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What's your priority? If it is money do finance. If it is whatever you are interested in do that as long as it isn't arts. Chemistry has a fuckload of jobs and won't be going down soon so does physics especially engineering.

I need to get money, of course but I'm specially interested in chemistry. Apart from that; do you know how much i will earn or where I can get information about this? ( I know it's difficult to tell but just an example )

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>>18022969
I know a chemical engineer making about 90k or so in Canada.

As if Google doesn't have millions of articles on body language

Means she's trying to look like she's not looking at you.

You know she probably thought you were cute don't make ys confirm it you insecure fag.

>>18022935
I'm genuinely worried about her thinking I'm a creep desu

>>18022889
Girls text all the time, dont sweat it. And dont revenge her by doing it yourself. Maybe step your game up a bit and be more exciting. Shes texting other dudes or texting her friends talking shit probably because your not giving her attention she needs.

>>18022899
This. Communicate with her more. Really figure out what's going on. If she's doing you wrong, leave her, it's never worth the emotional damage of being mistreated.

>>18022889
Just fucking talk to her about it
Communication is important in a relationship

>>18022828
Way to snag a classy one, anon.

She wants attention. Some orbiter will start messaging her and she will revel in it.

Gf status : garbage

>>18022832
second

But let her know how you feel about it OP, if she changes for you and stops the tweeting stupidity, maybe it can be a step in the right direction. If she doesn't though, my advice, leave. Just let her make stupid mistakes till she finally internalizes her error.

>>18022808

When I originally posted this it was on Wednesday so yesterday would've been Tuesday

>FF to yesterday
>friends invite me to go ice skating with them
>I decide to go because I'm bored of photoshopping stupid shit
>get to the place and I see that Jordan is there too
>start breathing really fast and start to get dizzy (because I hadn't had human contact for a few weeks my anxiety got worse)
>run into the bathroom and sit for a bit and calm down
>Eventually calm down and go back out and go on the ice rink and start learning how to ice skate
>I see her and a few of her friends on the other side of the rink just getting on and skating around
>They must've been skating before because they don't have any problems
>meanwhile I'm still struggling badly to go in a straight line
>Jordan and one of her friends skates up to me
>(Them) "hey anon we didn't know you'd be here"
>(Me) "yeah what a coincidence"
>they laugh at that and I don't know why
>Jordans friend laughs so hard she falls
>(Jordan) "anon you have to help her up don't just stand there and look at her"
>(Me) uhhh OK *helps her up*
>we start skating around and Jordans friend says her feet hurt and goes and sits down
>me and Jordan start skating around and she constantly has to wait for me because I still have trouble
>I tell her "you don't have to wait for me, I just slow you down
>she says "no it's OK I enjoy your company"
>"o-ok"
>She must've been fed up with how slow I was going because she skates up right beside me and locks her arm around mine
>my internal temperature rises to 200° Kelvin
>starts telling me how to keep better balance and stay in a straight line
>I start getting the general idea of it
>At one point I slip just a bit and we fall and she lands on me
>(Her) "sorry anon I didn't mean to fall'
>(Me) "oh no I was the one who fell my bad"
>I hear her friend on the outer side of the rink yelling at me

>>18022815

>I look over and she motioning for me to hold out my hand to help Jordan up
>I get up and help her up and her friend gives me a thumbs up
>I tell her I have to go take my medication
>she says she's leaving soon anyway and goes into the lobby with me
>I start taking my meds
>she asks "what are all those for?"
>"I-its just for health stuff (not really)
>(Her) "Oh OK"
>she goes to give her skates back to the people and I sit down on a bench
>she sits next to me and says "I have to go in a bit but I'm just waiting for (her friends) to get their stuff returned
>(Me) "o-ok"
>(Her) "I had fun skating with you"
>(Me) "yea it was pretty cool but skating is hard"
>(Her) "well you just gotta get the hang of it and it's alot easier
>(Me) "I don't think so I'm not really good at balancing"
>(Her) "well them maybe I can teach you how one of these days"
>(Me) "uh OK maybe"
>(Her friends) "OK we're ready Jordan let's go"
>(Her) "OK" *turns to me* "thanks again see you at school" *kisses me on the cheek*
>(Me) "uhhhh yea school"
>*Laughs and then leaves*
>Haven't seen her in a few days mostly due to us not having a class together anymore and I don't hang out with friends at lunch

What do I do from here? Until Tuesday I had never held a girls hand and I haven't kissed or hugged a girl yet

Also some things I feel like I should mention, I don't have a phone because I used all my money to buy a laptop and a desktop for my graphic design classes so getting her number is out of the question as of now

Also I don't use any social media, I used to have a Instagram page where I'd post dumb memes but I got banned for "hate speech"

Shameless self bump

Ask him out on a date anyway. Who knows what will happen.

>>18022824
ah, i don't know. i wouldn't want to make everything awkward and fuck up our friendship. :'(

>>18022848
What's the worst that can happen? Just ask him out anyway. Far better than just moping.

What did you get for that money?

>>18022794
>porn problem

I guess when you don't have problems you have to make some shit like this up. Much like alcoholism or spending too much time at your computer, porn isn't a problem. It's a symptom.

>>18022794
Also I had blocked kik etc on my phone, but then had to remove all restrictions to download an app I need for work

>>18022781
I think the answer lies in your post. Your niche interests aren't something bad, but my guess would be that you can't talk about things outside of them. So one thing would be to broaden your horizont. You don't have to be an expert on things, but if you're even mildly informed about politics and sports you can talk to a majority of men. Get some friends who are socially competent and are good at getting along with people and talking to them. You'll automatically become more like that. Also, you're probably very alone because you want it that way or go out of peoples way because you're scared of them

>>18022781
>implying that extroversion is synonymous with having good social skills
>implying that social skills aren't something you practice

anon, i'm pretty introverted, but i've gone out and practiced socializing enough that i can easily talk to most people.

also, have you seen an extrovert with bad social skills? it's like one of those beautiful disasters where you just can't look away.

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What are your interests? Just lay them down for us.

>>18022767
everyone is into cuckolding, plus thats 60% of porn these days anyways. I bet your into even weirder porn so there's that.

>>18022767
Yes, you should. But that said, most people's porn is going to be pretty rough stuff given the age we live in.

>>18022775
No, they're not

>>18022767
Well what are you into?

I'm married and hang out with girl friends alone all the time

who cares

I think everyone should flirt more in general. Especially at work. But keep it harmless and fun. Flirting at a party seems like several notches above that.

>>18022761
It doesn't work at work when there are way more men than women and the women always have their guard up against sexual harassment.

you're insane

>>18022734
Gee thanks

>>18022717
Yeah you're fucking crazy

She probably wants to go to UAE because it's good cash. That's the only reason people work in those shitty places

It sounds like the only thing stopping you from breaking up with her is the fear of hurting her feelings. I think you should do whatever you feel is the most beneficial to you. It may come across and selfish but it's the only way you can effectively move forward in life.

Ages?

>>18022713
16 to 20 (it's legal over here and we haven't had sex regardless). I've been uncomfortable from the start but we were both desperate, but now that we've constantly been getting reactions from other people for months now, I'm sick of it.

>>18022712
I guess I'm just afraid she'll do something stupid.

>>18022698
It doesn't sound quite right to me, but I couldn't give you an exact reason as to why. It's more the sort of thing an American would say, rather than an Englishman.

>Native English speakers please help thanks.
I'm a native English speaker. However, I'm from a part of the country where "shall avus a cup'tea wunus?" is a perfectly acceptable way to ask your friend if they'd like a drink, so grammar is not my strong point.

>>18022782
But does it convey the meaning of what I'm trying say say?

>>18022791
It does, but you would be much better off saying something like "Halfway through day 11 of the Greeks, and god almighty do I love it"

I'm in a similar boat. I would suggest to find something to fight for. In the old days we went to war to get meaning. We raided and pillaged.

You're not going to find meaning playing mini golf.

>I've grown to hate women

You could always try men.

But on a serious note, why do you think all those women end up cheating on you? Because the only variable that hasn't changed is you yet you think everyone else is crazy. You might be right, but you might also be completely delusional.

>>18022684
>Because the only variable that hasn't changed is you yet you think everyone else is crazy.

That's not true. Culture has changed too. Why do girls need to stick around these days? Just open up tinder for some better options.

>>18022634
Wow didn't realize that had gotten that long until I posted it. Sorry for the blogpost

>>18022634
>saving herself for someone she loves
>has a bf but doesn´t sleep with him
sounds kinda wrong to me. I mean how do you not take any offense in that? because I would. Because she´s wasting your time in a relationship with you if she desn´t love you, and if she loves you and doesn´t sleep with you, she´s just being a cunt.

Had a prude virgin too. Not the christian "I want to save myself for marriage" type, but just a prude girl. Get playfully touchy and intimate with her, (I mean stuff like playfights, groping her a little here and there, tickling her, picking her up or dancing with her) she´ll ease into it very fast. From there on seducing her isn´t that hard. Talking and saying you want sex isn´t going to do shit.

>>18022634

She made her intentions clear from the start and you accepted them my friend. Either man up and wait till she's ready or find someone else. There are plenty of sexual things you could do that don't involve her vagina.

But why are you asking us if you've found something worth waiting for? She's not a trophy or an achievement. Do you actually like her or not?