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What is an abusive relationship? 2017-02-20 06:21:45 Post No.18065691
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What is an abusive relationship?
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Just been wondering lately. I'm p much a robot myself, 21 m haven't had a girlfriend yet. I have had a bunch of friends over the years though, and from what I've seen of their relationships I'm still confused as fuck about how a healthy relationship should look like.
For example. my best friend regularly makes sexist comments about women in front of his GF and tries to get her to agree with him. Like he'd say something like "women belong in the kitchen, wouldn't you agree?"
My other friend mentions a whole shit ton of sexual stuff like choking/slapping during sex, and kind of talks to his gf's in a sort of child like way.
Am I some sort of white knight faggot for expecting a relationship based on mutual respect/equality? Like do girls expect you to treat them in a kind of degrading way or do I just have a certain type of friendgroup?
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Yeah no relationship is 100% sunshine and rainbows. People argue, and they'll still be passive aggressive the next week. You're seeing some of the negatives of relationships and using that as an idea of what they're like.
I've noticed there's always one submissive and some boyfriends in my opinion use degradation or insults to "assert their dominance"
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>>18065727
but like just how much submissiveness is normal?
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>>18065691
>For example. my best friend regularly makes sexist comments about women in front of his GF and tries to get her to agree with him. Like he'd say something like "women belong in the kitchen, wouldn't you agree?"
Maybe he's teasing and joking around. Or maybe she and him actually do agree on that kind of thing. Traditional roles/values aren't inherently bad or "sexist".
>My other friend mentions a whole shit ton of sexual stuff like choking/slapping during sex, and kind of talks to his gf's in a sort of child like way.
Sounds like they just like D/s play.
Honestly none of that sounds like they aren't mutually respectful and equal. Certainly not abusive.
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How long does it take to have a heart attack?
I got an occasional sharp little pain under my left ribcage last week, but it went away. Now it's back. I think it's from holding in farts.
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I guess I'm the only one this has happened to?
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It's normal and likely due to stress. If you had some preexisting heart condition that put you at risk for a myocardial infarction, you'd know.
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>>18065501
I think if you're having a heart attack you will feel pain in your chest that lasts a long ass time and is excruciating.
I used to have random pains in my heart area in my ribs that lasted at most like 1 minute but that went away. Nothing happened to me I just stopped having it
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is it normal for men to feel this way? 2017-02-20 04:45:10 Post No.18065457
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is it normal for men to feel this way?
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what in my brain is causing me to feel this?
I'm 18 and ever since i was 4 i've felt like the opposite gender / needed to be female? the feelings are getting stronger and worse as I get older and idk what to do?
is it normal for other guys to feel this way?
please tell me this is normal and others feel the same / the feeling goes away. im not even a NEET, im a normie with friends i dont even watch anime wtf is wrong with me.
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You could be transsexual.
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You grew up feminized anon. Realize you are male and there's no changing that.
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I mean, it's not 'normal' in the sense that like less than 1% of the population is transgender, but that's still a million people just in the US.
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I don't understand why I feel this way, it feels so strange and foreign. It's just this horrible, crippling boredom. Nothing interests me anymore, even my interest in world politics and reading is fading and its freaking me out. Things used to entertain me and make me feel like I was spending time doing something worth my time. I used to like drawing, working out, video games, going out with friends, etc. Now none of it seems to appeal to me anymore. It's not even like I dont like doing those things anymore or I suddenly hate them or something. I'm just so tired of it all, none of it seems appealing. Most nights I find myself just clicking through the same pages online over and over again in a loop. Trying to turn on a movie or video game or SOMETHING to try and crack through and get my brain going somehow, but none of it works.
How do I escape this feeling? I just want to have something again. Hobbies, drive, passion, happiness that actually feels real and not fleeting.
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>>18065412
this kind of boredom reeks of someone who has too many stimulants to pick from and/or has little to no physical activity level to speak of.
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>>18065419
I feel the same way as OP a lot of the time. Getting a lot of sun helps, go on a long 20+ minute walk as early in the day as you can. So does strenuous exercise, lifting, sprints, skateboarding. But its still not the same as it was when you were in high school. I can't play WoW all night while losing track of the time or be so interested in a book that I finish it in one sitting. Maybe that doesn't come back, you can still enjoy things, but to expect to enjoy them at the level you did when you were a kid may be the issue.
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>>18065412
I'm sorry if i can't help you but i can relate to this.
I've been through this phase for 4 years straight. Depression diagnosis made it worse. Now i'm slowy crawling out of it. Started to play one or two games again, started playing my guitar again...
But sometimes i catch myself scrolling through 4chan, facebook, etc for hours and hours straight. This sensation is the most terrible thing i ever felt. This is worse than any pain desu. Maybe >>18065419 is right in the end.
Let me ask you something so i can look deeper into this: Are you studying/working? Anything (even foreign language schools or Powerpoint classes)
Also, do you drink alcohol or smoke cigars/weed?
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Being accused of theft 2017-02-20 03:28:32 Post No.18065218
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I'm being accused by my friend of stealing his watch from his apartment. We went drinking, bought weed, went to his place and watched a movie. I was pretty drunk but I decided to go home instead of crashing because I had to be home the next day.
He hits me up and tells me his watch is missing. I tell him that's fucked and I hope he finds it. He prevaricates between me and his roommate as the suspects. I go over to his place and offer to help find his fucking watch. While I'm there, he asks me if I took it. Not being a fucking nigger, I told him I did not and in fact did not steal his watch.
He says he has to report it stolen or lost by today to the police and I told him to do what he needs to. Him, me, and his roommate all go down to the precinct. When we get there, he talks to the cop for like 10 minutes. Then the motherfucker comes out and says if he reports it stolen, both me and his roommate will be arrested. "All I want is my watch back. No questions asked if you give it back to me now." I told him I don't want to get arrested but I don't have his fucking watch and I can't give back something I don't have. If he wanted to file it as stolen, he can and I'll fucking go to jail that very night. He goes back in and decides to report it as lost because he thinks it's a pain in the ass.
However, he's not done yet. After a couple of days, this guy reconsiders and he is now 100% convinced it was me. He's even gone so far as to try and put the squeeze on my brother for information. I want to smack the fuck out of this kid but that's besides the point. I feel like the cops already told him to go fuck himself because nothing can be proven.
Any anons have any advice for me and my situation? I really don't want to deal with this bullshit as I have a job offer lined up in the Fall and I can't be bothered by this bullshit.
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If you didn't take it, then there's absolutely nothing to worry about. You're not going to be arrested with zero evidence. The more he insists it was you with no evidence, the more the cops are going to be pissed at him and the less they'll care.
Also ditch him as a friend.
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>>18065218
>Then the motherfucker comes out and says if he reports it stolen, both me and his roommate will be arrested.
That's some masterful bluff right there.
He sounds like a total shitter. Cut him out of your life.
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Already blocked him on social media. I wanted to curse him out first and tell him he's an underhanded snake and that if he wants to talk shit, he should say it to my face but my brother told me to remain calm and just cut off contact.
I absolutely did not take it. All that can be established is that it was in house when we got there and that I had the opportunity to take it. But:
1. I have never stolen anything in my life and while people can attest to other misbehavior, I am not and never was a thief
2. I could have stolen shit from his house the multiple times I've been over but I never did
3. I do not have any financial distresses or any other typical motivators of theft. Moreover, I have a well paying job offer in the fall, so why would I jeopardize that over the 3 or 4k tops I would have gotten from hocking a stolen watch
4. There has been no significant change in my lifestyle or spending habits that I would indicate a big payoff
What I'm worried about is getting arrested on this piece of shit's word. If this butthurt faggot keeps pursuing this and really wants to fuck with me, what are some things I should be worried about. Anyone know what's the legal rundown of shit like this usually? Thanks bros.
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Told my feelings to Oneitis 2017-02-20 03:11:30 Post No.18065168
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Told my feelings to Oneitis
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So I got drunk a couple days ago with my friends and while texting my oneitis I ended up telling her that I have feelings for her. We used to date a couple of years ago before we broke up and have been best friends since then. We are usually very physical with each other and hold hands, she doesn't even mind when I slap her ass. The problem is that she has a boyfriend.
So when I told her she said "no :( let's stay best friends". I told her that I can't do that and that I dont want to see her anymore. Later that day she started texting me that she's really drunk and can't stop crying. I basically ended the conversation there and said let's talk in person soon.
What should I do /adv/? Continue being her friend? Should I even talk to her in person ? I don't know if I should talk to her in person, there's not much else to say..
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anime isn't real
childhood friend isn't your source of sex
lift some fucking weights
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since you're on /adv/ you're going to get a lot of people telling you that if you ever talk to her again you'll be a beta cuck forever
irl it's cruel to stop being friends with someone because you feel "friendzoned"
if you really never saw her as anything but a crush then maybe you are better off apart but if there was any actual friendship there you'll mutually benefit from trying to keep it going
src: had several good friends that i asked out before or during our friendship
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>>18065181
Lol just lol @ you assuming things..
She's not my childhood friend, I met her two years ago we used to date. Also I would bet my life savings I lift more than you phaggot
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My gf of 3 years want to experiment with a girl, maybe a threesome, is there anything I should be aware of? Could it ruin our relantionship? Any tips about threesome as well would be appreciated
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Are you willing to do a mfm threesome as well?
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>Could it ruin our relantionship?
Yes
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blue board retard
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is there an easy way to get an ex's name out of my mind so I don't accidentally call my current belle her name?
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Masturbate and deliberately say her name as you orgasm
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>>18065014
Just give every girl the same little pet nickname, such as "sugartits".
Get into the habit of calling them all that, and they'll never know.
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Take her back if you liked her that much.
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Ending a friendship due to invasive feelings 2017-02-20 02:05:38 Post No.18065009
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Ending a friendship due to invasive feelings
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2017-02-20 02:05:38
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Is it ever a good idea to end your friendship with someone that's unavailable because you can't get over your feelings for them? What's the best way to go about it/let them know what's happening?
How would you react if a friend of yours were to do this to you?
I'm pretty good friends with a colleague of mine and we spend considerable amounts of time together - like 15 - 20 hours a week on average between classes, clubs, research, and studying.
She has a boyfriend, and this was completely fine until this semester when we started spending more time together. Now I'm really into her and it honestly fucking hurts a ton.
I'm considering cutting off the friendship and just taking the bullet of awkwardness when we run into each other through our classes and stuff, because it's starting to really get to me. But at the same time I've built a good friendship with her and we both help each other out and push each other to improve, so cutting that off isn't just some simple and easy task.
Anyone have any similar stories they could share? Any input on the questions I asked at the beginning of the post in a more general sense, or on my situation more specifically?
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Do men have feelings too?
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>>18065012
Well I definitely do, and that's pretty much the issue here
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bump - no input? I'd really appreciate some help
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At the age of 27, I'm finally moving out to my own apartment with a friend. Previously, I've just sublet places with friends who already had furniture so I was set.
So now I'm looking at beds. How the fuck do I choose something that doesn't fucking murder my wallet? Should I just go for a Casper and a flat platform bed?
Also, I didn't want to make another thread about this, but I have a weird thing about blankets. I have to sleep specifically about a blanket because it's the only blanket the doesn't irritate my feet.
If I for some reason have to use another blanket, I have to wear socks and that is not the most comfortable thing to do. It's to the point where I can't sleep well because my feet become so irritated from wearing socks to bed or using a blanket that irritates my feet. Is there anything I can do about this?
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I reread my post and I know it sounds like autism, but it's really just my feet - I promise I don't throw a tantrum if I can't sleep with my blanket.
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pls halp
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>>18064998
yes, beds are expensive in general. a queen bet rail set only is around $100, and a mattress with box combo is usually around $600 for one that will last about 5 years. then about $200 for bedding and stuffs.
suck it up. You're an adult now.
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Hey /adv/
4chan as it is now stinks but the idea of 4chan is too great to let go.
Is there another active imageboard or other sort of site where the posts matter and not the posters, one that hasn't been ruined like 4chan has?
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It's called /trash/
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There's basically a chan for every number
What is it about image boards do you like?
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>>18064971
People have been complaining about how bad 4chan is getting since I first started lurking here in 2009. I'm of the opinion that it gets no better or worse in any way.
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>Feel intense pull to go into the world and obtain material wealth and become objectively superior to those around me
>Know it's a fools errand, but have a deep desire to do so anyway
Something in my brain is telling me to beat my enemies to death. I want to be better than every human being I meet, but I know it's impossible and idiotic to do so.
It's ingrained into who I am. I can't run away from my urge to attain societal status.
I don't know why. I know it's all shit, garbage, but I want to do it anyway. I want to look at others down my nose despite having no right to do so.
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OK, and?
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>>18064963
Nothing feels better to me than knowing I am above others.
I don't get that satisfaction out of besting those that are nothing.
I believe it's a part of my essence to hate and feel superior. It has been modeled that way through evolution. Why should I turn down what I really am? It's not healthy to live the life of a failure and pretend I'm above it all.
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>>18064963
Don't fight it. Just remember that you may eventually fall, but you can always get up. Otherwise that energy is something I'm envious of.
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Greetings fellow anons
I used to be a straight male, until I had a fling with a childhood friend who turned into a trap....
She went off and got into a relationship with someone else, and now Im looking to continue my escapade / experiments with my sexuality....
I check craigslist regularly, but I definitely am nervous to do anything with someone from there/ tired of getting scammed.
How do I go about finding a decent trap to see where things go ? Is there like a specific dating site or what ?
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>she
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>>18064958
lol I knew this would happen. Im trying to get into the habit of not pissing them off so Im trying to politically correct, as much as I hate it
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I hate hairy bearded men. I fucking hate them. What's wrong with me?
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You have a preference, and you might have autism.
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>>18064917
Hairy men are disgusting and probably are less human than me or hairless ppl.
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At least some of those bearded men you hate only are keeping their beards because their gfs like it
Otherwise, they'd shave it all off in an instant
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Alright /v/
What's a typical day for an overnight maintenance associate at Walmart? I just got hired for that gig. I did the orientation, and now I'm going in tomorrow to start doing CBLs.
I'm an autistic freak and don't do well around people....
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Is that just a fancy term for night fill?
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i dunno what night fill is
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>>18064856
Stocking shelves at night.