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How would one go about hiding a notebook in their room, especially if they have family members/roommates?
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Go digital and encrypt that shit.
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Computer tower. My mom goes through my room on the daily, tearing and cleaning through it, but I have about an ounce of weed in my computer and know its safe cause she would never have a reason to open it, let alone knows you can open it
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Like this

https://youtu.be/V13NDm79x74

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Why do I look okay in a mirror, but horrible in pictures? Do I look horrible to other people if pictures of me are horrible?
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>>18051706

Because your face is mirrored when you look at it through a mirror and naturally viewed when you see it in a picture. Basically, you only see your own face "right" in pictures, while you're used to it mirrored, so it throws you off. Also, it's hard to control and adjust your facial expressions for pictures, unlike when you're standing in front of a mirror, so most pictures are unflattering but default. If you look decent kn mirror, it's likely that other people think you're decent looking too, even if your real face doesn't exactly match the one you see in a mirror.
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>>18051706

Stop holding the camera so close to your face fucktard. It's called perspective.

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Because of certain of a current situation I am currently involved in I have decided to completely disappear. I won't go into detail because there is no way around it. I'm nearing 20 and currently live in Canada. The week before I go, I plan on selling my car and as many of my belongings as possible for cash. I will have around $6000 CAD.
My next problem I need advising on. Where would be the most ideal place to disappear and never be found; to run from it all and start a completely new life, new identity. The day I leave I am not telling a single person, not my best friend or family. Keep in mind my $6000 starting cash. Any advice on disappearing would be helpful

It's this or suicide.
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>>18051691

Keep in mind that if you ever put any personal information on the internet you can be traced.

Companies sell your data which then is made available for background checks where they can use it to make more money. I might recommend looking to room with someone wherever you decide to go and restrict your internet usage to total anonymity.

I do background checks on most people I meet and I can guarantee you, finding people can be very easy.
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>>18051691
Greenland. It's by far your best bet.
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>>18051710
If authorities know I'm not dead and simply ran away would they bother looking? I mean if I sell all my belongings the week before then disappear that almost speaks for itself

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I need some fucking help adv. I do ROTC, and everything has been alright up until this second semester. I'm a freshman, and just about all of the other freshman in my class act like fucking middle schoolers. They talk shit about each other, exclude others from stuff they're doing, start stupid fucking drama, and I just get to sit there and barely have anyone to talk to other than the upperclassman. There's this one dude who CONSTANTLY strokes his fucking ego 24/7, only talks to the girls, doesn't even acknowledge my existence and so on. He's kind of the master brain of all this cancer and it's making me consider dropping the program since I don't really have any friends in it. I have to see these people daily until I graduate and I don't know if I can do that, but that's also throwing away a career opportunity. What the fuck do I do? This is literally high schoolers thinking they're Army Rangers but they also need to gossip when they are done their battle drills.
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>>18051658
bump
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>>18051658
It's called life buddy. We all have to deal with shitheads like this aforementioned person you talked about. Let him be a fucking idiot if he wants to and pay him no mind. If he starts getting out of bounds, report his ass to your superiors its real simple. Don't let one person ruin your day/life because he wants to act like a cunt.
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Nothing you posted here seems it directly involves you, im not sure why your mad.

>this one dude who CONSTANTLY strokes his fucking ego 24/7, only talks to the girls, doesn't even acknowledge my existence

Honestly, sounds like your just jealous, maybe even a lil low-key gay for this guy

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What do I do if every time I smoke weed I literally change completely? Like I freak out and worship Satan and beg for death and have vivid images of rape and killing and cut myself but as soon as I smoke weed I'm like oh...things aren't that bad and I actually help people and love everyone. Why is this illegal?
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>>18051455
grow up

been there, done that, stuff gets sorted out with time. just dont get addicted (yes, weed is addictive and not fun in overconsumption)
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>>18051458
I can't it gets so bad if I don't smoke and I have a really shitty life and every day my mindset gets worse and worse and I'm more and more like that but I can't change or do anything

Inb4 yes you can quit weed
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>>18051461
then take speed. On speed you have strenght to do stuff.

Just kidding (actually, not really). I see you are having bad times now. But I also believe that you will do fine. Just dont give up and fight everyday for small bits of good changes.

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Im a Pakistani muslim and my girlfriend is an Indian hindu. We're both from the UK because our grandparents were immigrants. So far our relationship has been going great despite our differences.

The other day she texted me out of the blue asking if my family would accept her. I told her the younger people would but not the older generation. It was the same for her family and it got me thinking a little.

If we do decide to marry, how can we make things work? I love her loads and can't bear to let go of her over religious differences. Not to mention the type of shit we'll get from our communities about marrying inter-faith...

Pic unrelated
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>>18051405
Get a rabbi to marry you in a church
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Marriage to a woman who does not believe in Islam or is one of the people of the Book is not allowed.
You'll either have to convert her or be considered as comitting a grave sin.
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>>18051405

You have to accpet the consequence of your actions and so does she. You both know that your families will not accept it, but if they give you that ultimatium, then the ball is in your court.

Theyre obviously not going to be okay with it, they're making you choose, so you have to decide who you love more I guess. Besides though, if youre 3rd gen, congrats, you're now a british citizen of pakistan descent, you'll have to make like all other immigrants the world over and leave some traditions at home and keep others in the family.

I'd say go for it.

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I'm constantly depressed
Severely overweight
I spend all my money on an online girlfriend to try to buy her love and friendship
I'm constantly lonely
I think about ending my life frequently
I'm disgusting to look at and repulse others
I just want to be loved
But I guess I don't deserve it
I was made fun of all my life and bullied
I feel like I'm worthless
That's it I guess
No one here will care and you'll likely advise me to kill myself
I probably will
I just wanted some closure or something
Someone to acknowledge me
I'm sorry for wasting your time reading this
Thank you though
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>>18051387
Go to a therapist. Diet.
When you'll feel better, go out and meet people - join a class, go to a meet-up, volunteer. Put yourself out there.

It's nothing that you can't solve.
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>>18051387
>spending money on an online gf
She's using that money to buy weed so she can lure chad to fuck her. Stop being a fucking idiot.
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Stop eating so much and go lift some weights. Your mental health is part of your physical health. So if you're constantly feeling like shit mentally, there's a good chance it's because of your physical health.

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I dated a girl for about 4 months and then she broke up with me about a month ago and got back together with her ex. I'm still not over her at all, and I think part of the reason is because I cant seem to attract a girl nearly as attractive as she was. She was probably an 8.5-9, and the girls I hooked up before her weren't any hotter than an 8, and even those girls didn't seem too interested in me. How did I attract my ex? When we were together, she was completely obsessed with me and would always say how hot she thinks I am. But other girls don't seem to agree with her... Is it possible that all girls just have "types" and I fell into her specific "type"? I'm so lost and wish I could find another girl as hot as her.
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>>18051377
Stop liking girls for looksc
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>>18051389
I feel like you're a girl.
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I definitely like girls for their looks, but if they're annoying or I just hate their personality I most likely wont do anything more than sleep with them. I know it's shallow, but thats the reality of how the majority of guys are.

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Every time I drink liquor I wake up in the middle of the night with my legs flailing. My bed was next to a wall, and I'd always find myself banging my knee into the wall over and over again at 4am. I even fall back asleep doing it. My SO recently rearranged our room, and now there's no wall next to the bed. Last night I woke myself up just slinging my legs up and down really hard.
She's getting pissed because it wakes her up. What does this mean? It never happens unless I drink.
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It means you should stop drinking until you talk to a doctor you fucking idiot.
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This sounds like bait

But if it's not
>>18051339
Do this
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>>18051339
I rarely drink. Fuck you.
To me it seems like a weird form of RLS, but I heard that was a meme disease. My grandma used to shake her legs when she fell asleep but she never drank.

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So for the last 4 months this I've been dating this girl, were both 18 love eachother have met eachothers family's been on plenty of dates and have even talked about kids and marriage and what not, she honestly thinks I'm the one, BUT she blows up over the tiniest things in when we talk, and is mad at me for 2 days and makes me feel like shit until I suck it up and apologise. We love eachother a lot but she just stresses me out sometimes. NOW HERES THE DILEMA, I've been spending so much time with her that I've stared to notice I'm begging to lose my high school friends,(just graduated senior btw) I told my best friend who is a girl that I liked her a lot and didn't want to risk ruining the friendship if she didn't like me back. I only said this as i felt like I wouldn't never talk to my best friend the same way if I was distant and only regularly talked to my girlfriend,I love my current girlfriend despite the fights.But this is how she replied she said the exact same thing, she said that she had so much feelings for me during senior and she didn't wanna ask me out in case I didn't feel the same ,then I went and started dating my girlfriend and she said it hurt her. Suddenly now we're talking every day. after I confessed my feelings for her we talked for 4 hours how much we used like eachother and if only one of us had confessed. I told her I'm happy with my girlfriend but she you always be my first love and she said I know your mine aswell. Now we talk every day like we used to I'm starting to get feelings for her again. Should I break up with my girlfriend over my best friend and go for it, or stay with my girlfriend until I forget about my feelings for my best friend. My girlfriend will be crushed it I leave her for another girl, but at the end of the day it's my life do I want to be happy with her or my best friend.

Cheers for reading all that boing crap, Any advice on what I should do would be greatly appreciated
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>>18051294
Didn't read past the first two lines because it's a clusterfuck of bad grammar and spelling but
>18
>'in love'
>been together 4 months
>talked about kids and marriage
>she thinks you're 'The One'
Yeah, I give this relationship two more months, max. Let it fizzle out, and then get on with your life.
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>>18051294

You're not as happy with your girlfriend as you think, if you're talking to your friend about such things. Also, her way of dealing with problems in the relationship is very unhealthy. It's manipulative.
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>>18051294
>4 months this I've been dating this girl
>she blows up over the tiniest things in when we talk, and is mad at me for 2 days and makes me feel like shit until I suck it up and apologise

That love sounds pretty one-sided, OP. It shouldn't be that bad so early into the relationship.

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I had the biggest mind fuck now. I was texting this girl with intention of being fuck buddies and I thought she wanted long relationship (you will see why), but now I showed texts to my sister and she showed me completely different perspective.

Basically, I met this girl at college and asked for her number. I texted her to try to set up a date (I wanted to show my intentions early to not get friended), she accepted the date and then flaked with legit excuse and was sorry and wanted to move it to other day.

When I texted her for the other date in few weeks she accepted again and when I asked when is she free this week she went quiet for a few days. And after 1.5 days I get response like this.

Hey, I didn't it would actually be like that and I think you're looking at everything in different light, and I think it's fair if I tell you that I'm already seeing someone for some time although it's nothing serious, but I really like him. So I don't want to give you mixed signals and maybe it's better we don't go to date at all. And I hope you're not angry:)

NOW HERE IS WHERE I GET FUCKING HEADACHE.

At first I thought she got a feeling from me that I wanted to push for a date and nothing serious but she wanted relationship (and already had one) and that's why she rejected me.

But my sister gave me completely different perspective. She said there is no guy and that she made him up. She wanted just casual relationship while she thought I wanted something serious and that's why she rejected me.

What do you guys think?

My reply to her text was:

Hey, I understand the situation and I think it's fair you told me this. I think you're cute and nice and as I'm man of action I always show m intentions and showed them to you too. I wish you good luck at college and if you want some nice company in the future you have my number.

If I saw it from my sister's perspective I would text a different thing to her.

Did I fuck up? Can I recover and still be fuck buddies with her?
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How the fuck are we supposed to know? Also if she wanted to be fuckbuddies with you, she wouldn't have told you she has a boyfriend, don't be a moron.
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this is a retarded whore
your sister is talking out of her ass

move along
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>>18051278

She said she was seeing someone for some time and its NOTHING SERIOUS. She didnt say she had a bf, why the fuck would she give me her number in the first place then?

>Be 31 divorced 6 months ago
>Meet awesome FWB after many failed ones 3 months ago
>She decides to just be friends in the hope of finding love

Am I over thinking or what, awesome friend but I've definitely caught feelings. Would trying seriously ruin the friendship?
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ideally she starts to get feels
friendship is already ruined, you fuck and you also want her as a gf

you are 31 my man
cant you grow balls and be

>no it wouldnt feel weird
>we are basicly a couple already
>why? why not?

not this KHV virgin talk of oooh i totally understand please let me put my penor into you my gracious
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>>18051264
How old is she?
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>>18051276
The tough love is appreciated, marriage took me out of the dating game for 8 years. Pulling tail is pretty easy, starting anything else is my struggle. Fuck it I'm going for it.

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> tfw "Fuggggg"
> not happy v day
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>girl I like has boyfriend
>wish I could do something special for her but she is not mine to do for
>ask her if her boyfriend did anything for her
>he didn't
>didn't even say happy valentine day to her

YOU DON'T DESERVE HER YOU BASTARD
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>you don't deserve her you bastard
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>>18051230
What if she doesn't care?

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Still new to drugs -- what does a gram of coke actually look like? Whenever I buy, my friends get it for me, and they come back with a tiny baggy usually the width and length of my pinky nail, though I can't really tell the depth. I seems like I'm getting ripped off, but I wanted to make sure because I can't picture what a gram would be.

For the stuff I get it I just ask for $50, sometimes a $100 which looks like double of fifty -- which is fair. But I'm not sure if the drug dealer knows Im new and is giving me less than fair amount.
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Why don't you just get a scale and weigh it...?
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1. Don't do drugs you idiot.

2. If you're asking for a cash value and not a weight measurement then your dealer definitely knows you're new and is taking advantage.

3. Buy a scale.

4. a g is going to look roughly like what you described
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You can get a scale, bro.

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I'm currently finishing my second semester at community college with intentions to go to transfer to a local college. I never took the SAT but on the PSAT I got upper 90th percentiles in every category (This was six years ago). I'm averaging A's this semester and have a 3.6 gpa as of now. I'm currently in Calc 2, Intro to Computer science, Wester civ 2 and intro Psych. After this semester my parents aren't paying for anything. I'm broke, but have the opportunity to work tech support at my friends web hosting company with opportunities to train under their development team. I'm planning on transferring to an instate institution because there's a program where I can keep paying TCC prices.

My concerns are
1. Idk if I should take out loans for the next semester and build debt or do 4 years in the military and get the GI bill.
2. I lack discipline and structure, not sure if the military would be good for that.
3. I'm out of shape and lack motivation to get in shape and I heard the Military is great for that.
4. If I go in the military would I lose motivation to go back to school?
5. Would I qualify for scholarships? (parents make to much for pel grants).
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With some college, (in the US I assume) you can get into the military with a higher rank. Yes it will give you discipline, unless you are a complete sack of shit. A LOT of people come out, plan to do the GI Bill, but in my personal experience, the discipline and drive instilled in you by the military, along with the motivation to pass your classes so you don't lose your cash flow, are more than enough to pull your ass through school, especially if you've done fine thus far.

The question you want to ask yourself is if you're ok selling your body, time, and basically your life to the US gov for 4 years (up to 8 if you know who gets us into another war, I forget what it's called, but the military reserves this right to make you serve a full 8 in dire circumstances, also there is stop-loss, which Obama ended, but you know who could bring back)
Are you ok being made to do stupid tasks for stupid people? Can you not be little bitch if sent to war? You'll be punished for the acts of your fellow soldiers, and yanked out of bed at 5am on a Sunday morning to dig ditches or shovel snow.

On the upswing you will get 30 days guaranteed paid vacation a year, full medical, and various allowances and benefits which will make it easier to save money (yearly clothing allowance, free food at the D-fac, rent free barracks living)

The military is sacrificing a big chunk (perhaps all) of your life. But if you're smart, you can squeeze what you need out of it.
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>My concerns are
>1. Idk if I should take out loans for the next semester and build debt or do 4 years in the military and get the GI bill.
You can even take classes during those 4 years and have them paid for. GI Bill is smarter if you don't want to manage massive debt
>2. I lack discipline and structure, not sure if the military would be good for that.
They'll force you to live by discipline and structure. So not a problem if you want to learn sone
>3. I'm out of shape and lack motivation to get in shape and I heard the Military is great for that.
They give you all the excercises you need and motivation you can ask for.
>4. If I go in the military would I lose motivation to go back to school?
Lose no. Realise stuff as you grow older and change goals, maybe
>5. Would I qualify for scholarships? (parents make to much for pel grants).
GI Bill takes care of most everything so you wouldn't need any especially if you save the money you earn.
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>>18051197
Do you know how likely it is for a "brain" to be put in combat? I had a friend who took the test (I forget what it's called, ASVAB?) and placed in the Nuke field. I beat that kid in just about every test we ever took together. Do you think it's likely I would actually be put in action? I feel like that's more for the brawn isn't it?

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