Archived threads in /adv/ - Advice - 2548. page

File: 1453137684119.jpg (160KB, 584x872px) Image search: [Google]

160KB, 584x872px

I've been dating this girl for 6+ months now, and she is the first girl I've ever been with who can't have an orgasm.

She's 25 and I"m 30. Both have been with multiple partners. So it's not an experience issue.

Any anons ever encounter this? Were you ever able to give her the Big O, and if so what did you finally do that put her over the top?

File: IMG_2302.jpg (46KB, 480x480px) Image search: [Google]

46KB, 480x480px

My girlfriends clit isn't actually exposed when we do stuff, I don't know if her "foreskin" (?) is too big but I have to pull it back like you would on a penis and it doesn't stay that way. How can I keep it exposed without spreading it with my fingers? She finds it difficult to enjoy oral usually and it feels like this would be a gamechanger, I just want to make her feel great, is there anyone who has experience with this?

File: received_1421527514527074.gif (2MB, 400x225px) Image search: [Google]

2MB, 400x225px

I think I am overreacting, I often do. But then I know for a fact that I love my S/O more than they love me. Cuz when i ask them serious questions about us, I never get a real answer, or they just don't know the answer. And it hurts, because I know the answer and I don't have to think twice. There's someone else, I know it. And not that they are cheating, but there's someone from thier past who has a much stronger hold on thier heart than I do. Its so bad that that he can't even talk about her. And he says that he's over her and that he just don't want to talk about the worst time of his life. But they were together for 8 years. So that's a pretty huge gap in your life to want to skip over. He can talk to me about anything else, excpet her. And thr thing is, he used to all the time, to the point it was as though she was his second girlfriend. I encourage him to stop talking to her all together because it was hurting me and he did, but nowhe doesn't want to talk about her at all. So I just feel like, when I ask him if he can see forever with me and he says no its because of her.

File: 20170210_200945.jpg (1MB, 2560x1440px) Image search: [Google]

1MB, 2560x1440px

Guys, I think I fucked up.

Theres this really great guy that I started talking a lot with around September. We went from casual conversations to telling eachother about our depressions and eventually became best friends.

But, that wasn't enough for me. I wanted more.

Around Christmas time, I got the idea of a relationship rolling. We discussed it for some time, then he told me that he had an irl fwb he kinda had feelings for. We talked and talked some more, and he eventually said, "Well, you're closer to me than her." And he mentioned having to call her and tell her it was over. Then, I asked if we were a thing, then. He said "I guess."

I was ecstatic. Just, so, so happy.

Then, two days later, he told me he wanted to think about it. Alrighty, I said, take your time.

Then, one night, he told me that he didn't wanna do it; LDRs don't have the physical intimacy he felt he needs.

I was bawling like a kid. I've been cheated on, used, lied to, manipulated so much in the past, and I thought I finally found something that would work.

However, he still considered us best friends, and wanted to continue being best friends.

A week or so later, I confessed that I still had feelings for him. He suggested that we cut contact until I moved on, as its not healthy to hold feelings like that.

About another week later, I told him that I had gotten over those feelings. We started talking again and such.

In reality, I actually hadn't. I just couldn't go without talking to him.

Today, I know I still have feelings for him. We're still best friends, but part of me just wants to make a relationship between us work no matter the difficulties.

He, on the other hand, has moved on. He tells me about how he hopefully may get another fwb and such.

Yeah, I really fucked up. Like, shit, I want him to take for virginity for fucks sake.

Pic unrelated; its my dog.

File: 1427614309967.jpg (12KB, 426x314px) Image search: [Google]

12KB, 426x314px

>meet american qt3.14 absolute 8-9/10
>she initiates relationship. was sitting alone once and she came up to chat. we have a nice convo despite me spilling my spaghetti and being socially inept. we had something in common.
>from then on we say hi to each other whenever our paths meet. this one time our eyes met while waiting for class to start and she gave me the most heart warming smile.
>think to myself that she already has 50 chads vying for her love and 100 beta orbiters. not once did i talk to her to get to know her despite wanting to inside.
>exchange pleasantries for a few weeks. just more hi's and smiles.
>out of the blue this then just stops. this one time i was waiting behind her in a line and she pretended like i was not there.
>obsess over her for a month or so. eventually move on.

What happened bros, can someone break it down for me? was that smile a huge sign cueing me to pursue a relationship?

File: 1461131804931.jpg (174KB, 1920x1080px) Image search: [Google]

174KB, 1920x1080px

Should I just ignore my mom and go and get diagnosed with the 'tism?
When I was in highschool a lot of teachers, the school counsellor, and most of the teachers who worked with me have asked my mum to get me tested for autism but she never allowed me to because she kept repeating to me "you're normal and smart!" and refused to let me get tested. I just turned 18 and asked my mom earlier and she got super angry and told me there's nothing wrong with me, even though my eccentric and lack of social awareness should certainly have raised alarms for her.
I've been out of school since 16 and been pretty much a shut in. I talk with family when they're over and that's her basis that there's nothing wrong with me; however, she's never witnessed any of my behaviour at school or outside how I force myself to interact with people in my home.
In highschool I was suspended 3 times and asked to leave by the faculty but my mom refused it and pushed me to stay there. In terms of interactions with people I've either been incredibly anxious or just acting incredibly "retarded"... I could never tell if people were joking or serious, so if someone told me to stand on the desk and yell shit I'd do it. I've always been a very impulsive speaker whenever I'm with people I know, and the opposite for people I don't know.. for example, I have no problem yelling random stuff and making an ass out of myself if it makes my friends laugh but if I don't have anything in common with people I can't bring myself to talk or speak to them. I got taken out of classes in 2nd year until my last to go into learning support and they suggested that I should be tested for autism, the counsellor did, my friends did, but my mother refuses to let me. I still live with her but I think at 18 I'm allowed to go to a psychiatrist by myself.
I just don't know the process, which is why I need advice. Arguments on how to convince my mother would help too. Thanks.

File: cute.jpg (60KB, 387x429px) Image search: [Google]

60KB, 387x429px

What do you do when you are head over heels for a girl that isn't ready to date?

>Go on date
>She feels awful after, still not over her ex
>That's ok say our good byes
>Don't want to let it go

I wish more than anything that we had met at a less vulnerable time. I feel like tomorrow is my last chance (being Valentine's day), to send a message without being weird. What should I do /adv/?

File: 1486512429086.jpg (30KB, 529x425px) Image search: [Google]

30KB, 529x425px

Is there a legal way to pay for porn online without using any of your personal information? I know theres lots of free videos online, but its all the same recycled garbage in dogshit resolution.

File: 1482613650889.jpg (12KB, 858x630px) Image search: [Google]

12KB, 858x630px

Is there an alternative to nofap for guys with higher libido?

File: angery-why-he-so-mad-3581037.png (211KB, 500x676px) Image search: [Google]

211KB, 500x676px

Where to get money? I need money right. fucking. NOW. The rent is overdue and I have no food.

I've been a trainee in a company (no pay at all) and been doing very well, but they can't hire me yet so I have to wait like a couple of months. Job situation is bad right now, I've been searching for some part-time job, with no success, and nobody would pay in advance anyway. Every shitty easy job seems to need a license for this and that, or a car or a degree that I don't have. I put up an ad offering help with computers for a small fee, but no-one nearby seems to need any.

Parents are broke and I don't know anybody willing to lend.

File: 44ca62120b331e3acceaff848e0a5ea9.jpg (96KB, 1015x1476px) Image search: [Google]

96KB, 1015x1476px

Alright, I know a bunch of you virgin cuck faggot weebshit nigger retard buttpoops live in the US and are poor sacks of shit that mooch off that fact they are poverty garbage and/or disabled/'disabled'.

I'm 25 and I make around 800 USD net monthly at a garbage fast food job in PA that I likely will get fired from soon. I'm currently trying to see a specialist for my apparent neurological disorder so I can get a diagnosis and pretend to be able to work normally and 'protected' under the magic of the ADA; until that slow process is done, though, I'm a poor job-hopping shit. I codependently live with my equally-poor parents otherwise.

I know I can apply for, say, SNAP/Foodstamps, free/cheap cellular plans, cheap unlimited LTE internet service, and, uhh... what else? I might as well mooch the system while I'm stuck suffering in it, yeah?

File: 1485379726086.jpg (56KB, 484x497px) Image search: [Google]

56KB, 484x497px

i just want a job where i can cruise through the day, finish work and then do whatever i want.

why is this so much to ask for?
why do people feel the need to fuck this up for me?

i'm sorry i don't want to be your best friend or suck up to you because you're the boss. But you don't have to make my life a living hell just cause you want other things out of a simple job

have i lost it?

File: 1435611001000.jpg (31KB, 500x375px) Image search: [Google]

31KB, 500x375px

I'm feeling pretty guilty about an event that happened recently.

So we were at a convention together (she had gone without her boyfriend, stayed in a hotel room with me). Fast forward to later at night, we're going at it. She's now on top of me, when her boyfriend calls her. She decides to answer, so she can alleviate his worries.

So imagine, lights off, I'm inside her still, she's having a phone conversation with her boyfriend and telling him she's with friends.

Then, while I'm still in her, tells him "I love you", hangs up, and starts up on me again.

The whole thing really fucked with my mind. Obviously, I'm a piece of shit too, but seeing her put up that act while on the phone with him really fucked me up. Should I tell him what happened?

File: FB_IMG_1484086352579.jpg (117KB, 973x1000px) Image search: [Google]

117KB, 973x1000px

My wife and I went to Europe for two weeks last year (England, France, Spain) with a travel group and it was really amazing. We really enjoyed it but one thing we couldn't get over was how most of the Europeans we encountered weren't too friendly. What are some countries that are friendly and welcoming to foreigners?

File: whenicantgetoff.gif (430KB, 480x270px) Image search: [Google]

430KB, 480x270px

I'm trying to hit my (male) g spot, dug around in my ass several nights to no avail. Where the fuck is it?