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>>18069677
She
-didn't check Tinder until now
-wasn't interested then but discovered you now
-put you on her possibles list and worked her way down to you
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>>18069707
I want to say the possibles list is the case, but she said that she doesn't go on tinder often. But I'm not sure I believe her because she looks like your typical college girl who likes to party. Either way, the reason really doesn't matter, I got her number so that's that. I just thought it was really weird to get messaged by this person out of the blue, and I'm wondering how I should handle it. I can't tell what she wants.

She wants your cock you donkey. Why would she give you her number so fast? Ask her to come over to watch movies then pin her down and take the rear.

>>18069527
Sounds like too much effort DESU

Any adult relationship shouldn't feel like work. Don't get me wrong, you always have to work on your relationships, but if there is this much concern going into it, bail out before it begins.

Stay friends, and if/when everything calms down with him you will still have your opportunity.

>>18069535
He's improving, slowly but steadily.
He was abused as a child, his parents died when he was 16 and he ended up in such a huge amount of shit since.
He's doing pretty good right now, but obviously he won't become a proper and mentally stable adult in a year.

>>18069545
In a year? Is there a time limit (moving away etc...)? That will always have to factor into the decision.

As for his illness and the abuse in his past, these are all fair points. I'm sure some if not most of it is out of his control. That being said, just because it is justified does not mean you should put yourself second.

Formal martial art training.

>>18069497
Sounds kind of useless

>>18069624
>got beaten
>don't want to look like a pushover
>knowing how to throw a punch or toss a cunt over a hip is useless
The fuck.

if he can't make you come with a vibrator, then you should break up with him to spare him

>>18069506
I can come its just a very small orgasm, and he wants me to come hard, but my orgasms are just naturally tiny

Try edging. Also tell him to git gud. Also relax, can't have a mind blowing orgasm if you're having them just as knee jerk reflex

drugs

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>>18069037
do a shit ton of dissociatives and deliriants every day until you spin out and nuke your brain and either become an empty burnout staring at the disinfectant-treated walls of mental wards or have a magnificent breakthrough trip that unrepresses your childhood traumas, allows you to make peace with the world you were forced into and gives you the guidance to step into a new life of renewed potential.

t. i ended up being the first one for a few years

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>>18069030
Guns, hiking, animals, guns, video games, drifting, look at pics of guns, look at pics of puppies, really wanting guns despite your state being so cucked, look at pics of kittens, lifting, talking on online discussion board when you should be fixing your life, really wanting that gun you admired since you were a kid, redhead porn, Asian porn, reading, and watching a movie or two.

So what I'm saying is, you should visit >>>/an/

Also amphetamine analogs that make you not want to eat until you lose all your weight.

Yes, keep up your fucking grades. If only because if you let yourself get lazy now you're gonna be in for a world of hurt when you get into college. 3.4 isn't even that fantastic to begin with.

Shit Rutgers takes in 3.4 GPAs now? I know they aren't Princeton, but I figured they'd be a 3.7ish school.

Definitely maintain your grades, and try to raise them. if you go in there with the same work ethic you have now, you'll be part of the batch that retakes/drops out of first year

>>18068705
The Newark branch is an urban commuter school with no campus life. That's fine if you just want to take classes and go home. If you want the traditional campus college experience, try to switch to the main school.

You just gotta do what you enjoy man, other people are doing the same

>>18068656
Yeah but there isn't that much I want to do, mostly just things I want to think about. Actually doing things is tiresome to me, that's part of the problem.

>>18068643
you're autistic, not a sociopath.

D in the S*

>>18060533
If you missed out on romantic and social experiences during your teens, you life's pretty much done in these matters.

At 22 there might still be a chance for you since you seem to not be a loser as is usual with virgins in their 20s.

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>>18060548
Fuck.

>>18070828

>When do you know you love someone?

then it's over ;)

>>18070833
What do you mean?

>>18070828
I would define true love as being with your best friend for the rest of your life. I knew I loved my girlfriend when we started dating. Idk how exactly to put it in concrete terms, but I just had a feeling that dating her was a path I was willing to go down as long as she'd let me. Love is always destructive on some level. Nobody is perfect and people will hurt each other whether they intend to or not. Circumstances are important. Everyone is unique and so is each relationship. You develop your own tolerances. To keep it brief in my experience anyway.

its kinda disappointing when a woman throws herself after a man

the chase is gone, the challange is gone
its just an ego boost
i much more like it when im unsure and she slowly reveal things and lets me do my man thing, that is conquering

>>18069163
Yea. I messed up. Usually I'm great at being a mystery but now..
My question was though is there any way to salvage it now? Change what he thinks of me?

>>18069168
that would only put you into the crazy bitch category

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>>18067636
she didn't really love you

im sorry desu, a lot of women are terrible people and they do shit like this, don't take it personally

have a cute amine girl to soothe your heart

>>18067636
>saying "i love you" in two weeks
>expecting her to mean it

how old are you, 16?

>>18067648
> implying I have a heart left to feel with

What country are you living in now and where are you from? Also, how does she act around you?

Be bold and make mistakes

Better than being a repressed beta that doesn't make mistakes or spergs out when he does

Mistakes are crucial windows of vulnerability which can allow your friendship to get stronger

>>18070410
She doesn't act any special. She isn't into me that's clear.

Maybe I'll rustle some jimmies but I'm from Turkey, and currently living in Austria.

Coffee
You fucking faggot

>>18070365

Coffee tastes like shit and always will, no matter the quality. I don't give a shit how "smooth" or "rich" it is, it's all bitter crap.

Plus energy drinks have supplements that give you a nice buzz while coffee just makes me ill.

>>18070360
Monster do non-fizzy energy drinks, they usually have '+ juice' at the bottom

>>18070277
Smile, hug her, be friendly and talk/listen to her.
"Nice to meet you" type shit

>>18070277
You can't kiss in public in Morocco. They could behead you.

>>18070382
What bullshit is that?

>>18070220
Nothing, he's not your fucking problem you dumb mongoloid.

Get some self esteem, you worthless moron.

>>18070220
Does he have any friends? If you know any that he knows, perhaps try to get in touch with them and lay your concerns on them. I don't think you can do more than that. If you're very worried you should talk to him once about it and let him know that it's over but time will move on. Encourage him to seek some professional help, sounds like he's going down depression street.

>>18070220
he wont do it
disregard him and try not to take out your anger with him on other men