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This is weird but.... I havent cried in 2 years and I fell like I cant experience such feeling again and it is..... just weird
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Cut some onions.
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>>18049525
Doesnt fell real
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I used to be like you OP. I hadn't cried for almost a decade and then I met >her
I fell hard despite the fact that I knew she already had a boyfriend. Then one day I was talking to some of our mutual friends and the subject of her boyfriend came up. I didn't expect to be hit that hard. When I got home I crawled in bed and cried for a while.
So the good news is all the pain and loneliness and sorrow you are feeling now can get MUCH MUCH worse and you will be able to cry again.
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ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything
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GUIDELINES:
Before you post a question, check the FAQ to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.
And please no derailing arguments.
FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>What do girls/guys think about <an insecurity including, but not limited to: looks, physical traits, personality traits, virginity or otherwise lack of dating experience>
There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.
>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.
>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.
>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No.
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.
>Brandon, that guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships and fart guy
Fuck off
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What kind of women wear these?
I'm having trouble pinpointing what it is.
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>>18049226
It's a choker and I fucking love them on women.
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>>18049226
any kind that likes them. all types wear it. stop trying to paint everyone as robots.
There is no easy way to ask this.
>grandmother dies
>grandfather dies
>best friend for 14 years kills himself
>cat dies
>get thyroid cancer
>get fired
>girlfriend leaves me, tells me she loves some 8 years older dude now who's treating her like shit and doesn't even like her at all
>everything happens in a span of 3 months
No surprise I got depression and want to kill myself. I've been laying in my bed doing pretty much nothing for a few months now, not even motivated to eat or shower.
The problem is that I struggle finding professional help. I keep on landing on waiting lists that are like 4 to 7 months at best, but until then I probably have killed myself already. They do this priority thing when they have too many requests. Any ideas on how to get help faster?
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>>18048914
Did you tell them you're making plans to kill yourself? That usually gets priority, and in this case is fairly accurate.
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https://youtu.be/8ELnhjGw4Zs
I thought my situation was difficult.. now I just feel selfish. Better days, anon.
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Like >>18048922 said tell them you want to kill yourself and you'll probably get bumped up. I have good friends and they get me through tough times. Maybe talk to your friends about all this shit before you get professional help. I know your best friend died but maybe your other friends could help you out. I wish I could tell you it goes away but it never does. I just try living my life even with all the death going around. Are you getting treatment for the cancer?
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>Have you ever cheated on me?
>Yes and no. But i was always faithful to you.
What did she mean by this?
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>>18048485
Follow-up with clarification. Why the fuck are you asking us, when the person who has the answer is easily within reach to ask?
If you dont understand what someone means, then you ask them to be more specific. This is pretty basic knowledge for interacting with humans. Doesn't matter if it is a mumbling professor or your girlfriend. Take action, be an adult and converse about it.
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Perhaps she was raped?
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>>18048493
Your entire flaming shitpost is invalid.
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>you REALLY think i didnt ask for clarification?
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>i never said this is happening right now, so the answer is definitely NOT easily within reach
>>18048497
Hmmmmmm.....i am willing to bet anything this didnt happen. We were living together at the time so i am pretty sure i would have picked up some signs if that happened.
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I'm an uncircumcised American male. Apparently 87% of American men are circumcised. Be honest with me, is this a big negative to most women I get in bed? I'm not unhygienic or anything.
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>>18047942
its a negative the same way weird thighs are a negative.
dont expect frequent blowjobs but by the time a girl sees your penis it'll already be too late.
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You will get awkward reactions every single time, unless you go monogamous with one woman or move to metricland. Strongly consider the latter.
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>>18047952
So I should get circumcised?
Real talk:
Is sex overrated?
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>>18043353
Depends like just going out and having sex with some random person it'll feel nice but it's probably overrated but if it's with someone you genuinely care about then it isn't really
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>>18043353
as a method of getting off, yes. as an emotional bonding thing, no.
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>>18043356
> this more less
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I need a job based on verbal ability any ideas? 2017-02-15 02:51:17 Post No.18050553
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I need a job based on verbal ability any ideas?
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-I am dyspraxic, my spacial reasoning is terrible. When I took the WAIS IQ test, I found out that my spatial reasoning is in the bottom 1 percentile. I also have terrible organisational skills and frequently lose things. No chance at having a job that needs physical ability.
- My memory is poor
- I'm dyslexic, my writing is okay, but my reading speed is about 40% slower than the average person. My reading comprehension is not too good either. That being said I do still really enjoy reading.
>low ability to do Math (I have dyscalculia)
> I am 18
>My verbal skills are supposedly in the 99.99 percentile ( literally the one thing I have got going for me I am fucking retarded at everything else)
What Job could be good for me? I am only 18. I am currently doing A-levels (College qualification for UK). I think I am going to end up with average/subpar grades despite me putting 100% of my effort into studying. I think I do not have what It takes to get into a good UNI. I need to figure out if there are any jobs that I can try and attain.
At the moment, I'm thinking my best bet is to become a dishwasher. But I would like to aspire to something that isn't fucking shit. Do any jobs exist that focus primarily on verbal skill? despite me likely ending up with no degree?
At the moment, I'm thinking my best bet is to become a dishwasher. I'm not going to go anywhere in life. Help. I don't wanna work at a fucking mcdonalds for the rest of my life fuck.
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>At the moment, I'm thinking my best bet is to become a dishwasher. But I would like to aspire to something that isn't fucking shit. Do any jobs exist that focus primarily on verbal skill? despite me likely ending up with no degree?
At the moment, I'm thinking my best bet is to become a dishwasher. I'm not going to go anywhere in life. Help. I don't wanna work at a fucking mcdonalds for the rest of my life fuck.
oops didn't mean to write the same thing twice
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>>18050553
Don't have to spell to sell
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>>18050593
Sales? That sounds pretty fun T B H.
I'm doing research on it now
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I was just offered a $62,000 dollar scholarship to WPI to study computer science. Should i go?
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"should I turn down a check for $62,000?"
ur we;lcome
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>>18050537
truuuue
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>>18050531
>>18050531
YES
If anything, transfer later
these past few days i've been feeling so confused. basically, there's this girl who I have a huge thing for. We've hung out before but last week I told her about how much I liked her. She went radio-silent for a few days after telling her and her friends insist she has a huge thing for me. Whenever I do try to talk to her, things just feel awkward and I can feel that she's anxious. I'm miserable right now. Does anyone have suggestions or at least something to cheer me up?
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>>18050492
never tell your feelings to someone, just take action. you want a girl to go out with you? ask her out. it turns feelings into a question they have to answe.r
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>>18050503
2nded
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>>18050503
do you think it's possible to fix this whole thing?
How could I keep my death from hurting the people who care about me? I can stop slowly phase friends out of my life until they don't care anymore, but that's not going to work with my mom.
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the only way to do it without hurting her is to wait until she dies
yes its not fair, but neither was her bringing you into the world
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>>18050465
There's no possible way of not hurting anyone with your death. Trust me I know. I've attempted suicide a couple of times.
So what's going anon? You wanna talk about anything?
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>>18050470
Yeah, fair.
>>18050471
That's kind of what I figured. Thanks anyway.
There's really nothing I can talk out, but it was kind of you to try to help and I appreciate it.
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i lost my job, 2k in credit card debt, owe 10k on my car, paying $200/m for insurance cause DUI five years ago, my ecommerce store sucks and makes no sales, i have raging eczema eating my hand, have had scabies for months, cant get anything treated cause broke as shit.
how do you stay motivated /adv/?
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>scabies
eheheh
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>>18050392
Based on what you posted it seems you dug yourself into that hole. Lots of those problems could have being avoided. Why aren't you working, even on a fast food place cleaning floors?
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>>18050443
still looking for work, preferably an office job or data entry cause i fucking hate talking to people
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I used to feel like I would never succeed when it came to love but now I got myself to a place where I could meet people regularly and started to improve.
What happened was that I built myself up, I tried and I failed. This feels so much worse than when I felt like it was a guaranteed fact that I would be alone for my entire life. I didn't even think about love, at worst I sighed and did other things but now I'm in a massive amount of distress over it, I wanted someone to hold today for the very first time but it's just another day of being alone and it feels so fucking awful, worse than it ever has.
How do I cope with this?
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>>18050372
v-day can be especially tender. have a nice glass of wine and some chocolate.
keep trying. you cant succeed unless you risk failure.
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>>18050380
I'll try to chill but what you said is kinda my point. I feel worse now having failed than I ever did simply not trying.
It makes me wonder if success is even worth it.
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How do you cope? you cope. There is no preventing the pain. I've been on 4chan all day and my life is still the same, flirting stresses me out and being lonely is painful. Remember, you're here forever.
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What drugs can be created or used from ordinary items?
Not that I'm implying that my research would end on an anonymous imageboard.
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Easily? GHB.
With some extraction? DMT
Making meth is easier than making acid.
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>>18050345
jenkem
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>>18050345
theres a shitton of drugs you can pick up in the woods or just buy at shops labeled and sold as something else.
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How do i stop internalizing what people say about me?
For example, when i was much younger and up until high-school people used to call me weird, annoying.
I've been struggling with convincing myself that i'm not annoying and that i'm fine the way i am. Which has lead to me in the past copying people to seem less annoying (which is fucking annoying)
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>>18050259
If you figure it out right a book and become a multi-millionaire. The shit people say to you growing up just sticks with you.
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Stop caring what others think about you
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>>18050278
I knoow, its fucking hard to shake that shit off. Especially when it you see that some of the things they said were right.
Makes you worry if there is more that theyre not saying..
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There's a man who lives in Idaho by the name of Joseph Columbo and he needs to be arrested somehow, he has a facebook and the account says he lives in Rigby. I need help from others to take him to prison since he is dating my best friend and he is controlling and emotionally abusive and even physically abusive towards her along with him ruining her life and others. He hacks for a living and steals money from others, he's a loser who bullies people. I need someone to get rid of him since I can't do it myself, I live over 2200 miles from him.
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Let's get to the important question. Does your friend know you are secretly in love with her on a stalker level? I think they have medication for something like that.
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>medication
this
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>>18050252
2000 miles isn't that far you pussy. My barber's sister was being beaten by her husband. He flew across the country to beat the guy's ass. Nut up you fucking numale faggot.