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Going to try this board now:
Been almost 2 weeks on antibiotics (minocycline 75mg) and a gel (epiduo forte). I'm getting a bunch of white heads on my back and waist. Also around my shoulders and arms. Face is very dry and sensitive. Pic related. The area around my waist.
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Should add that yes all of this was prescribed by a dermatologist. Those zits weren't there. And I've been washing with a clean and clear wash. Been also moisturizing with this sinice yesterday.
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what exactly is the illness/pain this is supposed to cure?
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>>18029580
Acne. It was there but not this bad.
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How do I get my American friend to celebrate Easter with me? It's mind boggling that someone from a Christian nation doesn't celebrate one of the most important holidays of Christianity.
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>>18029318
Easter is a pagan holiday.
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>>18029318
Are you going to have easter baskets to collect Easter eggs full of Easter candy from the Easter bunny?
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>>18029318
Hahah, wait what? Americans dont celebrate easter? Do the english celebrate it? How is it they dont? Im just mindblown right now.
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Why is my mental health always stopping me from building a future?
I worked at Mercedes as a spray painter and I was treated like a piece of shit, I couldn't handle it more than 1,5 years there. Now I'm back home without a job and not knowing what to do.
I'm 23 years old, I should have had my own place and a nice car, a good job and a woman at my side. Instead I have fuck all.
Pic sorta related. I used to have these, but I had to sell them.
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>I should have had
By whose standards?
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>>18029322
Co-worker had all that and he was 24
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>>18029311
I'm almost 23 too and just finished my bachelor's degree and I don't have any of these either. I know what it feels like to compare yourself to others and feeling worthless. Fix yourself smaller goals and slowly build your self esteem brick by brick. A nice car, a woman and a good job won't necessarily bring you happiness. It must come from within.
Let's start a thread with most fucked up things an ex has done.
Me first. She cheated on me plenty of times and when I broke it off she cut most of her body and then showed me it all on video as she was bleeding still. Fucked me up. Among other stuff
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>>18029289
That's hot.
Cared for someone who emotionally and mentally fucked me up. Was literally going crazy and had to move to my parent's home state to regroup.
He compared me to other girls. Constantly looked at other girls in front of me.
Had his mum and step dad refer to me as his gf when I wasn't (damaged and confused tf out of me)
Would ghost me for days on end when he was the only person I knew in a different state and city
Constantly called me disrespectful without evidence to back it up (wound up catching him bringing a girl over to his apt then found her thong laying in the floor in his apt days later)
Constantly lied to me and bluffed when I could see straight through it and had witnessed things with my own eyes -- all without his knowledge
He wanted all my quirks and kinks but didn't want to stick things out when I was upset or had a depression spell
All around Chad
Believed in that alpha/beta crap and tried to convince me I should sit idle while he bangs other girls because I should be grateful of my feelings for love towards an alpha
Browses /pol/ and b*tched at me for coming on here and /r9k/
His youtube videos aren't even that funny but that's probably because I know he's a total piece of manipulative shit irl
Dude's also hit me, broke my belongings like punching holes through doors and walls
Was a truly shit guy. I should of set his stuff on fire back in August when I had the chance. Stay tf away from the north east if you're in the USA.
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Wow. I'm really sorry you had to go through that. What the actual fuck is wrong with people. Glad you're done with that thrash "individual".
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>>18029402
Let's be glad we're onto a new chapter
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traced my dick on my credit card statement
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This is kind of a long story,
I had an ex use my name to open a credit card apparently years ago and I started getting collection calls about 5 months ago.
My ex is very unstable and I know If I called the police they would likely arrest her and she would kill herself. She even pointed a loaded handgun at me when I told her it was over 3 years ago. So I don't need all this extra drama
I checked my credit and talked to the collection company and it was 1800 dollars roughly. So I asked If I could make payments and I'll pay it off and to close the account.
Well I started making payments 5 months ago.
Last night I was drunk and I was paying my bills and I figured I would pay off the credit card my ex opened so I could get it closed ASAP. Well I made the check out and I thought as a final "fuck you" to this rude collection agency I would trace my dick on the statement and write "go fuck yourself with my dick, I traced it for you".
All this in my drunken mind is a great idea and hilarious. Well I finished paying my bills and put all the mail out while I was smoking last night.
This morning the moment I opened my eyes, I realized the critical mistake I made last night. Drawing my dick on that statement
I ran down the driveway to the mail box but the mail was gone, They already picked it up and delivered my mail for the day.
How fucked am I?
Can you get in legal trouble for that? Is that harassment or sexual harassment?
I know this sounds funny but I assure you this is 100% true and I majorly fucked up.
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>>18029263
They don't care. They got their money and that's all they want.
What are they going to do? Have you arrested for sending a dick pic through the mail?
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>>18029263
Believe me, they've seen worse. The low level clerk whose job it is to open envelopes and record payments may have hung it on the bulletin board for others to laugh about, but the company does not officially know or care.
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OK, thank you for making me a feel a little better about this.
I was afraid this was a crime of some sort
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How do I get a okay job?
Currently unemployed and I haven't done anything but shitty restaurant/retail jobs. I just want to get something that I can support myself on but I cant find one at all since they all say you need experience. I wanna go back to community college this summer for communications but idk how i am post to do anything right now.
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>>18029262
Do you have a car? If you do just go to a fucking pizza place and ask to fill out an application. They'll hire you immediately because they always need people to deliver orders. If you don't it will take a lot longer.
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>>18029275
>inb4 i want a better job
fuck you.
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>>18029262
Communications is a shit teir major that will land you a solid job at a restaurant. But hey, restaurants are okay jobs
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How can I feel like less of a useless sack of shit?
It hit me now that I've wasted the last two years smoking weed and playing video games so I've been developing 0 talents or skills. I'm now a sophomore in college and wracked with emptiness.
Should I join a school club for to help my transcript and try to get back into the things I like? Will picking up new talents or hobbies (video editing, music production, exc) always feel so hard and futile?
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>>18029205
Ohmygod! You're what, 19? and your life is wasted and over?
For god's sake, kid, half the people in the world waste the first two years of college. You may be ahead of most in figuring it out.
Yes, do well in your classes. Yes, join some clubs - not just for the CV but to enrich your life. Yes, make new friends. Yes, find new hobbies.
Your life is not over.
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>>18029352
>Your life is not over.
If you want to get depressing, our lives are over before they begin since we're all gonna die eventually.
OP - find a hobby, join a club, who knows? You can meet some people with similar interests and just be a chill dude.
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>>18029463
Haha what? If you're alive your life is definitely not over.
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am I a bad boyfriend? 2017-02-07 07:18:12 Post No.18029191
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I'm not in college after graduating HS, so my sleeping schedule has been lazy. My girlfriend always goes to prospect park in the morning before going to target and she wanted me to come to both each time I try getting ready for prospect park I fall asleep and don't make it. This has occurred for months. Am I horrible?
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>>18029191
I had the same issue for a long time with my ex, and obviously we didn't work out. A lot of the reason we broke up was because I was just in a shit spot and needed to get my life on track, which meant I didn't really have the time to give a girlfriend the attention she needed. Sounds like you may be in a similar spot.
You can either decide you wanna make an effort, or accept that she is going to end up resenting you for this sort of behavior. No-one wants to constantly put in effort to get none in return.
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How do I stay motivayed to sleep on time and not sleep in the morning after I drop off my little brother to school?
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Don t go to bed during day. when you drop off you little bro really focus on staying awake for the whole day. this way you will be able to go to bed earlier. reward yourself everyday in the morning when you manged to go to bed at an "normal" time. get out of bed and do something you really enjoy.
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What can I change to look more handsome?
OK, I'm 18 and I'd like to change my look in general. Pic rel is what I look like now except I was 16 then. Pretty much didn't change other than a different haircut and different glasses. Maybe I got slightly skinnier too.
Comment away. What would you guys change in me?
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>>18029185
Ditch the glasses, get contacts. Get a classic masculine haircut (short on sides and back, medium length on top)
You already look pretty good, m8
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Second part of the post.
Help me. I'm feeling constantly down. Sad and in general like shit.
Can't be arsed to learn or do anything. My parents threatened to move me to a different school if I won't get my grades up and I don't really want that.
What should I do?
Second part is how do I forget about a gril?
I see her everyday after she rejected me and seeing her just makes me feel like shit even more.
Oh, and she looks at me like often at breaks. Too often I would say. What does this mean?
Thanks adv you're my fav board
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Idk dude, 16 and 18 is kind of a big jump.
If you truly do look the same at 16 as you do now, then sorry you've got a minor case of babyface you're going to have to try and work around. If you can grow a beard (which, unfortunately the inability typically comes with babyface), I would.
Better haircut would benefit you, since you like of look like a lesbian.
Rest I can't do much with without bod pic or an idea of your fashion. So long as you aren't fat you should be ok, but most people will say it wont hurt to bulk up a tad
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I'm a shit person, but so are my friends. 2017-02-07 07:11:25 Post No.18029169
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I'm a shit person, but so are my friends.
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Okay, I'll jump right into it. I purchased a large amount of an illegal substance. One of my "good" friends hooked me up with a dude, and we had plans to start a side venture to save up money for student loans/ travel. I made the foolish mistake of paying for the entire amount out of my own pocket, with promises from my friend that he could easily make my money back.
So things got tricky. My "friend", who we'll call "A", does all the talking with buyers, while I am simply the money supply. Very little contact with the buyers on my end, they all think this is 100% "A's" operation. Logically, since it is my money, i get a larger cut of the profits, until we can each afford to split the costs 50/50. Here's the thing, "A" has failed to get me my money back so far ($2000), and he keeps making excuses as to why he hasn't gotten it. I personally think he has plans to fuck me over and keep taking all the profits for himself, effectively screwing me over. He is a known thief.
Here is my plan: "A" is a talented college athlete, with prospects for his sport popping up all over the country. His whole life revolves around this sport. So I'm thinking, if I can prove that "A" is trying to fuck me over, I will take secret videos/pictures of him indulging in this illegal activity, and threaten to send the evidence to any future coach he hopes to play for unless he pays me back in full. This would obviously burn whatever level of "friendship" there is between us, and possibly result in backlash, but so what.
My questions to you: Is this feasible? How can I do this without it blowing up in my face?
Before you judge me, yes i have questionable morals. No, i will not use violence (unless necessary). And yes, i know it was incredibly stupid of me to trust "A" with a large amount of my money.
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>>18029169
Or stop giving him money until he pays you back, you said he can't do this business without you? But yeah sure you can do that, I don't see how it could blow up in your face desu
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Obviously that is my main option. However, he could still be using the money he took to make himself quite a lot of money, which he may never admit to having if he did. Which leads me to possibly needing to blackmail.
I say it could blow up in my face, because i don't know if he could counter-blackmail me somehow. Guess i can start to try covering my tracks now.
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>>18029169
Blackmail is probably your best option, you could try to recover the money yourself without asking though. It is YOUR money after all
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In love but I can't have you. 2017-02-07 06:56:42 Post No.18029135
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In love but I can't have you.
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This is more of a rant... so don't mind the poor writing
I'm in love with someone who is married. I have no expectations nor do I feel entitled to any of his time/attention. I wish him and his wife happiness and I'm rooting for them to work thru their marriage. I have absolutely no ill feelings for them. They're separated right now and have been seeing a marriage counselor.
I just can't help my feelings. I miss you, I want you, but I can't have you. I know these feelings are reciprocated. This is far beyond infatuation. You know my strengths and weaknesses just as I know yours. And here we are loving the person more for them.
Never have I clicked so effortlessly with someone.The chemistry we share is intoxicating. We're both realists and know that if we lend ourselves to it we could find connections with other people. But it doesn't make this any more real and sincere.
When I'm around you I feel like I can do things I never thought I could do. You make me feel like being the best of myself. The world seems brighter with you around.
But you aren't mine to have and you never will be. I figure I just need time for these feelings to pass but I'm growing impatient and it hurts.
So /adv/ have you ever felt this way? If so, how did you get thru it?
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>>18029135
how old are you?
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>>18029135
In the same boat but it's a woman who's married and part of a failing marriage. She already reciprocates the feelings but what can you do?
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>>18029138
From what I see, she's old enough to be in high school. No one with a job sounds like this.
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help /adv/
so Im in college and I have been dating this girl I really like for around the past 3 months. we get along great and we spend every day together. problem is, she recently told me that she hooked up with a different guy the next day after she met (and hooked up with) me.
this bothers me a lot and I think about it often. to make things worse, he is even in the same fraternity as I am which makes me pretty uncomfortable since I see him a lot.
what should I do? I dont want to break up with her but its hard to get over it.
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>>18029129
Flip a coin.
If tails you ditch the girl and get new gf.
If head you stay as orbiter for years around her, become sad pathetic and regular poster on /r9k/
Your choice.
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>>18029129
Treat her with less respect and become more dirty when you fuck -for example slip a thumb up her ass during sex. Chicks love it when you show them who's boss!
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Sounds like you need to talk to her about it even if it's just to get it off ur chest.
I need some help/just someone to talk to. I'm in love with a girl. We met each other in a nontraditional way, she is an escort. We've now known each other for three years. For the past two months we have been together every single day, except most weekends. Two weekends ago we went on a nice date, did food and a comedy show. She told me she loves me, and I told her that I love her, I spent the night at her place. We then spend the next week together, every single day. She got drunk on Friday and texted me some things that she felt like she needed to say. A few of these things included "we are not together, stop acting like it, I like being independent for a big reason." I went to her house the following day and admitted to her that I do indeed have real feelings for her. I told her that she is the first and only person in the world that I can talk to about anything to, which is the truth. I then tell her all of the superlatives that I enjoy about her, and that I only wish for her to be happy in life. She starts to cry, and then tells me that she feels the same way. She loves how I make her laugh, how I always compliment her, and that she also feels like she can talk to me about anything and I am not judgmental at all. After saying this she goes on about how she has never really had a good bf, they always want to control her. I'm not like that at all. She talks about how guilty she feels if she is in a relationship with her source of income. We then both go our separate ways for the weekend, both of us getting fucked up beyond belief. I cannot stop thinking of her. End of part one.
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She texts me on Sunday, asking if we can talk. We do she tells me how much she has felt like shit because of the way she treated me, how much she really appreciates me, how she needs to work on her self esteem and not be so critical of herself on her mistakes. I've always thought I knew what love is, until I met her and felt what love is. Do you think I can work through this and help her realize herself worth, that she is worthy of a supportive man in her life? Do you think she has feelings for me considering she is the one that reached out an apologized? Am I a dumbass? All I want is for her to be happy.
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You can't fix her.
Red flags exist for a reason.
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>>18029130
I've helped people in the past, so I don't personally think that is necessarily true.
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Hey adv
I'm currently 19 and I think I grew up too fast.
2 years ago, I was always out with friends and we drank some alcohol and visited parties. When I turned 18, I didnt do all these things anymore. My friends were asking me "Hey buddy, come drink with us.", I was like "nah" and I abandoned my friends after time to time until they broke their contact with me.
I got interested into a lot of political stuff, documentations, history since 1 year, but I feel like I'm such a boring person now. When I was 17, I would do any shit with my friends, drinking, doing retarded stuff and so on. But now my mind is telling me "dont do that", "You will hurt urself", "how old are you already?".I don't have fun into these things anymore and I'm somehow ashamed of doing that again..
I see alot of people talking about parties, clubs snapchat, or how they fucked in onenight stands. I also want to go to clubs and have some fun, but It got impossible for me. Even my sister says I act like a 40 year old man
I dont really want to stay like that until I die. Do you guys think that's okay? Would you date me even when I don't want to go to parties anymore?
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>Would you date me even when I don't want to go to parties anymore?
If you think only at parties you can get dates, then you didn't grow up too fast. You are still a teen at heart, you just party less.
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>>18029116
Do you feel like you're supposed to go out because your friends are, or do you actually want to go out?
You don't need to be at a club to have fun, but if you want to go then go.
There's no shame in having fun, it feels like you're forcing yourself to grow up.
"If I like politics I can't be some drunk at 3 AM" is the vibe I'm getting from you.
Find a way to reconcile these parts of you and if you end up not wanting to party, then don't party.
If you do want to party, then party.
You only feel shame if you're afraid of others' opinions and frankly, they don't know enough about you to have an opinion.
Oh and if you feel jealous of those snapchats, remember that a 5 second clip is the highlight of their 5 hours or whatever they've spent at that place.
The rest is just filled with boredom.
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>>18029127
I don't party anymore, because it got so boring for me. It was always the same stuff
>Drink
>get drunk
>headache in the morning
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People (especially women) keep telling me that I'm older than I look and they're often surprised or shocked when I tell them that I'm actually not that old. I'm 21 but they think I'm 25, 26, sometimes even 27.
Is this a good thing or a bad thing?
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>>18029110
That I look*
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Fuck off cunt, come back to this board when you have real problems
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>>18029122
Why are you so upset?