talk to someone thatll distract you from what going on.
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>>18018174
You pick your shit up and continue on my man.
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It's complicated. I love my SO, but we've been together for five years.
I'm very happy, like i never thought I'd be with someone else, especially not for that kind of time.
There's just one downside and it's killing me. When we're fucking, she won't cum! Like, NEVER. I always have to go down on her so she can cum.
I really, REALLY miss fucking a girl's brains out till she cums like crazy and passes out in pleasure it's a big time fetish for me.
I subtly suggested a threesome, but she said she wouldn't stand the sight of me fucking another girl.
What do? I really don't wanna cheat on her =(
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>>18018153
This is why I fuck as early as possible. If we're not sexually compatible from the jump, I am way past the point in my life where I'm gonna invest time into seeing IF they can learn to be the kind of partner I want in bed. Too many people who are just on the same page as you from the jump.
I'm with you, OP. My pleasure is largely contingent upon my partners. I don't care what she says about how much she's enjoying it. If I'm not seeing it, it does nothing for me.
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>>18018153
Just cheat on her.
Your relationship isn't going to last anyway. Milk it while you can and get pussy on the side. Best of both worlds.
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Dump her so she can find someone who makes her cum.
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Is Computer Science a good degree? I'm in USA btw
Also I dislike programming, but I seem to be decent at it which is why I am thinking about doing this.
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i'm in the exact same boat as you buddy
hope somebody with experience can tell me if this actually is comfy or if im being a fucking retard
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>>18018165
Look at how saturated the market is with CS grads. Do you think it will be comfy?
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>>18018169
Don't forget the cheap outsourcing too. Plus, people are learning programming on the side to upskill. Unless your grades are really good, there's no point to a CS degree.
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Every time I travel I'm alone. When I get hungry I'm forced to either eat fast food or lunch meat/cheese/bread from a supermarket, I'm too scared to go into a restaurant by myself
How do I overcome the anxiety? Literally EVERYONE else is in a group or with someone else.
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>>18018102
Bring a book? Sit in the corner? Go somewhere that has a bar and talk to the bartender?
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>>18018102
Just go. It's that simple. I travel alone too and it's not a problem unless you make it a problem.
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>>18018102
you just do it
>YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND
I definitely do. You just do it anyway.
>I can't right now.
Maybe so. Then continue whatever workaround you have developed.
Tell me seriously, is 27 too late to go to university to complete a bachelor's degree? What do you personally think?
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No. I know someone who is 33 and is doing it. I myself am 23, almost 24.
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One of my friends from uni is my mother's age. Does that answer your question?
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>>18018004
Nah
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Hey advice,
Anyone give me advice on the best 7-10 day detox kit for weed? All the Normie's with their relationship "problems" are spamming the interesting and substantial threads.
Thanks guys haha
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>>18018003
Depends on the test. Mouth swab, if you're a regular smoker, should take you 5 days or so to be safe. Urine, a month. If you have to take a whiz quiz I'd advice using fake piss. If that's not an option, you just have to drink fucktons of water before you test, and piss water essentially
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>>18018009
It'll be piss test. Diluted piss counts as fail so overdrinking is out. Any idea of a detox kit that has actual results? Also I'm not talking temporary masking kits like 1 day stuff, I gotten be clean!!
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>>18018025
Curse you predictive tablet text, I gotta be clean haha
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I don't even expect any answers, this is so tangled up I believe no one has an idea or has been through anything of the sort, it's just fucking insane.
My side of the story 1/?:
>Start relationship with the best girl I have ever witnessed
>Can't believe my luck so I think and act like it's too good to be true (nothing special about me, everyone drools after her)
>She loves me even more for it trying to prove she's all mine by going way over the top
>Pays my rent in secret, makes me food daily and I get pissed cause she's too good and I have no plans of getting my heart ripped out again so avoid emotions
>We get together, I tell her I'm going abroad for a job for half a year so we might as well break up as to avoid LDR bullshit and drama
>She says absolutely no, and I agree cause I do want to be with her forever (goddamn feels)
>LDR drama at least 4 times a week, was a fucking nightmare, breaks up with me twice a week cause of random jelausy like "who dat bitch in the background of ur snapchat huh"
>I come back, and it's all even better than before
>We move in together, happiest couple my dick is sore we do the kinkiest shit I would sell my soul to be with her etc
>I find out she's been sending nudes to a guy while I was away
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>I break up, move away my shit and when I tell her it's over because she cheated she threatens suicide
>We try to patch things up but feel like she isn't telling me everything
>I bring it up again and again, but she sticks to her guns
>Says I'm ruining the relationship cause I'm insecure
>Can't believe her cause I have always been cautious and asked her about stuff like that, and she has said that she's never cheated on me - until I found out to which she admitted to only sending nudes and nothing else (they lived pretty close to each other so I try to squeeze the truth out, but she swears that's all that happened)
>We continue on fighting about petty shit all the time, I don't trust her and she thinks I'm an asshole
cont.
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>So things are pretty bad and relationship is going south along with other stuff
>I visit my family for Christmas and she breaks up with me, telling me she has no feelings towards me anymore
>World collapsing around me as I smile and pretend to be happy with family and friends who are over for Christmas
>Tell her to go fuck herself basically, this is the 7582 time she breaks up with me and I'm truly done (no I'm not)
>Come back to Bumfuck, Smallstate USA to continue work
>She still has the apartment
>I find out she's with someone else, and has been since Christmas and they live together
>ok.jpg I'm gonna kill them both
>Calm myself down
>Tell everyone I know how she faked suicide just so she can find someone else to pay for apt
>All mutual friends get to know what kinda whore she is cause I tell everyone she is a manipulative whore that's only after money in bursts of rage and tears
>Some hate me, some hate her - everyone in Bumfuck knows
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>>18017995
Never stick your dick in crazy anymore anon.
It's one of the painful lessons most men learn with at least one woman. The girl that starts of extremely into you, fucks you like they're possessed, something is usually wrong.
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Now her side of the story:
>Always loved me
>Didn't see a future and wanted me to be free even though she still had feelings
>Things couldn't continue the way they were (agreed) so she broke up in that fashion so I don't have to long for her, but rather hate her
>She hasn't moved in with another guy, she was just seeking a rebound and everyone in Bumfuck assumed they will move in together cause this guy just got thrown out of home for being a loser and they happened to flirt at a party
>Still loves me and wants me back and has cried every day for over a month
I still love her, but everyone in Bumfuck will assume I'm retarded or a cuck if I take her back. Not that I care, but we will be ostracized from all our friends that we involved. In addition, I will probably still end up being jealaus for shit and things will come back to being shitty again.
What do? Really do love her, but really do hate her, but I do love her tho. I just don't know what to make of this or how to handle it. Please help.