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do girls find it weird if I make comments about people's hands?
I have a thing about hands and really like a nice set of girl hands. will they be weirded out if I admit this , like say if girls ask me what I notice first about a girl and I say something like "their hands and eyebrows"
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Not really anon, just dont go overboard
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what would count as overboard?
cos the other day ppl at work were talking about the Tay swift vid. and i said something along the lines of
>I really hope those long nails don't come back in fashion, they look gross like those overly drawn and squared off eyebrows. like I love the thicker eyebrows trend but the drawn ones look so funny.
was saying that wierd. also in general is it weird to compliment or comment on a girls hands and eyebrows? how would I go about doing so
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I can see that coming off as weird because guys dont usually notice those features straight away. Not saying you should be like "ur tits r huge babe nice", though. A safe answer to what you notice first are eyes and smile, because that is a personal connection. Hands and eyebrows not so much.
Just dont compliment those parts alone, say she has nice hair too or somethin
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Which brand would be better for my cognitive performance? 2017-09-02 05:07:08 Post No.18680855
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I drink a lot of green tea for the brain, it makes me smarter and all that, it's really great, but I'm confused as to which brand I should be getting my green tea from. As we all know, all the brands want to shower their products in bullshit to sell them better and that's why all brands say their products are better than all other ones.
You guys seem educated enough to be able to inform me of the actual truth. Which is the best green tea brand in the world? I'm currently taking Hyleys. Should I start taking Riston instead? Is there a brand which offers more beneficial green tea than both of the two aforementioned?
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You think drinking leaf water makes you more intelligent.
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See for yourself, it's a fact.
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>>18680876
Ah yes. Pseudoscience. The most factual of sciences. Weak b8 btw
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Friend and relationship issues 2017-09-02 05:00:56 Post No.18680849
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I'm going to start this off by saying that I am Schitzoid, so I don't actually care about these people. With that being said, I still try to be a functional human being and put the effort into being a friend. This particular friend is the oldest friend that I have. I've known him since 4th grade, and we're both 27/28 now. He's going through some shit with his girlfriend, and to me it's just yet another reason to avoid relationships.
I don't know the whole story, but from what I gathered, she's got a lot of emotional baggage from the past, and something happened recently that set her off on this emotional "I need space" trip while also being super bitchy and passive aggressive to him. I pushed him into talking to her about it tonight, and he was all weird after they did. He's saying he needless to fix all this shit with himself to prove himself to her or something, but he's also trying to say that he's doing it for himself, which I don't believe. He just wasn't acting right.
Frankly, I am improvising my help, which is what I normally do because I would have just dumped her cold Turkey and moved on. However, I know that's not what normal people do. How the fuck do I actually help in situations like this?
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Why is this shit so complicated?
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shit dude this is great. i hate girls like this truly. they want their boyfriends to do this and that for them because she thinks shes a 'queen' and she deserves it. it seriously sucks if you fall in love with one. still this is a really tough situation, like you cant exactly show him what he's missing and show him there's better girls out there than that cum-dumpster.. what exactly is he trying to fix about himself?? im really interested
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Why are my nipples so round and puffy, it doesn't look normal and it shows through my shirt. Is there anything I can do?
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...wear an undershirt or something?
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oh. okay ill go buy one i hope it helps thx
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wear a bra and lose weight
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My bf just texted me after 4 months saying " I'm such a retard sorry can't even cover for this. I really dont know what to tell you." What do you think this could mean?? What am I supposed to say? Help
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Idk ask him retard
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"What do you mean?"
How hard was that
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Op here I said : your not a retard and whatever you are apologizing for its cool
For which he replied "Sorry for not texting you"
But I AM I retard so what should I reply? Thank you
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I don't expect much but just want to post some feels tonight
I'm going to let it out
Feel free to ignore, I just need to let it out somewhere and move on with my life and take the next step in this journey.
I was born in the poorest country in Europe in the late 80s and my dad was away in Afghanistan since we were part of the soviet union. He served for a few years and eventually ended up coming back home, I was born and years go by before we take the plunge and move out of our shitty country and move to Russia. Years go by, and I go to a Russian school, I had Russian friends and I ended up thinking my life was going to be in Russia, I was probably going to join the military in Russia when I became of age but that never worked out. What happened is the terrorist attacks started happening in the early 90s and my family wanted to move out of this area since they didn't want to see a war in this country with the Chechnian rebels.. 91-94+
Eventually, I had a sister and a younger brother, I am the oldest son, and I am the only one who remembers life in Russia and Moldova., I remember the train rides between countries and I remember the harsh winters.
Ok, back on topic. War breaks out and my family wants to leave Russia and as luck would have it my aunt actually moved with her husband to the US and in the mid/late 90s they ask us to move to America. We did and once again I didn't understand what this would mean but we moved here and I had to learn English and sort of grow up in the US even though I remembered life in Russia and not in the US. Years go by, and what feels like a century. I enter my 20s and find myself without a job, and without any real passion in life. Something my parents couldn't do for me was what career I would find in the US or what I would end up doing with my life. I had to go on my own path and figure out life on my own. I ended up working shitty jobs for a long time before figuring out why not go for a specific industry.
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I started studying while working at pretty low end entry jobs and I wasn't actually able to get into my field for a long time. You see nobody actually gave me a job, I would go to interviews all the time and I kept failing, for some reason I just couldn't get a good job in this field. Time went on and I started studying again, I received one cert and I ended up getting hired on a contract which I was actually good at that job but I was fired after one month for being rude to a client. (dont ask) You see, I lost that job and had to move on and figure something else out. Hard times were back on me and I was in my mid 20s now and couldn't get a job in this field. I ended up feeling suicidal and depressed so I started to study more and eventually I received certifications in this field and I thought I made it but every company who I interviewed with didn't care and never actually hired me on until one day when I randomly applied for a job and they actually called me in a few minutes after applying however the odd part was the job was half way across the country. I interviewed over the phone and skype interview for a follow up panel and actually took their offer. I moved for this career on my own and actually have been alone ever since I moved out of my previous state/home. I have been working, and in 2015-2016 all I did was throw my life into my work and focused on achieving something in my career. Eventually I was promoted and I am who I am today.
The problem I am having is I really have no idea who I am at all. Am I that Russian kid or am I some American businessman?
You see I'm 31 now and struggling with figuring out who I am and what I should be doing in life, I am successful yes, but I am alone and have nothing to show for it other than wealth. I sit at home, I do my own things and don't even have hobbies anymore. I guess what I'm trying to say is I want to move on now and step out of this prison.
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In truth the only thing holding me hostage is my own mindset and I need to to let this go at this point. I am seeking therarpy soon, but I really don't want to come off as some lonely cuck who enjoyes being alone. You see I dont like being alone at all but I just don't know anybody, I am completly alone and I don't know what to do in life anymore. I just don't know what will make me happy and I feel like the more I go down this path the more painful it will be for me. The journey I'm on is mine alone, and nobody can really help me. But I have to ask, why me and why did I survive and move to the US?
These days, I'm in so much pain that it is visible on my face, people in public look at me and they can tell something isn't right. Why am I angry, why am I sad and depressed? The only thing that makes me truly happy is actually going back home and seeing my family, but truth is I can only stand it for a few days, I love my family but I feel being in my 30s I need to start living again and enjoying life. I know some of these thoughts might be weird, but I came from nothing and ended up becoming someone.
I'm also starting to rethink ever having children and if marriage is even something I could ever agree too. I'm not a virgin, or a neet but you see I have lost the two most important things in life while pursuing my career. I have lost myself and I have lost my family
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Sometimes I think and ask my parents why did we move to the US, why did we end up like we did?
My family thinks these are stupid questions and not something I should be thinking about but I have to ask, I am one man. Who ended up becoming successful in America for what reason?
If we stayed in Russia I would have gone into the military like my dad, his dad, and my uncles. I would have eventually died in one of the wars or joined the police force. The thing is none of that happened. We moved to America, and I became an American citizen in early to mid 2000s.
Why me? why did I have to pursue this career and why did I want to see where my life was going to go. I don't really know what I am going to do anymore, but I do have plans for tomorrow and I have been talking to a qt lately
You see, I think it is time for me to move on and pursue other things in life. 4chan feels like a prison to me, but than again I love it here. I don't get to look at anyone typing, or I can't even talk to anyone on here but it is comforting to see others post and others have feels they share with someone or just to post and let it out
I believe this way of thinking is going to start hurting my passion in life and my career, there might be some other people in their 30s on here and they are different than me. I'm a guy with a lot in life, but a lot of wealth and no friends ,no gf, and no real companionship with anyone. I believe for me to be happy again I need to take the next step in life and move on, disconnect from the internet. The internet isn't the problem, but it is my problem. I am plugged into the internet over 18 hours a day and for me to change and once again start shedding my coat and becoming something new, something different in life with a new pursue and a renewed spirit
I have enough money to put away for retirement, I have enough money to travel if I wanted to and at this stage in my life I just don't want to be seen as a loser in his 30s
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Why does dating have so many damn rules? 2017-09-02 04:19:26 Post No.18680740
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Why does dating have so many damn rules?
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The rules of friendship are simple:
1. Connect on a common ground.
2. Be an interesting person.
3. Keep in touch.
It's easy. It's simple. Even a dumbass like me can do it. But then you have the rules of dating. As one fucker put it:
"As if finding someone single and compatible isn't hard enough, then comes the "game" part. You have to apply the right techniques to make sure you don't come off as creepy or needy or too reserved or nervous or weird. Then if you get past this stage, you have to get her number. But don't ask too quickly, might make yourself look desperate. When and if you do actually obtain the number you have to wait to text her. How long you wait is completely up to the individual. You take too long and you seem not interested, you text too quickly and you seem desperate. If you manage to surpass that and not make yourself look like a needy fool then you have to be able to hold a conversation right. Some people say you should only text with a purpose such as a date, others say ask her on a date in person. Let's say you manage to do all that fine and you finally arrive to the first date. You have to make your moves right and do this and that, kiss her by at least the third date... Blah blah blah."
And that's only the basics. Factor in all this hit like grooming and chosing the right ways to dress and psycholgical signs and techniques and how to make yourself more interesting and MY GOD. Like holy fucking shit, if I wanted to play 4D chess, I'd go play fucking StarCraft with those Korean guys down the street. But in all seriousness, does anyone else feel this way, or am I just too stupid for this whole thing?
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You're thinking too hard about this Anon. Chill out
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Dating and relationships are the same as friendships, only you have sex with the person too.
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I wish this were true
First of all, English is not my native language (I've studied for 4 months so far).
How do I know if I'm smart?
I'm pretty sure I've never challenged myself. In middle and high school I was an extremely lazy student, yet every single time I've applied myself I've been able to grasp everything quite easily. Of course I don't know if this accounts for anything, since as far as I know my high school program was designed for it to be passed by barely mentally able people. I've also studied physics for 1 year with great results, but then I've dropped out for personal reasons (mainly crippling depression). Since then I've mostly spent my time playing the violin, and according to my teachers I am an exceptionally musical person, so much that the rector of my local conservatory has started giving me private free composition lessons. Yet, after having studied the biographies of the past composer, I've came to the conclusion that musicality is not related to intelligence in any way whatsoever.
Everyone I've ever met have always told that I'm smart, but for what I'm concerned, they are talking about my oratory skill (my verbal skills are excellent in my native language). As someone who has seen what true genius can be in the works of Beethoven, Gauss and Maxwell, I genuinely don't think that being able to dabble with words account for true intelligence.
So what am I? From what factors can I understand how smart am I?
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Didn't read. The smart thing to do is not to care about your own intelligence and since worrying about is just your insecurity, ask how to be confident instead
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>>18680754
What if I genuinely know how smart I am? It's not necessarily about insecurity, I just want to know this fact about myself.
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You'll know you're smart when you've achieved something of intellectual worth.
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I have a gf that I love but I also like another girl 2017-09-02 04:15:32 Post No.18680728
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Hey everyone. Ive been in a relationship with my current girlfriend for 2 years now and we are steady, have lots of projects together and we love each other very much.
Lately I've been speaking to this other girl whom I've known for many years now and at some point we were going to date (unlike my gf she lives in another state and it would be hard to see each other a lot) but we didnt because she was going through a really bad period of her life.
Fast forward a couple of years and I start the relationship with my current gf (ill call her Amy) - while the friendship with the other girl (ill call her Sam) was "regained" since we weren't in touch for a while.
A few weeks ago, Sam and I talked about those times when she was going through hell and she confessed to me she still has a thing for me and wish she had the chance to change her past. I also told her I still liked her, but I don't love her like I love Amy.
After that I started having fucking butterflies in my stomach thinking about her and I am confused and torn. I love my gf a lot, I don't want to leave her.
There's also a chance I might meet Sam (together with Amy - I should mention they're not friends and don't talk to each other), and I might see her off alone with her.
Give me some advice anons. What should I do? I don't want to cheat either
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Love the one you're with.
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I know and I do. It's just that I have these other feelings in the way and I don't know how to deal with them
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>>18680728
You have to decide for yourself what you want.
Some people are ok having more than one girlfriend/boyfriend, others aren't. Who knows, your girlfriend may actually be ok with this - mabye she can see other boys and you can see other girls. Hell, mabye even have a threesome :D .
Its normal dude, and your current girlfriend probably likes other guys too so, i wouldn't worry about it.
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being social in university 2017-09-02 04:10:38 Post No.18680718
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any tips on making friends/creating decent relationships in university? i start school next week and don't want to enter into the same hole i was in in high school, a shy recluse who longed to be social and around others but was always too scared to try and too unapproachable for others to gain interest. what do?
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Short answer: talk to people
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what are good ways to start conversation? i have usually let people approach me out of a fear of rejection or creating an uncomfortable situation
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OP, primarily >>18680720
I would look out for the people who are extroverts and ask them what sort of social events you can go to. If you don't want to do that, just find a social event and go to it. Forget about that advice about only going to groups you like, just go to the first one you see, and rinse and repeat until you find out what you like.
Its not as hard as you think it is, your mind tries to convince you its difficult,
I would really recommend you socialize a lot in uni, because I would say its the best time in your life to easily make connections. Afterwards, its more difficult (not impossible though).
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How do I tell my girlfriend I get most of my advice from /adv/?
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1. Why do you need to tell her that?
2. Why would it be a problem if you decided to tell her that?
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Don't think I didn't see you fuck up on /a/
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>>18680752
fuck ;_;
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randomly today my internet started having this weird issue where i could only use it for very basic functions. i have a connection, can browse the internet, making this post etc. but I can't play any video game (gets hung at connecting,) i cant access certain websites, and can't connect to certain applications like Skype. I tried switching my DNS settings from automatic to googles default (8.8.8.8) but this did not work (has fixed some issues in the past)..
Really annoying and frustrating issue, obviously ive restarted my PC and router multiple times already. Any advice? Will be monitoring thread if there's any way i can be more specific.
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im connected to steam but i cant connect to any game servers, cant log in to path of exile, can connect to PUBG servers, getting EAC kicked off some games, cant connect to Skype.. strangest thing. Would really appreciate some help thanks in advance
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Windows/Mac?
Any devices between your pc and your ISP's equipment?
Btw thank you for not putting this in /g/
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Try connecting through a different network. Phone Hotspot, free VPN or Proxy works too. My connections been getting intercepted by Verizon lately and I can't stream GTO anymore without a failed server load.
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How do I stop being boring? 2017-09-02 03:52:42 Post No.18680670
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How do I stop being boring?
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I keep repeating this cycle: meet a cool new person, talk to and befriend them and they talk to me for a few months and everything goes well. Then after a few months talking becomes less and less as we run out of things to talk about besides small talk, and eventually communication dies all together. How do I keep a friendship going more than a few months?
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Rape and murder them. Then you won't be boring.
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>>18680685
I mean. You're not wrong. But I meant something a little more legal... I don't like being a friendless beta
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online chat is not always a good way to communicate, try to meet them in real world and do something impressed will make your friendship longer.
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Not gay, something else... 2017-09-02 03:34:18 Post No.18680640
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Not gay, something else...
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Everyone has different tastes and preferences when it comes to sex, but mine is one that I have yet to find in any other dude.
I am ultra turned on by the idea of making love; obviously this entails sexual intercourse, but it's more than that. It's being in complete adoration, and in love with who you're with. All you want is to be one with them as they are having sex with you, and they feel the same way. There is a lot of kissing, a lot of touching, a lot of holding and embracing. More or less there is nothing but the two of you, nothing else matters and you never want to let go of them when you are in that moment with them. Of course this also entails that you a very much so in love with them too and in some sort of committed relationship.
The idea of hooking up, hookers, or even having sex with someone you've dated a couple of times just doesn't sound appealing to me. I only feel turned on by being completely in love with the person I'm with and I know they feel the same way. We are completely crazy about one another and there is nothing one sided about the relationship.
Are there any other guys that have this preference or am I just the gayest straight male that ever lived?
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>>18680640
gays are notorious for hooking up, monogamy and even just dating is increasingly less common in the gay community. They date only in the rarest of cases and just fuck around and slut around 99.9% of the time.
so i have no idea why wanting to be in a relationship is somehow 'gay'.
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>>18680649
I was mostly kidding. I know I'm not gay and I'm not making any statement about gay people in my thread. I used the terms because I feel like most guys would see my preferences to be "gay" because I can't just fuck anything with tits that says hello to me.
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Google demisexuality.
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Stolen credit card on xbox 2017-09-02 03:14:05 Post No.18680597
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Stolen credit card on xbox
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I was an absolute idiot as a 16 year old and wastalked into sharing an xbox account with my ex. I don't even play it anymore and haven't logged in in years.
My mom recently got a bill saying someone spent $60 on Xbox live. I'm pretty sure it's my ex because he's a fucking piece of shit.
What do I do???
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>>18680597
You can call your credit card company or bank and request that any current and future charges from Xbox Live be dropped. Mention that you did not authorize these charges.
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>>18680615
But if it's on the account can't he see the card number?
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If you chargeback, you'll get the $ but they'll delete the account.