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to extract maximum resources from their orbiters and give time for feelings of investment to build

why would boys?

Because I don't bring up my boyfriend gratuitously. I bring him up when he comes up naturally.

>>18057048
>a whole day in the city

sounds very 1950s to me. no one gas money or time or energy for that shit anymore. a date is basically extended foreplay.

>>18057048
Mostly talk.
Eat, drink coffee.
Go to museums, zoo, aquarium, stores that sells things we both enjoy, parks.
Go to events like concerts, movies, festivals, theatre.
I rarely set a 16 hours date tho.

>>18057104
You must be fun at parties

>>18057004
i do not understand what you mean by toxic person.

>>18057004
when people do things you don't like. Write that down. Make a list or some shit. Then look down the list and see if you can get them to stop, if you can't - they are toxic, and bad for you.

People that hold ya back.
Lying, manipulating, angry; stuff like that.

>Buy a plane ticket
>Talk to your friend
>Tell him the girl isn't worth it and you're going to experience more pain if you end up forgiving her
>Tell him he doesn't have to get angry, but he has to logically reason to himself that the relationship was lopsided from the get-go and she truly is not worth it
>Go to bars
>Fly back on sunday

mediate bro. (to him)

think about what you want in life. get a solid understanding. Then go fucking talk to the girl about it.

>>18056986
Most of the times listening to a friend and being there for him is the best you can do, but depends on the person. If he can't say anything, figure out if he wants just sit in silence or needs someone to help shoo negative thoughts away.

I feel sorry for the guy, but both the girl. I'd rather find the abusive guy and kick the shit out of him. He is the real splinter in the anus here.

The girl needs help. You're friend is a good guy. You're a nice guy either OP, wish all of you the best.

Communicate with her about your needs and wants and tell her you don't know what to do, see what advice she gives you.

How bad of physical issues are we talking here?

You could always do some outdoor things that don't require physical exertion on her behalf.

You could go camping for instance. You could do all the physical work while she just sits back and relaxes enjoying nature.

Would she even want to go out and have a night on the town even if she was able to? The common mistake of extroverts is that they believe everyone should be like them and fail to realize that going out and being around people is as bad for an introvert as staying in all day is for an extrovert.

>>18056979
>>18056979

She's aware of them. I don't mention it outwardly because her inability to do normal 20 something year old things really depresses her and makes her feel guilty. She always says "I feel like I'm preventing you from being happy you should break up with me"

I do love her. We have tons of fun but again the only issue is I can't do a lot of the things i would love to do with an S/O...and when you have physical AND mental issues you're very very limited on what you can do

I have none of these issues. She's closed off. I'm open. I like talking to people. She doesn't. I enjoy trying new restaurant and new things. She never likes to try new things. Its many fundamental little differences.

I have no problem with her as a person and I do have feelings for her, but for example it sucks NEVER being able to try that new restaurant simply because your S.O wants the same thing over and over

>>18056935
My boyfriend is liberal and I'm conservative. It hasn't affected our relationship at all. As long as you have a plan to prevent pregnancies effectively (as she is likely anti-abortion) you should be okay.

>>18056935
depends on how open-minded and tolerant she is towards people who don't agree with her beliefs and opinions

>>18056935
You need to share the same values and life goals if you want a successful lifelong relationship

>>18056754

make a decision. realize there is no wrong answer. no matter what you do in life you will get to old age and regret not seeing what the other side of the coin woulda been like. if you leave her oyu'll look back and regret it. if you stay with her you'll look back and regret it.

both could be potentially happy for you, but they could also be unhappy.

i prefer independence above all else, especially sincei m 24 and i realize my youth is slipping away.

its one of the few rides you should go on alone.

>>18056754
It's not all it's cracked up to be, trust me on this one.

>>18056778

i hard disagree. 4 years ago i got a break up and said 'think im gonna take a little break'.

but like with facebook I've found that i just dont want or need it. its not a break. im just an individual and its pretty great.

>>18056682
Steve?

>>18056707
Jason?

>>18056721
Michael?

>>18056678
You watched too many uni movies. Real life uni is boring af

Not trying to be mean, but the problem is you.

Nothing in life is going to be "awesome" when you have a shit attitude. It's always the case that you'll get out what you put in.

Stop expecting people to make it enjoyable for you. YOU should put in effort to create the memorable experiences.

>>18056678
>I have done everything except join a frat to make it fun

Like what? We can't grasp the full situation if you're gonna be ambiguous about it.

>Have zero friends because no one shares my interest.
I doubt this, you probably just haven't found the people yet.

Is it a small campus or a commuter college? I spent freshman year at a shitty small mostly commuter college and transferred to a huge state college and my life got so much better. I would honestly probably be dead or a dropout if I didn't transfer.

>>18056659
Dress up and go to comicons. Hide in the bathroom stalls and offer bj's. You will likely make it on the news and be famous.

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>>18056659
anzu is mostly photoshop (she's really mediocre and plain in person) so get good at that, i guess

being a famous cosplayer is going to take extremely exceptional costume-making skills that are better than the majority of cosplayers so get REALLY, REALLY good at costume construction

make very frequent convention appearances and do regular photoshoots

invest in a good camera or good photographer

be active on instagram, befriend the veteran cosplayers

the "living doll" trend died like 5 years ago and it's basically a joke at this point so don't bother

this is a terrible idea and you will grow to regret every minute you spent trying to achieve it

How are you in math in general terms? How good are you when dealing with pure concept? How old are you? Is there a career center near you that offers Ap stats? Think about these first.

>>18056613
Well ive taken AP calculus already and think I'm very well in mathematics as long as I get good practice in. And there isn't a career center near me that I know of.

I am only sophomore and I have friends who took Ap stats online courses, it is very hard to understand the concept without a teach explaining it to you in a simpler way, however, if you are confident in your abilities, I would say go for it, right now I am taking Ap calculus online to earn credit and also earn free space so I could attend other classes(my school has AP calc). Have you tried online courses before?

>>18056542
Is this for real? You're not going to just learn a language in a few weeks and suddenly build a full fledged app. And why the fuck would you want to learn C if you want to write an app? If you're serious you really need to take a step back and evaluate where you are and what your goals are.

Geez, I'm sorry, but I would like you to know that first of all, I don't want to just finish the project in a few weeks, I want to learn coding as a long term, second of all, I'm really new to this, why do you have to be so mean? This really brings down my view on /adv/ :(

get a book on your language of choice, and get a highlighter pen and some post it notes.

>>18056521
I used to do situps until my stomach burned. That only worked for so long though.

>>18056521
Putting a turkey baster in your butthole and letting it marinate helps.

>>18056521
Gym, nigger

Do some fucking lifts

>>18056494
>Personal opinion.
I would tell the boyfriend. I wouldn't say she is cheating I would just tell him exactly what I saw and let him do what he wishes with that info.

>>18056494
i think there's no harm in talking to your roommate about it, but keep the relationship you have with her as your roommate in tact. if you go telling her bf shit based off of assumptions you could not only ruin their relationship but you might also find yourself looking for another roommate or another place.

Talk to her about it. if it was cheating, tell her it's not cool and you're kinda disappointed, she should probably work on being a better person.

if it was cheating and you move out and cut ties, do what you think is right.

>>18056494

>Another part of me thinks "none of my business"...

That part is correct. Fuck her boyfriend, if you get into the middle of this you'll have a crazy angry girl and her slighted boyfriend fighting in your house and guess who they'll focus all of their anger on? You, my man.

Shut your mouth. Preserve yourself. Stay far away from the drama. If you were really good friends with the guy or the girls and you didn't live with either of them then my advice would by different but as it stands it you don't really know these people that well and the only thing that you have to gain is stirring up drama in your own house.

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>>18056454

>have a nervous break down
>still able to post on 4chan the same day
>label this as 'severely mentally ill' in order to take blame away from myself

nice try.

>>18056463
my semantics parser came to a different conclution.. today was used to reference the co-workers, like the co-workers he has today, or as some say, these days, as of late..
the timing of alleged breakdown was not stated.

>>18056481

>tries really hard to sound smart
>says 'conclution'

still seems like a write off to me