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>>18075715
Why don't you fucking Google it?

>>18075715
How the fuck did you manage that anon? And no don't smoke not even worth getting into the habit of, it's a waste of money and life, it'll make you lazy and brings on mental illness. Use your stroke as an excuse to yourself, think of it like if you smoke you're gonna cause another stroke

You shouldn't smoke even if you didn't have a stroke.

Now that you had a stroke you DEFINITELY shouldn't smoke no matter what.

The fuck.

>>18075685
>The sense of belonging I feel with my friends is irreplaceable and precious to me.

Stop thinking that it will never end.

It will end. Its looking like it will end. So either face the music or keep suffering by averting the inevitable.

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You'll meet nicer people

>>18075711
>>18075703
I know where you are coming from and I get it. We have been through a lot of shit together over the years (including more than one death, among other things.) Its a tight knit group and all, but I am really afraid of losing that sense of security and feeling lost, and I am also afraid of watching the people going to university move on while I am sort of forgotten and left behind.

>>18075593
Damn, are you like ugly AND shy or one of the two.

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Visit a church, give it a chance

>>18075593
by suicide
I'm 23 only but I'm also thinking about killing myself I could achieve nothing I wanted to in my life
so what's the point of living

>>18075550
Lol you sound like a spoiled rich kid and

>spoiled rich kids will never understand

You take out loans.

>>18075550
A lot of poor latino families do what you describe, minus going to college lol. They'll stay together until their late 20s in some cases, pooling resources. Eventually the children leave but there is no rush to get out or stigma for staying like in white families.

Why did he abandon you? I don't think that's a good reason not to be friends with him anymore I mean he went out of his way to come back and apologize and wants to be back together with you now.

True friend don't leave each other and since he's come back to you and asked you to forgive him he probably needs you now.

It's not about the mistakes he made that hurt you it's about the mistakes you make that could hurt him.

You're not happy that he abandoned you as a friend, are you? it's because you wanted him to stay as your friend.

Good friends are there for each other no matter what so if you want to be a good friend for him then stay there and don't make the mistakes that he made before.

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Give him another chance, people can change so much over the course of one year, it's not like you have anything to lose if you don't grow attached until he proves he will be a good friend.

>>18075450
Tell him to fuck off, the fucking snake...

You dont.

Try meditation or hanging around other like minded people.

I have MVA ptsd and it still surfaces after 10 years. Adderall and Tobacco and other relaxing drugs have helped.

Ive also been abused heavily by women so I'm not really into relationships or sex. Again drugs have kinda forced me past the pain.

Dont rule out drugs for they could be your only hope. Wait until we have decent augmentation support. Medical science will fix everything for you.

>>18075416
One thing. Op asked for one thing. Faggot.

>>18075404
I have pretty bad PTSD. Here is what i do.

drink less caffeine, sugar and stimulating stuff.
lay down and count to 100 when freaking out.
Accept sometime i am just gonna freak out.
Accept some things are beyond your control.
Escape into reading, games and stuff like that often.
Work out to control anger.

>>18075378
take it to >>>/jp/

>>18075386

>Implying /jp/ will want to talk about traditional Japanese culture

Well anyways OP, you better start looking at some history pages.

You're tackling this from a completely off view. You basically have nothing, but an extremely loose non-researched idea you probably got from some energy spike. You should realizw that games are a long term committment and that you need to follow a good pipeline to get shit done. Also you have to bring all the people and budget on board.
The reality is, no one is interested in yet another completely unoriginal story and setting where you play as a little Japanese guy/girl.

>>18075209
pour it all inside of your anus and see how much it stretches.

>>18075231
how many mgs do i have to put in before it stretches?

>>18075209
>not trolling
Pinch "a bit" of the baking soda with your index finger and thumb. That should be around 25mg.

>>18075206
Tinder kind of blows. There's an algorithm, you see. As a dude you can't expect instant results just because every woman on there will be SWARMED with guys (a lot of whom are thirsty pajeets being like 'hi u are buetifal') and generally when it generates a "deck" (people it gives you to swipe on) the people who liked you are towards the front of the pile. So it may be a while before you even show up in people's stack. Everyone has a score, too, so the more attractive people who swipe right on you will boost your score and cause you to show up sooner in a given deck. Idk, read up on it; realize that you have to kind of play the algorithm to have good results (unless you are insanely beautiful and have incredible photos of yourself modeling).

Have good photos (I don't mean just be attractive but like, have quality photos that show you smiling and having fun with friends and stuff not weird loner selfies). Treat it like a game, and don't take it personally.

Personally I only tinder when I'm either
a.) Drunk
b.) On the toilet

>>18075248
Thanks for your answer!

You ever had any success?

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>>18075248
>doesn't matter if you're good looking, just don't have weird loner selfies
B-but I don't have any

>phonecall breakup

pussy

she deserves better

>>18075116
trust me, I've been trying to arrange a face to face meet up for the last week. Then tonight she cancels on me again with friday, sat, and sun all being no-go's.

Only reason I'm doing a phonecall breakup is that it's already been a week of trying to meet up with next week not looking good either.

>>18075116
>3 months
>she went to spend times with her friend on valentines day rather than me

>she deserves better

Not seeing it, sure you're not mad some people can break up with a girl instead of scraping the bottom of the barrel in hopes they'll ever have one?

>>18075114
I'm not happy with our relationship and I'm ending it.

Insert statement about if you would prefer to be or not be friends following.

Let her speak, ignore what's said, reassert statement, end phone call.

I think there are places they don't ask for phone numbers.

Any time something demands a phone number of me, I download a text free/text now type app and use that. It gives you a phone number. It's basically the ten minute mail of phone numbers.

>>18074966
what are you using the email for? your answer determines the level of anonymity you'll need and will help us give you a good response.

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>>18074956
now she wants to annoy my wife...

I wish I had a cat like yours dude

you'll miss her when she dies

>>18074965
>you'll miss her when she dies


that much is certain. still, i want to sit alone every now and then without her begging to get on my lap.

>>18074929
You're a frogposter, that about sums it up.

>>18074933
it was the only semi relevant thing in my junk picture folder I happen to have because I don't go around collecting reaction images like an autist

>>18074951

>Being this mad for being called out

Lel. You're a greener grass kinda guy. You don't realize how good you got it until it's gone.

Please someone?

Dont, just find one of the 5 million women in the city.

How attached to this girl are you Anon?