Hi /adv/,
I know people from NYC are going to tell me that I'm a genuine shitbag.
I have an overactive sex drive.
I used to live in New York city. Since I was 13, I've had the habit of playing with myself on the train. I don't see this as a bad thing. I'm 23 now. I'll usually seat my bookbag or knapsack on my lap and I'll actually begin to fondle myself using Vaseline.
It's something I really can't control. When I was a 8 I used to masturbate nonstop. I discovered sex from an early age. Most people will say that you could stop doing this, but this for me is like a drug or a cigarette habit. Normally I always choose much non-alert older women because I'm not a pedofuck. I choose those who are too old or drugged up to realize what I'm doing. It also normally doesn't end in a bad way. They usually aren't as attentive to noticing these sorts of things.
A few times I've been caught doing my dirty handshakes, but I usually dip behind the train and change my hats and caps up a bit. I've gotten the technique down so well to the point where I'll never be seen.
I have a prescription for some strong anti-androgens now and some pills for major depressive medication that I take regularly as per the terms of my probation. I have to also register as a sex offender.
I would ultimately just love to fix my pathetic life but I genuinely have no sexual desire other than to continue what I'm used to. What do I do? I don't like sex because I can't have full control. Silly question but why is society so very hateful towards sexual deviants? People are encouraged and allowed to threaten, and do and say the worst to sexual deviants because of "morality". It really doesn't make sense and I feel bitter without going too deeply on my prison experience.
>>18046262
get a cb
>>18046295
OP here, what is a cb:
Continued..
I moved to Atlanta now in an effort to change my life. I take the MARTA from Civic Center to Arts Center in the morning. I see very plain looking girls sometimes and I feel like fondling myself once an older woman sits near me. I've told my girlfriend this and she laughs at me almost like its a joke.
Anyway, my life is going okay. I'm trying to apply to the Navy as an O-1 Ensign since I have a degree in electrical engineering, and I have a girlfriend now (She's Christian and 28, but she secretly is a huge nympho). She's the one I actually lost my virginity to although she claimed to not care when I met her. My only issue is that I don't feel fulfilled sexually. My girlfriend will give me sex but usually moments later I'll be erect again wanting more, and its hard to get sex from her. She screams at me if I ever masturbate. I prefer masturbation and my family is encouraging this relationship to teach me how to not act like a spastic anymore around women but I'd be happier just being single and jerking off in my own peace and privacy. Girls are very high maintenance and I feel like this is really just a waste of my time.
I'm trying to find out what is really wrong with me. I think it might be Bipolar Depression, it would explain my high, frequent, and intense sexuality...
bump, for both OP and the public's sake
I lost my virginity to this guy who was my best friend. We have been through a lot such as: family members deaths, young accidental pregnancies and cheating (through him) as well as him having an affair on another women with me. For years it has just ended up with us hooking up again, when we were younger he gave me a promise ring (in the pic) that means that he will never walk out on me again. He said there is another meaning behind it that he won't let me know just yet. I have never been able to fall in love with anyone else but him. Recently, he has moved on. He really loves her but it is the same girl he had an affair on with me. I feel hurt for her and scared that he will just forget me entirely and now he refuses to talk to me or even see me at all. His family won't let him near me due to the affair and past. I don't know what to do, he is the most important thing to me. I just feel dead without him. I just don't know want life without my best friend. He also seems extremely depressed lately and won't tell anyone why. how can I keep him around? what do I do about his girlfriend? Am I doing the right thing?
Firstly, you are strong woman.. a very strong woman, and God bless you for it.
Sadly, all I can say is, only time will tell. Either he will regret it entirely, and it may work again. Or years will go by and you may move on and find someone who doesn't treat you like a side piece. You sound like someone who deserves consistency, and a spiritually -much stronger companion.
>>18050047
>gets stringed around and shat on
>enjoys it
Lmao, dumb cunt.
This is why you have to treat women like shit, they love it.
>>18050047
kill yourself abbie
Is 98% helium enough to kill myself?
Play it safe. Don't skimp on that last 2%. You'll look quite the fool when you don't fuck off of this living hell because you went full jew and didn't get the pure stuff.
leave it at 16 % and become a plant.
>>18049384
Fuck, is there any other easy methods of suicide I can try?
Soo my dumbest most idiotic stupid chubby best friend got laid before me. I want to die
Why would you want to die? Some people get laid first, some others later. Stop putting so much weight into it; it does NOT matter.
>>18049317
>>18049321
don't listen to him OP it does matter.
>>18049317
why is this embarrassing? did he/she got laid by a 10/10 or by a dumb idiotic stupid chubby girl/dude?
So, there's this chick who i would like to date and eventually make her my wife.
Problem, she is like your typical young woman these days: not a virgin, had bad history of relationships, her ex-boyfriend is a pretty big loser.
She showed interest and she's very attractive.
Now my question, should i ask her out? Or is this a waste of time?
Can you deal with your virgin complex?
If so, yes.
If not, no.
The only sure way to avoid STDs and paternity fraud is to stay pure, and marry a pure partner.
>>18049295
i don't have a virgin complex sir. but thanks for the input.
I rarely find guys my age attractive - physically, intellectually or on a personality level.
I am 22, and since I was a teenager I always developed crushes on guys in their early 30s.
On the other hand, I understand rationally that I shouldn't date someone much older because we'll have different priorities in life and things would be complicated.
My only relationship was with a guy my age, and it was very happy, but he was the only guy under 30 I've ever liked.
What should I do? Is it so terrible to date someone much older?
They'd certainly date you
>>18049041
They'd certainly fuck me, I doubt they'd seriously date me.
Nothing wrong with it, it's the natural order of things. Men of all ages prefer women in their 20's and even late teens, and any man who says otherwise is a liar.
Hey guys,
I've been reading studies on how smoking marijuana effects cognitive function, but all the studies seem to be inconclusive. They all say that the result was implied, or that it showed some correlation, or it can be connected with blah blah. So I want the opinions of long time weed smokers. Some details:
>be 21
>engineering student
>barely passing, though even by passing I'm in the top 40%
>smoke weed every second day or so
>if I let myself go, I smoke weed from sunrise to sunset
>trying to get myself to study first, and only smoke a little weed in the evening
>been smoking weed for 3+ years, but only been smoking more than once a week for 9 months
How has weed affected you? Do you feel like you can still function at an acceptable level? When you take breaks, do you feel like your abilities are enhanced? Is your performance affected by your marijuana consumption even when you're sober?
Personally in regards to studying it's not the best aid, I'd stick to a light smoke on the weekend if I was studying. Or just stop for a while
>>18048945
I know for sure that I can't study when I'm high, that's a given, I'm just trying to see if it'd work if I only smoked weed after I'm done studying, and trying to gauge some experiences, as I can't find any other conclusive sources
I'm 29 and I've been smoking since I was 21. I've had a couple periods where I abstained for at least 6 months. I found that it does impair my cognitive function especially in the 48 hours after smoking. My thinking is slower, I have trouble with short term memory and my moods are much more unstable. After two days or so I'm back to feeling "normal" but cognitive function and mood stability is still at a reduced rate.
After 4 weeks of no weed (and a week of insomnia, irritability and a couple of inexplicable crying sessions) the brain fog lifts and I experience much more clarity of mind and all that comes with it: quicker wit, stabler moods, more energy overall, and BETTER GRADES. I'm able to sit and concentrate on work for longer without feeling bored, improved cognitive function allows me to get work done a lot quicker and for my study sessions to be more productive as I remember more and have less trouble connecting the dots so-to-speak. Not only that, but I feel much more motivated and have less of those "Blah, fuck it" moments like I have now. Sense of urgency actually propels me to action instead of spiraling into depressive thoughts. I'm less anxious. When actively smoking (like I am now), just being in a room full of people is enough to make me break out in a nervous sweat so I skip a lot of classes just to avoid that feeling.
Everyone's body chemistry is different so take it with a grain of salt but I find that I can't think at my full potential when on any drug, weed or otherwise.
Met this woman while shopping last week, we exchanged numbers and became really good friends, she wants to hang out some more and so do I, however my fiancee is saying she is hitting on me hard and I'm missing some obvious signs. Is she? I've never been hit on by a woman before so I have no idea, I think our chats are pretty funny and lighthearted
Pic related is an example he pointed out, he said she just wanted me to imagine her naked
>>18048732
Haha yes she is.
>>18048737
Are you serious? I don't want to believe, I have close to no female friends. I was excited to hang out at her place next week
>>18048757
Don't act stupid. You wouldn't be that excited to hang out at a male's place. You know exactly what's going on and what you hope to get out of it.
Im in my mid twenties and never had a boyfriend.
So I want to try to do everything I can to get one
My list of things to do so far:
- start wearing makeup all the time
- lose 50lbs and lift weights to get toned
- get a haircut and straighten my hair every day
- take up stand up comedy so I can practice entertaining conversation
- wear tight clothes
- get a nose job
- go out to social events every day until I meet someone who wants me
What else can I do? Please help
Also not posting pic, I just need generic advice
>>18048408
find corey wayne on google and learn.
>No mentioning "try approaching men for dates"
Bait thread.
>>18048416
Well thats something I already do, but I need to fix myself so that they say yes
And no I dont have hugh standards I ask unnatractive guys out, but they all want a pretty girl regardless of how attractive they are themselves
I'm going to ask one of my coworkers out tomorrow for valentine's day, the plan is just to ask what she's doing and in the case she says nothing I suggest we do something, keep it casual.
Now my problem is I don't know what to do after, say she says yes which I think is about 60/40 in my favor, I would suggest a coffee date, we'd meet up, and then what?
What do we talk about? How would I escalate? Should I even try? What do I do about awkward pauses? pls no pua videos
I have roommates so I'm not like trying to bring her back to my apartment, but I would like to at least get a feel for whether she'd be interested in a less casual date.
she's pretty cute but something is off-putting about her, maybe she reminds me of a girl I knew in high school but I can definitely deal with it.
>mix of mexican and german
>pale skin
>thicc af my nig
>dyes hair all kinds of bright colors
>short hair
>cute nose
she was like the first person I 'clicked' with when I started working there so I'd like to get to know her better.
>>18048356
>and then what?
You talk to her to get to know her on a level that isn't as an acquaintance or friend. Be flirtatious, compliment her, ask her things about herself that you don't already know which would only be appropriate in a situation where she has an interest in you - such as accepting your date offer.
>Short, dyed hair
Abort!
Just ask her out straightforward. Don't try to bitch out of it by focusing it on being "casual." It's fucking Valentine's Day. Ask her out on a god damn date like a man. You sound like a high schooler.
>>18048356
As counter intuitive this sounds, less is more and try to play it as easy as possible. There are many reasons for this, but the number one danger you're in on a first date is making her realize you're more invested than her. Or "interested" in her if you will. This will make her less interested by default.
Here's they play I'd go for
1. your intro is fine, ask her what she's doing and invite her out if nothing
2. If she does have plans casually let her know you do too, without going into detail and retreat
3. Set up the date, you decide everything, don't ask her what she wants (she doesn't know)
4. Get there a bit before her and take the spot you want the most
(I usually go for a strategic position allowing me to see the entrance, the bar and have a wall behind me,
just old military habits but I feel way more comfortable in a good strategic position)
5. order your drink and do whatever you want. Talk to nearby people to "warm up" your social game, read something, play on your phone, whatever. Get relaxed and comfortable before she shows up.
6. Do not make a big deal out of the situation when she shows up, stand up and give her a hug, sit back down.
7. Now make some token small talk, ask if she's fine, suggest she orders a drink etc.. Now that you've put in a minimal amount of effort to socialize with her, stfu. Let her bring something up to chat about. If awkward silence, know that it's more awkward for her and that the first one to speak "loses". She probably will if you can look her in the eye for 5 seconds without talking. Then just go with it and change subjects if there's something you genuinly want to talk about. If you do not have anything you want to talk about with this person during the first 30 minutes, you probably aren't a good match... cont....
Anyone else getting really down about Valentine's Day tomorrow?
Let's all feel sorry for ourselves in this thread.
I don't usually, but I had a bad breakup about 2 years ago and was finally ready to start dating and got hardcore oneitis for this guy who has essentially, but not explicitly, rejected me about a month ago.
I was doing better, but I guess tomorrow has me super depressed. Holding myself back from texting him just to see what he's doing. It's pathetic.
got weed
got beer
got vidya
no problem
>>18047665
what video games are you playing?
>25
>KV
>Women my age are becoming mothers, I'll never be one
>Last guy I felt anything for flirted with me when he was drunk but then the next time he saw me looks at me with disgust and annoyance as I spaghettied in front of him
>Tell my story on 4chan, get told how easy I have it
I want to die
If a girl likes : FF, Devil May Cry, the Silent Hill Series, and Symphony of the Night what other games will she like?
>>18046595
Dark souls/Bloodborne maybe. Resident evil. Never played FF or Castlevania, so I can't really give any similar games.
>>18046595
Shit i play with my wife
Diablo 3
Mario kart
minecraft
terraria
borderlands series
Judging by her taste i would recommend a action game like a multiplayer Dynasty warriors or action RPG.
With grill as in cooperatively, or just generic recommendations?
All of these are high profile japanese games, so look through Konami, Capcom, Square Enix, Platinum games. Resident Evil, Bayonetta, Metal Gear Solid are easy picks.
We met at my work over the summer. He's 37, I was 20. He approached me and said we should meet up for coffee. I agreed and shortly after we did. We went back to his house and hooked up. Things were a bit awkward but that's because we didn't know each other very well.
I text him after and he doesn't reply. Two days later he gets back to me and says he doesn't want to go out with me ever again. Then he takes me off social media.
I contacted his friends and girlfriend on Facebook out of spite and now he's saying he's being harassed so he took out a restraining order for simply saying he feared for his life. I'm an idiot I know.
I'm not violent. I never threatened him. He just got mad because his girlfriend knows.
This is such a slap in the face. I am heartbroken and want to be with him. I have this attachment even though we barely know each other. I know that this is unreasonable and I don't know what's wrong with me. I want to be with him or die.
>>18045184
Go to a therapist. This level of attachment isn't normal.
>>18045187
If I go to a therapist, I don't want to be taken to a happy house because I wanna kill myself.
>>18045184
>He's 37, I was 20.
There is your mistake. Give your young booty to young guys who deserve it.
I already asked this question yesterday, but got no answers. So I tought I'll try it one more time.
I have to do a presentation about a topic related to technology or logistics. For me, the hardest part of a presentation is choosing a topic.
My first idea was Tesla (electric cars, autonomous driving etc.) but that topic is already taken.
Has anyone here an idea, what could be a good topic? I would really appreciate some good suggestions.
Why not make a presentation about a logistics chain from producer in, for example, Brazil to the end consumer?
>>18049123
The problem is, I have to talk around 15 minutes, and I am not sure, whether this topic offers enough to talk that long.
>>18049126
There's a lot from different customs regulations to different methods of transportation and then there's the different "writs" that I forget the name of. Basically a set of international B2B regulations that govern what, how fast, in what condition and where the delivery is done.
There's a girl that I like more than I care to admit.
Problem is, she has a boyfriend of about half a year.
How do I proceed?
move on with your life. oneitis will make your life hell.
>>18048958
You find someone else.
Cut contact, meet other people.
You're a piece of shit of the highest degree. I hope you'll be miserable all your life.