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I guess the main thing is to just keep doing it and try to learn from your mistakes.

Try to get better at editing, filming, writing ect.

Try to make something you would want to watch.

It's very rare for anyone to blow up on Youtube over night. It might take a couple of years or maybe even more than that but who knows, everyone is on a different path.

Also i know you said not to bring it up but do share your vids on social media anyway and maybe put in popular #'s with it or try posting your stuff on /b/ or Reddit.

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>>18028425
Right. I agree with all of what you said. Only thing I fear is getting flagged for spam. I feel like going to /b/ might be throwing myself to the wolves. And other places will just see it as begging and find it annoying. Then again any exposure is good exposure when you're tying to gain,,,, well exposure.

Kill yourself, then maybe your parents will actually claim you

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I think you're just overthinking things. You really just need to calm down. Just go for a walk in the park. As lame as it sounds it will actually be enriching on your life. Bring your girlfriend. Buy her an ice cream treat.

People with OCD often have intrusive, horrible thoughts. They might not want to murder their mother, but they won't be able to stop thinking about it. The guilt is awful, etc etc.

I'm not saying you have OCD, I'm just saying that violent, intrusive thoughts are a well-documented phenomenon. Should you talk to a shrink? Depends on how much it bothers you and how bad it is. Do some reading on it and see if you can reign it in yourself. If not, maybe try some therapy.

>>18028404
good god, there are a lot of fucked up people masquerading as normal

>hour away
>won't be able to go home

Why not?


Also why tell her? I think you are over-thinking. If she asks or it comes up or something, don't lie. But I don't see a reason to just tell her.

>>18028383
Because I don't have a car and there is no late public transport.
Yes I think you're right, I'm overanalysing this, its really a not a big deal.

>>18028410

Honestly if you told me that you had booked a hostel I'd take THAT as whining pressure for sex.

>>18028324
No she isn't related to you whatsoever dude good luck ma brother

>>18028327
I've heard the same when asking other people about this. Just never been in this situation. Thanks though

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I think i heard "best friend" somewhere in there. Making not blood related. Not even family related. Not even married in or anything. What the hell dude. Go get your dick wet and the such.

Probably.

Is the thread specifically about them?
That is slightly less retarded.

But most stubborn people aren't going to admit they're wrong just because a bunch of random people on sites they probably have preconceived notions of said so.

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>>18028350

...even if it's a lot of people?
Don't underestimate my autism anon, I made three threads in three different sites, with a good amount of people calling this person out in all of them.

It's so tempting to just print it all out and shove it in their face, I swear to god.

>>18028357

Obviously it's going to depend on the person.
I definitely have had people wrong me who will never see themselves as anything other than an innocent victim.
On the other hand, there are many, many things I've done that haven't exactly been popular that I stand by 100%.

It depends on how open for discussion it is in their mind.

>>18028285
Tinder is a piece of shit, download Badoo or okCupid. I had better luck on the latter.

>>18028317
I know, and I would, but okCupid at least has never even heard of my country, so can't use that.

Tinder is what's hip and widely used here, and it's worked well for me in the past, but it really is getting worse and worse with every update for well over a year now it seems.
You used to be able to get around that by just using an older version of the app, but now everything suggests that the ham-fisted developers fucked up the backend as well, and there's not much you can do about that.

pic of you? i think ur ugly

I'd pick A anyday, but that's because I don't want flings. Looking for meaningful, long lasting relationships.

What about you OP? What are you looking for?

>>18028248

How about
>C attractive to me/10 looks, attractive to me compatibility.

If you're not attracted, you're not attracted. Thems the breaks. it ain't a piecemeal thing, it's a full package.

But if you're young and inexperienced to not know that, you may as well go learn by gaining first hand experience, fuck ups, and successes.

>>18028248
A out of those choices.

Can i take 7/10 and 70% compatibility? That's my dream right there. I would be uncomfortable dating someone who looked like a model and i want someone who is compatible but not a carbon copy of me. I always found 70%ers the most intriguing when i was on OkCupid.

>>18028183
Because you're curious in seeing how someone you used to know is doing, to see if you still had enough of an impact on them or not. It's not so much about missing them, it's seeing if they miss you. He'll probably want to start running once the mention of a baby becomes reality from her anyways. Blunt, but time to move on OP. Here's to hoping you'll find someone worthwhile.

>>18028196
Well i hope he runs. He didn't want kids, but he said a lot of things he never meant, so who knows if he wants them now.

I do have another crush right now, but he doesn't seem interested, so I'm heartbroken in two directions right now and can't sleep.

>>18028203
Be easy on yourself, anon. Your feelings are valid and they must really hurt, but remember to be as gentle as you can in regards to your wellbeing and try your best to allow yourself some rest. Let things be, just let them be and see what happens. Maybe he'll leave, maybe that crush might show some signs of interest, maybe there's other opportunities that'll arise for you. It's hard, but acceptance to get at least a slight peace of mind is important in mending a broken heart. Don't let that broken heart stop you from loving yourself. Take care.

You need to deplete your brain of anxiety generating chemicals, exercise is good but not enough, or even, not useful, you need to find something which makes you REALLY anxious, the most. You need to vaccinate your brain, getting yourself into difficult situations.

Not joking here, take a walk in a hood, at night. Being alert and ready will make good use of your brain chemicals.

Your problem is that you have to much brain energy, concentration (even thought you might think you are unable to concentrate), you need to engage in EXTREMELY STRESSFUL activities to make use of your brain.

BECOME A RACE DRIVER, or some other dangerous profession

ok i helped you, now you got to help me.

I want to kill, I have some sort of self-righteousnesses that makes me want to justice myself everything in the world. I see some son of a bitch walking with a pitbull without a leech, I want to kill them both the dog and the guy.

Some idiot driving recklessly, block his way, get out and shoot him.

Some scekchy looking bastards on the street, just shoot them or run them over.

I live in a rural area, no much camaras, there are roads with very few traffic, if I just killed a random bastard that pisses my off, nobody would ever know.

>>18028718
>sketchy

I know I sound like an edgy 12yro. But I am actually, a really calm and rational person, I have firearms and chemistry knowledge. I control myself pretty well but Idk when I might snap, and the knowledge that I have makes me dangerous.

What should I do?, your reply might save lives.

2 days? My longest lsd trip lasted about 14 hours and for another 8 hours I had a lot of trouble sleeping. But if you feel like shit after 48 hours go see a doctor or something and try to get some sleep. Go out with your friends and have them reassure you that it's nothing big. Maybe you're exaggerating the time so I can't be sure

>>18028171
I'm not exaggerating, I literally had 180 ug at 1 PM, Saturday. My friend had to abandon me to go back to school so I had to cope with this myself. I really hope this is just afterglow, if not, I may have turned myself into a schizophrenic.

>>18028177
>tfw near triple this dose first time the other week where reality fell apart and ego death

You're okay OP and your mind needs to recoup and was realize you were short-handed in this experience. Treat it as a cold or something similar. Relax and recoup. Eat well and sleep well.

I felt like dogshit after my trip, absolute dogshit, so I can only assume some will take it differently. I just ate good meals, stayed active and eventually after a bit it passed. Then again I'm an asshole.

I used to be in a relationship like that. I just couldnt be bothered for sex. I had sex like once every 2 months or so. My boyfriend begged me all the time for it. It was just so boring to me. He never got me off either. It was all him.

We broke up and i got with another guy. THEN i found out my ex was not well gifted in regards to penis size. He was between 3 to 4 inches and it didnt feel good for me.
My current boyfriend is 7 inches and wow its like my whole view on sex changed. My bf bought me a bullet sex toy to help me orgasm.
Now we have sex 3 to 4 times a week.

My advice to you is:
Your fiance might not be having fun during sex. Buy toys. Knock her socks off. Dont make it all about you. Make sure she orgasms too. Ask her what she likes.

>>18028156
I dont think I have a big one, but around 5.5 inches. Sometimes pretty excited gets bigger and even "hurts" her.

I dont beg her, but its hard to look for a future like this... She thinks she is not looking good and etc, but I also think I am not exciting her.

Thanks anon, I will try to buy some vibrator and stuff. I did asked and etc on the past, but she is too puritan now.

>>18028141
Dont marry if your libido doesn't match. It will just lead to resentment down the line.

"I feel fine enough, although I look meek" wtf does that even mean jesus Christ. It's not hard being confident you just do it lol

women lie all the time
she found a better looking/more ric/whateveritis she wants boy and she needs an excuse to get rid of you

get used to it, women are like this

>>18028127
What do you do on a daily basis OP?

Who said you're the bad guy? You just sound fucking boring. Who wants to be friend with someone boring? No one, that's who.

>>18028092
im as unique as they come. i never said i was boring.

>>18028094
>I like to be mature and serious. Conservative, judgmental, and condemn degeneracy
You didn't have to say you were boring, we got the message.

>>18028071
>girls only have to be "not fat" and "not a crazy bitch" and guys who expect anything more than that are labelled "assholes who don't appreciate women"
I'm sorry, but do you live in the real world or solely on 4chan?

>>18028075
The real world

>>18028077
Clearly you don't but you keep living in this fantasy world.

poor cat

>>18028048

Yeah he's a sad little dude

You're stupid if you do that. Just learn to talk to people. Perhaps if you actually talked to someone about how you feel.