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It did for me. I wasn't in your life situation but to me my kids were just pooping machines. My youngest is now 4. Honestly i couldn't see any future without him.

Im a terrible person and it is because I see the world that way. But i don't want him to see it like i do. I will protect him as much as i can but one day he will see it like we do.

Put up a front. Teach him real life. Not this 4chan life of everything sucks and everything lets you down stuff. Please, for our kids sake, show your child the way

>>18038492
stop making excuses for being an ass, your aware that you're being a bad parent and husband so you can change it. having a shot childhood is no excuse for treating your child badly. I was beat and raped as a child but I still love my kids and care for them without being a resentful ass. you sound like a weak little bitch that wants to wallow in you poor potty me act. your on 4chan talking shit on a tiny 3 month old baby, that's pretty pathetic. man up and stop pittying yourself for your past and using it as an excuse to be a pice of shit

Man oh man. I'm pretty sexist already on account of absorbing tumblrina shit.

So I always suspect that fathers, who have no obvious biological trigger to start caring about their own child, can never love children. Fuck.

Thanks for the pain op

>>18038447
Do you know his address?

Buy him something off amazon in his country.
I routinely buy shit for my friend in Germany from Italy through German amazon.

No, not this shit again already.
Why even live?

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>>18038453
Thank you for your suggestion, but I unfortunately do not have his adress, and I think that even if I ordered something from Amazon, I don't think it would arrive him by Feb 14th...

There seems to be no benefit to them, except being able to say that they 'technically' didn't do anything wrong if something goes wrong. I suggest that if you're going to go through with this that you keep copies of any and all correspondence with them.

That said, I'd suggest even more to not do this and get a job.

>>18038434
It could be a legit company, but doing "illegitimate" under the table things.

>>18038434
How are you being paid?

You don't believe that being around a person all the time can get tiring and suffocating and that having some time away from them can help?

>>18038425
Then why not going to friends for a day or the weekend? Flying away for a week sounds more like escaping from problems we have instead of facing them. But then again fights arent even that frequent and most of the time we are happy

>>18038420
>have a pause from the relationship
Hmmmmm

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>>18038413
Stay off here the best of my ability (the bantz on boards bring me back when I'm bored). Reading and going to the gym helps. I'm a female who recently left whore ex lover of a couple years. I decided to sign up for on a couple apps to meet new people around my area because it makes me feel comfy rather than waiting for someone to approach me. With time, I now have made friends to hang out with each day of the week and then some. It's tiring but maybe you could do the same and not complain about something or someone holding you back from making moves.

It's your life, make the most of it.

The only regrets in life are the choices you didn't make.

If he looks too good and sounds too good, chanced are dude is a whore who will mooch off of you financially for months and fuck other girls behind your back just to leave thongs around his apt to shove it down your throat. (This is a vent ignore it.)

>>18038413
Listen to music, read a book, play a video game. Just busy yourself with something engaging and cry yourself to sleep. As long as you get some sleep and have something to do you can keep going.

In simple terms: Prepare for the future.

Two years ago I was moderately depressed (clinically diagnosed) and also got avoidant personality disorder. I had been in a five year long romantic hook on a person who only left me massively deprived and empty inside. I knew I had to get out and meet people, so I did. I started talking more, and say yes to more. On the nights I did spend alone, I searched youtube and googled for motivating stuff - not the justdoit.meme, but actual advice on how to gain respect and confidence, and primarily on how to attract women. People like Coach Cory Wayne, Black Dragon Blog, RSD people (ignore the douchbaggery) and Robert Greene - but more important, I learnt to let go (Sedona Method - yt).

The year following I doubled my body count (I'm oldfag 33 year of age atm,) and forgot how to be desperate. The last year I got even more spiritual about meeting people, and during summer I decided I was ready to get a girlfriend again, for the first time in more than three years. I met her in late November.

>>18038401

basically hes saying that hes SO GOOD that he will get the job done in half the time that other do, so you're getting the same amount of work as anywhere else, but it gets done quicker. so someone charging say, 100 bucks an hour would do it slower than him and you'd be losing money on them.

it was a joke tho

$125 = 2 units of work

Not that hard to understand OP

>>18038401
Tad bit of the autism there lad

>>18038393
Reading articles and learning techniques will only take you so far. The more important thing is tailoring your technique to the girl you're with. Communicating with her is the most important part.

>>18038393
Get into shape. That's the biggest key to sex.

The only universal rule to good sex is communication. Every girl is different.
>Most want it rough
This is ENTIRELY dependent on the individuals preferences, and often their experience level. If you're going at it with a virgin, holy fucking shit please do not try to cram it in there and fuck her brains out unless she specifically asks for it.

Rule of thumb too is usually it's better to start gentile and work up, since nothing turns a girl off more than shit being too rough from the get go and has to power through while being somewhat injured (for lack of a better word) from it.
Whoever this girl is you're gonna throw down with, ask her how she wants it. If she's too shy to tell you, then 1 it won't be your fault if you're bad, and 2, start as vanilla as possible and slowly watch her reactions as you work up with different stuff.

And of course, do whatever you can to make her cum, but if she says something to you that it's hard for her to cum with other people or she can't or whatever, don't take it to heart. Just make sure she's having fun regardless.
Finally, remember that the majority of women either experience difficulty cumming from penetration alone, or don't at all. So put effort into your foreplay. Don't jump to penetration until she's practically begging you to. And work that clit while penetrating her, unless she asks you not to.

>>18038363

i think its not a bad idea. just keep in mind that in general rate threads you arent getting an honest rate.

in rate threds many people are ignored unless they throw a fit, then they get lower scores for throwing that fit.

most people who do rate you will rate you slightly higher because they want to also be rated back as well.

most rates don't give you details etiher so its useless.

if you post a picture here ill give you an honest rate and tell you why you get that rate.

Depends how insecure you are. If you're going to give up on life just because some people gave you a low rating, then you're probably better off living in the dark.

If you're going to actually use those rating productively and improve yourself based on them, while also remembering to take those ratings with a grain of salt, it can be good for you.

Also, remember to average them. I used to try to figure out where I lied as I was in the process of losing weight and such with soc. Now, soc is a bit of a cess pool, so I put more stock into keeping an eye on strangers in public. How much attention people paid me, shit like that.
Anyway, I'd go in a thread on soc, get as many rates as I could, and average them out. You have to remember that taste is subjective. One man's 1/10 is another's 10/10. Thats why you can't get too excited over a high rate, but also can't get too down over a low rate.
I would suggest searching for "improvement threads" rather than general rate threads. People will be more inclined to be honest, since you're all looking to improve.

>>18038368
>most people who do rate you will rate you slightly higher because they want to also be rated back as well.
Or the opposite at times too, people spite rate, I've seen it happen lol.
I've also found on rate threads, nobody rating you is usually a bad sign because of this.
Since people don't want to get any spite rates, they ONLY choose to rate people in the 6+ range. Because it's also customary in those threads not to rate anyone who hasn't given any rates, since theyre not participating.

>>18038324

infiltrate, destroy the other samuels, then you will be the only samuel left. then you recruit new samuels and will be king of the samuels.

>>18038332
I don't want to be Samuel.

>>18038359

then get out the way

>>18038287

they were the ones who abused you. go and stand strong. if they start something thats on them.

>>18038299
It's not that I just don't want to look at them

>>18038344

too bad.

>>18038280
Hi my name is?

>>18038280
>hey, you know [mutual friend] right?

The "Hi my name is" is a great way to start of. IIf you don't feel confortable about it, you can find something you guys have in common, or do in common and bring up to open the conversation. You guys sit closeby, so you do have many things in common... Tests you make, difficult parts of the subject to study...

You can also use the situation in your favor. She comments something, you follow up.

I'm having a hard time thinking of examples... But the point is: the opening line won't even be remembered, unless it's epic. She won't think "I don't want that guy, he openned our talk with a shitty line", that just doesn't happen.

Take the weight off of you... It's not a big deal, bro!

Also, I have a hard time not getting obsessed with certain women. I Facebook stalk the shit out of some women.

Talking ot them is a nice start. You can't really enjoy or admire a personality you have never even seen, right?...

Dude, it's normal to wish to have sex like that, man are driven by their vision when it comes to sexual arousal. Women are more likely to get excited through her hearing.

Anyway, the point here is: You haven't been with a woman in 25 years. It's ok, no problem, but I wonder if you ever talked with a woman to get to know her... Or have you ever talked to a woman to fuck her - that would most likely point out to a neediness in you, which is expected, given our society and your age.

So, my tip here is TALK TO WOMEN. You don't have to be interested in them, actually, maybe it's better if you start with the ones that do not make your dick diamond. Get to know them, legitimally interested on her ideals, her life, her hobbies etc.
Don't worry, if the first or second one you talk to do not interest you, you'll most likely find one that do if you keep on pushing this threshold of talking to them more and more.

That will also make you have girl friends, and that alone takes away some of the neediness. They can also help you to hook up with their friends, who might be the ones that get your dick into diamond mode.

>>18038409

I realize I should talk to women more but honestly.. the problem is ice breakers. Also women always seem so fucking busy. Not sure what it is.

Basically, I have no way to start a conversation and I always feel like I am intruding on their time or wasting their time.

>>18038260
That's the way I see it too. I missed teenage hormone-fuelled love so why should I settle for some shadow of that?

>>18038260
>>18038273
If that's the attitude you're going to have, you need to stay single. No one should have to put up with this bullshit 'woe is me' attitude.

>>18038279
good stuff

bump cmon this is serious shit and there is no doctor at this time

Any experiences with drugs?

>>18038241
I never noticed such a thing on a white wall but I did have those kind of shutters as a kid and I saw that every time I woke up and went to bed. I actually enjoyed looking at it and imagining it was like an ocean. You just brought back a very fond memory of mine. This is probably more of an optical illusion than it is an eye degeneration. I can't voice an opinion on the "visual snow" since I'm not a doctor but I'm somewhat sure the waviness when looking at things like that is normal.

>>18038238

dont get too sexual, dont look creepy.

Say stuff you can always dismiss as a joke and the way you can dismiss it as a joke.

>>18038246
This until you're sure she can take a blatant sexual joke.

Just using words that have double meanings with one being sexual gets them thinking about sex. 'Blowing' the fuck out. 'Tip' of a pencil. Shit like that until you can be safe with more direct mechanisms. Girls do the same thing.