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>>18045025
Are you sure he's going to do it OP? Revenge comes from hate and anger and if he said he's not attracted to her it sounds kinda true for me. If people wants to make a revenge, they're clearly fucked up and they do it openly towards their partner.
Revenge comes to compensate something and has only message to our partner. I think he's upset but good guy to think about this. Are you trust him? How does he solve his problems, based on logic or based on feelings?

>>18045025
>I think cause this guy told him a few weeks ago that I had sex with him 1 year ago
You missed a detail here, where you together or not yet?

>>18045038
Well I would've trusted him a week or two ago but now since my "ex adulterer" came out I'm not too sure.
>>18045042
We had just started seeing each other, but I knew the guy I slept with for a while and we always kind of liked each other but he's got no real direction in life.

It hurts so much.

>>18044603
>ciders
you faggot

Itll get better with time. My ex broke up with me 2 months ago and the first month was brutal I thought I'd never get over him. But I'm feeling a lot better now. Just give it time honestly

Put her thighs together and fuck the space in between.

Get out of bed and make her a treat. Then cuddle her and tell her you love her.

>>18044305
Respect her and jerck off in the bathroom

this isn't something random people on the internet can decide for you.

How does she feel about it?

Wait. Because it's her body and her decision. Give her your opinion but, again, not your decision.

>>18043862
This should be bait, but so many people feel this way.

If you like her more than guns and vocalizing about Trump go for it, if not, don't go for it

Grab her by the pussy.

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>>18041722
So proud of you right now anon

>>18040843

I think i have a girl on the hook, but the hardest part is figuring out how to ask her to hang out wtih me. im like 60% sure she'd be down and im ready to ask, but i have a lack of money and its scaring me. a part time job isn't really possible and id ask my parents but things are tight with dads recent medical issues.

I live in an okay sized town but i dont know how to invite her to do something because i dont have any money to take her on a date.

any advice?

>>18040854
You don't need to spend money on a date. Don't think that such a requirement even exists.

What matters is that the two of you hang out. So call her or talk to her when you next meet her and just plan going for a walk.
Could be through the city or the park or whatever.
There is no expectation to be met. Just go and ask her.

Contacted my ex of 4 years last week after not speaking for three months.

Told her I was gonna ask her to move in and take more vacations as soon as I secured my new job, and that's why I became distant before the breakup.

She didn't respond, but she did tweet some positive things about missing me, love making us do weird things, and having everything she needs but "I want you."

The thing is she didn't respond, but her friend told me she was dating a guy after the breakup but they split up after he got too clingy and showed he was immature.

Is she shit testing me to see if I'll chase her/validate her post-last letter after no contact? What can I do here? I don't use social media much except to post photography and music, and I know I can't send her another message. I think the message had a positive impact, just continue moving forward and see what happens? or should I ask her to go for a short walk together or something?

Thanks

>>18040866
You should honestly get over it.
He has been inconsiderate - he shouldn't have made such an important decision without you. That's all you're right about.
First, you're not married. It is HIS money, not yours. Unless he is taking away something from you (not being able to pay his share of the bills/rent, not being able to pay for his food) he isn't harming you in any way. If he felt like he wanted to invest on this, it's perfectly fine for him to do so.
Second, you're supposing you won't be increase your income in the next 6.5 years, which is definitely foolish unless you did all the wrong career choices possible.
Third, if you cannot handle a small stress like "my boyfriend did something stupid with his money" you definitely cannot handle kids, or marriage, or adult life.
Get your shit together, stop being so dramatic, live with the fact that your boyfriend isn't your child and you cannot decide what he does with his own money.
And stop puking, ruins your teeth.

Is this being funded partially by your income? If yes, then I would leave. And let it be a lesson for the future, which is that you never pool together income/accounts, because it leads to shit like this.

If this is done purely from his income, I don't see how this impact you. In my opinion, he has no obligation to inform you about the way he spends his money, or rather, you have no say in this.

>That takes away any possibility of marriage, kids, or moving out of our shitty townhouse.
That might have been the intent.

>>18040881
Thank you for the honest advice. And I'm sure just getting over it is the right option.
It was just hurtful since marriage was next on the agenda and now it seems he has chosen to be selfish instead. I am mostly concerned because he has not been able to save as little as 20 dollars a month even when he's trying. I am overly worried he will not be able to pay for this car, therefore not being able to pay for his 50% of the bills and making me sink with him.
I would have just preferred a warning instead of this being dropped on me like a bomb, he does not even have his license. It was a very spontaneous decision. But the only option i seem to have is to wait to see if he can handle it. I just don't want it all falling back on me over a decision I didn't have part in.

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>someone spent their time writing this just to shitpost

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>permavirgin nigger autist with criminal record and diagnosis of paranoid schizophrenia
>society doesn't care
>no one cares
>nigger family doesn't care
>never had gf because even nigresses think im too autistic for them
>absent father
>autism pushed away only actual childhood friend I ever previously had, she now thinks im crazy
>people at school still bullying me, jokingly calling me retard
>teachers and staff call me retard
>lunchladies are even caling me retard
>people at school call me retard because they now know how much I hate it
>feel pushed over the edge
>trying desperately to control my pain


>see human beings as being unfeeling, cold heartless monsters who just want to see me suffer
>just want people to see me as the person I really am
>maybe its just because im an autistic nigger
>finally understand what its like to be a nigger with no options in life


>forced to live with black grandmother, who hates me
>black grandmother is trying to get me out of her house any way she can
>with an attitude she purposely tries to set me up to look crazy so I can be removed again
>grandmother blames me for her inability to date, despite her old age
>grandmother has nasty nigger personality
>entire family still acting like niggers
>I literally have 3 months to move or I will be evicted and homeless


>college is now no longer an option
>considering suicide as one of many possible options
>maybe in next life things will be better
>or maybe life is just terrible no matter what race I am
>just don't care anymore
>never allowed to express my pain
>only option is taking medication now as told and shutting the fuck up

>I have no desire to hurt anyone
>at the end of my life, since I no longer feel attached to my body, I openly voice my hate of niggers
>go to white supremacy websites, voice hatred of all races
>literally just want to purge the world of all black people
>intense hatred of all people
>atheist self-loathing nigger psychopath

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>>18044200

>Can anyone help explain what this mean?

Ask the doctor that diagnosed you what it means, not a bunch of teenage sperglords on the internet. If you were diagnosed by a doctor you have a literal encyclopedia of knowledge at your disposal with the benefit of a personalized treatment plan. If you were diagnosed by anyone other than a doctor then everything you just said was a load of horse shit.

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>>18044207
I've been diagnosed. I was just re-reading the writtent evaluation, and I sent an email today, but I was impatient and more importantly wanted to know what other anons who had the same diagnosis did about it. I asked a therapist the other day but he's only got a masters and had to check the DSM-5 and didn't do a great job explaining it, and he didn't make the original evaluation anyways

>>18044200
I'll go ahead and try spoon-feeding you a bit of info. This guy >>18044207 is right, though.

Avoidant Personality Disorder and Schizotypal Personality Disorder are two different things, but have a lot of overlap. I think there was even talk of just merging them for DSM-V, but that obviously never happened. What you're probably describing is AvPD with some overlap into STPD.

Could you explain your troubles, anon? I've been wondering if I have AvPD myself and would love to read about your experiences.

>>18044097
She's either 1) Still on vacation 2) Hates you 3) dead

None of these things you can do anything about.

>>18044097
Maybe she is a victim of human trafficking. Share if u cry everytim

>>18044097

Maybe she got tired of your beta orbiting ass?

Talk to him.

>>18044049
he didn't bring it up because he doesn't want to fuck you dumbass

jesus, women are so fucking conceited LMAO, they think everyone wants to fuck them.

>>18044061
He's a virgin, I know I wouldn't bring it up.

>>18044045
What happened that makes you think your life is ruined?

>>18044058
I like made a fool of myself
Damaged relationships

Really hard to remember cause im still drunk

Basically everyone hates me cause imm a shit hole

What relationships did you damage? How did you make a fool of your self specifically?

I think it depends on the kind of person you are. I am the same as you, and am starting to feel therapy is a just a place where people pay to have a "friend". If you aren't afraid to tackle your issues and already have a good support group then it's probably not worth it.

Fuck even talking to internet strangers is more helpful usually.

>>18044046
I don't have a support group.

So, anon, how do I stop being envious to such an extreme that it makes me depressed and blocks me from just going about my buisiness?

>>18044037
I have envy issues and struggle with anxiety and (maybe) depression. Been doing therapy and it helped in all fronts. It probably depends on the person and the therapist. In sime sessions I do just end up talking about random shit but some times my therapist can guide the conversation to places that really make me perceive things about my self that I wasn't aware. Also, going to therapy thinking it won't be helpfull will potentially really make it not helpfull! In my case therapy helped me perceive that my envy issues are directly related to my shity self esteem and feelings of exclusion. and it helped me cope with that.

>>18043979
Grow up. You were cheated on because you were lacking in concern to the other person's needs. Become a better person and it won't happen as often. Throwing a shitfit won't fix anything.

>>18043979
Take your lawfully owned rifle, post up outside your rival's home, and wait. When the time comes, don't miss. If you don't nip this sort of thing in the bud, it'll just keep happening.

>>18043994
That's not always the case, there's some shitty people out there

Gay

>>18043978
That he's gay, and I mean that in a respectful way.

>>18043978

depends on all the other surrounding details.

their first impression might be that hes gay if hes showing up to say, mc donalds, the park, or just to class like that. but firsti mpressions are washed away fast.