For me, finding a girl I like is not an easy task. My personality standards are really high. When it comes to looks, I usually try to not be bothered unless I really can't stand it. I also can't really start trying until I already know the girl, and all the girls I know I'm not interested in. These past couple months, I have been using a dating site. However, the girls I am interested in either don't message back(I dont even know if they have seen them), and the girls that message me don't really meet my standards. So ultimately, the question is: Should I just continue the way I have been? Since, I really want a gf, but I also don't really have the patience to remain content like this.
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From the fact that you posted an anime pic and the only chicks that message you are ugly, chances are you're ugly OP.
Improve yourself if you want the quality of women you attract to improve. There's no other way to get a hot GF charismatic, you have to become hot yourself.
Also stop fucking worrying about getting a GF, there's more important matters you should be worried about. Do you own your own place? A good car? Have a good amount of money in savings? If you said no to either three of these, prioritize them. Getting a GF is never a priority and you should never actively search for one. When you are worthy of a good quality GF, you won't have to look. You'll get to choose.
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>>18062131
Well, you are correct that this shouldn't be top priority. But, those other things aren't problems for me. I know it doesn't really, but I'm also not ugly. I'm not Brad Pitt.But, I'm like a 6-6.5/10.
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>>18062131
>falling for the car meme
good goy
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So there is this chick I've always found cute. Her relationship just ended with a guy , they dated for 1 year. Now that she is single how long should I wait to try to date her? I've tried to talk with her, but I feel she doesn't want anything to do with guys at the moment? So how much time should I give her before I talk with her again?
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>>18062122
>I've tried to talk with her, but I feel she doesn't want anything to do with guys at the moment?
Or maybe it's that she doesn't want anything romantic with you.
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Stop being a fucking predator and just treat her like a regular human bean.
Do you have any mutual friends? She will feel more open to spending time with you when there's other people she likes around.
This is assuming you aren't looking to just pump and dump her. Tinder tends to be most efficient for that.
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If he dumped her, don't try to be the fucking rebound. If she dumped him, just hang around her if you have friends in common.
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>computer broke
>no friends can hangout
>need new hobby
>what the fuck do i do
I'm fine with being outside if that helps
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>>18062069
Go to the park and work out faggot.
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You could record yourself climbing on things and overlay the video with some EDM.
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>>18062069
>I'm fine with being outside if that helps
Then lurk >>>/out/ for advice, assess your local area, and try to find something to do. Have fun.
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Anyone knows where I could consult a lawyer about a scam?
Ok so I was taking a college degree on film sience and I wanted to do a pretty cool sci-fi project. A teacher there recommended me a friend of his that happened to have theater background and did awesome puppets.
So anyways we agreed on a deal that he would make a kickass puppet creature for me for the hefty amount of 2k usd. He kept giving me recipts every time that I payed him - we divided it into 4 payments so that he could get stuff and material.
Anyways he showed me a prototype and it was amazing, so I trusted on this guy.
Next time I saw him he gave basically something that looked even worse than the prototype and the bastard was going to europe for vacations... guess with who's money.
So I was outraged with him and he acted all offended and like I had payed him for his "creative time"
I asked him for a money return and he said it wasnt possible becuase of what I just mentioned.
So not only did this guy made me loose my fucking semester but made me look like fucking jackass among my friends, classmates and family.
He was a fucking hipster with glasses.
So I wanted to talk with a lawyer about this, I know that for 2k usd probably wouldnt be "worth its time" but if we talk that becuse of his lack of product delivery I lost the entire semester, wouldnt he basically have to pay my semester back?
please help guys.
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>becuse of his lack of product delivery I lost the entire semester
maybe you should've signed up for some other class than "hey look at my puppet 101"
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"Hi professor, look at my puppet, can I have a passing grade now because I own a puppet" "why yes of course anon, that's what you learn in school and are graded on, buying puppets"
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>college degree on film sience
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As the subject line suggests, I'm in all likelihood going to lose my virginity soon. I don't know what the fuck I'm doing and am obviously nervous. I know that the goal should be to "have fun" and not overthink/worry about things, but I'm still interested in any advice that could help me not be a shitty lay. Can I get some general advice?
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I'm a kissless virgin, so take these words with 12 grains of salt: since the goal is "to have fun", just let it happen naturally and don't try to rush things. Foreplay will get you in the mood, and if it doesn't, you can talk to the guy or girl about it.
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do you know where the vagina is
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>>18062061
Yes. The actual opening of the vagina might be a different story though. Chances are I'll do something stupid and have trouble getting it in at first.
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>be virgin but not ugly
>make okcupid account
>get a match
>TOTALFUCKINGMELTDOWN
WTF DO I DO?
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>>18062031
She's probably a bot or a roastie seeking attention.
But if she's below a 5/10 is suggest asking "do you like start wars?"
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just say hi
most likely she's matched with a dozen dudes and doesn't really give a fuck about you specifically
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>>18062031
>has POF for one week
FINE I DIDN'T WANT TO TALK TO ANY OF YOU ANYWAYS
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>relationship with girl
>she seems perfect
>last week
>having good conversation
>suddenly tells me cant have relationship
>tells me it's because she feel so anger towards her ex and it wouldn't be fair for me to be in a relationship with her
>says she still likes me
>wants to be friends
>next day
>tells me she's wants time apart
>next day
>says she wants to hebrew friends again
>next day
>says she wants time apart again
>two days later
>i had this open mic she knew about
>she goes
>sees me perform
>doesn't say anything to me
>her friend was with her
>asked her friend later why shen even came if she wasn't going to speak to me
>said she didn't speak to me because i didn't speak to her
>she fucking told me doesn't want to ben friends
>apparently changed her mind
>say she might change her my mind about not dating
>should i even go for it
TL;DR
>confusing girl
>should date?
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did she just break up with her last bf?
if you like her you can try it but expect it to go poorly, especially if she's not dealing with her crazy
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>dating crazy
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>>18062003
It's been over a year. She told me that she didn't get into the relationship with me for nothing. She said she "just realized" that her anger torwards her ex was going to affect our relationship. I get the sense that she's being difficult on purpose; her logic is so flawed that it seems like she almost had to think about not making sense
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be me - choose one
cocaine addiction vs no sex because of premature ejaculation
Someone any advice?
attached my snow
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Wait have you done cocaine before?
As a former addict of a lot of things, I would strongly advise against using a recreational drug for anything beyond recreation. You don't want to cope with your problems with drugs.
With that said I would probably do it.
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if you want to fuck better you should take an amphetamine, not coke
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>>18061987
amphetamines are so hard on the blood vessels though that it's hard to get it up.
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How the fuck do I sing?
I always had a dream of singing, but I have such a terrible voice, or just monotone and off-key.
I want to pull off Michael Mcdonald levels of singing, or at least Boz Scagg's tier singing.
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>>18061963
practice
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Sort your keys out, mate.
Then learn the tabulature of the song.
Then just keep practicing until you get it right.
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>>18061963
Start out with humming.
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First time posting here so we'll see how it goes...
Over the last two weeks I keep seeing the exact same girl at around 6:00 - 6:15 in the local supermarket of my town. I tried to make eye contact a few times and give her a smile, we've both acknowledged each other from time to time. I know that alone doesn't really mean much, they're just friendly gestures... but for the least three days I have a real urge to go over and talk to her... there's something about her that immediately attracts my attention each time, something that doesn't happen too often with me.
Now, for starters... I've never been in a relationship and there's few people that I'd strongly consider as friends. I think that this is mostly due to my working arrangements which somewhat limits me with meeting people my age (19 - 21). I've never been the "where the party at" type either so I've never really thought about what I can actually go out and do with the sole intention of meeting new people. With all of this being said... I wouldn't say that I'm _autistic_ and that with the right people, I can hold a conversation. I meet and talk to a lot of new people on a day to day basis with work (and also build relationships that I see consistently) so this has certainly forced my to develop to an extent in that sense.
My only concern is how I can go about making conversation with her in a supermarket without looking in anyway transparent... yet at the same time miss any opportunity. I don't know... what would you do? What would perhaps be an instant 'red flag' to her... if that's the right thing to ask?
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>Confident walk from an angle that is not directly in front of her, nor from behind her, try 45degrees
>"Hey, I was wondering if you could help me pick out a few groceries for a new diet I'm working on, you look like you know your stuff"
>Expand conversation into what she tends to buy at the store, and branch out from there - conversations always have branches
>Read a few things from around the store in certain locations, if you guys walk and talk, you're golden
That's a decent 'cold approach' in a supermarket, I believe. Try to use the experience you have already and pick some conversation topics from there.
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>>18061997
That's the sort of thing I was thinking of. Or even just ask about something that she's obviously looking at too?
Assuming it isn't toilet roles or cat litter...
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>>18062013
Your approach would get past the issue of finding an opener to discuss things with her, but it leaves too much potential for an awkward 'end of the line' moment after you've talked about whatever she's looking at.
The one I suggested, I believe, gives you some important 'value' points:
- 'I was wondering if you could help me pick out a few groceries' shows purpose; you have a list of things to buy, and are inviting her to support you in this.
- The confident 45 degree angle approach is already showing her that 'hey, this guy knows where he's going, gotta be a man with a purpose'
- Expanding the conversation from a cold approach that has a sense of direction behind it allows you to steer the journey, not her.
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Does anyone have experience with these fucks? I have no fucking clue how I even got them. Is it possible to remove them completely by yourself? Theyre not that bad yet and I already vacuumed, sprayed my mattress with pesticide and alcohol, and poured that diatomaceous earth shit everywhere and I'm about to wash all my clothes.
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Impossible.
They get into everything.
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>>18061945
Vinegar spray?
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>>18061949
This, and they evolve just as fast as we do to antibiotics. The only sure fire way to get rid of them is to starve them, a.k.a. vacate the premises for at least a year, considering these demons can survive up to 6 months without food. Deciding to stay around them is like trying to poison vampires with your own blood.
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Hey guys. I need some relationship advice.
So recently I met this girl who I really like and we got really attached as friends really quickly. I asked her out not too long after meeting her, and she kindly turned me down, but said she would love to hang out.
Today she came over to my house, and at first stuff was pretty low-key. We just watched some anime and had lunch. After finishing another episode though was when things got out of hand.
I admitted to her that I was very flustered. We talked about the possibility of dating. She says that she wants to build more trust first.
Despite that, things got weirdly intimate. She let me lean on her, which eventually lead to some pretty sensual snuggling. At one point she noticed my bulge in my jeans, and she said it was okay because it was a natural reaction. I ended up kissing her belly at one point, which kinda weirded her out.
After I left to go to the bathroom and came back, we sort of distanced each other a bit. When she was about to leave she said she'd rather be friends, with no context as to whether that would be permanent.
Do you guys think that there's still a chance we could be together? Or did I fuck my opportunity up?
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>>18061915
Why the fuck did you kiss her belly.. should have just kissed her mouth dumbass
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>>18061923
I was already face-down in her pudge. She laid on my soft gut as well.
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>>18061915
Sounds like you fucked up. You got a boner and kissed her stomach. Probably weirded her the fuck out and severely damaged any chance you had.
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so its been bothering me for a long time, and i need some help finally removing it.
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>>18061898
lol, why does it bother you? Is your profile for your subpar CSGO bullshit only?
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no, its just a gay game anyway, and i dont have money for those games i actually want to play.. and i dont want to sell my skins..
and it bothers me because ocd.
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>Trove
AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAAA
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So I used to date this girl, and things were going pretty well until we got into a small argument and I ended up ****ing her friend. Of course, she was mad and we broke up nearly a week later. A week after that, she was trying to get back at me, so she started talking to one of my friends and they started dating very shortly after. I broke contact with both of them for an entire year, at the end of which she tried to contact me multiple times. I got drunk one day and answered a text, and we started hanging out again since she said she wanted to be friends again. We ended up becoming really close and hanging out one-on-one once or twice a week even though she was still dating the same guy. (she even likes it when I slap her ass or grab her thighs)
Later, during summer break, she told me that she had wanted to date me earlier in the year but I never really made a move. I told her I didnt cause I didn't want to be in a relationship at the time (also she had a bf). I dont have a twitter, but my friend told me she tweeted that day "our timing is never right".
Fast forward to present time, and I've become attached to this girl again. When I got a little buzzed, I ended up telling her over the phone that I have feelings for her again, to which she replied "noooo, lets go back to being best friends..". I said lets talk about this in person next week, and she agreed. Did I wait way too long and become friend zoned? Do I just cut contact now RH? What do??
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>>18061874
Invite her over to talk to her, then talk about your feelings while escalating physically. You just lost your virginity
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>>18061874
So you cheated and fucked her friend, then she started dating/sleeping with your friend. After, you block them both out of your life, but then you continue to hang around her? Why? What is the purpose of this? You're both incredibly shitty people. She wants to feel wanted by you, after what you've done, because it's an ego boost to her. She doesn't want to be with you, she just wants your attention. And all the while, she's fucking the other guy over. Cut contact, be a better person and move on to better people.
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>>18061874
People like you are so full of drama it's disgusting
You don't fuck other people's friends,
From what you say you are not really mature. I hope you are under 20, I imagine.
You take relationships seriously if you want something out of them besides sex. If you want sex you go and get a fuck buddy. Not so hard.
This relationship seems to be doomed to fail, and this is coming from someone that has a strong 7 year relationship already.
My advice would be to start again. From zero to hero. But with another woman from a different social circle.
Don't settle. And don't let others settle
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My neighbors keep slamming their front door all goddamn day. If I'm sleeping it'll even wake me up. It shakes my friggin walls.
Should I call the front desk and complain?
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Politely ask them to close the door quieter at night because it wakes you up. They're probably not doing it to be dicks and will oblige you.
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>>18061848
It feels like they do it to anger me. I don't know why, I just get that feeling.
And it scares me to talk to people, even children.
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Is that the only loud thing they are doing?