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>>18072661
By shooting them

>>18072661
Don't take it >>18072670 this far.

Become the bully. Like all things, you have special talents and can accomplish many things with practice.

Realize that if you wont sack up and get over it, they were right to bully you.

To clarify, I'm asking first to see if this is abnormal before I ask for advice with rectifying this

I have severe ADHD if that helps for answers

>>18072648
I can't picture anything at all. On top of that, I lost my internal monologue years ago, so my head is empty all day every day. Stringing together coherent thoughts is incredibly difficult and requires a lot of time and effort. It's disabling.

I can't be of much help, but I do not think your situation is abnormal.

>>18072803
>lost internal monologue

I know someone who had a psychotic episode from doing cocktails of research chemicals all day every day who this happened to. Was yours drug related?

>>18072624
I've struggled with this as well, my psychiatrist had an excellent angle, the man was 67, been a professor and he had a humorous perspective on it: 'I still don't know what I want'.
My psychologist told me that he would have been equally happy as a mechanic.

Just try whatever appeals to you, if you hate it, be quick to move on to the next thing until something sticks and just roll with it until there is no juice in it anymore.
I didn't like this whimsical perspective at first but if you turn it into a huge deal you will stifle yourself and push yourself into misery and discontentment.

I don't think you'll enjoy much opportunities in psychology unless you go full psychiatrist.
The field is over-saturated as is so you will likely end up in marketing or in some managerial position at best.

>>18072652
That's one of the things thaf kinda puts me off psychology. I was thinking of going into the forensic psychology field (presumably it won't be that over saturated) , but I'm unable to really find any taught in English (in Europe, besides the UK) . I'm considering going to Germany for the summer to live with my friend and apply for a language course of some sort , so I can hopefully learn German which is one of the things I've always wanted to do. Maybe it will give me some clarity on to what to do in the future.

>>18072624
if i go to uni when im 21 how fucked am i?

You might as well do it.....most other guys at that height will workout.

>>18072618
Better than being a fat 5'6 manlet.

>>18072618
Don't get crazy big because it looks silly, but stay in shape.
Attractiveness is mostly about being proportionate and not flabby.

>>18072617
>Will this kind of relationship work out long term?
no, it's painfully obvious that it won't

>>18072617
>my girlfriend is a dirt pig
Sounds like you don't really like her anon, let her find another dirt pig who will appreciate her more.

I didn't appreciate a gf once. I ended it crudely (broke up with her on her birthday) and I regret doing that to her. Worst I have ever treated someone. Now, 8 years later, she's a 10/10 working a blowout fantastic career where she travels to tons of exotic places all over the world and making well into the millions $USD range.

TL;DR life will sort you out.

I'm happy with my life now, but I live with all of my decisions every day.

>>18072625
Why not though? All I ask from a woman is that she is faithful and will raise my children, literally nothing else. I put up with her being a dirt pig, even though it bothers me a lot, but it just seems less important than actually having somebody that I can trust with raising MY many children.

Our relationship only gets critical when she doesn't get enough attention from me, so she spergs out and questions my feelings for her. But I don't have any feelings whatsoever, I just want her to raise my children.


The bottom line is: Will I find another girl that is as faithful as her, and would that one be willing to raise so many children as well? I'm not the best male on the market, so I have to make a deal somewhere.

When people slander, they tell 300% of the lie in hopes that people can compromise into believing 100% of the lie.

First sight of slander is reason enough to believe nothing at all a person says.

some people are so crazy they'll actually believe lies they tell themselves
this is also a common thing among radical feminists. they like to invent problems instead of dealing with the ones that actually exist

you can let him know that you'd dump his ass in a hot minute if he ever thought about molesting a girl but i honestly wouldn't worry about it

The worst guilt in the world is the lies which create guilt where it otherwise doesn't exist. This is the crime which leads people to robbery, and destruction, and murder, where it otherwise would not have happened. Falsely labeling another as guilty.

>The other teachers are annoyed by the things I haven’t learned yet by experience

It sounds like they're assholes. Incompetent people piss me off too with common sense in life things that everyone should have picked up by the time their an adult but if it's stuff that you really need to learn by teaching and you are new at it and they're pissed at you that's fucked up.

If they're this way with you there is NO WAY they don't hate children. Expose them because if they're treating you this way there must be real gold on what they're doing to the students. They're probably hitting them even.

WOmen like that shouldn't be in the work environment.

lol Op, I had a similar experience in a cakery that only hired women and it was HELL, like >>18072539 said, this is not normal behaviour, but don't let it get to you.

>>18072539

I don't know actually. I feel like there is something strange about the organization culture, I can't quite put my finger on it. Many people quit however, now I am starting to understand why. I really don't want to quit however, it will not solve anything because the problem will only migrate.

>>18072544

>but don't let it get to you.

How do I do that? And that sounds terrible by the way.

At your level of confidence I'm pretty sure it wouldn't be weird to fuck eventually.
She is probably hinting at you.
You should do it, since you're so open with her about it, it shouldn't be awkward for you to do it nor should it have a negative impact in your relationship.
I mean, it's all only natural.
Be like water, my friend.

>"have friend"
>proceeds to describe relationship that could in no way be described as "just friends"

>>18072526
>I love you as a friend

Don't worry Milo.

mr j...

>>18072472
>slander
Daily reminder Milo mentioned himself being the VICTIM of a pedo, which is what media is parading around as if he's guilty of something.

>go back to pol
Fuck off to Reddit.

>>18072429
What could possibly go wrong? It's only cancer. Fuck doctors, save a few bucks

>>18072433
not op but it's free in my country

>>18072433
My sentiments also. Has anyone got "local surgery for dummies" pdf? Link pls

Concerning mental healty, if you think it helps it does.
Just give it a try.
PS: psychiatrists are the ones that use pills on their treatments. If you are unsure, curious and a little paranoid, you may aswell investigate more about what school does the therapist you'll choose relies on and what is psychoanalysis.

>>18072427

Well, yes and no. I went to therapy when I was suicidal and admitting the problems I had helped me. Basically just stating aloud to other person where I was going wrong helped me realize it myself. The therapy itself didn't do much, so I only went for a few months, but it pointed me in the right direction so I could help myself. I'd recommend trying it, it might help you, it might not. But if you're depressed, you haven't got much left to lose here.

It helps. Really. I've been going to one since almost a year. And i feel so much better. Was pretty depressed and didnt even had the energy to find a job or to go outside at all. I know much about myself now and whats the reason for certain emotions i have. Its still a long way to go tho.

Most people cant comprehend how much control our subconscious has over us.
If you want to get help. Go to a professional who knows what he is doing.

>>18072401
Depends how fresh it is, she may have moved on.

You seem a bit emotional. Girls want men not boys.

>>18072401

start a lifelong relationship with yourself.

How'd you mess it up? What happened and how bad is it?

That's because meaning is built, not found.

The very meaninglessness of life forces man to create his own meaning. Children, of course, begin life with an untarnished sense of wonder, a capacity to experience total joy at something as simple as the greenness of a leaf; but as they grow older, the awareness of death and decay begins to impinge on their consciousness and subtly erode their joie de vivre, their idealism — and their assumption of immortality. As a child matures, he sees death and pain everywhere about him, and begins to lose faith in the ultimate goodness of man. But, if he’s reasonably strong — and lucky — he can emerge from this twilight of the soul into a rebirth of life’s elan. Both because of and in spite of his awareness of the meaninglessness of life, he can forge a fresh sense of purpose and affirmation. He may not recapture the same pure sense of wonder he was born with, but he can shape something far more enduring and sustaining. The most terrifying fact about the universe is not that it is hostile but that it is indifferent; but if we can come to terms with this indifference and accept the challenges of life within the boundaries of death — however mutable man may be able to make them — our existence as a species can have genuine meaning and fulfillment. However vast the darkness, we must supply our own light.

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It doesn't need meaning. Read a book about cell mechanics or something, it's literally just a chain of unbelievably complex but relatively well-understood chemical reactions. Then you realize you can't do anything about yourself at all. Also read the book "incognito" by David Eagleman. Your brain is basically a robot with the added functionality that it tricks you into thinking you are making decisions (consciousness. dolphins, some birds, elephants, pigs and some primate also have it). Like literally they asked people hooked up to brain electrodes to "move their arm at a random time" and they found that the arm was moved 200 milliseconds before the thought came up.

Then read more about strict determinism, but don't bother with the dozens of spin-offs "there is no free will BUT" and reply to anyone who brings up quantum uncertainty with "is perfect randomness really more pointing towards free will than strict rules" and then you realize since the big bang 14 billion years ago the universe was leading up to you and me posting this because it increased entropy by just a little, and at the end of the day that's all that really matters.

holy shit the meaning of life is literally increasing entropy. humanity is an ordered thorn in the eye of entropy. No wonder the universe is out to destroy us.

Things*
Sorry for that

>>18072371

Then get to know her. Ask about what she does in her free time, what she likes, what her hobbies are. Remember what she says. Offer your own views, tell her anecdotes about your own life. When she gives you some information, give something back. If you talked about weekend plans at some point, bring them up later by asking how her weekend was. If you talked about her favourite movie, tell her what you thought of the movie and ask if she knows your favourite movie. Find common ground, something you both like. When she gets excited about a topic, take notice of it and remember it. Girls like it when you remember things about them and listen to what they say.

Your own hobbies and what you love, and her own hobbies and what she loves.

Ask her what they are... If you do this right, she'll talk a lot a you won't really have to think about what to say next, she'll be talking.

I came

>>18072307
ALPHA AS FUCK... MARRY THAT SHIT

>>18072307
Shower done, finding a pizza place. After months of /adv/ saying tell him how you feel, I actually have no fear of doing it. Gone in ten minutes, checking to see if he is home.