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jesus christ, our lord and savior, says get her drunk and then don't do this horrible thing what's wrong with you.

you're going to have to test the waters very carefully if you really want to go through with this

>>18030248

the problem with this question is it assumes that it can be done, like there's some guaranteed path. there isnt

context matters you stupid turd

>>18030247
Basically I want to go to a gym and contacted my physical therapist I went to recently on details on how much I should do without injuring myself,etc. Nothing complicated but still.

>>18030254
one day/shift you know they worked.

>>18030164
Antibiotics are cheap as fuck even if you have no insurance, they're like $7.

If you don't have $67 to your name you have no business fucking girls. God forbid she gets pregnant and you have to help fund the abortion (hundreds of dollars).

>>18030173
I am aware that they don't cost that much but I'm trying to skip the process of getting tested and just take the pills anon. I can't walk into a pharmacy in the United States and just request Azythromicin without a prescription however.

It was a drunk mistake and I wore a condom, and didn't finish. I fucked up and I am just trying to move past it

>>18030184
>I can't walk into a pharmacy in the United States and just request Azythromicin without a prescription however.
And there's a reason for that. Fucking go and get tested.

jesus christ

Good for you for getting tested op! I believe that if you were tested negative right before, you should be ok. Also, if the bumps are facing away from you, like if they are on the bottom, your cool.

I guarantee it's irritation, especially if you guys groom yourselves properly down there, friction during sex can cause problems. Give it some time to heal and use more elube. Lube is underrated.

>>18030089
How far did it go in?

Bro you better get to the clinic or urgent care or er right now. No lie, I knew a guy that fucking died from the exact same thing.

Not sure if it was tetanus or gangrene or sepsis that got him, but it took him pretty quick. You need treatment.

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>>18030091
Bout 1cm or less

>>18030084
There not really any way to "act" like you are in control.

>>18030084

So, basically, if she starts ignoring you, you have to come out even stronger? That's what people call "being a creepy guy". Take "no" for an answer and move on.

>>18030084

depends. she might just not be into you and often times men stop trying an dthe girl doesn't give a fuck.

depends on if this girl actually likes you.

keep in mind thati f you treat it like a game thats all it will ever be. and games dont end in sex.

>>18030076
>I already asked her to have pho dinner with me after work sometime.

Did she say "yes"? I find it interesting that you mentioned it and only later say it hasn't happened yet.

>>18030081
because I wanted to drive her to the place instead of her driving me like she usually does already when we eat out for lunch.

silly reason maybe, so basically it's "hanging out" with no specific date decided which i guess is not definite and limbo.

wouldn't be the first time I've been clueless about shit

>>18030092

So, if you haven't had a date yet, what reason do you have to believe she is into you?

>>18030071
Did you sit on this argument for 2 years and are just having it now?

>>18030075
yeah like i just let it go even though im super super anti violence and he knows this but i let it go and tonight i told him people still bring it up and give me shit for it (like as a joke) and i told him it made me uncomfortable and he just went off the deep end screaming that i was ungrateful and backstabbing even though ive not once said to anyone that i think he was in the wrong or that the situation made me uncomfortable. i only told him and just him that im uncomfortable when people bring it up because i wish they would not and he just continues to screech

>bringing up shit from 2 fucking years ago
That's a sign that this is the beginning of the end if I ever saw one

>>18030061
>30 min away
You say this like it's a long distance

>>18030068
It's not very far, but it's far away enough to where I can't just pop over there for a quick convo and such. It's also about 25 miles, so it's a financial drain too.

Both.

You're desire to be close to this person, and your curiousity about their life will eventually result in you becoming clingy and pushing this person a way. Out of obligation and understanding, they won't end the relationship. Instead, their mind will begin to wander over time. They'll meet nice fun people that they can interface with everyday, and people that have more opportunities to grow on them. This is all going to be going on as you go about your day and wonder what she's up to. One day, once she's ready to get serious and committed with somebody else, she'll cut you off. You'll suffer for months, blaming yourself. What could I have done better? Was I too clingy? Was she just not into me? What could she have done better? Would it have changed if I was there?
You'll cry, and cry while she fucks and fucks somebody that isn't you. Eventually, you'll reach a state of uncaring. It never really mattered. You mistakenly believed that you were close to somebody, when it reality, you were always kept an arms length away. Far enough to never be close, but close enough to always be there. The zone.

>>18030057

salaried doesn't mean that you're a 24 hour on call employee. salaried does not mean that you aren't supposed to adjust your entire life to match when your boss answers emails. it sucks that she won't get back to you faster, but adding in more time because shes chosen to balance her job this way isn't going to help you.

if you are supposed to leave before 5:30 just let her know that your day ends when its supposed to end so any emails sent after that time wont be read until the next day.

>>18030057
>Should I be making myself available to answer her emails outside of our normal working hours, or should I let them wait until the start of the business day, unless it's urgent?
Depends. Is it something that can wait until the next morning? If so, then leave it. Just because you're salaried doesn't mean you're expected to be on call 24/7

>>18030070

I mean, it's hard to differentiate. We have a client on the East Coast, so my "morning" isn't the same as theirs.

I hate being outworked.

>>18030044
>How can I prevent other parts of my life from taking such a hit?

Keep busy. Don't stop. Fill your day with work, study, etc. Just do shit. You'll stop thinking about her. After that all you can do is wait until you are over it.

go out and date

>>18030044
Because you have no sense of direction or commitment to some ideal, you're letting your breakup affect other areas of your life.

All breakups suck, and the only way to stop the pain is to wait it out. You can distract yourself in the meantime by filling up your schedule but if you start doing poorly in school, youre just going to be reminded of what happened.

Many people pity themselves and the situation they're in because it feels good. It feels good to feel bad about ourselves, as if our suffering makes us self righteous in our neglectful and shitty actions. But self pity is only a temporary satisfaction, and like a drug you build up a tolerance and need more to feel good again.

To break the cycle, you must internalize that breakups are shitty and happen to everyone, but they are exclusive to the rest of your life. Yes, you may have just lost a very important person in your life. But why the fuck do you think that is an excuse for failing your classes?

People don't achieve things by letting bad circumstances affect their work. They may be sad, angry, or sobbing, but they finish the work just as they meant to in the first place. You're letting yourself go on purpose. It's a choice.

>How physically capable do I need to be?

Enough to pass the Army PFT, if you don't pass you get sent up to PCP (Physically Conditioning Platoon.)

>I'd want to be a combat medic, but I have no medical knowledge. Do they teach this or will I need to have gone to medical school?

They will teach you it. They teach you what you need for your MOS which is 68W. There are different types of medical schools such as SOCM but when you go to AIT where you learn about your job they will teach you there which is around 16 weeks.

>>18030024
All other questions should be asked on >>>/k/32893958

>>18030131
>>18030136
Thanks, Didn't think about /k/. Will look tomorrow.

You disgust me. We all deal with shit like this, you're not any special.

>muh depression

kill yourself

>>18030019

It's not that I waz lazy or prioritized social stuff/hobbies over school. It was muh mental issues.

Depression is such a meme mental sickness now.

>>18030504
Well ever since I completed my treatment for it I've gotten good grades again. Depression is basically a disability.

Anyways thanks for your lack of advice.

what are you asking? you both seem autistic

>>18029997

Is that an actual exchange between you two?

>>18029997
If you just want to keep her as a friend then you might be able to do that. Pretty much the only thing you can do is express that her friendship means a lot to you and hope it means something to her too.

If you're trying to date/fuck, then yeah there's basically no way to recover. "You can do whatever you want no matter how that might make me feel" makes you kinda come off as a pussy who won't go after what he wants and is fine with getting emotionally stomped on.

>>18029995
>it seems that nobody want to get on board with me
So? Find new friends.

Have no fear, degenerate.

You don't have to give up neither drinking nor smoking, you must only hold these dependencies to a higher standard.

No more will you drink liquor distilled in your friends toilet, instead, you will pay exorbitant fees for cheap liquor distilled in somebody else's toilet, and forgotten about on a shelf for a decade.

No more will you smoke cheap cigarettes filled with an unknown substance, instead, you wil pay hundreds of dollars to shove long brown cigars that smell like cow shit in your mouth, and huff with pride.

you'll find good people when you are a good person and going places in your life.
Right now you've just got a false sense of superiority from browsing /pol/ too much.