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>>18058328
>Carl's Jr.
>Clearly eating Hardey's.

>>18058328
Just man up sit down and fucking eat

>>18058328
Tell him to GTFO

>>18058128

Meet girls, find one you like that likes you too, and date her.

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>>18058128
>meet girls
stopped reading right here

not be faggot

>>18058003
>Furthermore as my family is quite poor
Should've studied harder and get that fellowship.

>How easy is it to get an engineering job in Europe with just a bachelor's actually?
Not bad. Just don't expect 45k/y salary.

>Surely aerospace engineering bachelors degree holders don't just work restaurant jobs, right?
Meh, it happens. It's not like the Dutch is known for their rockets. Just do your internship and part-time, dude. And hope for the best.

You should have informed yourself. European bachelors are usually 3 years long, the master is 2 years and a specialization which earns you the credentials to work in the field. After that you can do a doctorate if you want to do research.

You can work while studying, student jobs, assisstant if your grades are good enough etc.

>>18058003
Bachelor's in US works because we have a huge defense industry so aero is an ecosystem that's pretty accessible here. Lots of suppliers here. Also, once you get in you can pretty much go anywhere because Nadcap, FAA, ASTM, MIL-ST, etc. make the process similar at every company but the first can be tough. Never heard of a dutchie and I've worked with guys who did the B2, 777, 747, 787, F-18, F-35, A380, UH-60, and Super Stallion so good luck bud. Airbus is probably your best bet.

>>18056753
Let me guess: if you take a Myers-Briggs personality test, you get something that ends in "P"?

>>18056753
OP do you expect people to just give you hamburgers for no reason? If not, then you need to be less indifferent. Go work for hamburgers; you can succeed if you focus on the end goal.

>>18056753
You're describing malaise.

It could be existential, it could be clinical depression, or it could be a consequence of your drug use

I've had adhd since I was a child. In school I would not concentrate be extremely loud. I don't support putting children on medication when they're too young to understand them. I am grateful for them on the other hand I also had family to help me. I struggled with memory concentration starting crazy goals and not accomplishjng them in a matter of days switch to another. I do not take medication I try to live with it instead. I see medications as a temporary fix and want to learn how to live with it because like you said being on it did nothing except social issues

it's 100% possible to not be diagnosed with ADHD which is more complex than just a yes/no diagnosis. IMO everyone has it to some degree, but most people keep it in check or are mildly affected and can live with it. Being diagnosed with it just means your case is more on the severe end. IDK why you're not taking dextroamphetamine though, that shit is king. Wish I had adhd so I could take some.

>>18054402

What does dextroampethemines do differently?

Thx for replies

>"what is the effect of hiring disabled people on consumers attitudes"
>my paper was about identifying what disability discrimination is, it's types, the laws and the advantages and disadvantages of hiring disabled people.
I can see why your professor doesn't like this question, these are two completely different topics.

Does your research question have to actually be phrased as a question? Because if not, something like "disability discrimination and how it plays out in the workplace" would comfortably suit what your paper is about. Depending on what being an HR major actually involves, I'm not sure if I'd call your topic research though.

>>18061067

It is a research, because based on my research question im supposed to make a questionnaire for people to answer.

>>18061073
Have you actually done the questionnaire? Because if you had, then I'm not sure why you'd be talking about
>what disability discrimination is, it's types, the laws and the advantages and disadvantages of hiring disabled people
except briefly by way of introduction. If you'd carried out the questionnaire, you'd have results to analyse and discuss.

Right now, it sounds like you're trying to do two different things and aren't doing either of them well

>>18060922
My advice is to move out of the lower class.

>>18060923
Not really a lower class issue in my country, just the way things must go, I'm not even black for that matter

Fighting is for losers

>>18060400
That hurt me so bad , like i got punched . I asked her why , she so she can let her anger out on other people and thats just bullshit.
I said to her , well we argued and youre back on a dating app , it looks like you are looking for another guy. She said no. So we left it there.
Instantly made a fake account to find her , and of course I did. It did say she was take on the app , but she had a symbol that said"this person is extremely popular today"
I kept checking everyone so often whether she is still there , well she was.
I got annoyed and on the fake profile I put my name and a photo of me and visited her profile(i didnt put a relationship status , so it automatically put im single). Obviously it showed her that i visited her profile.
I did it so she knew how I felt seeing her there.
I get a message at 3am saying well it says you are single (she saw on my profile) well i mean if you wanna be you can. You clearly wanna break up with me well then go ahead.
I replied no , i just wanted to find you . I deserve to know what you have on your profile. She said you dont do things like that , spy on me. I mean ill admit i didnt have to do it , but i got mad.
After that we "somehow" resolved it , but i godamn new well she kept going there. So i checked her profile a couple of days later and she removed that she is taken.

>>18060400
It came up acouple of times and and always told her how much it bugged me and i went hard on her , but she never answered my question to why she had it.(i know for a fact she wouldnt go out to see another guy)
Yesterday , we nearly broke , she didnt even wanna talk or anything due to other reasons.
I said to her in a huge paragraph how much it hurts me ,and I would never do such thing as message random girls and chat with them.
She said she does it because she want to speak to people who dont know her , know her faults and problems.
Thats just stupid imo , we chat basically non stop all day.
I again explained how you basically dont do such think in a relationship. And how bad it is even more when i dont like it and how much she means to me.
She said its okay , we will agree that i will stop going there and we will start again , just us two.
I said okay , i was sad we nearly broke up and i took her word.
I really didnt want to check if she still had her profile , i knew beforehand she did.
But when I found her , she didnt have the symbol that said"this person is extremely popular today" so maybe it she actually stopped going there. (she is extremely beautiful what also bugged me is that her rating was skyrocketing)
I was like okay she stopped going there. I check today and I found her and she had the symbol again and she was even online. Wow she still goes there.
What should I do ? Im lost atm really badly

>>18060400
you seem to have some problem with yourself. She is lying to you openly and you never seem to think bad of her. It seems you are not too important to her, so why bother? burn the bridge and fuck it

>>18060385
Is the friend male?

>>18060385

seems like your daughter is following in your footsteps in becoming single mother herself.

>>18060385
>without asking questions or intruding
you're her mother, you're allowed to ask questions and intrude

Just tell her to keep her door open when she has a friend over. What is it exactly you're concerned about her doing, drugs, sex? Unfortunately just making it impossible to do in her room wont stop either of those from continuing, if you suspect something I think you need to sit down and talk to her.

That said most 15 year old girls are sexually active, instead of trying to stop that you'd probably be better off making sure she has proper access to contraception.

>>18059615
You need to be 18 to use this site.

Grow up. Not because I want to see you be the better man, but because you've made one post, and have automatically become the most annoying little brat I've seen on this board.

>>18059634
I'm past over 18.
Thanks for the response.

>>18059615
Try killing yourself and write a suicide note saying it was because of her. Unless she's a sociopath, she'll probably suffer from deep depression for the rest of her life and everyone will hate her.

>my future children
why would you want to bring more people into this world just to have them suffer and die as we do? Just look around this board and see all the people who are extremely depressed and suicidal but can't kill themselves without hurting their family. Bringing someone into this imperfect world without their consent where they don't even have the option of ending their own life without causing suffering to others is simply cruel. I don't understand how anyone can justify it.

>>18059583
Thanks for your helpful advice

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>>18059593
was that sarcasm?

>>18059380
You are fucked and will die alone.

>>18059408
But I'm fucking funny and speak 3 languages.

>>18059414
Great. Find a woman who doesn't like sex and don't make it a centerpiece of your life.
Focus on academics and research.

>>18059299
post picture of your tits, ass in pussy. I'll personally analyze them for you and tell if you they are appealing enough to send your guy.
And because I like you, I won't even charge you for it. ;)

>>18059299
Just send him this
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K9RLfNaEQsI

>>18059299
>I love your big dick

>>18058851
By not being in an open relationship. You played yourself, OP.

>>18058851
>open relationship

Stopped reading there. It's like trying to sail a ship with the anchor down

>>18058851
this b8 is of above average quality
inb4 over 9000 replies

For both genders


Why would I have a gut feeling that it will work out with a girl, even if all seems to be going against it?

Should I go through a slutty phase?

I've always had conservative views on sex and relations, I've always wanted to only have sex with only one woman and settle down with her.

But as I got older I've started going out more, drinking more, going to parties and talking to girls. I'm also quite attractive so conversation goes smoothly.

I've been told women don't like virgins, and much prefer a man with experience?

Does that hold any truth?

Should I mess around with one or two people then call it quits?

Should I stay conservative and settle down with that someone once I've found them?

What should I do? I'm pretty damn horny all the damn time, but somebody I can spend my life with is far more important to me than drunk hook-ups anyday.

I'm young though..

Please mention your gender in your response, I'd be interested to hear both genders

>>18058746
Femanon
>I've been told women don't like virgins,
>What do girls/guys think about <an insecurity including, but not limited to: looks, physical traits, personality traits, virginity or otherwise lack of dating experience>
There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.
This holds true. It's never as much about the virginity as it is the god awful crippling anxiety these dudes get about it.
You seem to not care much though, you obviously care a little to have asked, but you aren't past the point of no return.

When you have sex is totally up to you mate. There is no right or wrong answer. Personally, I don't hold much morality to sex. I don't think anyones wrong or bad for having a ton of it, so long as it's appropriate. IE, consentual, you're not leading anyone on with it, etc.

The type of sex people have and how they go about getting is more important than the amount really. I'd say most women aren't gonna fault you for having a couple NSA flings. Some might be turned off by even 1 casual sex partner though.

But it sounds to me like you don't really care about sex as much as you do about finding a partner, and let me tell you from the point of view of someone who was EXACTLY in your shoes, it's not gonna make that empty feeling go away.
I gave into the casual sex game too, even though it was never sex I wanted, I really wanted the love. But, I was horny, frustrated, and just plain defeated. I gave into it, and it did not solve my problem. It did not fill the need for intimacy like I hoped. It just kind of made it worse. And it's addicting. You get addicted to that fake intimacy, the pretend feeling of closeness. It gets hard to kick, so just be wary.
If you're horny, my advice is to jack off and be done with it. Because if you are a sappy romantic type that still believes in the archaic notion of dating and love like me, it's not gonna feel real good anyway. It's not what you really want, and it's not a replacement.