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Is it worth it to get moles removed? If somebody has done it before could you tell how much it costed, was it worth it and are you glad you did it?
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>>18041636
i had it done a while ago. not sure how much it was, my mother paid for it way back then. im happy i did i had a few big ones on my neck and no i just have little tiny scars instead. a lot of people dont even get scars from it. but even so i think scars are better than the moles i had. i say its worth it
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>>18041636
Depends on what you prefer having anon.
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>>18041636
Here is the thing. I more or less hit the bottom of the genetic lottery when it came to moles so realistically the best thing to do is just embrace them if they are flat and benign. Or spend a whole bunch of money to get them cut off and possibly be covered in scars. Because everyone has them to some extent or another, best to embrace them.

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I'm a college student who lives by myself. All my friends either went to a different college or dropped me as a friend all together. The only social interaction I have on a daily basis is with my classmates that I don't know very well. Loneliness has set in by now and I only leave my room to eat or go to class. Whats the best way to meet new people?
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>>18041615

by not locking yourself away in your room all day. go outside. talk to people. when you dont know someone well invite them over to hang out. ask what they do for fun, what movies, shows or games they play.

find the common interest than invite them over for that.
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get a hobby. learn an instrument, play a sport, go to parties or bars if you're that kind of person. join a club or something. You're at uni, they have shit in place for you to do to keep you psychologically and socially stimulated. Just wait till you're stuck in a dead end job with an ex wife who hates you living on the other side of the state with your kids and no friends to speak of and nothing but cigarettes and whiskey to get you through the week.
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>>18041638
>ex wife
I would be so happy if i had an ex wife.

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Ready for the hate, family.

So I cheated on my husband about six months ago, short 2 month affair. So timeline wise last real contact with Other Guy was 6 months ago, first was 8.

Anyway, I don't really have any desire to do it again, but I know that could change.

My point is really our relationship has improved vastly. A lot of our sexual and emotional issues that were more on my side resolved nearly immediately, allowing him to pick up that inertia and run with it. Probably never been happier together.

I don't see a reason to ruin it by telling him. However, I realize I could get the urge to cheat again in the future, especially since it's worked out so well.

I have no illusions of "but I'm doing this FOR him" because that was absolutely not my thoughts going into the affair. I doubt those would be my true feelings if I did it again, it would just be rationalization.

So I'm rambling but basically I feel bad, but also feel like fucking up what we have would be dumb as fuck.

Just looking for thoughts, really.
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>>18041571
Where do you live. Holla at me if you wanna cheat again. If youre gonna cheat, cheat with a man that can beat your husband
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>>18041571
Cheaters only confess to make themselves feel better. It will ruin his trust and image of you. You've made your bed, lay in it without dragging an innocent into it.
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Avoid the "deserved truth" getting to him. Live with the guilt, suffer a while, meditate on that, make it a big life lesson. You're not a horrible person or whatever people would like you to believe (really, fuck them). You did very bad, but you love him. Fucking your relationship up is ineed fucking dumb. And whatever the sayings, the truth doesn't always come out. That's just hopeful talking for some and scare tactics for others.

And don't fucking do it again. The fact that it helped you one time is a stroke of luck. Next time you'll be laying in bed with panic attacks five times a week and your gonna need to see a shrink. Last chance; live for your man, love your man.

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I'm going visiting my boyfriend's family pretty soon and I'd like to bring them a small gift along with me since we're from different countries (America and the UK), but I'm not sure what to take.

In the past some of the things I've given them were American cookbooks, pic related, some American candies and sweets, and typical souvenirs. I'd like to get something small for them but I don't have any ideas of what I should bring this time. What can /adv/ suggest?
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>>18041538
Might really depend on what they like. If they're into cooking you might do well to keep on keeping on with that theme.

When I think of differences between us and uk (born in us, live in uk a couple years), I think about how much country and wildlife there is in the us vs the uk. It's less civilized here just by nature of having so much fucking wilderness between the civilized bits. For reference, bristol to canterbury is just 30 mins farther than I'd have to drive to get mcdonalds, and half as far as I'd have to drive to get to a mall.
I realize I'm not average, but still. An idea of the scale.

Anyway. I'm not saying buy them hick hunting tv show dvds or something. But perhaps a nice artistic photography coffee-table book on american national parks? Or does that fall under the typical souvenirs you've already done?
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>>18041548
It doesn't, no. That's a really good idea for a gift. Thank you. While we're here though, do you have any other suggestions?
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>>18041585

I don't know if they're into history, and I don't know what brits get taught in school about american history but some of the more focused popular history books (on one person or one expedition) can be neat.

America has a wealth of fossils that are less common in the UK as well. A nice mid-price fossil is a very attractive gift, I think. (but I'm a geologist)

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My friend gets really jealous for no reason. I sometimes drunk talk to his gf and vent to her about stuff (nothing lewd) and he seems to take issue with it. In fact, when she came to our town he seemed to get moody whenever she wasn't giving him 100% of her attention. This is his first proper gf, so I've given him a free pass on things up until now, but it's starting to really piss me off, because he ruins the mood constantly whenever we start having fun. He also purposely tries to embarrass me in front of my ex gf because I sometimes rant about liking her when I'm really drunk, and he seems to enjoy taking that and using it against me. What should I do?
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FYI, when I say embarrass I mean he tries to imply that I'm going to ask her out because I was drinking in front of her. This wouldn't be a problem if I was still actively talking to my ex but we've only just recently started talking again and he seems to have made it his mission to embarrass me in front of her.
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>>18041515
Have respect and don't text your friend's woman tf
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>>18041530
Is the average male really so insecure that he can't handle his friend talking to his girlfriend every now and then? That just shows that you don't trust them at all.

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How do you know if something's something you should take up to a doctor or if it's okay/normal?
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>>18041495

by asking your friends about it and then when they say its not normal talkign to your doctor.
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>>18041514
So far my random periods are just a running joke in the group, I don't know how to bring up that they seem to be getting sparser.
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>>18041533
I don't get it. Why is it a problem to talk to your doctor about this?

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Hey, any doctor anons willing to help?
Pic related appeared on my skin overnight or so it seems. I never had this before and didnt. Otice till my father pointed it out. I dont think i hd it yesterday, but i might have one point is behind ear, one on my temple. Both on the same side..

>inb4 skin cancer
Apparently skin cancer would have uneven edges, this feels just like skin, it even.
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Bumping with picture of the thing behind ear
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>>18041468
Entrance/exit wound from where you try to anhero later
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>>18041468
Wash your face and wait a few days to see if anything changes. It's either nothing or a benign rash/bugbite.

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So me and my gf randomly got on the topic of pics of her on my phone while texting. So I send her the ones I had saved (not nudes or anything just cute pics) and she just went absolutely crazy and wanted me to delete them all because she's so ugly in all of them and she hates them etc.. and then when I tried to tell her how pretty I think she is she just got angrier and angrier that I didn't delete them right away... she went to bed now after making me delete them and just left me alone so confused about what just happened.. Like how am I supposed to react to that? She's always very self conscious but she just went crazy rn and the pics really weren't bad pics..
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>>18041446
This person is insecure as fuck and shouldn't be in a relationship with anyone.
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>>18041461
Well yes I agree that she is very insecure and that's something unreality don't like about her. Any advice on how to maybe address and work on this without breaking up though? I would rather not do that
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Here's what you do:

>"Sure, honey"
then do whatever the fuck you want

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So, I'm in a position where I can't really date. I think it's best for me to try to keep my mind off of girls. Generally, it's easy to do because I don't see girls during my work/study/gym/home life. But hearing people talk about girls, and TV makes me feel lonley. I always end up on Tinder which just KILLS my self esteem. I've downloaded and deleted it probably 50 times.

How can I forget about Tinder/online dating sites? I'll delete them, feel good for a few weeks. But I ALWAYS end up back on them
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Just FAP instead of browsing tinder
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>>18041736
yeah, just jerk off

its so much easier
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>>18041736
>>18041738

I just fapped and feel like shit now. I've fapped once a day for the past week. I hate it..

Hey guys I decided to go against all common sense and start posting shit on 4chan. Any tips, lingo, etc. or should I just troll the /b/ and /pol/ boards until what's left of my soul dies?
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lurk moar faggot
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>>18041387
get the fuck out we don't want you here

faggot
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>>18041387
The go to boards for newfags (the so called "tutorial boards) for newfags are
>>>/d/
>>>/r9k/
>>>/x/

This is where normies post and discuss all the hottest memes.

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Is this wrong? I'm a 19 year old guy and all of my friends are women over 27.

My closest friends are women of the ages of 27, 32, and 38, and 43. Other than 27, they're all married, but none of their husbands see me as a threat. I have very few male friends and none that I talk to regularly.

Other than using them as a subject for my journalism class, I'm not on their fashion or beauty scene at all. Not really asking for advice, just trying to hear other people's thoughts.
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>>18041377
sounds cool, how did you meet them? pretty curious
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>>18041377
Are you a faggot?
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I am 29 and all my friends are in their 60s.

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How would you give yourself a nose bleed without blunt force trauma? It seems that every time I try picking at my nose to, I can never get one fast enough.
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>>18041319
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gDLXCTihVPs
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>>18041319
Why though?
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>>18041319
Lots of cocaine

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Hello there
I'm asking this directed mostly at people with actual life experience.
Is it worth pursuing a career that I enjoy but won't pay much or should I do something else to give me good money, I currently live in the Sydney area and it's a rather expensive place to live, I love it here and I'm not sure I'd like to move anywhere else.
I've always liked the idea of being a teacher or doing something that involves history but I just don't know if it's viable.

Then also my interests come into account as well.
I think my most expensive interests are motorcycles and cars. While owning my dream motorcycle is a possibility on a low paying job I don't think I'd ever get the chance to purchase my dream car especially since its only going to up in price from now on.

I feel as if I did something I enjoyed my job day to day I wouldn't need that stuff, though I'd like to own one or two luxuries if I could.

Then again
I would love the opportunity to be someone who made good money and was well off, I don't think I'd want to live in a beach front mansion even if I had the cash but I love the thought of having a garage full of all my favourite cars and bikes, being able to afford to travel on occasion and maybe even own a second property out in the country I can just fuck around on. I just feel that this goal is much less likely to work out. Also there's the possibility I won't enjoy the job I do.

tl:dr should I pursue a career I think would make me happy or should I pursue a career that pays me well enough to do whatever I want within reason on the time that I have off?
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Why don't you start by learning a trade related to motorcycle maintenance, like machining, or welding. It doesn't have to be a permanent career, just something to get yourself started
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>>18041308
I don't know if it's something I'd really want to do as a career though. It's something I'd much rather do as a hobby.
Like video games, I enjoy them but I don't think I'd ever want to work in the industry, I fear it'd kill my interest outside of work.
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>>18041283
there is no such thing as an "enjoyable career"

You will "enjoy your career" if you are getting paid well and living a good life outside of your work. Don't fall for this meme.

Also don't listen to these idiots telling you to get into "trades." Seek out professional employment as a doctor, engineer, accountant, etc

Be ready to work your ass off and make huge sacrifices.

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Not sure 4chin is the right place to come with this problem. I started dating this girl a year ago and it's become the most serious relationship I've ever had.

The problem is, she's black, I'm white, and I live in the deep south. I work at a bank and have been getting harassed by my supervisors and co-workers almost non-stop.

Should I report them to someone? Or just suck it up?
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>>18041254
Ignore them and find a better job.

If you're serious about dating this black girl, get her out of Hick Town.
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Suck it up
Find a better job and/or leave hick town
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Talk to your boss then go to corporate.

Be a man. This is your time to be happy and take initiative.

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>be horny 21 year old
>get laid
>feel regret and loss of self respect, push previous partner away
>decide to not have sex until I find dating material
>abstain for about 3-4 weeks
>suddenly horny as fuck again
>Cycle repeats itself

Could I have some advice on staying resolute/maintaining discipline on making healthy sexual choices? I don't want to keep having random casual encounters, but I get antsy as shit after going without for a sizable amount of time.
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How are you even having this problem when daily masturbation is the norm now and everyone has instant access to an infinite amount of porn?
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>>18041251
Because fapping gets old extremely quickly
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>>18041272
Try shoving up things up your ass

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