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>>18072969
It's a way for companies to pay less than minimum wage. I seriously hope this post is joking.

Waste of your time, get a real job

>>18072970
How is it joking? It's perfect for someone with no real qualifications or ability to get an actual job.

>>18072752
Hmmm sounds like a closet feminist or maybe she is fucking someone else on the side? Not saying that's it but that's all I can think of, I mean she can't be too insecure if she lets you eat her out

Can you fake crying? Or just try to start telling all your feelings about that and try to cry. Then, if she still love you, she will hear the things you want to say. If not, she's a heartless monster

>>18072764
Agreed with the eating out statement. Sit her down tell her these things and then if it doesn't change leave

>I sometimes spend an hour sitting looking at a wall
holy shit i feel you man
it wouldn't be so bad if i can embrace being boring and sit looking at the wall peacefully but I keep saying to myself 'i should do something' but something never happens

Gotta take what you're good at and apply it to an activity, even if you're not good at the activity. Starting small with what you -can- do opens up paths to new experience but you have to start somewhere, and publicly. Training by yourself is fine but it doesn't help with real world applications where you're never alone.

>>18072575
I can't just take some random activity and start doing it if I don't like it
You're supposed to enjoy hobbies and I don't really enjoy anything

>>18072572
Sometimes I do think that I should be doing things but I realize that i'd still be inside my head the whole time, like going for a walk.

Mostly I just learned to get rid of the feeling of obligation, i just want to curl up and stop existing for a while

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>>18072422
You shouldve done 5 internships shile in college lol!

>>18072422
It's one of those things that I feel a lot of schools (and really the world at large) doesn't teach most students.

We're past the era when simply having a college degree made you special and competitive on the job market. That was our parents' and grandparents' "fresh out of school" experience.

These days, if you aren't doing internships/coops and building a resume/relationships while you're in school when you're actually able to do float all the minimum wage/unpaid TRUE entry level positions, you will be behind come graduation. Too many other people out there that have been doing that stuff for 2-3 years AND have the degree.

If not that, you better have some sort of standout accomplishment/accolades. People want the person who appears best able to do the job, and simply having a degree is the bare minimum.

>>18072436
>all that
So I'm pretty fucked in what I can do for getting employed then? Because shit, it seems like a fucking catch-22 situation at this point.

I mean it doesn't sound like it would be too big of a problem to take her back. Ultimate question is just if you trust her, and if the answer's yes then go for it.

>>18071766
I don't trust her one fucking bit t b h
I've told her this multiple times since then and that I probably would never fully trust her again and she said she understood

At first I was livid for days, literally seething with anger at myself and at her but months have passed and while I havent gotten over it really, it's not like she fucked someone in real life, but then it comes back to my own insecurities and shit with myself and my parents
>Dad was a piece of shit who to this day cheats on my mom
>Mom was an abused piece of shit who went back to him every single time, deals with all his shit, and still stomachs being cheated on because "hurr durr wel im his wife "

I still feel incredibly hurt, and do feel like taking her phone offer up. But other times I feel like I want to hurt her emotionally like she did me, and I don't know why.

I've had emotional issues since I was a kid and when I found what she did I think something cracked deep down and is why I'm unsure of what to do.

>>18071770
Adding to the insecurity part.
I feel like if I take her back I'll be seen as weak in my family's eyes but if I don't she'll think I'm reliant on my siblings approval
>Really I just don't like people having shit to use as a jeer at me
I also don't want to feel like my mother, going back to a relationship I should not be in. I think my issue is that I genuinely love being in relationships and I completely devote myself to my partner and when this happened I felt like I was just fatally wounded it was awful.

Fuck her bareback and finger her ass while you do it.

Funfact, 90% of virginity pledges are broken within 1 year.

So make a virginity pledge with her.

>>18071938
We've been going out for 2 years.

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>>18071321
>>18071322
Post pics of yourself

>Tinder
What the fuck were you expecting? Did you think she swiped yes on you because she liked your personality?

Yes absolutely

What the fuck is wrong with people. You're willingly showing other guys your fucking twat, it doesn't matter if they know it's yours or not.

Nah it wasn't cheating but it was some deviant and slutty behavior.

I do consider the bait weak though.

>>18071109
how old are you?
why have you not had sex?
do you want to have sex for reasons other than self esteem?

i need deets here :/

it's your nature vs your brains
it's probably frustration

>>18071109
Yeah social pressure is of course one reason

Look, at the end of the day the only thing that matters is if you procreate.

As long as you can do that (and hopefully with the hottest woman, producing lots of babies, and being able to support them), then it doesn't matter if you lose your V card now or later.

Although to be fair you should have kids relatively young, because the older you are (yes, I am talking about men), the higher the chances of infertility and genetic abnormalities and such.

>>18071065
>>18071065

Smile more.

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>>18071065

Stop wasting your time giving a shit about their opinion.

Fuck 'em. I use to deal with people that like "No one likes you because you're too serious".
I got like that because when I wasn't it was simply "You don't take anything serious, grow up".

People are judgemental. It makes them feel superior. If you get less serious, they will tell you to "grow up".

At least if they think you're half a minute from decking someone you might not have to hear their bullshit.

>>18071087
>>18071088
i fking asked how i can look more happy i dont want this type of shitpost in my thread you guys tell me how i can look more happy or shut the fuck up

sorry you had to hear it
there's nothing really you can do, except post more pictures of cute girls skiing

how is that any of your business

>>18071057
Move on with your life.
Tell yourself this. Who fucking cares. Don't worry about it.

>>18071047
That's not me in the pic. I think she's hot though; she'd be hotter if she were serving me a beer rather than talking on a cell phone.

>>18071047
Not looking for advice, but I'm a U.S. law student who is also drinking. So, here's to you offering up advice on 4chan!

>>18071077
Huzzah! Good on you, Anon. This is what you can look forward to with your education! Are you specializing?

it wasnt 100 years ago but nowadays, yes

there is no point of being married and you already know the reasons. even if you marry a third world woman it will never be the same that a western woman can provide on a intellectual psychio level

>>18070850
it's not. but it's not the big game changer some ppl expect it to be (kids are though - 100%!!!)

that beeing said; i like mine.

a lil bit

OP here the "Alisa your camming profile is" was supposed to follow up with the kiss face emoji and thumbs up emoji

>>18070156
>When I sent him a link to my camming profile in which there were two quite high quality and flattering naked photos (and this seemed very out of character for him as I said, he's never indicated liking me before) he said "Alisa your camming profile is "
The fact that you did this shows that you know exactly that he likes you. What are you gonna do about it?

>>18070169
I'm relieved to hear you think he likes me, however, you tell me? What do I do? Do I find a time where I just kiss him?i wanted to kiss him today when he played the piano, he plays it so beautifully. I think he's only had one relationship before where he was coerced into it.

Also he knows me well and knows I'm kinda crazy and energetic which may put him off. Also, as I said he saw never implied liking me before. I wish he'd be more direct.

Fellow mangs, do you also fear fat angry women with heavy hands? I'm scared of any fat female.

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I guess this is a question for both genders since I want to hear what each side has to say. I was molested by someone a lot when I was young and I've never really had a romantic or even purely physical relationship. I'm a kissless virgin, outside of what happened, at 22 and every time I think I'm getting
close to someone, I get really anxious and doubt myself a lot. My self confidence is through the floor, when it comes to romance, because the few times I did try to reach out to someone in my formative years I fucked it up or failed miserably due to thinking/doing things that weren't right for starting a relationship.

I guess my question is how do you "do" romance? Like, what are the signs that there's something there you can cultivate into a relationship? What do women want to see, feel, and do? I spent so many years where I was screwed up when it came to relationships and sex that now when I'm doing well enough to live a normal life again, I have no idea where to start. I'm sociable and liked by most people, but as soon as something romantic comes up, even as a possibility, I seize up. Even typing this I get the feeling of my heart just dropping through my stomach while I think about it. How do you deal with this, and how do you move on to having a relationship? It's so difficult and I just don't how to initiate romance correctly. What makes it even worse is that women apparently don't like it and lose attraction if you tell them about your feelings regarding to what happened, based on my experiences. Do I just need to never talk about it and imitate what everyone else does? I don't know what to do. I hate myself and every time I try to act like a man, I remember the things he did to me and want to kill myself again.

>>18069528
I knew an almost 500lb girl (not even kidding) in highschool and she'd sit on people that pissed her off. Her legs ended up pretty fucked up due to the weight eventually too so iirc she just lays in bed pretty much permanently now.

She was a pretty bad person anyway so maybe it's fro the best she doesn't interact with the rest of society.

So feel afraid of a fat person? Just run or honestly just do a light jog away and they'll probably pass out from trying to keep up.