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There is a barrier preventing you two from leaving each other when you get bored, and if you mutually respect each other, you won't cheat on each other.

A girl left her man that she was living with for 7 years to get with me once, because it was easy and no hassle. If you make the escape route easy, then someone's gonna be tempted to take it.

Tax breaks.
Small things (or not so small in the moment) like it being easier to see each other in the hospital. Additional small legal rights like that.

I get how you feel. I'm female, and I love my bf of 6 years, but there doesn't seem to be any real reason to get married. While the non-legal part of the wedding (a little ceremony of commitment) sounds cute, I fucking hate weddings overall. Still having one. Still getting legally married. There isn't any real reason for us not to, some benefits if we do, and a big party with gifts n' shit in the meantime.

If you're afraid she's going to steal your kids, your house, your dog, and your money, obviously don't. But if your relationship is good and/or you're willing to do a prenup, why not?

>>18035214
Basic psychology states otherwise, that more people now have a phobia or gain stress more readily from being tied to a commitment, hence the divorce rate skyrocketing over the last several decades, and the cohabitation numbers going up along with it. Sluts are sluts whether they are married or not.

Sleep more.

>>18035198
Didn't your father ever tell you
that porn will make you blind?

>>18035258
I try. Working 5 days night shift though.

>>18035316
Nope!

>>18035346
Time to find me a jamaican shaman

>>18035182
You can drink tea I guess

Have you tried marijuana?

>>18035203
Yeah, a couple times via a work buddy. All it really does is make me feel retarded and laugh hysterically for about an hour.

>>18035114
pot is pot is pot. Unless you're getting it laced with some additive it's all basically the same.

>>18035114
it doesn't have chemicals, I live in Colorado and have helped grow for dispenseries before. it's just a plant, they are a lot stronger strains now then we're around in the 70s but that's not from chemicals being added, it's from specific breeding to get stronger healthier plants.

particularly in the UK you can find strains that have been grown with much stronger THC content that can exacerbate mental issues
if you're buying your weed from a crackhead there are tales of weed being sprayed with bug killer to make it seem heavier
aside from that, weed is weed, it isn't gonna do anything if u aren't stupid

>the grain jew
excuse me?

>>18035093
Yeah, I don't get it either

Alcohol

>>18035024

like.... pretty good.

next!

>>18035024
Very good. You'll never be out of work, can travel anywhere and find a job, and you get paid very well. Solid middle-class (or higher) lifestyle for life.

>>18035036
the same in europe? i live in portugal by the way

>>18034992
Punch that fucker in the mouth.

>>18035025
That. Some people don't learn to stop being obnoxious, but most of those people can learn to calm the duck down around people they're scared of one short sharp burst if violence should do it.

>>18035025
Fpbp

bump for interest

>>18034959
interested, I'm living in another city where I know nobody. Can't go back home because shitty job opportunities.

You don't. Forced interaction is the only way people make friends. If you've spent all of those years burning bridges, what makes you think new groups of established understanding are going to want to bring a potentially volatile stranger in? Unless you or someone in the group is rich/ wealthy and can do to make mistakes and take chances, this doesn't happen. Once you're an adult, everything is about maintaining what you've got and is why people don't respect gamblers. If you still think you have time and money to throw away after 21, you're the problem. Fix that first and try to make up with your old friends; nobody wants to help an adult baby.

>>18034954

it's called banter faggot, chill out. It doesn't mean she wasn't to gargle your dick or she outright hates you (well it could be, but I very much doubt it's either one)

>>18034975
This.

Could mean she likes you, but if she's been a friend for a while it's probably why she's comfortable where she is with you, she likes the banter and you respond.

(If you're using this as an excuse to hear people say you two should bang, you probably should)

>>18034954
it's called public humiliation and she's doing it so other men can see she is available, all they have to do is come over and take her in front of you. Grow some balls

Bumpin for advice on this myself... I sweat like a pig without deodorant but I noticed a few yellowed shirts the other day.

bumping this

>>18034939
Idk about aluminum, but usually unless stated, deoderants leave marks or stains. Look for those who state boldly on the packaging that they will not stain/leave marks on white clothes.

Vanish is good, liquid capsuses specifically for white clothes is good aswell, you can look for a spray stain removers, idk what brand they would be where you live. Old-fashioned bleach dip and rinse is good as well for pure white clothes.

no kek in death

it will cause those who care about you to suffer

Can't go back. Once you're dead, that's it. You're not coming back in a week, and you're not coming back after the universe has collapsed in on itself and everything we know as it exists is gone (not making a theoretical point, just trying to make a frame of reference).

Why not just say "fuck everything" and go do whatever you want? Go out running and learn how to do cartwheels. The world's your fucking oyster if you're actually ready to kill yourself.

Naw.

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I don't think its really necessary

I don't think so. Choose accordingly, however. You may spend time studying together and hanging out together, which will only boost your grades and smooth out your routine. Being as your best friend, you don't even have to pay for her.

>>18034867
It's tough man, I'm an adopted black guy myself and I've just started to realize that when you're different, you're an outcast. Just try find people similar to you.

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>>18034867
just be yourself

>>18034878
I've tried that, but isn't that just covering your self hatred? Just hanging around those "like yourself" to just ignore you're different. Being different isn't the issue, it's the fact that if you are different people cast you away,especially over something as stupid as race. Like hate me because I don't have the some hobbies as you or world views, not over something that has no determinate in who I am.

>>18034863
Just tell her to not kill you and not to forget that the safeword is pineapple.

>>18034863
Is this the sexual equivalent of really liking spicy food?

>>18034863
Any decent domme will have a sit-down session with you first, judging for herself how far to go with you. And overeagerness like yours will be a red flag telling her you're not a 'normal' sub but someone working out some really sick guilt trip she doesn't want to get involved with.

He said "i'm a low-life with visible mental problems, i prostitute, have no

>>18034902
...no perspective for life; talking to me gives a terrible sensation"

He was just joking right? Some people enjoy talking even to beggars, having no job perspective isnt a reason to give a bad feeling talking to someone OVER THE INTERNET

>>18034908
Unless you've actually done something wrong it sounds like that guy is a douchebag and not your real friend. Did anything happen between you recently that would cause him to judge you differently ? If not he might just have been hiding his negative opinions towards you.