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I really need some good advice. I need to know if I should get married. I've been with my gf for four years and there has been increasing pressure from both our families, but especially from her to get married. It's very important to her. It's increasingly feeling like it's either a ring or she leaves, and it's taking some of the fun out of the relationship.
I do love her and she's perfect for me, so I don't want to lose her. Marriage feels very final to me though and worry I will be ruined financially if we ever divorce. So I really don't know what to do.
Is how I'm feeling normal? And should I do it? Should I propose?
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>>18029099
If a ring is the only thing keeping you together then your marriage will fail anyway. If you seriously think she will leave you just because you don't want to propose to her then the last thing you want to do is propose to her. You can only propose to a woman you not only love like crazy and want to be with no matter what, but one who feels the same about you. If she really loves you, she'll stay with you whether you marry her or not.
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>>18029099
Anon said it better than I could >>18029112
Marry because you want, not as an ultimatum.
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>>18029099
Do you want children? If yes the marriage is just another step in you becoming real adult.
If no, then you will break up anyway.
If you are scared about finaces in divorce, do prenup and google some divorce stories and research them with your future wife. So both of you know how badly you can end up and possibly prevent it.
And yes human beings are generally scared before making huge steps in their lives. Marriage is one of them.
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How can you tell if you have autism?
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very easily
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>>18029087
I didn't know I was on Yahoo Answers
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>>18029085
If you can ask, you don't have it. If you had it, you couldn't ask.
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Are Jock straps considered gay?
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well? from both a male and female view, are jockstraps considered gay? If I own a pair will I be seen as a gay guy because I know that there's a gay stigma attached to it I just never knew if its really a thing or not
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>>18029079
depends. are you just wearing one for no reason? probably gonna seem gay if anyone finds out.
but if you're literally wearing one because of sports, than no one who matters is going to judge you. i wore one while playing rugby.
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What's the relationship between jock straps and homosexuality? I've never heard anything like this
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>>18029079
also
anyone who sees your jockstrap is either close enough to you to know you're straight, or just a rando in the locker room. they'll also know that you need it for a reason (presumably) and wont say 'OH OP HAS A JOCKSTRAP, SURELY THAT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH HIM BEING AN ATHLETE AND JUST MEANS HE LIKES IT UP THE BUT LOL IM GONNA TELL EVERYONE AND JUDGE HIM'.
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Would it look faggy if a dude wore this shirt?
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also, link
http://eeveetee.com/pkm-10312016x8?s=hanes-5250&c=Black&p=FRONT
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If you're trying to look like a faggot, mission accomplished.
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More like "I touch little boys"
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>Sunday night
>Get hammered with the boys while watching the super bowl
>Don't give any fuck about football
>we decided to hit up the bar and meet this girl we work with
>last time she we drank with us she was all over me
>when we leave the bar all drunk we walk to the grocery store across the street
>her and I are talking
>she grabs my hand
>hold hands the whole drive home
>we get back to our buddy's house
>put on some Netflix
>put my arm around her
>our fingers are interlocked
>her legs are on top of mine
>we transition into both of us laying down on the couch facing each other
>arms around each other
>she calls a cab after we finish watching "Back to the future"
>we change positions again
>I'm like semi sitting
>she's sitting sideways with her knees bent and her feet pressed into my lap
>she starts kind of moving her feet right on my dick under the blanket
>almost like a cat kneading
>Don't get an erection since I'm not a footfag
>she stops after 20 seconds without saying anything
>she tells me we can split the cab since I'm on the way
>I jump out on my turn and walk the rest of the way home
>When I get home I text her thanking her for the cab
>she says she was worried about me walking home and is glad I made it back safe
>text her back with "awww thats sweet <3"
>she texts me "night anon <3"
>fast forward to the morning
>text her morning bants (ya hung over?, etc)
>we go back and forth a while till she says she's going back to bed
>4 hours later she texts me thanks for inviting her out last night
Every time we get drunk together we end up cuddling, holding hands and falling asleep together. We made plans to hang out tomorrow at her place and roll dnd characters (neither of us really play that often so it'll be a learning experience for both of us). I have no idea what to do at her place if it gets awkward and I have no idea what to wear. Every time we've had an emotional connection we've been drunk. I honestly think I'm in love and I don't want to mess this up.
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>>18029071
When you're cuddling you kiss her you faggot, cuddling is the universial sign that a women wants to fuck your brains out.
>cuddling
>kiss
>sex
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>>18029071
Should have kissed her and proceeded to fuck her brains out t b h fàm. The cuddling was an invitation to kiss. The moving her foot on your cock was a signal that she wanted the dick.
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>>18029071
Usually cuddling implies some sexual interest. However, I used to see a woman who only wanted to kiss and cuddle for a few nights - sex came later. Every woman has a different preference, it's up to you to figure it out. By contrast, most 'cuddle nights' I've had ended in sex.
Her making direct contact with your dick, well; that's fairly obvious. Invite her over for another round of 'Netflix,' buy a bottle of wine or something and make some magic. Look her in the eyes, smile, say 'this is nice', and start making out. Move your hands up and down her thigh/breasts/ass etc. Bonus if you do this touching and rubbing for a little bit while initially cuddling to get her in the mood. If she's ready, it will come naturally when you're doing all the above. She'll respond positively rather than flightiness/not at all. Listen to body language, anon.
Not too late to salvage this.
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Hey friends, my gf is going to dump me in a few hours. What should I do? Should I try to pork as many chicks as possible in the meantime? If so, what some good tips for getting laid a lot in a small window of time?
Also, I'm fit, routinely called hot by women, but a little autistic.
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>>18029060
How you know you getting dumped, dude?
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>>18029063
tl;dr version: shit hit the fan, she wants to meet up and talk. Relationship has soured for her from what I perceive, and I'm never wrong about this kind of stuff.
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>>18029060
If you're so great, jump on tinder or craigslist. Can get laid in a couple hours. Make your intentions clear and cut through the bs
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> looking at significant others search history (to find a specific thing pls rly)
> searching for teen pussy
> I excuse this because its just fucking porn
> looking at ex's photos
> Cant say im too pleased but who doesnt get curious from time to time
> Many craigslist searches for dirty stuff in London
> also searching for flights to london.
> been deleting skype from his computer after claiming he used it to call a friend who i know
> says he will go to see friend soon ( friend loves in london )
Little help guys. Has a line been crossed, do I say something and am I being cucked if I dont.
W h a t d o , v e r y s a d.
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*lives in london
oh dear.
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bumping ; - ;
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been there, done that. nobody faithful these days
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>Been knowing/hanging around with a female school mate for 1 month now
>Never had any female friend in high school (was a beta/girls didn't like me)
>I have been fapping furiously by the thought of her at least 2 times a day since we met
Is this bad?
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>>18029044
Sounds pretty healthy to me.
Fap more and enjoy.
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>>18029044
How is this even a question?
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female here. i dont think its bad.
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Okay, so this girl I've become friends with in the past couple of months just decided to ignore me. We don't even talk, like, at all now. I know she isn't mad at me so I can't see what the problem is. I thought we were friends and she acts like nothing has happened. I even thought she liked me at one point, because her behavior was weird around me. She'd even tease me whenever she had the chance, friendly teasing. So I'm asking you guys for advice. Am I that much of a faggot so she doesn't want to spend time with me anymore?
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>>18029026
Maybe her dad died. Maybe she got diagnosed with cancer. Maybe she has a new boyfriend that doesn't like guy friends. Etc.
The point is, maybe it has nothing to do with you. It hurts to be ignored, but she has her own life. Do you have other friends besides her? Are they ignoring you too?
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>>18029034
I'm pretty sure none of that has happened since she's still friends with a lot of other people. I get your point though. And to answer your question, no, none of my friends are ignoring me.
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>>18029048
Then it's not about you being "that much of a faggot", right? People still talk and hang out with you. It's only her that decided to cut ties. So what? People come and go. Don't let this one get too you. Go with those that want you there.
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Does he have the right to know? 2017-02-07 05:58:04 Post No.18028997
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Does he have the right to know?
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My boyfriend broke up with me over 2 months ago. His excuse was because he wanted to talk to other girls and enjoy his college life. He told me one day we would get back together but never gave me a yes.
Another issue is that we live together.
Any ways, someone told him we dated (which we didn't) and my boyfriend eventually asked me to be his girlfriend again.
He wanted to go through my phone and saw some screenshots of a few text I was sending to a guy I really liked.
He demanded me to tell him if we had sex and told me to provide proof if we didn't.
I don't know if he even deserves to know if I did or didn't. But he's stressing himself out over this and it's stressing me out too.
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>>18028997
You're not a couple anymore. Why should he know?
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Just break up with him. His Insecurities are next level. It really isn't his business if you weren't together and was potentially trying for the same thing. He is the one who would need to come up with the burden of proof as your word is all he gets.
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>>18028997
No he doesnt. He broke it off to you because he's a little bitch.
Your phone is YOUR phone. If he wasn't so wishy-washy none of this shit would've happened.
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Anyone has experience with dating hookers from eastern europe?
I'd rather only europeans answer this.
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>>18028953
>dating
Well I..
>dating hookers
I..
>dating hookers from eastern europe?
..shit son, WTF ?
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>>18028953
No. But im not from europe.
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>>18028953
Using them for their service or really romantically dating them?
If you know this and date her anyway, kudos to you. A lot of guys only discover later that their current woman was a whore, did porno, had leaked photos/videos... etc
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Trying to masturbate less? 2017-02-07 05:33:18 Post No.18028950
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Trying to masturbate less?
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This is fucking atrocious /adv/. I am trying to masturbate less because I masturbate like 5 times a day.
I can't help myself though. I am so fucking lonely that seeing a nude woman is the only thing that comforts me. Obviously seeing a nude woman means I gotta masturbate too.
What the fuck can I do? Everytime I lay in bed, I end up jerking off. I LOVE seeing nude woman or amateur porn.
I am not in a position to get a girlfriend though. I am a fucking wreck. Help me. I feel like women never have issues with masturbation and if they do, it ultimately doesn't matter. I feel like women aren't effected by masturbation in the same way dudes are.
Like I feel unenergetic and disenchanted with life. So much so that masturbation is pretty much what I look forward to. Help me.
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>I feel like women never have issues with masturbation and if they do, it ultimately doesn't matter. I feel like women aren't effected by masturbation in the same way dudes are.
Why do you stop halfway through your post to start wondering how this affects women? Focus on yourself and the situation mate. "Women" don't have nothing to do with this.
>I am not in a position to get a girlfriend though.
Slow down! One step at a time. Begin by getting out of the house more. Pick up some classes or get a job. You'll fap less because, well, you'll have less time to fap and you'll have less energy to fap. Start there.
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>>18028954
I work 8 hours a day man. Usually overtime too. So like 48 hours a week. And I still masturbate 4-5 times a day.
Its brutal.
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>>18028983
Sorry, when someone says the masturbate so much I just assume they are a college guy taking one or two classes for the semester and not working. How do you even keep that up?
But the rest of my post still applies. Join clubs or classes, make friends, hang out. Spend less time alone at home. And stop focusing on girls so much. Life is much more than thta.
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This is your common post made by your depressive, lacking of any self-esteem, unlucky and unloved OP.
I've been for a while trying to improve both my personality and how others perceive me; being as attentive as possible, comprehendible, at disposal of reasonable petitions... while focusing on my duties as university student.
That backfired; I didn't get the appreciation i was looking for with my actions; being as attentive and nice as i could still labeled me as not good enough for anybody, to which i started ponderating what would i have done wrong for it, thinking possible reasons.... Which in the process of actually asking my relatives made me hated among them.
I tried to ask any psychologist i know about my situation, and they gave me the usual "be positive" talk and books to read. Although i read them, nothing is clear, and i grow desperate to know how to improve myself, when there seems to be no answer
I tried looking for something else thats not videogames to do, but i found nothing in my town that i did not try at some point in my life.
As for studies, i recently gor my decent scores from my last university tests, but i felt no happiness.
At this point, im starting to think that ive no hope and that ill never have true friends even if i try my hardest. Csnt even focus in class anymore. My chest hurts like hell and ive got worrying suicidal thoughts.
Wat do /adv/
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I give you my advice.
I'm a newfag so, if this is a pasta... wtvr.
You live in a demanding society, its normal to feel the preasure.
Learn to love your self to begin!
After that my friend... The world could colapse at your feet and you wont move an inch.
You dont have a job? fuck it
People dont like you? Fuck it
You want love? Fuck it, will come to you one day
You want to be rich? No one is so fuck it
You want to have good grades? Fuck it!
Do you feel u did ur best and not getting results? FUCK IT! Try harder next time? What do you have to lose?
Want to kill your self? Fuck it!!! Get out of your room... Go check the world out. Get the details... do something you love.
Look at me, im an asshole! im an ignorant fool! I have no decent job, i have no money, never had good grades, i dont give a fuck...
hope i helped in a way goodluvk
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>>18028904
Feel you anon.
> no friends
> social anxiety
> have to study for uni but depressed as hell
What i usually do is try to avoid suicidal thoughts, listen to some inspiring music and do workout or something to feel better
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>>18028904
I think you have shitty people in your life. You are saying they ask for help but get mad when you ask for help back. That sucks.
But here's something you did to yourself: Don't expect a reward. Being a good person usually helps, because, believe it or not, there are nice people out there. Sadly, the "universe" or "God" or whatever doesn't have to reward you in a timely fashion. It can take a lot of time to start noticing the good people around you.
Be a good person because it's nice, not because you expect your prize.
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I am about to go on a date with a socially awkward girl.
WHAT THE HELL SHOULD I DO
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>>18028859
Have fun!
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>>18028859
rape
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B U M P
I need serious help, she is waaay to not talkative
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I have a huge problem:
>meet girl through soc
>we talk about shit
>we exchange pics, but she looks like 18 and never mentioned her age
>now she tells me that she is 15 and still goes to HS
>during our conversation I may have asked if she wants to send me a pic of her ... you know and I would send something in return, but never did that and it was before she told me her age
>I read it's only illegal to arouse her, but flirting would be okay
>I even asked her to delete the chat log and have proof in screenshots that she did
Can something bad happen to me?
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I'm calling the fbi right now
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>>18028813
You crimed so you will jail!!!
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>>18028828
I explained it to her after she told me and I had no intention at any time to do something sexual with a minor